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Yo YO Yo! My name is Julie and im 13/f. I love to listen to music andhelp my ffriends out with there problems! You can e-mail me or IM if you dont want to post a problem, ill help with anything, but i wont say i have the best advice in the world. I love to hang with friends and do stupid stuff, im such a dork =D! In the picture i have im the one in the blue and the other girl is my bestest friend in the world!

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What should i get my mom and dad for xmas? i dont have any money and i cant go out and buy anything so i was wondering if any of you have any ideas on what i could give them or make them? i hope you have some ideas because i only have 2 days! i will rate for effort! ill give you a five!

The coupon idea is really good. making them a card (big) with pictures from old mags. and pictures of family. Make breakfast for them in bed. A BIG hug and a thank you, will make them happy.

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ok, well my friend recently lost her brother and i was wonndering if there are any icon sites where you can actually MAKE and icon.. like blink and words and sruff. also free. i wanna make her an icon to show that i luv her like a sister. please helpp thxx

well icons arent that hard to make but you have to have a program to make them, which costs like 50-up dollars! there not any sites that come to my mind about that but you could go to imbum.com and ask someone there to make an icon they have really cute ones

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heyy i normally answer questions but now i got one!.. alright well im moving in january and my christmas presents are mainly going to be stuff for my new room.. but the thing is i dont want to get really expensive stuff because were gunna be spending a lot of money on the house.. so i need awsome but inexpensive stuff, i already went to ikea, and pottery barn teen.. and i picked out some awsome stuff.. anyone have any other low priced bedroom places?! x3

wal-mart and target has some cute stuff if you want some cute but cheap stuff. Places like garden ridge has cute pillows which are always fun to have in your room! You could take a bunch of picutures of your friends and family and put them on a posterboard and hang that up

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ok. i have a boyfriend nick and i like him and he likes me.i dont want to be prude. he kissed me on the cheek and i liked it but i want us to be more than that. if he doesnt kiss me on the lips first do you think that i should go in for the kiss? i need to know because i dont want to look like a total doofus in front of my friends if he backs away from my kiss?

Go for the kiss! and if you dont want to look like a fool infront of your friends, kiss him when there not around or on the cheek

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PLEASE TAKE TIME TO READ THIS...IM SURE ALL YOU GIRLS HAVE GONE THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS! okay here's the thing...there's this boy...let's say..."Dylan". well me and dylan go to school together and just last year i began talking to some of his friends just sayin how i thought he was cute and all. so at the end of last year that got around to him but we barely said hi. then over the summer we talked alot and he even began calling me cute names. we expressed to eachother how much we liked eachother and everything then rigt before the summer was over he ended up telling me he wasnt ready for a girlfriend. i mean i was okay with that i just felt like he had led me on for so long. well now we're over that but i hear from more of his friends that he likes me again and im sure he can tell that i never quit liking him. my question is how do i get him to finally confess that he likes me if he still does without asking him the question flat out? thanks!!

Okay guys kid so watch out. Get one of his friends that you know well and can trust to see if he likes you again. The just flirt arouund and give hints. If he doenst get the picture then i would just call him up and just flat out ask him out. hope it works out

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Is it bad that my boyfriend is over protective? When ever i flirt he gets mad @ me...but he dosnt tell me other people do and its kinda noticable! But when we talk he dosnt say anything..n i dont want him to hold back anything when hes mad i want him to tell me...what should i do? He is always worried im goin to cheat on him with my ex (his best friend, because we are really good friends) He also says that he can see me and my best friend hooking up! Is this normal...hellpp

Try talking to him and tell him how you would never cheat on him with his best friend! Let him know that hes the only one you want. Everyguy is a little protective and guys get jealous easy, even though dont show it. Talk to him about how you want him to tell you if theres something wrong and not to hold back his feelings

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For some reason, I keep getting kicked off AIM. Normally it will say that the connection was lost but it's happened about 10 times in the last hour. I'll be typing something to someone and I'm trying to figure out why they aren't answering me, and then a couple seconds later the log on screen for AIM shows up and then it takes FOREVER to connect again. Is there something wrong with my AIM or is it a virus? Does anyone have any tips as to what I should do to fix this? It's never happened before and I'm getting really pissed off at it. As I'm typing this, it just logged me off again!!! Before, I had logged off my screen on the computer and then logged back on. Help me! I'm getting annoyed!

