Question Posted Saturday September 22 2007, 6:26 pm
hi, im having this problem with this guy i like. You see i have known him for about 6 months, but we never really talk. I know that he knows i exist, & lately i have been noticing him looking at me- alot. And there was this thing at freshman orientation, where we did this wheelbarrel race, and he was telling people why they could go; he told every pair except for me and my friend chelsie they could go bc they were fast. However he looked at me & said i could go cause i was hot. But my friend says guys say that just to say that; like they dont really mean it.So that is real confusing! But it has gotten to the point where i have almost went up to him & told him to his face how i feel about him. But i have this fear with rejection, & i mean pretty much all of my friends know, even people i dont talk to. Word hasnt gotten to him yet, but i am wanting it to get there. My friend's mom says its just infatuation, but i get so crazy about him & i dont know why. I mean i have liked other guys but this one is way different, more intense. We are just aquaintences really, so i dont understand how i could feel so intense about someone i barely know, i mean im only 15. I only know his personality from bits & pieces i glue together. & its not just the looks that gets me, its everything about him. i just dont know what to do, so if you could please help me i would be greatful!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sally91 answered Monday September 24 2007, 4:51 am: hay... it sounds like he wants to talk to you but doesnt know what to say maybe he is a little shy. i think you should try and talk to him more so you can to get to know him better... so when he finds out you like him he wont be so shy to make the next move or even talk to you, coz if you dont really talk to him and he finds out you like him he might get nervous around you and try and avoid you and thats the last thing you want trust me.
i think your crazy about him coz apart fom you liking him you dont have him thst makes you want him even more. if you get me.
i think everyone has a fear of rejection coz it is embarrassing and it hurts to much. i know i do but you'll be fine, it sounds like he interested in you.
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