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a girl is trying to steal my guy!!
ok, there is a girl at school who always steals other girls' boyfriends and crushes. so, a boy at school told everyone is my class who my crush was and now that girl has started flirting with him and giving him little gifts. i don't want to be mean to her because we just ended a huge fight. what do i do?
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This has happen to one of my ex's (who we'll call Sam) as well. When I had first met Sam I had met one of her friends as well at the same time (who we'll call Kim). Kim didn't like me apart from just as a friend but then when Sam told her one night when we were all out that she likes me Kim also said she likes me too. Sam even stepped aside so Kim can get her chance but I made it clear Kim didn't like me at first so was only saying it now because she knew Sam liked me. I ended up going out with Sam. :D
Thing is some girls will do this for attention or just because they want what they 'can't have'. Ignore her, let her waste her time. If this other guy is just a crush and you fear that this other girls stupid attempts are actually working then it might be time to take it to the next step so he knows you do like him? This is generally the thing with crushes though. If you sit back and do nothing then someone else will eventually come along. :[
Also I'd like to point out that if she's been doing this with other girls' boyfriends as well and they've actually fallen for it then those guys didn't deserve the gf's that they had.
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thats tough. maybe you can just like talk to her about it. be like babe i would really apprectiate it if you let me have a life. something you obviously don't have. if you dont want to be mean then just say something to her nicely. or talk to the guy about it. and be all over him when shes around. good luck
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ignore her. let her think it doesn't bother you at all. when she knows it doesn't bother you, she will move onto the next boy that a girl likes. shes just doing it for attention so don't give in to her. once she knows you don't care about her, she'll find someone who does so she gets her attention. good luck<3
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