hi everyone....
hay im sally, im 19. i love to give advice so ask me anything and i will answer as best i can!
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i am currently studying family and children studies certificate III at wollongong tafe and i love it. i love kids and one day i hope to become an early childhood teacher and work with 0-3 year old children. i'v been writing poetry since i was 13 and i hope that one day i can publish them in a book! that is one of my dreams.
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so keep those questions comming...please comment back, i'd like to know if iv helped or not thanxxx i have a blog! feel free to check it out: http://justsallyy.tumblr.com/
xoxoxoxo :) xoxoxo xoxox
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can dogs see themselves in a mirror (link)
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hay yes they can its just that some dogs react to it and other dogs dont so thats why you think they cant see themselves when they actually can xoxo
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I'm 13 years old and my boyfriend, "Sam," is my very first boyfriend so I'm kind of clueless to everything. I like him a lot a lot. Ok, a lot doesn't even begin to cover it. We've only been going out a week and a half but I really feel there is something special between us. The problem is, I keep wanting to tell him that I love him but I don't know when is the right time. Any advice? (link)
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well first you just gotta make sure that when you say it you mean... dont think about when your gunna say it cos when its the right time you wont think about it you'll just say it without thinking... if he hasnt thought about that when you say it to him he might not say it back but just give him time. xoxox sal:)
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I think my guy friend might be anorexic.
He's told me that he used to not eat, but that ended. But now, he's not really eating again. I don't know if he just doesn't eat in front of me, or if he's not eating at all. But I think it could be a serious problem.
What should I do? (link)
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hay you should try talking to him about this and let him know that your not judging him, your there for him no matter what and that he can confide in you if he need to talk.
people who are anorexic deny it at first so be patient he'll talk when he's ready. it could turn into a serious problem and if it does dont think your the bad guy if you need to tell someone and get help for him, you should even if he tell you not to cos anorexia can get really bad.
hope i helped xoxoxo
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i really like this guy and i dont wont to ask him out but i dont think hes going to ask me out becuase i dont know if he likes me (link)
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hay sorry this is late i dno if u need it anymore but ill tell you anyways.
just talk to him and be friends with him, see if he responds. if you become really close to him maybe he will ask you out. hope this isnt too late. xoxox
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hi. my boyfriend and i have sex quite often and he says i have a camel toe. i was wondering how can you get rid of it? i mean its not bad or anything, but i was wondering. do you know? (link)
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what kind of undies do you wear? try a different brand ones that dont have a seam down the front.
xoxo
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So i have been with this guy for a while. and we arent bf/gf but we hang out all the time and know we like eachother and would never do anything with anyone else. so there was a school dance that i went to with a bunch of my friends cause he couldnt go and at it there was this guy that used to go to our school but now goes to private school. he is really hot and he was flirting and grinding with me. i wasnt necesarily flirting back but i wasnt stopping it. i told him i didnt have a boyfriend (cause technically i dont) but then after that night he was texting me and we were talking and stuff. and i definantly want to stay with the guy i am with now cause i know we are really good together but i dont want him to find out about that other guy. its not like i did anything with him but dance. do you think i should tell the guy i am with about it before anyone else does and makes it seem worse than it is? or do you think i should just forget about it.?
thanks! (link)
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hay if your really worried about this just tell him what happended its not like you did anything with this other guy but flirt right, so you'll be fine. you dont have to worry about it and if you dont want to tell him dont but you have to think about if he finds out from someone else then he might be mad you didnt tell him, so i guess your better off telling him, but its up to you xoxo
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I just had sex for the first time about 4 days ago. I didn't really hurt but ever since i have been bleading and have had stomach pains. Is this normal if not what could be wrong? (link)
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hay this is good timing cos we just had a sex talk at school so yeah... no its not normal if you bleed after sex so you should get checked out.
xoxo
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I was wondering, can dogs feel your emotions? I know it's probably a stupid question but the other day, I yelled at my puppy for pooping in the house & gave him a little spanky. He ran off but couple minutes later, I got bad news about my friend and I started crying and even though he knew I was mad at him, he came by me and started licking me and snuggling by me. So, can dogs feel your emotions? (link)
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dogs are really good at hearing and they can hear the tones in your voice so for example if your mad and you yell at your dog, it will get scared and run away because your voice depends but if your happy and you give give your dog love and prays they wag there tale and get excited because your voice is happy and calm. dogs act on the tones in your vioce to understand you. so dogs can actually feel your emotion through the tone in your vioce. hope i helped xoxo
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i need sweet sixteen themes, im planning on having one...please help i need as many as possible (link)
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hay you could have a dress up party... it might sound kidish but my friend is doing that for her 16th and she is inviting like 40 ppl! so itz gunna be really ggod. or you could have a formal party...
