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ok i have a problem mii bff is s/o one of her frends house. but im also that girls frend to n im kind of jealous n i kind of want to make them feel bad about not inviting me...i dont want to bee rude n ask if i can s/o i juss wanna join in on the fun without thinking i invites myself i need help please!!! also do i check ur web page for ur advice answers?????

ok im not sure what s/o means but im going to try and answer it, ok have you ever invited somebody over and not ur bff?? its pretty much the same thing they dont have to invite you everytime, but if they never invite you thats different and kind of rude, maybe when your friends talk about what they're doing like hint in that you have nothing to do all day and your bored or something and MAYBE you might want to talk to your bff about it even though she might tell the other girl but Its worth a try if you cant hint at the face you want to go too, but if she invites you sometimes and sometimes she doesnt dont be jealous sometimes friends like to hang out alone =)

Ok the next question is kind of weird because you will have already figured out where to look once you are reading it lol but for the future if you have an advicenators account there will be the number 1 next to questions and you can look at the webpages also

Hope I helped!! =D

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I'm in middle school, but I'm kinda bright for my age, so I'm taking Algebra, advanced science, a Seminar in which we'll be doing things like debates, Animal Farm (great book), and an essay on the Sneetches (don't ask), and I'm also in an advanced English class. Can somebody tell me advice for how I can finish all my homework on time and still spend at least an hour or two on the computer? Thanks!

yea I do the same exact things exept seminar? we don't have that in my school and this is what i do, you do the homework but don't finish it all and wake up early in the morning to finish it if you can wake up, and if its ok with teachers and everything you can do some of it in study hall or lunch maybe? only if you're allowed


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hey i have a 16 year old sister and it seems that my partents like her more than me how do i get them to not like her so much

Even though it might be true that they like her more they proably dont sometimes it just seems that way because you pay too much attention on how much attention they are giving her instead of you, If you are sure they do, if you can ask them and talk to them about it and maybe ask your sister what she thinks too


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my stepfather is a total baby. he gets what ever he wants. his mom baught him a car. my mom baught him a scanner. and his mom baught him a new computer. and those were when he just wanted it. it's like he get's what he wants but i dont get what i want. and he gets expensive stuff on his birthdays when i just get a birthday card. how do i get things to be fair around here. or atleast stop him from getting what ever he wants

i'll rate 5s for answers

im confused did u mean stepbrother?? or father leave one in my inbox again so i can answer it once i get it

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ok .. i realli like this guy and he likes me to ..we are going out but he is realli shy around me and it bothers me because that makes me shy too! i dont know what to do!

whenever you are around him try and break the ice and start a conversation with him to make him feel more comfortable around you and if that doesnt work talk to him about it and tell him how you feel or do that first whichever one u want


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I just moved here from a different state & I'm starting school on Monday next week. I'm extremely nervous, I've never moved schools before & I'm 15. Pretty much, my question is: At lunch, I'll probably be sitting by myself. Does anyone have any suggestions on some things I could do to interest me, while sitting at lunch by myself. I don't want to look stupid and just sit there and stare around at people. I want to be able to do something. I'm not going up to people and asking them to sit with them because, I'm not that type of person. Thanks for your help.

think about it you can look at this two ways


1) just act exited and hyper use all of ur nervous energy in a good way be outgoing nobody knows you here at all so you can start out anyway you want to be


2) you can be shy and timid and end up sitting by yourself for a long time while in your head you are going to regret never being outgoing and trying to make friends all the time and who wants that

trust me just start out like you would with your old friends you'll be much happier and the people at your school dont care!! They mgiht think your weird if you are so quiet because u dont say or do anything!!


I hope you take my advice and I hope I helped!! =D

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I wanna make a business website for my dad without paying any money! Does anyone know any websites for starting your own website! Thanx

im not sure if this is what your looking for but go here you can make one for free


www.freewebs.com

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I have a horribal headach. We had no power for atleast 2 days, and it was all thunderstorms. And i couldn't sleep.