My AIM use to do that to me too. It was REALLY annoying! I had to refresh my pc. LIke erase everything and start over like it was brand new. To get it to work right again. But i think it was a virus though. run a virus check on your pc and delete the viruses

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two days ago i got this bug bite that started to swell up like MAD and now it's the size of my elbow, it's red, and swollen. what can it be and what can i do about it?

i dont know i would go to the ER about that

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im so nervous around my b/f cuz i never know what to say! any ideas? thank you!

ahhhh! i know how that is =/

well anyways
try talking about school and the music yall like
ummmmmmm be creative

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okay i went to this dance last night and was dancin a lot. I danced witha kidd who was a sophomore (i'm a junior) and well he was really hott!! omg we liked dance to 3 songs and we even danced to my fave song "ice ice baby" by vanilla ice!! then my friend and i met up with this guy and his friend and well let's just say his friend had acne problems and bad breath!! he gave me his sn!! he's a kewl kidd and someone i would definitely wanna hang out with but i told my friend to get me the kidd i danced with to 3 songs sn!! is their a possibility 4 a friendship or romance in these situations??

signed,
-VaNiLLa IcE GiRL-

the guy with bad breath sounds like a friendship comming but the guy you danced with 3 times sounds like a romance! i hope you got his s/n or number ;)

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okayy i usually wearr likee a shirrtt with my boobs hanging out and my stomach showing.. or a shorrt skirt with a shirt that pretty much coverrs my stomach with my boobs poping out .. is that wrong should i lett guyss havee to wonderr and like wunt to find out whats under it all .. or is it better to keep dressing like ido

First of all i hope your like 17 or older cause if you like 15 and doing that, thats really wrong! But anyways if you arent really skinny -n/o to anybody!-or in other words are chubby than i wouldnt dress like that but your skinny and in shape than yeah. But dont go OVER BOARD and go all slutty like cause guys might think your hott and all but most of them dont like it. Hope i help!

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Hey, at lunch my friend always eats really junky foods, i mean tons, and i think shes gonna gain tons of wait quite soon. Should i tell her???
luv,
Rachel

YOu should but dont be like "OMG YOUR GOING TO GET FAT!" cause thats just MEAN! Just tell her that she should bring more veggies and fruit to lunch and not all that junk food cause its not healthy.

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ok welll im for bush and this one group of my friends are completely anti-bush. and whenever they start talking about the election they totally bash bush in front of my face. they say mean things about him that arnt true. and it really bothers me.....and like i feel like there almost attacking me whenever i tell them that bush was a good leader...what do i do?

sorry hun but im an anti-bush too. YOu really need to listen to the news more and get into those politics before you can say hes was a good leader, which i dont think he was-he LIED! not just once either- anyways sorry i got off topic there but if you dont like talking to them about politics -bad speller! sorry- then tell them that you dont want to talk about that stuff when yall hang out cause you dont want your diffrnt opinions to get in the way of your friendship or something along that line, hopefully they will listen and try not to talk about it around you.
hope it helps

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Hey,
so i am so totally in love with this hottie, and he knows my name and all, but he doesnt really know me, we're in one class together, but it might sound random if i just start talking to him.
luv,
Will Never Be Noticed

Well how else are you going to start talking to him!? lol, just talk to him about school if you cant think of anything else. Worst thing he can do is ignore you and he wont do that unless hes a jerk and then hes not worth you time! SO dont be scared to talk to him and hes just going to talk to you right back ;)

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Well, today my mom had asked me to make dinner and I did because I love to cook. When she got home she said "I hope your father doesn't show up late so he can eat some dinner." I said, Oh, he's going out to dinner with some of his coworkers remember? and she said that she had no clue what I was talking about. Basically, my dad didn't tell her anything about the dinner so she's pissed. She always gets really pissed off at him because she says that they don't communicate. Well, she says that he doesn't communicate with her. I'm really scared that my parents might get a divorce. I love both of my parents and I hate to see them argue and the thought of them getting a divorce scares me. There are so many kids in my school who's parents are divorced and they look at me like I'm crazy when they ask me "So, do you live with your mom or your dad?" and I respond with, "Both". This is hard for me, I don't want my family to be torn apart! What should I do?