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i really like this guy, but hes not as into me as he was because he thinks i might be a 'player' type girl cus i flirt with alota guys and acidently lead on his friends....i dont do it purposly and ive tried stopping, what can i do to stop so hell start likeing me again??? (link)
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i think you need to let him see that he's the only guy that you flirt with... and that you like. just try and stop flirting with everyone else but him... i know it will be hard but thats the only way your gunna get him to like you again. i think that he thought if you too went out then you would still flirt with other guys and stuff... in his eyes that might be why he thought you were a player... you just need to let him know your not... good luck with that i know it would be hard espacally for me. xox sally
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help me i need advic i was pluckin my eyebrows and i wasnt lookin at the other one and now thre so small how do i start skwl tomorrow love simone (link)
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hay...
i did the same thing!so i know what your going through...
you just have to wait till they grow back... theres not much you can do. i know it sux doesnt it! but why dont you wear sunnys and hope no one notices... if anyone says anything just say you went to get them professionally done and the person made them too thin and stuffed them up.
they'll grow back before you know it.. what ever you do DONT pluck them until there fully grown back.. i did that and they were thin again so it was even more embarrassing at least you can learn form my mistakes..
dont worry they'll grow back quicker than you think! love sally xoxo
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i like this guy and im not sure if he likes me back. he looks at me alot when he thinks im not looking but if he sees that i am he doesnt look at me. we dont really talk but i feel really intense about him and have never felt this way about any one i have liked before. i just go so crazy over him and i like him for everything not just looks. I have just gotten so confused about everything and i cant see any light whatsoever! (link)
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hay... everyone gets confused about this stuff so dont worry. try and start conversation with him so you two can get to know each other if you do that you will be less confused about everything and you will learn where you stand with him.
i think you'v fallen head over heels for this guy... dont hold back... go for it, you deserve it. hope i helped "_ xoxo sal
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hi, im having this problem with this guy i like. You see i have known him for about 6 months, but we never really talk. I know that he knows i exist, & lately i have been noticing him looking at me- alot. And there was this thing at freshman orientation, where we did this wheelbarrel race, and he was telling people why they could go; he told every pair except for me and my friend chelsie they could go bc they were fast. However he looked at me & said i could go cause i was hot. But my friend says guys say that just to say that; like they dont really mean it.So that is real confusing! But it has gotten to the point where i have almost went up to him & told him to his face how i feel about him. But i have this fear with rejection, & i mean pretty much all of my friends know, even people i dont talk to. Word hasnt gotten to him yet, but i am wanting it to get there. My friend's mom says its just infatuation, but i get so crazy about him & i dont know why. I mean i have liked other guys but this one is way different, more intense. We are just aquaintences really, so i dont understand how i could feel so intense about someone i barely know, i mean im only 15. I only know his personality from bits & pieces i glue together. & its not just the looks that gets me, its everything about him. i just dont know what to do, so if you could please help me i would be greatful! (link)
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hay... it sounds like he wants to talk to you but doesnt know what to say maybe he is a little shy. i think you should try and talk to him more so you can to get to know him better... so when he finds out you like him he wont be so shy to make the next move or even talk to you, coz if you dont really talk to him and he finds out you like him he might get nervous around you and try and avoid you and thats the last thing you want trust me.
i think your crazy about him coz apart fom you liking him you dont have him thst makes you want him even more. if you get me.
i think everyone has a fear of rejection coz it is embarrassing and it hurts to much. i know i do but you'll be fine, it sounds like he interested in you.
so just start talking to him and get to know him
hope i helped! xoxo
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Hey I just need some ideas for clothes that would make me look really good. I am trying to impress like the preppy athletic girls and I am I guess you could say a jock type so what clothes are good. Thanks. (link)
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hay where a polo type shirt fairly tight but not too tight with the collar flicked up, with nice jeans NOT BAGGY it looks better, wear nice shoes like a pair of white everlast or adidas shoes and spike your hair a little or try a little bit of a messy look. hope this helps :)
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My kids are 24 and 26. We've had a hard time since their dad died 17 years ago. He was an alcoholic and my son has turned into one also. He's had one DWI but I did not bail him out. I left him there to do his time to teach him a lesson. I still can't seem to keep him out of the car. Three times now he has snuck out and driven his sister's car while drunk. I thought all the keys were hidden but I found out this morning that she GAVE him a key to her car! They both work part time jobs and help very little around the house. I know I should kick them out; they could rent if they pooled their resources, -but- I made my husband move out and he was murdered. I'm on the edge, ready for the funny farm. They take almost no responsibility except toward their jobs.
