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Idont care what you people say im goint to runaway idk when all i know is it will be after my sis leaves for school i cant stand my house and my families all i want are tips on how to make money and get a place to stay i dont have shelters around or anything of the sort i have some good older friends that are alduts and they may keep me for a night or two but not long enough im 14 and this isnt rebellion like some of you say it is i love my family but i cant stand it any more and i live in sesser a small town in il so i just want to know how to get out of here please
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I live in a small town too. I love my family and have always wanted to leave my house...but I decided to wait...getting my driver's license almost 3 years ago was the best thing that ever happened to me. I wasn't home very often so I almost never saw my parents and when I was home I made sure that they weren't. I know that probably sounds terrible, it's just what I wanted...but even when they are home we get along more now. I tried running away once but I learned that it's not the happiness you're looking for. You'll end up with no money on the street scraping for food. It's not the kind of life you'll want to live...but hey...tough it out through high school and then when you go to college move out. That's what I'm doing this summer (moving out). I also joined some extra curricular activities at school to help keep me out longer...I made tons of friends and hardly ever saw my parents. From someone who was just like you once...I promise you will regret it.


Why the heck is everyone labeling me? I am so tierd of it! They call me tomboy and goth!(dont worry I'm not anti goth). They think I'm goth because I love hevy metal, scary movies and books, and I do where black alot but its usally just one peice of clothing. And they call me a tomboy because I have really short (10 year old boy short) hair (its natrully black), I love basketball, ice hockey, soccer, tennis, golf, hanging with the boys, playing video games, stuff like that. I dont care about my aperance I just put on whatevers clean! How do I get them to stop calling me "gothboy"? (link)
stereotypes are part of life...you shouldn't change who you are just to get their approval. Just be who you are and like who you are. Stereotypes will follow you wherever you go. You just have to learn to deal. As long as you love yourself that's all that matters. People call me a prep just because of the way that I dress, but when they get to know me they learn that I'm not at all. I'm just me and I like that. Once they get to know you they'll know who you really are and like you for it.


I met this guy through my roommate and we seem to have made a connection but know he seems distance. He started acting different one night where my friends said he was trying the pool stick trick but i just handed him the stick and it seems like when i like him he shows no interset but then when im just getting over him he shows up at every corner and calls, comes over and hangs out...Its driving me crazy, i need to know what i should do. Should I go for it or move on and find someone new? (link)
If you let him know that you like him and he doesn't react in the way that you want than it's time to move on to someone new...but if he gives a positive reaction then you know that you should go for it and see what happens. Guys are confusing sometimes so being straight forward is often the best solution to your problem.


my friend is 14 and gets her period every 2 weeks. i know she should be irregular but not that irregular, right? please help. thanks! :] (link)
well she has her period too often...but it can take up to 4 years for a girl's period to regulate fully and I doubt she's had her period since she was 10 so she's okay for now...if it continues after the 4 years she should go see a gynecologist. They'll be able to do something about it.


So i wear black eyeliner, liquid on top and black pencil on bottom.

I cant have the liquid one on bottom.. because .. it just doesnt work; idk it keeps coming off.

BUUUTTT anyhways, on my bottom of my eye, my black eyeliner eventually smears.

Like for example, it would look awesome in the morning but then later on in the day it would smear sooo bad i would end up looking like a racoon!

embarasssiing..

any helpful tips?
something that i can use differently for eyeliner or...?
no cure is there..

thanks for the helpppp
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there's smear proof eyeliner...also make sure that you wash your make-up off of your face every night. that also can pose problems because it creates oils in your skin that can smear the eyeliner. I would definitely suggest trying a smear proof eyeliner...also try getting an eyeliner with a corrector on the other end. It'll take off smear in a second. You can find them all at any drugstore.


I am sixteen years old and I had my first period several years ago. I've only had it a few times and the last time I was on my period was probably close to a year ago. Is this okay? Is it because I am overweight? Will I be able to have children when I get older? Please Help!!!! (link)
I had the same problem. I started my period in the 6th grade and I was fine for a bit but then I skipped mine for a year and a half. My doctor ran some tests and they found out that I have Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS). They gave me some pills to start my period and then put me on birth control to regulate it. I'm not sure if I can have kids because I don't know if when they take me off I'll have a period or not...but this isn't the case with everyone. Talk to your doctor and see if that could be your problem. It will help you a lot too.


when i put pictures from photobucket or tinypic
it comes up a lil box that doesnt show it

& its nothing to do with my code on my mysapce
because ive taken everything out
now i cant put pictures on there

how do i fix this?!?!??!! (link)
the entire tiny pic code or photobucket code usually wont fit in the allotted room given...take it from the in the HTML code. anymore than that and it may or may not give you the image.


How do you delete a My Space? I have one but I don't want it anymore. How do you delete them so they are wiped off completely? (link)
go to settings...click on account...there's a thing at the bottom that says cancel account...click on that...you'll have to go to your e-mail that the myspace is under and verify your cancellation and then the myspace is gone. It can take up to 48 hours for it to be off the site...but within 48 hours after you confirm the cancellation it will be off the site.


you know how there are age limits for different movies? well, if a kid is in a movie, and they are either under the rated R limit or under the PG-13 limit, do they still get to go into the theatre to see it at the premiere? (link)
they can only go in with a parent or guardian or if they have someone who is old enough to get in buy the ticket for them(unless the theatre wants to see _ number of id's for _number of tickets like mine does). If the theater has one of those machines that you buy the tickets with a debit card then that works because the machine doesn't check ID either...it really just depends upon the movie theater and what they'll allow you to get away with...it takes a bit of practice to figure it out.


