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Q: so my friends and i are getting really bored just hanging out at my house. so we want to go out. we want to go to a club so i was wondering if anyone knew of any teen clubs.

~ages 14-18~

thank you!
club ice is pretty sweetttt

Q: so i want to get my belly button pierced at a salon,but i'm only 15 and i don't have my parents permission. however, i have an older sister who i look really similar to...too bad she's 22. she looks really young for her age so i could probably pull it off somehow.. (i'll figure this out myself) and i can talk really proper cuz i hang out with older people alot and everything. and i'll talk in a fake chinese accent cuz it makes me sound older hhaa. anyways, but if i get caught...will they just kick me out of the piercing parlor or will i actually get in troube with the law for using a fake ID? if they all my parents i can have my friend to wait at her phone and pretend to be my mom or something..but would i get in trouble with the actual law? thanks so much.


p.s. i could use my sisters expired drivers license, by the way.
its just a bad idea. im 13 and my belly buttons pierced. dont try to pull something off like that. just try to make your parents let you. it took me 2 months && good grades . hahha :]

Q: My guy friend wants to finger me. What happens if I don't orgasm? after how long do I tell him too stop. Also, I have a dark rim around my butthole. it's like stained. I don't want him too see that. Is it normal?
its fine if you dont orgasm && if you want him to stop just say stop. i wouldn't let just any guy friend finger me anyways. and yeah the butthole thing is normal ;]

Q: Well my mom did some thing REALLY REALLY stupid she said when ever my cusin gets things pierced I can get them at that age she hers, and my cusin
got her belly button pierced at 13 and I just turned 13 a little bit ago so do you think I'll look like a little s*** but I really really wanna get it pierced and most of my friends have it done so i think I wanna get it
just get it. im 13 and mines done. its just a piercing. why would a piercing make you seem like a slut anyways? :p

Q: im 14 ~today was my bday ~valentines day ~all i could think about was my bff since 4th grade~hes a guy ~ive been staring to really like him and he likes me we both no we like eachother ~my family doesnt really care about me tht much and dont say o yes they do ~bc they dont they told me ~i hate them ~they fogot it was my bday till like noon and ive only been talkin about it for days ~his family is just like mine ~were both deppressed when were apart~my bff he was the first person to tell me happy bday and even sing it ~which was left on a message on my cell at 9:00am the time i was born years ago ~i called him back ~it was so sweet ~someone cares about me atleast ~one person in my life ~i really love him and he really loves me but every1 who dates ends up hating eachother i no we wouldnt hate eachother but ~hes the only person in my life tht cares about me ~should we date ~i dont wana lose the only person who cares and loves me ~and yes im gothic depressed but can u blame me!!! ~my parents dont care his parents dont care any of my cousins dont care no1 else cares about me!!!!!!!! exept him i love him i dont ever want to loose him ~and if we ever do date he cant come over as much ~we cant go anywhere alone anymore ~what do i do ~i hate my life ~but i love him with all my heart ~i got only the present from him today ~i dont really care about the present i just wanted to be with him 2day thats all i wanted for my bday ~i cry myself to sleep every night im cryin my eyes out right now and hes the ONLY person to ever see me cry exept my mom since i was like 5 ~what should i do i dont wana loose the only person in my life we both love eachother as bff and as bf gf ~and no im not going to see anyone for all my problems ~hes the only person i can talk to ~i hav tried to kill myself befor~before i met him~hes means the world to me i mean the world to him~we only have eachother ~we might runaway together ~NOBODY WILL CARE EVRY1 NOS NO1 WILL ~im not sein a pyscyatrist ~what do i do ~OMG SUM1 PLZ HELP ME
tell him how you feel; how much he means to you and everything. and then your familys like horrible. it isn't always true that after you start going out with someone you hate them; i was scared to. [im 13 turning 14 soon] Well scared to lose my best friend also thats why everytime he asked me out i said no. Then finally i got annoyed and said yes for the hell of it. We've been together since and you never know what could happen if you don't give it a chance. Let me know what you decide to do :] Hope i helped.

Q: Ok well i started my period when i was 12 years old. I am now 14 years old and i'm a 32 A. On both sides of my family all the woman are atleast C's. Am i ever going to get bigger because im so self concious about my small boobs. It's like there barely there it makes me feel like a little boy. Everything else is fine it just my boobs are really small and coming from a family full of big breasted woman it makes me wonder. When do you think they will get bigger? Is there an age in mind? Because on most sites it says your breast delevopment is normally done at age 15 and i just cant see to much progress happening in the next 3 months.

omgg ah lol i deel exactly the same way. all my cusins are bigger then me and im the only one with the size 32 a and im like so jealous and feel like im not growing oh well just saying i know how you feel =[

Q: my boyfriend is coming over this weekend.
my parents are going to be home.. they would never leave me alone with him. how can i like do stuff with him with my parents home? like what if they walk in or something? like i doubt they will let me go in my room with him.. maybe to go on the computer.. but theres no lock on my door. they might possibly have to pick up my brother somewhere or go out to take my dog on a walk.. so maybe then. also.. what are some things that guys like girls to do to them besides like make out hj or bj or sex. thanks
oh man. don't like make out because chances are you're going to get caught just like me. trust me, the last thing you want your parents seeing you makeing out with him on THERE bed. haha been theree and they'll completely lose your trust. so just a few kisses every once in a while or just watch a movie with him. maybe not the best thing but it sure makes a nice evening :]

Q: i want to scrunch my hair for tomorrow. so i plan on showering tonight and adding jell and putting it in a messy bun. then tomorrow morniung taking it out...will that work , or do yoiu have any tips ?



ps..will my hair stll lget frizzy w/ the gel on it ?
well i'm not sure if that will work. well this morning I took a shower, then put it in a towel for about 15-20 minutes [depending how long you hair is] then gelled it. it looked fine for me, and your hair may frizz alittle just use gell to cover some of the frizz. if you have straight hair it may be a little diffent because i have waved curly hair.. oh well good luck :)

Q: as quick as i can... I want to go out with a boy in my class but i cant get the corage to ask him out. i dont even knwo how i should ask him out. and i dont even know if he likes me. should i go for it? how? HELP
well why don't you have a friend ask if hes intrested or something? you know they say a boy is more afraid to ask out a girl and over 50 percent say that they would brather the girl make the first move. you could try to talk to him and such as well and point out details so he knows you've been paying attention to the conversations you've had. just dont make it too obvious you like him or then you'll look stupid. well good luck :]

Q: Love at 16...?
What do you guys think? Is it possible? Or is it just a bunch of teen emotions?
well i think it could be either. i'm younger then you and i feel like i may be in love but i'm still a teenager, you can't really tell untill you've expierence more relationships and such. just make sure the one you love isn't using you.

Q: me and my ex broke up about a week or two a go i lost my virginity to him which at first made things difficult. He is now going out with the girl he went out with before me. Now i have been moving on because in this situation i think it is the best. Well he kept iming me all the time un until today. Basically everytime we talk it would be some kind of competition i hate it. I want to be friends with him but its hard. Last night he finally said out of possibly frustration you were right, i just wanted to get in your pants and he is telling me to move on and stuff when he is the one iming me and talking about other guys i am seeing. I dont understand, he was the one who said we should just be friends until we fix things. I dont get him, Why do you think he is acting like this? Do you think we will ever be friends?
as far as im know you should block him or refuse to talk to him. but what would i know im young haha. if he used you and thats all he wanted why bother talking to him? who cares if he is acting like that he doesn't even deserve to talk to you. well i hope i helped you but if not this is just an answer i came up with haha

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