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my friend has adrinking problem and maybe even a drug problem! do you think there might be a reason he is turning to drugs and alcohol? becuz he does get teased by many for the way he acts! and if so is there any way i can comfort him or help him out?!

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Friends 'til the end

He may be stressed, or upset about something. Cuz thats when I got addicted to drugs was when I was really stressed about stuff...Let me know how things go and if he gets better k? ~*~Sabina~*~

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ok there is this guy I really like and he really likes me we talk sometimes but only over the internet because I live in wisconsin and he lives in new jersey... I really like him and I asked him to come visit me for the summer.. he said he would love to and he will plan on it... I really like him but is this bad??

I am 14
He is 18

No its nto bad at all...the only thing is do u know if it is really him like have u seen him on webcam...that is the only way to know for sure if it is him...Get back to me and let me knows plz...~*~Sabina~*~

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this isnt a health question but i didnt know what else to put it under. I got my cartilige peirced back in September and its been 3months so i can change the earing. well the lady told me i couldnt wear hoops for a whole year. why is that? i got hoops for the cartilige for christmas and i really wanna wear them but i dont wanna mess up the peircing.

Thats not true you can put hoops in after like a month or 2...

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ok so im goin to start off with the story..me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a year and 9 months...and this new gurl popped up in the picture and shes "just a friend"...and me im not liking this..well one night he left my house and acted like he was goin home and goes over to her house to show her his new car soo he says..well i fliped out and yelled at him..soo now its been about 2 months and this is still goin on and i have told him i didnt like it and to stop..but its like he doesnt care what i say they hug in the hall talk on the phone text eachother when im with him..and i cant take it anymore..i have tried to talk to her about it and told her she need to lay off but she just dont get it..i need to know what to do about this cause im all out of clues..please help me soon..thanks..--BabyGurl--

What I think you should do is sit your bf down and explain to him how you feel about the whole thing and ask him how he feels...get back to me on how it goes...Hope I helped..~*~Sabina~*~

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Well My ex-boyfriend (Jake) and I dated for about 7 months off and on last year (2003) well...He use to say he loved me but never meant it...He hurt me alot but I'm madly in love with him and the other day he said I love you and says he means it and I really think he does...Im just not sure what to think or do....i need help...what should i do???? should i ask him out should i believe him what????

I think you should just wait awhile and see how things go between you two adn then after maybe a month or 2 maybe around Valentine's Day? ask him out...Hope I helped...~*~ Sabina ~*~

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