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I am sooo confused right now....okay(im a 17 year old girl by the way)
I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and i thought i was in love with him until recently. He is a jerk to me and doesn't care how I feel about anything. He hurts my feelings and I dont know what to do.
Another part of this question(it goes along with that) is that i met this guy online about 2-3 years ago. WE have been great friends online and we are practically the same person. Welll, the other night(this was the first tiime weve ever said anything like this), (he lives in Alaska, me in ohio) okay, well, the other night, i asked him "If we lived near each other, do you think we would be more than freindS? " He told me"I definently think we talk and think exactly alike...we even finish each others sentences". HE told me that he would be moving out of Alaska soon because his friends arent really good kids(he wants to go out in the real world). He told me also that ohio was a choice in his list and me being here puts a plus on ohio. He really doesn't seeem like the stalker guy that you imagine everyone to be online. Hes actually really nice and hes never said anything sexual to me, which helps me realize that hes not a pervert. He is 19.(2 years older than me) and I just don't know if I should break up w/ my boyfriend because hes being a jerk and all he wants is sex, orshould i stay with him and possibly miss out on the chance of a lifetime to meet a guy who seems amazing. (he said hes going to be moving out w/in a year or so)....so please help me.. This is the most confusing situation I have ever been in.... (link)
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Maybe it's just me, or this really is as simple as it seems.
Ohio, you are in a relationship with a person that has certain character traits that you don't agree with. Being 17 years old I know that one person with the right words, hug, etc...becomes what feels like the world to you. As a 20-something grown man I will tell you that there is more out there than a selfish jerk/sex monger. It's time to pull him to the side and get yourself back. Now, about Alaska...
LOL...at least he knows that Alaska isn't the end all, be all of existence; that shows promise! Really, though, it seems as if the two of you have created a bond, that believe it or not, is commonplace in our world today. People have a million and one complaints about the net and pedophiles, stalkers, etc..etc...but what people really don't hear about are the "success" stories. I met my fiancee online and I've never been happier in all of my days.
Know who you're dealing with; know their intentions by listening close, and asking the right questions.
You may just realize that your current isn't good enough, and that there are other fish that want to be caught, right next to you. Alaska is in Alaska. Unless he can fly to you right now and prove his worth, keep it on the chat line.
Have fun, be young!
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okay, my mom just told me that im getting a shot that prevents cervical cancer, and i decided to look online and see what it was.
i have had sex before and im under 18 years old, and they said that some signs of cervical cancer are:
Abnormal vaginal bleeding or a significant unexplained change in your menstrual cycle.
Bleeding when something comes in contact with your cervix, such as during sexual intercourse or the insertion of a diaphragm.
Pain during sexual intercourse.
Abnormal vaginal discharge containing mucus that may be tinged with blood.
and ive had those happen to me. it really freaked me out, and im scared if i have it.
what do i say to the doctor? my parents cannot know ive had sex! i would be murdered. has anyone had this before??
and if you have, please tell me what you did and what happened. thank you im very nervous (link)
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First, depending on the state that you live in, you might not be able to dodge around the fact of you having sex. This is only a minor setback, because it is what it is; you felt ready enough to take on the responsiblity of sex, so your parents finding out will only be better for you in the long run.
Now, please go get tested. This has become a topic of more and more importance. Your symptoms could be from your unfamiliarity w/sexual intercourse, at the least, or what you're recieving a shot for, at the worst.
Go get tested and if you can keep your secret safe, great! At the end of the day, getting tested will be the best thing you've ever done!
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