Meanwhile I'm 60 years old and getting so damned tired because I work two jobs to make ends meet. They contribute little to the household. I know I am a failure as a mother and it's too late to try to change things. I did try, though. I tried.
We have no other family and my 'friends' don't want to hear about my problems.
We seem to be so isolated. The future is a black hole.
What do YOU think I should do?! (link)
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hay you need to talk to them. what happened to your husband might be the reason they havent moved out. your not a failure as a mother, you still support them even when they should be out living on there own. you'v done as best you can now its your turn to relax.
you need to tell them that there old enough to take responability and start helping out around the house. you shouldnt have to work two jobs so they can sponge off you, they both work they need to contribute as well by paying some rent. you may not want to ask them for rent but its not fair you working two jobs when you need to relax, your 60 soon you will retire and they cant keep living off you forever.
dont be afraid to stand up for yourself and ask for them to grow up and take responsability, (that might sound harsh but there old enough)
you have supported them for longer then you need to youv done your job being there mom now its time for them to go out on there own and let you relax. you deserve it!
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i want to know if i can move from my moms in ny state into pa with my dad. i feel that it is a better environment and my dad treats me good well my mom does but do we have to go to court or can i move my dad is the one who pays for everything mom doesnt do anything help im 17 (link)
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hay i think your old enough to choose who you want ot live with and if your parents go to court with this then they will probably ask you where you want to live anyway. i think you should just discuss this with both your parents at the same time and tell them the reasons why.
if your mum has a problem with this that just
make sure that your mum doesnt think you love her any less cos you'd rather live with your dad just tell her the reasons why and that you will still see her, stay there from time to time and visit her a lot. hope i helped! xoxox sally
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My mom is way too involved in my 15yr old life; when I go out with friends, the second I walk out the door she texts me starting up a conversation. If I don't answer, I get grounded. If I ask her to let me be with my friends without another converstation going on, she goes off about how I must not need her and she stops talking to me all together. She always texts/harrasses my boyfriend about our fights and things going on in our lives that I don't want her to hear. I don't know what to do, I hate it, my boyfriend hates it and I just can't get her to quit! I want my own life back! (link)
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hay i think the problem is now that your getting older and that you dont rely or need your mum so much anymore that she doesnt want to let go of her little girl.
maybe she thinks that you are to busy running your life and that you dont rely on her to fix things and stuff she feels she has to include herself in everything you do and help with everything that she doesnt need to help with
you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
tell her that just cos your growing up she isnt gunna lose you and that she needs to give you a bit of space, it will be weird at first but you have to let her know your not pushing her away.
dont forget to spend some time with her jsut you and her because i think thats what she misses and thats all she really wants. that might be the reason why she is so involed in your live.
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i love my boyfriend named danny but there is 1 problem i like some1 eles the same named chris but chris makes me fell better about myself thn danny.what should i do
xXNEED OFF SOME HELP :(Xx (link)
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we all are attracted to people we are close to and are comfortable to be around, so its easy to get confused about this stuff.
i know how you feel coz this situation has happened to me. i got away from both of them for the weekend to think and sorted out my feeling.
they became very clear after that coz i couldnt stop thinking about the one i really missed and wanted to be with.
you just need to take a break from everything and sort out your feeling and clear your head.
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alright, well my friend is dating this guy that i like. and i have liked him for a loooonnng time. since the end of last school year, and she just started dating him last week. but, he always talks to me and like flirts with me. i know it sounds wrong on my part but me and the girl hes dating arent that good of friends, were more of aquantises(or however you spell it) but anyways, we both liked eachother the first week of school & we both knew it but we never told eachother. i just don't know if i i should tell him i like him or what?!!?
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i think you should tell him because you will defiately regret it in the long runif you dont. if he really likes his girlfriend he wouldnt be flirting with you so he might like you to. even though he has a girlfriend you should tell him besides you cant control who your feelings land on and you said yourself your not close with his girlfriend so i say go for it!
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how do i get people to want to talk to me? and be loved (as friends) and be interesting? ahh, any help! i'm desparate! thanks (link)
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hay
the only thing you can really do is be yourself... its not worth it trying to be someone your not.
just be yourself and say what your thinking... make conversations with people,be nice (well i dont have to tell you that lol),happy and funny.
be the bubbly you. you just need to show everyone the real you and once you have they'll love you!
good luck xx sally
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