They could/can get a dvorce but if its just over "they cant communicate" than the probally wont, i mean they lasted 24 years, i dont think there going to break up just over something like that. If your really worried set them down and let them know. But i wouldnt be to worry, and who isnt scared of thinking there parents are going to get a divorce??

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k i did sumthin w/ my bf be4 my mom found out she doesnt trust me and im working on regaining my trust becuz then ill actually be able to hang out w. ppl and maybe me and my bf will go bak out. (we broke up becuz i was grounded for a really long time..so we just r kinda taken a break u cud say and i wanna prove to him i can hang out again cuz i really like him...) anyway, today in skool there is this lil place and we hooked up. just made out. of course with my luck a teacher came in and i went to the principals. shes like, "i hear about ur little inappropriate incident" etc and "if this happens again your parents will hear from me." i was relieved that she wouldnt call them that day..but this is the bad part: tommorow is a day at my school and my mom is coming to work at a certain part of it. its a homecoming/pep rally type thing. so the principal will be there and i AM DEAD becuz i bet she will tell my mom and dad if she sees them. that is NOT GOOD. cuz 1st of all my dad is coming to visit becuz he is working in a diff state from our house and i dont want to get in trouble again. i am so afraid she'll tel...help me.

I really dont think your principal is really going to tell your parents. SO dont worry!! Just next time you and you bf or ex-bf makeout dont get caught ;) hehe

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everyday we go to lunch and me and a few friends play truth or dare.. well like im never dared to do anything so im usually happy. i was dared the other day to kiss this boy jake.. and i did. because him and i have kissed before.. yeh sure its no harm done and we acted like it never happened. but my friends made a BIG deal over it for nothing.. what do i do to tell them to chill!?

Be like "me and jake are friends, and just because we kissed each other dosent mean we are in love or really like each other in that way" "so lets chill and get on with out game" or something like that. unless you really like him, but you can tell rhen that if you want

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I'm a 15 F. This boy likes me .. almost all the girls that I've talked to like him or think hes cute. He's really shy though... He gets his friend(who is my friend too) to come up to me and say that he thinks I'm cute and ask me questions. All he's ever really said to me is hi or bye. I think it's really cute that he's shy and it shows that he's not rude or agressive like the other boys. Well the thing is.. I'm shy too and I dont know how to get a conversation going when he's with his group of friends and I'm with mine. Any ideas?

how bout when you see him by himself go up to him and be like "i hear you like me and think im cute. I thik your cute too" yeah pretty brave but it works! talk about music and school. School is really easy to talk about, so always keep it in mind.

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omg , ok . hi , ok im 14yrs. old and i hav a frend whos 18 named mike . ok he's not in school nemoa and he graduated and he's goin to miami tomorow and invited me to go and a few othr ppl , but im so scared cuz what if i get caught skipping and if my parents find out . i dono what to do . it sounds so much fun tho . help!!!!!

DO you know this dude enough that if you get caught you wont mind? If your parents find out that you skip school and went some where with an 18 year old, what do you is going to happen? But if you really want to go, makesure your back when you usally get home.

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I NEED HELP!!!!!...Ive Been Goin Out With My Bf For Like 2 Weeeks But we Knew Each Other Like 1-2 Weeks Before He Asked Me Out...Well I Talk To His Cuz A Lot(Ive Known Him For Like 6 Months) And He Told Me That His Cuz Has Another Gf Besides Me...So Last Night I Called Him And Ask Him If That Was True And He Said, "Yes , But I Didnt Kno"...(How Can You Dont Kno If Your Goin Out With Sum1????)...Well I Asked Him If He Likes Her And He Was Like, "Not As Much As I Like You....Once I Get Here From Camp ill Cut Her"...All My Friends Are Telling Me To Cut Him....But I Love Him Soooo Much To Let Him Go....What Should I Do???...Should I Cut Him???... Dont Wanna Get Hurt!..Can sum1 PLEASE Gimmie Advice...Thanx...

I would dump him, or "cut" him! Any guy who cheats on you doesnt deserve you! If he liked you so much he would have cheated on you. But atleast he was being honest.

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