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Is cunt the same as cum? (link)
no, a cunt is slang for a girl's vagina.. and cum is white fluid after an orgasm


14.f. ok, so i've been really depressed latley. over guys. i know i'm only 14 and i have some time to have a boyfriend, but i'm tired of waiting. i've never had a boyfrined before, and i like this guy, but he doesn't even notice me, and all my friends are like "when you get into high school, you'll have a boyfriend" but i want one now! i only have one good guy friend, but besides him, i never talk to guys. i always see the "popular" girls talking to guys, because they talk to the girls first, but guys never talk to me. and it makes me feel sad. i've tried to loose weight (not just because of guys, i really am fat- bout 160 pounds) is that why guys don't like me? beause i'm fat? urrr!! it just drives me nuts. what if i never go out with any guys in my life, and i become 20 years old, and live all alone with a dog and on friday nights i'm stuck at home with nothing to do. help please. what do i do? (link)
i agree with your friends, when you get into high school you will have a boyfriend. most boys in middle school are really immature and only look at the physical appearance of girls. most guys in high school are more mature and care about whats in the inside. you should consider yourself lucky that you don't have to deal with boys because basically they're just stress, haha. have funnn theres so much more important things in life when you're 14. you could always work on your appearance but don't do it just because of guys, do it for yourself and your health. hope i helped


Is it illegal to start your own newspaper in your neighborhood with like 13-15 houses? (link)
i'm pretty sure it's legal. this one lady in my town has her own myspace and calls it "the buzz" and posts everything that a newpaper would include in her blogs and the town hall knows about it and said she can't get in trouble because she's not doing anything wrong. hope i helped


im not sure if this is in the right category, but oh well. :]

paint got erased from my computer somehow or it went missing and im not sure how to get it back.

is there anyway to download paint [no not paint shop pro, paint.net, just regular paint. the one under "accesories" when you click start.] and where can i download it ?

thanks a bunchh =] (link)
i'm pretty sure its still on your computer. the same thing happened to me. try going to 'start' then 'run' then type in 'mspaint' and it should pop up. if not, you can download it off the microsoft site (microsoft.com) or download.com and type in 'microsoft paint' hope i helped


ok, there is a girl at school who always steals other girls' boyfriends and crushes. so, a boy at school told everyone is my class who my crush was and now that girl has started flirting with him and giving him little gifts. i don't want to be mean to her because we just ended a huge fight. what do i do? (link)
ignore her. let her think it doesn't bother you at all. when she knows it doesn't bother you, she will move onto the next boy that a girl likes. shes just doing it for attention so don't give in to her. once she knows you don't care about her, she'll find someone who does so she gets her attention. good luck


On AIM, you can make hearts on the font Symbol. What keys do you press? I know you hold down the ALT key but i forgot what keys you press...?

Help! (link)
i found atleast five different ways to do it on online alt charts, but none of them seem to be working for me. you could try them though, i found ALT+3 and ALT+9829. an easier way that i know works is using the font Webdings and pressing shift+y. hope i helped


Fear of doors....

Anyone know? (link)
it took me awhile to try to research this but i'm pretty sure it's just called door phobia. i found a site that should be very useful to you

http://www.phobia-fear-release.com/door-phobia.html

hope i helped


sorry, this may be long. [but i really need advice]


ok, me and this guy were together for 5 months. a couple days ago i broke up with him. i love him so much and i want to be with him more than anything. but i broke up with him because next year he is going to be going off to collage and staying in a dorm up there. but i figured, the longer i wait, the harder it would be to let him go then. i really want to be with him, but if we get back together it will just be harder the next time we break up because we will be attached to eachother more, but i love him. no, i really LOVE him. we talk and stuff still, and i told him that i wanted to keep in touch with him when we was in collage and through the summer and stuff, and he said he wants to also. and he also says he still LOVES me just like i LOVE him. ok, im a freshman, hes a senior. i told him that once i got out of school that i would come back to him. and he said he would wait for me because he loves me. and i really hope that works out, because i want to be with him more than anything, he means everything to me. do you think that in 3 years we will still want eachother, and will be able to get back together? also, we still talk at school, and its great, because we both want to be together. should we get back together and have to go through the whole breakup process again and make it harder for us teh next time we break up? tell me what you think of this, and what we should do. and anything else would help!

