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Q: i met this guy at adventureland (he was REALLY hott!!) in des moines and i got his # but i dont want to call it cuz im afraid that its the wrong number! but then again the area code and the first 3 numbers were from the area that we were located in...what should i do? call him or not?
-confuzzled!
of course u should call him!

Q: ive been goin steady witha girl for a whilenow and its all goood (ya heard me? lol) but shes in 8th grade and im gonna be sophmore...my freinds constanly crack jokes and call me a pedafile but i love her....but everytime im with my freinds and we see a little girl they saw hey little girl my freind wants your number and i get upset and im just sooo confused!

Love,
Your spanish class freind

P.S. Once im done....me and you...should def hook up...DID YA HURR ME???
dont let your friends get in the way about how you feel about someone. Believe me, i have seen worse

Q: Ok it sounds odd but as a girl u would know and i'm gettin to the age where i can kiss boys and stuff and i want to know if i should u know...shave my girl part??
lol, that is up to you

Q: Hi, my names liza im 14... i have this guy lets call him *Dave* and we were goin out for like 16 months, and then yesterday he calls me sayin "yeah liez i have a gurl her name is kelly and laughs and says i know its gonna piss you off, oh well bye" and i cryed for hours, im still crying right now. i know it was stupid and i dont know what love is... but i really did i was seriously in love with this boy and i cut my like my whole arm up, and did a bunch of stupid things. i really dont know what to do anymore with my life i dont wanna live, i wish i was dead. does anyone have any ideas for me to get him backk or something cause i REALLY wanna get him back... and i dont know how to. s0o pleaseeeeee pretty please someone anyone please help!!!!! :( ill rate you, just please help me... xo liza
Wow, if he did that to you he is not worth it! Omgsh and dont destroy your body because of him. There is no need to do something like that! Find a new guy! There are plenty of them out there, you just have to find the right one =).. obviously it was not him. But dont hurt yourself! Stay strong.. its his loss, not yours

Q: i weigh 92 ponds and im 5 foot 3... am i over weight? or under weight?
Is that seriously a question?!?! U are UNDERWEIGHT!

Q: My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom?
Tell him that it bothers you, and you dont like it. But let him do what he wants.. its his life

Q: so i have been trying to build up a six-pack for the last couple months... you know... i think you know why... but anyways, im not finding a recipe for success! can you help me? i've tried a lot, but not much has helped me out.
just keep trying, dont give up on something you want!!! It takes time! =)

Q: i got stung by a bee and it really hurt what do i do about bee stings lol???
you let it heal? lol

Q: see... heres the thing. i've become very VERY sexually attracted to one of the teachers at my school. so attracted that i even tried to ask her to dinner and i showed up at her house a couple times with flowers and wine. now i dont know if this is normal, but i was just wondering if there is something wrong with me?
nothing is wrong with you.. but try going gor your own age..

Q: ok say ur boyfriend hasnt called u n like 3 months
what do u do?
Find out if he's dead first.. lol.. if not get out and MOVE ON!

Q: I really wana loose a quick 10-15 pounds really fast in 4 weeks.. but the bad part is im really picky with foods.. So i dont know what to do or eat.. does ne one have ne advice?! i'd apreciate it soo much!
Eat healthy and work out!

Q: hi.. i havent really been able to get an answer out of any of my friends... im just curious. when is it normal for me to get my first period? im fifteen years old and it still hasnt come... im worried! all of my friends are bragging about it and stuff, and im always left alone in the dark... when am i gonna get it?! and also, im worried about getting it... :-/ does it hurt? what comes out? is it painful? please help!!
I wouldn't be worried, consider yourself lucky! lol. I dont know why your friends would brag about it, it's not that great. Girls usually start around the ages 10-18. So don't be worried. Well if you dont know what comes out when you have your period.. i would do re-search.. lol.. i mean its kinda obvious.

Q: I need some advice badly. There is a girl I really like and i cant get her off my head, some of her friends told me that she likes me but i dont know how to talk to her because i am really shy. What would be the best way to talk to her and find out how she really feels.
Well first talk to her.. and dont be so shy around her.. after a while.. talk to her about how she feels and let her know how you feel

Q: Hello there. Is it natural if I get really mad when other guys hit on my girlfriend? I mean, not just mad, but mad enough to drive over to their house, knock down their door, rip their freakin limbs off, make them eat it and then set their house ablaze with a million fire crackers? I'm just wondering before I take any drastic measures...
Yes that is a little drastic, it is totally natural to get jelous or mad when other guys hit on your girlfriend, but I think its a little over-board to do that kind of stuff. And remember.. she is going out with *YOU* for a reason, so you shouldn't have any worries, unless you dont trust her

Q: I just moved into my new house and I want my room to be really cute! Do you have any ideas on decorating it? ThAnKs!
Pant it your favorite color and have everything color coordinate! =)

Q: I need help. I haven't really talked to my ex girlfriend tell the other day and now im falling for her again(keep in mind she is my first love) but i also like some other girls now and one I really like alot, who should i go for the love who broke my heart or my undieing atraction to the other girl?
Well it depends who you think you like more, and who you think actually likes you. First loves come and go so quickly but they are something you'll never forget and someone you'll never forget. Just follow your heart and go with you instinct. =)

Q: Is 9th grade a good grade and does it go by quickly?
9th grade is fun. You meet alot of new people... more freedom. It goes bye quickly.. so cherish it and have fun while it lasts!

Q: when someone says go streakin what do they mean?
Streaking? Awww.. those are fun times. It is where you run up and down streets NAKEY! its fun!

Q: I don't wanna clean my room! should I?
uhh.. lol, thats up to you

Q: I broke up w/my b/f of 8 months almost a year ago. He was heartbroken at first, but then got over it and now is going out with another girl. I haven't found anyone who's like him, and I miss him so much. But he's over me, and I still need him. Help!!
~Kat
Move on, you are the one who broke up with him and lost him. Im sure there are plenty of other guys out there. Try talking to him about it though and see if he still has feelings for you. :)

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