But anyways, I took tyolinal and it didnt work. I took it about 3 hours ago, it didn't work. I took the suggested amount of dosage, it still didn't work.

Anyone know a way to get rid of them? I can't take more medicen, Im not supossed to take it after withen 12 hours of last dosage. So I need your help on this one!

x Oo Maddy oO x

Well im not sure but if you take a nap it might work or if its that bad go to the doctors or call then and ask them what to do

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At Cheerleading practice we have to run like a mile and a half without stopping and if we stop every1 has to run another lap around the football field (4 laps=1mile) I get so exhausted and i cant run that much i get to the point where i cant feel my legs and i cant breathe..i dont know y though i am a skinny person and im short and very atheletic ..i just cant run for a long time!...i need help on ways to make me run better/ longer..thanks!...I rate!!!!!!

Well I did track so i kind of know how u feel and we did 6 laps for a warm up like everyday and at first its hard and you get sore and tired but after you start doing it everyday 6 laps becomes nothing and even though you're short and athetic doesnt mean you're as in much shape as you thought dont worry you'll become a better runner and if you have athsma thats why you cant breathe probably....

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i babysit this little boy and i am not so good with cooking. any ideas for cooking for a little boy. he likes chocolate and milk and he also likes cheese, but i don't know what to make for him that he likes or will like. any ideas? i rate really high!

how about chocolate mile and some macaroni and cheese!!


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Ok...i really like this guy, and he likes me too. We are really good friends, but don't go to the same school or anything but we still hang out like once or twice a week, either bowling or movies usually...He also says he likes somebody else too and i have liked him since i met him, 2 years ago...and i've done a lot with him, like a b/f and g/f do but we werent going out when we did any of this, and i seriously think i'm in love with him because i cant get him out of my head or anything, and he hurt me a lot of times but i can't figure out how to be mad at him...and i really want to just give our relationship another try, because i think it hurts me more now by not going out with him than it would if we went out and broke up, and i don't know if I should tell him that i think we should give this another try or if i should just let everything take it's course...or if i should pour my heart out to him, i've been thinking i should...and im sorry this is kind of long, i just wanted to explain everything as good as possible...please reply ASAP...and if you need any more details instant message me at x SO INNOC3NT 13.
Thanks so much

Ok wrote this once but i have to write it again because of some stupid thing that says i wasnt talking in english LAUGH OUT LOUD its so annoying!! anyway to answer your question dont tell him unless you are sure he likes you because he never said that he liked you from what you told me unless you left it out, and if you want to tell him relize that you are going to be risking your relationship as friends that happens a lot, and if he doesnt like you and he tells you things are going to get kind of weird between you guys, and you dont want that AND he likes someone else right so you dont want to go out with him when he likes another girl you want a guy thats perfectly in love with you and doesnt want any other girl well anyway if you need more help IM me at Soccerplayer5674 because im a little confused also lol

ok Hope I helped!!

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im almost 13 my b-day is november 20. i like wearing tight pants but the problem is .. you can see my underwear line bc i dont wear thongs. and i rele want to but i cant build up the courage to ask my mom. what do i say and how do i say it ?!? thx so much ... i rate 5!

Hmmm this is a tough one, i know that a lot of girls who i know and in my school wear them (people are really open around here its kind of weird) so maybe you can tell them that other girls wear them and also kind of hint at it and say mom i have a problem everytime i wear tight pants you can see my underwear line and its really embarrasing what should i do i want to keep wearing my pants!! so it will kind of give her the idea that u want a different kind of underwear?? well this was kind of a tough one but I hope I helped!! =D

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i need ur help i have this best friend who called this other girl i dont like fat but it was on my sn so she thought it was me so that girl and all her friends started ganging up on me and putting words in my mouth like i called them all fat and this huge fight broke out it was like world war 3 Now my so called best friend saw what i was going through but still would tell them that she said it so then i told them that she did and they still wont believe me now the "best friend" has moved to texas we now have become frineds again but i dont kno if i should ever trust her again.?!!! help

WHy wouldnt you want to trust her again?? She told the people gainging up on you that she did it right "would tell them that she said it" im kind of confused here and the people u are fighting against are just being immiture i know this is really sucky advice but I'm not really following you question?? drop another one in my inbox if you want to make it more clear

Hope I kind of helped!! x0 =D

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i have a problem this guy will not go out withme untill i get a b/f 4 my friend and he wants me to get my brother to go out with her but he only likes her as a friend wat should i dooooo???


PLZZZZZZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!

I don't think this guy is worth it, he obviously doesn't care that much about you (no offense to you) or how much you want to go out with him, I mean did you tell him that your brother only likes her as a friend? If you did and he still wont go out with you, you should definately get over him he is deffinately not worth wasting your time im sure plenty of other guys would want to go out with you!! But if you didnt tell him then tell him and see how it goes, sorry if this seemed a little harsh on him but I hope I helped!! =D

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ive been looking everywhere for that nair shaving stuff does anyone know where to get it?

Target usually has it

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this may sound like a really dumb question, but how do u add more posts on ur xanga?

thx.. i rate high!!

usually ontop of the website or your other posts (depending on the layout) it says create new blog or something similar to that and you click it and there you go, if you need more help drop one in my inbox!!


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i wanna know what are some good presants to get my mom she is turning 50 and i love her so much she is my best frined and i am 15 and i have about $150 to spend i already have her a card and some victoria secrets spays lotions and soaps and looking for toe rings online and were going to concert but is there anything else that would make it a birthday she wouldnt forget?please help thanks

Aww that is sooo sweet!! Well if your mom likes jewrly you can get her a beatiful bracelet or necklace or earings, i checked out macys online for you go to http://www1.macys.com/catalog/index.ognc?CategoryID=2904&PageID=2904*1*12*-1*-1&LinkType=EverGreen they are having a jewlrey sale that your mom would love!! (if she likes jewlery (check out the other gold and diomands they have when you go there too)


I hope your mom has a wonderful birthday!! and I hope I helped!!

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okay im 13 and i weigh 103 or 104 soo is that good for a 13 year old?? does any1 know the average weight for a 13 year old??? well i rate high for good answers!! muahh!

You cant go by age it depends how tall you are so 103 and 104 would probably be a good weight for someone who is around 5 feet

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ok. me and my best freind went to the movies and there was this REALLY cute guy i mean i told him he was hot hot well im not going to see a hot guy and not let him kno.. you kno.. anyways i didnt even get his number!! we both think hes like REALLY cool. but anyways. heres the part i need your advice on.. so we always go meet cuties you kno not likr plan it out or anything but i need to kno what to say and stuff for when i talk to a guy. im so pretty when it comes to guys im totally myself and all so dont say that and dont be bitchy about it. ill rate 5! love ya thanks.


*sara*

Ok well i think you should keep doing what your doing, act like hes a friend and play it cool i mean nothing bad happened when you were with the other "cuties"! lol well just keep it up =)


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I dont no what i should do ive known my friend for like 4 years. We have gotten really close but now all of the sudden theres more people that we hang out with. It seems like shes pulling away from me and i dont think she likes hanging out with me. How can i tell if she doesnt want to be with me and what should i do about? The ohter friends she hangs out with i hang out with to. I want to hang with just her sometimes though and i feel that this wont happen much.Please help!

13f

Well there are two things you can do:

1: I REALLY recomend you asking her if she still likes hanging out with you anymore and you could probably tell by her answer if she means it or not (ask her in person away from everyone else) and ask her if you did anything to bother her that you don't know about, it could just be that she likes hanging out in groups instead of just with one person because she thinks it's more fun.


2: Maybe if you want you can ask her to come to your house more often and see if she acts differently then she used too, and if she does then ask he whats going on but if she doesnt maybe she isnt pulling away from you and she doesn't relize that shes hurting you so you should just tell her how you feel


Well I hope I helped!! =D Good luck!!

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