14/f. im not sure if my hips are normal or not, or just not developing. so my waist is like an hourglass, so it goes in and then at the bottom goes out where my hips begin, but then instead of my hips going out and being round to form a complete hourglass they just kind of go straight down, and then the start to go out again more at the very bottom. whats going on? (link)
everyone has a different body shape...I hate how people put so much emphasis on hourglass shapes, or pear shapes, or apple shapes...everyone has a different shape...there are more than 3 types of body shapes no matter how much people try to say that there isn't. Just love you for who you are and be proud of your unique body shape...we all have a unique body shape. Just embrace it and learn to love you for you.


what should be the jean size for 14-15 yr old girls
that are about 5'3-5'5

ranging from 107-130 pounds (link)
it totally varies on your body shape...weight has nothing to do with it...it's all about the shape and width of your hips and butt. if your 5'3" and 130 lbs then your jean size is going to be bigger than someone who is 5'5" at the same weight...measure your hips...that will give you somewhere to start. Once you've done that you should be able to figure out which size is right for you. Go try on different sizes at the store once you've done that...but remember that every designer is different so while you may be a 4 in one pair you might be an 8 in another.


Where can i get lipstick that looks like this:


http://s129.photobucket.com/albums/p221/kaylaroles/?action=view¤t=l_7034f927fa85219adb34d0cbc6ba74a9.jpg (link)
you can get it just about anywhere...just look for a frosty pink shade...you can get it at walgreens or wal-mart or you can go to like sephora or something too.


i wanna get one from the library but she made so many. haha i love that one where shes like tapping down the stairs with some guy and another where shes like "animal crackers in my soup" but idk where those came from and if they're her best movies and what not. thanks a lot :) (link)
thats Curly Top. It's my personal favorite of hers...but I also like Heidi.


I want a royal blue or orange solid bikini with the tight boy short bottoms, but I can't find one anywhere. Any idea where i could find one? Online stores are fine. (link)
try target, pacsun, roxy, any local swimwear shop, and local department stores.


Is there a way to find what they will look like? I'm going to the concert in Atlantic City on the 15th. (link)
you should be able to find them in the shop on the bands website...check there.


I'm tired of changing clothes and getting "you look pregnant" comments. I gain so much when I'm bloated. How can I fix this? I was thinking of going on another birth control pill. Would that help?

Water does not help. I've been drinking *only* water for 2 years. so seriously, is there some secret out there? (link)
water is what makes you bloat. Taking something that has a diuretic(water pill...and it'll tell you on the active ingredients if it has a diuretic) or just taking a straight up diuretic will help. the blue box of midol has a diuretic in it. It'll make you pee a lot but it'll help with the bloating...but the truth is bloating on your period is something that happens to most of us. I don't think going on another pill will help you.


yesterday i slipped on ice and face planted (like a fool, and yes, it was hilarious looking) and now i have a bunch of scratches on the left side of my face. i don't have a problem with covering them up with makeup, but how can i help them heal faster/soothe pain/prevent scarring? something i can apply to it or something? help? thanks! (link)
neosporin will work great.


Okay while wearing a tight shirt, my ribs poke outabout an inch more than my waist, length wise. Also, you can see the outline of everyone of them. In August I weight 101 and now I weight about 90. I'm about 5 feet and 2 inches. I am a 13 year old girl. I skip breakfast, and for lunch I eat a small bag of baked hot cheetos. Dinner, soemtimes I eat, and sometimes I don't If I like it, I will eat a lot. but sometimes I'm just too lazy to make me something. Am I healthy? (link)
not at all. You're under weight. You should always eat breakfast and eat more for lunch too. Instead of having just 3 big meals a day try having 5 smaller meals a day...and you might want to eat foods that are high in carbs and protein. That will help you gain some weight. You're at an unhealthy BMI and you should get it up some. you might want to try gaining 10 or 15 lbs to get up to a healthy BMI.


is all the hype concerning 2012 true? with planet x becoming close to the sun and then causing solar flares to hit us and etc? with global warming? cause i just watched some videos on youtube about it and im kind of scared.. because i'll only be 19 in 2012.. barely lived a life :/ i wont even get to have children unless i survive but i cant imagine how life would be like.. i dont want my friends and family to die either :( (link)
my personal belief is that no one truly knows when the world is going to end. It could end tomorrow for all we know...but I just go on living life. I would try not to concern yourself with it. If it is true just make the most of the 4 years left.


okay.so i live in california.
i wont say my exact location but i leave near cities like orange and anihim

is there any place you can go to be tested without parents?

also same for abortion?

please dont tell me about ending a human life its probaly not even the case

and does it cost money?


and same with birth control?

im almost 16 btw (link)
I would go to planned parenthood. the website has a number so you can find locations near you. I'm not sure that it costs anything but if it does I'm sure it's not much.




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