thankss (link)
i'm kinda in the same situation. my boyfriend is a senior and i'm a freshman and we've been going out four months. i understand EXACTLY how you feel. i tried to do what you do and break up with my boyfriend and told him i needed a break, but he didn't want one so we're still together. you just have to go with your feelings. if you get back together, maybe there wouldn't even need to be another break up. but if i was you since you're already broken up, i would just remain friends. not even friends, it would stil be more than that since you both love each other. i would just remain talking and if he will wait for you, there shouldn't be a problem at all because no matter what you two will still be kinda together, but not technically. i hope i made sense because i know the whole situation is confusing. i hope a helped and good luck


my little brother is 7 and in 2nd grade, and lately he's been telling me that this girl in his class keeps bothering him. he told me that she likes him, and she's not leaving him alone. my brother comes home crying (lol) saying that she's not stopping! my brother told me that he already told his teacher but she really doesn't care and didn't do anything about it. what should i do, i can't stand to see my brother like this! (link)
you could have your parent or guardian right a letter to the teacher, or even the principle. or you could somehow find out the girls number and have someone call her parents and explain to them what their daughter is doing. hope i helped


is there any way you can erase pen on paper without totally ruining the paper??

Please answer fast,, i NEED an answer ASAP!! thanks. i rate. (link)
i'm pretty sure the only way thats possible is if you use white out, and even that you can tell its a different kind of white unless you get lucky. good luck


what exactly is pcp..like drug wise (link)
PCP is Phencyclidine (more commonly known as angeldust), is a hallucinogen. It has similar effects as LSD but is a lot more dangerous. It can act as a hallucinogen, stimulant, depressant, and anesthetic all at the same time and it used as a horse tranquiliser. A powerful psychedelic known for its dissociative effects.
The most common way to use PCP is in liquid form or by lacing a cannabis joint or cigarette. PCP is a white crystalline powder that is readily soluble in water or alcohol. It has a distinctive bitter chemical taste. PCP can be mixed easily with dyes and turns up on the illicit drug market in a variety of tablets, capsules, and colored powders. It is normally abused in one of three ways: snorted, smoked, or ingested. For smoking, PCP is often applied to a leafy material such as mint, parsley, oregano, or marijuana.


How do I let someone know that I don't care about his or her existence? Like you know, the 'temporary' friend type of person thing. The ones that only talk to you to ask what's for homework and stuff...

I have a bunch of those and I need to get rid of all of them. I'd love to tell them to fuck off, but I'm saving my swearwords for someone special. ==

Thanks! (link)
i would let someone know that i don't care about their existence by completely ignoring them. or if you do talk to them, be really closed ended like saying i don't know, ok, sure, yeah.. things like that i've noticed really piss people off, haha. but for the homework thing i would tell them to find out themself. it's alright to show a little attitude, especially if these homework people are just using you for that. hope i helped


My grade will be testing ALL week and we can't bring a backpack to school. I'm going to get my period soon but i'm not sure what day. Ware could I keep a pad ware it won't be noticable since I can't bring a backpack? I don't want to waiste them on days I wont have my period. (link)
i'm not sure if you wear pads or tampons, but you could wear two pads at once and take the top one off when you go to the bathroom and the new one will already be there. if you wear tampons, you could always bring a small purse. if you're not allowed to bring a purse, thats just ridiculous, hah. but if you can't, i would go to the nurse as a last resort. hope i helped


okay so my problem is that i think too much.. mostly about stupid things.. like i picture them a differnt way than reality. i always think of the worst possible thing that can happen. like my boyfriend was going to his friends house and there were gonna be 2 girls and 5 guys. so i said to him just be careful with the girls. i know he's not going to do anything with them but thats what popped into my head. it's weird and i want to stop! any suggestions?
thanks xox (link)
the same thing happens to me. try thinking " the glass is half full" you could take your mind off of it by doing something you enjoy doing. or you could think of all the positive things to keep your mind off the negative things that aren't very likely to happen. like the boyfriend thing, you know you can trust him and you konw he's not going to do anything with them, so just keep your mind focused on that and you'll be fine. i hope i helped.


