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OK well i have this friend and ive been friends with her since 6th grade ( im in 9th now ) she has these annpying little things about her that tick me off soo bad like her laugh is sooo freaking annoying.a lot of people make fun of her laugh ( it sounds like shes having about 3 asma attacks at once ) and she freaks out saying my laugh isnt annoying.well anyway she is also saying rude comments to me like your soo stupid or stop being a bitch and then shell tell me she is just kidding.is there anyway i can block her out of my mind because its getting the point where i wish i never met her (link)
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my friend and i are like that... we met in 5th grade, at times we hate each other then we love each other were like sisters, and i mean i love her to death but sometimes i cant stand her, just try to ignore it when shes mean or sotmthing. in the end you'll just be closer, in the end me and her compliment each other... im guessing that you and her are almost complete opposites? or very close to the same? its one of those 2 extremes. just anywayz try to love her... and when that fails... stay away from her for awhile
-alex
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alright.. not to gross anyone out, but i have a question. so i'm 15 & sexually active & have been for about half a year. well, me and my boyfriend stopped using condoms but when we dont, i guess you could say i "spit it out", but im not talking about with my mouth. i'm wondering, does anyone know why i do that? (link)
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most likely cuz it had no where to go inside you... sex=messy.. this happens.. only some of that stays inside you, the rest comes back out.. which is the gross part... yah theres your answer
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I'm so screwed. I haven't missed my period yet, I'm due for it Friday, but my friend is bringing me a pregnancy test tomorrow. I had sex without a condom, and my boyfriend pulled out but I'm still paranoid about it, and yes I know I have a good reason to be.
Anyways...I'm going to take a pregnancy test Saturday. I think I will be with my boyfriend when I do it. What I want to know is how do I tell my parents and what should I do? I'm so scared right now I'm crying...my parents have always known me as their good little girl that never did anything wrong. I feel like dying.
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ok dieing=bad so dont get any ideas! and well if you are pregnant remember abortion is your choice but you should chose to let it live, and well your parents will always love you...just cry...get the sadness out of the way.
-alex
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15/f- Its really long but if you would take the time, I would really really appreciate your help.
Okay I have 2 best friends, shelby and christa. Well shelby recently got a boyfriend, and all of a sudden started acting very distant to me and christa. She never hung out with us anymore, and barely talked to us at school. She was trying to change herself to fit in with her bf's friends. Well Then she started telling people that me and christa abandoned her and that we were mad and jealous that she has a bf. We never said anything to her. So then we heard it from more people, so we asked her about it, if she said it. She denied it, and got mad at us and walked away. We let it go. Then my friend found a note from her to her bf that said " I dont know what is up with HER (meaning me) lately. If she doesnt knock it off quick, Im not gonna talk to her at all at homecoming because I dont want my night to be ruined by HER". So then I called her and asked her about it. Now Im not a mean person at all. Im too nice at times. Well I must have said "Now Im not trying to attack you or be mean, I just wanna talk" fifteen times, and she was like "Oh I know" She made up some lame excuse, and I was like whatever, so then we talked for about an hour like normal about our day and whatnot. The next morning she came up to Christa and I and hugged us to make sure we were okay. Well afterschool a friend came up and said "shelby said you called her and yelled and bitched her out for an hour and then she cried after you got off the phone" I was so angry, and I was tempted just to not talk to her anymore, but I gave it one more chance. I went up to her before lunch at her locker and asked her why she was saying that, and that she knew very well it wasnt true. I was being wayy too nice. She wouldnt look at me, she kept her eyes on her locker and was like "yeah... whatever.. sure" while I was talking, so then she was like "IM DONE okay? IM DONE WITH YOU" and just kept saying it, and I walked off, and then she went and told her bf that it was the otherway around. So then she comes up to me like 1 or 2 days later and says I was being a bitch the otherday, I dont know what was up. Blah. And I just said yeah I agree and walked away, then she wrote me a 3 page note and the first page was an apology finally. Im the forgive and forget type, but I dont really wanna forgive exactly, but she sits at our lunch table now, but everyone is like "why are you talking to her, she doesnt deserve your time"
Should I forgive her after all she did?
Am I right about this whole thing?
Should I talk to her still?
What should I do?