ok so my best friend may like me. im not 100% sure. but since i have thought that he does or hear that he does i cant stop thinking about it. its on my mind 24/7. but like when im thinking about it i think about us going out and i jsut cant picture that so then i start thinking about how we cant go out. like i seriously jsut cant picture him and me together. but im seriously thinking about him all the time but it always ends with me saying wre never going to be. and i think i like him but im not sure. does it seem like i do? he is cute. but hes liek a really big nerd. haha lol. and im not sure im going to want to go out with him. but everyone says we will. and when i think about the prom or talk about it with my friends. their like oh your gonna go with him i know it. and i thin im gonna go with him. i have always said it. but i dont know. im soooo confused. (link)
to me it seems like you do like him but the reason you cannot picture you two together is because he's your best friend and it would just seem weird. if he's on you're mind 24/7, that definitely means something. you could always give it a try and if it doesn't work out i'm almost positive it wouldn't really change anything since you're best friends. i hope i helped. good luck


is indie a type of music? (link)
yeah, it's short for independent.

"In the context of popular music, the term indie (from "independent") is often used to refer to a number of genres, scenes, subcultures and stylistic and cultural attributes, characterised by (real or perceived) independence from commercial pop music and mainstream culture and an autonomous, do-it-yourself approach."


umm i know this might be gross but i need help. on some clothing i wear i sweat sometimes..and i get stains under the armpit area. but what i dont get is i use deoderant and i keep trying to use more and more to prevent it but on some fabrics it just doesnt work. this stinks because im embarrassed to wear my favorite clothing because of this. can anybody help? (link)
i had the same problem. now i use Maxim and don't have that problem anymore. i'm not sure where you can get it but i order it off the internet from http://www.coradhealthcare.com/item/maxim. you apply it on at night and it works amazingly. good luck


me and my old boyfriend broke up a long time ago. i kinda miss him but im afraid that when we start going out again that he will lie to me all the time ( thats why i broke up with him). what do i do? (link)
if you're ex shows that he truely misses you, then maybe you should go back out if you trust him enough to know that he wouldn't lie to you again. if he doesn't really show an interest anymore, i would find a new guy to get your mind off him and a guy that wouldn't lie to you. i hope i helped, good luck


Ok so i like two guys..

one is my current boyfriend (("Hollister" well call him that))

the other

is a family friend ((areopostle))

... My mom doesnt know about Hollister

and she knows that bAreopostle thinks im cute

.. I reallly like Aero too.

And i sorta dont like Holllister anymore..

so what do i do??

do i break up with Hollister for Areo

or what
??

HELP!! :]
thank in advanced

:]

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if you like aero then i would break up with hollister. although i wouldn't suggest going out with aero right away. i would give it some time. it wouldn't be fair for hollister if you kept going out with him while you liked someone else, just make sure not to hurt his feelings. good luck


whatss in right now in nj? im 13/f and im visiting people in montville, nj tomroow. what do you suggest i wear?

thankss :]. fast answeres would be appreciated, cnsdring its tommorow. (link)
i live in new jersey. alll the way north though and i've never heard of montville. anyway, i agree with the person under me, the layered shirts are in. its been really cold here though so a lot of people have been wearing sweatshirts. styles here are just like everywhere else, hollister, american eagle, abercrombie and finch are big ones. i'm sure whatever you normally wear is perfect. hope i helped




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