I would greatly appreciate any help anyone can give (link)
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i had a girl be a bitch to me like that... and well she didnt do the exact same thing but i was nice to her and everything and i just was super nice and well heres the story, i know you prolly dont want to read this but if you do it my answer will seem better:
ok so well i liked this guy and i told her that, she was like oh i like him too, so well i found out he had a gf so i was gonna leave him alone as to not cause any drama, but then she started telling everyone that i liked him and she was like he wont like you and all this and then she gave him this letter that said that i was a bitch and that he shouldnt like me, when i wasnt even going to try to get him and then she got mad when i confronted her about the note she gave him (he gave it to me and siad "i thought you would like to see this" i knew she wrote it too cuz it was her hand writng) she told him in the note that he shoud like her and all and i just didnt care anymore so her and her friends started telling me i was a bitch and said they wished i would die, and basicly were bitches for months then they started being nice agian... and wanted me to fogive them.... but i can forgive but i cant forget and i cant talk to them to this day...
i say dont be her friend... talk to her but dont put to much trust in her
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Okay, here we go.I am 14 and I really like this boy. And he always flirts with me back and like puts his arm around me and stuff like that. but he flirts with everybody. I mean everybody. So, im not sure if he likes me, is just being friendly, is a natural flirt, or if he just wants to flirt with me. what to do what to do! (link)
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most guys that i know that are like that are manwhores, just saying that if he does that now, he will do that when he has a gf, so pretend with me here for a second, ok say hes your bf, how would you feel if he flirted with every girl?
ok now thats what will happen... really im not being mean..
-alex
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Ok well I asked a question before about this but theres something eles.Me and my friend like alot of the same guys but she always seems to win them over because she has big breasts.Well I have noticed that everytime I say I like someone she will just say yeah hes ok and then like the next day she will see the guy I like and say something like omg look its him I looooove him!! I dont know what I should do because I dont know whats wrong with me..Is it because Im jealous?? Or feel unattractive or something.I feel like i can never get a guy because she will steal him away ( by the way she doesnt do it too be mean she just does it without knowing shes doing it) (link)
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well sometimes that happens to me, my friends try to get a guy and i just try to help by getting to know the guy then i win him over and dont even want too, maybe you shouldnt just say you like him but say that you want to date him and i dont want to sound mean cuz im not being mean, try being outgoing, just talking to them, yes i know its hard and all of that but you have to just get out there and do it sometimes! so just go for it! and no one is ugly!
-alex
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How can you tell if a guy likes you at school. Anyone who says "this isnt a dating service" will be given an automatic 1. But pleaz answer. (link)
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ok to start out id just say watch how he stands when he talks to you, where do his eyes look, how does he approach you, what do you talk about, how much do you talk, where do you talk... things like these... notice those things... hope this helps... just try to make sense of his body language and dialoge.
-alex
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im sooo freked out. my best friend is scaring me. he is running away and not telling anyone. i just found out that he has threatened to kill himself. im scared. hes like a brother. i love him to death. if anything happened to him id go crazy. how can i approach him about it? or how can i just stop freaking out? my sister is dating him and she is scared to. pleeze help me. im very worried about him. help! (link)
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ok try talking to him, not even asking him about it, just tell him how much you love him, have your sister do the same... if he knows you guys love him, he might think twice about any of this stuff.... make sure he knows how much you care then talk to him about it... remember dont get mad and just show lots of love.
-alex
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My Best friend Jessie likes this guy ( Michael ) for about a week. Secretly I`ve liked him for almost a month but I never told him cause I could always tell she sorta liked him too. Now everyone's tellin me he likes me and he's going to ask me out. I feel really badly cause my Bff likes him too! I told her I like him and she said she'ss not mad but I can tell she is. If he asks me out what do I do? She's my bff and i love her more then any guy. (link)
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well see i had the same thing happen to me. this is nothing but trouble. you can however do what i wish i had done... just try dating him, but dont ever ditch your friend for him and if you can bring her along when you hang with him.
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How can you tell if a girl likes you{dont say flirting}? How can you tell if a girl knows that you like her? Does anyone know any advice on girls that is hard to learn on your own or that no onr told you and you figured out yourself.
Thanks in advance.
I rate high.
--Caden-- (link)
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ok so heres my advice...just watch how she stands when you talk to her...if she opens her body to you or not, how her feet are postioned, how she looks, you dont have to flirt, but that helps yah out! im a girl so i can say for myself that guys that are outgoing are easier to talk too and girls will make the effort to talk to a more outgoing guy! if you want to ask me anything else my AIM is oObananaduckyOo i can explain to you more about all of the meanings of how she stands and things if you tell me... ok so if you want IM me,
alex
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There is a guy I like and he likes me and everyone knows it. However, I am not asking him out so don't even suggest it. Anyways, his birthday is Monday and we aren't going out yet, and I don't know what to get him. I was thinking maybe a cute teddy bear and some candy, but it was just Halloween so there is plenty of candy to go around. Please help, I want to get a winning prensent!!! (link)
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try maybe a hoodie... thats always a nice gift... and well you might end up getting it back, its starting to get cold and all so it would be useful... so its an all around good gift!
-alex
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