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Q: Okay, my boyfriend has been wanting to make out... but I don't know how!! I've been telling him that I've been to like third base with a couple guys but soon he's gonna find out that I don't even know how to kiss!

Can someone explain to me how to french kiss? What am I supposed to do? Is it hard? Ahhhhh!!!lol thanks!!!

haha i was just like this but all you do is like if your gonna give them a regular kiss and once he puts his tounge in your mouth just play with it...

Q: hi theres this guy i like he and i go to the same school and we neve talked or anything but then i had to escort him to the office and we talked alittle then after awhile i went to another school and i haven't seen him since i left the first school and the my brothers started their baseball season and they play in his town. so i would go to every game and practice hoping to see him. theres a skate park right next to the baseball field and knowing he skates i went up there and fionally saw him one day with my ex two of my exes and i talked to them and i would watch them skatboard and everynow and then we would say something to each other. then finally one day he and my ex came up to me my crush said hi and hugged me. then about two months later when summer was almost over i saw him in the mall and i thought he wouldn't even notice me walking by but he did he said hi and said well aren't you going to give me ahug so i did then we said bye and now i wonder if he likes me or if he ever will?

well we cant tell you if he likes you or ever will because we cant feel wut he feels..but
i think things are starting to get better and sooner dan u think things might start heating up a lil more;)

Q: Well, I failed this school year for personal reasons, and yeah it is my fault that I failed, but I didn't even get to go to summer school to try and bring up my grades. Anyways, I hated the teachers in this grade, and now I'm going to have to see them again. And I'm going to loose so many friends because I'm in a different grade then them. I'm just worried about this year. I know a lot of people that will be in this grade, but they will all ask why I failed and stuff. I don't want to have to face the same teachers I had to face last year.
Do you have any advice for me?
Things that might help?
Thanks so much for your help.

talk to your counselor explain to them that you failed because you dont get along with your teachers and your teachers with you....maybe they would give you new teachers=D
and towards da kids just tell em u were gonna miss em 2 much and decided to stay with the little ones haha who gives a sh** wut they say fuck it!

Q: I'm 17/f. I'm about 5'11". I've never been kissed, been on a date or had a boyfriend. Not to sound arrogant or anything but I am pretty. I have a great personality. I feel like I'm the only girl my age who hasn't been kissed, etc. I'm afraid I won't experience anything till college. Kinda like Felicity (old t.v. show). It makes me really sad, especially when watching romance movies. Any advice?

omg dont even trip!guys always "take da rotten apples at the bottom of the tree because are afraid of reaching for da beautiful apples on da top" all of this apple talk lol leads to just be patient because if you havent gotten kissed probably its just that theres a great guy that is worth wasting your first kiss on at the end of this all! who cares if you have to wait until college as long as this guy isint a dick like most of dem! just keep yo head ^ high and believe that the right guy is coming your way! hey u=your first kiss can come when you least expect it=D!

Q: Back to school! I need a really cute and eclectic backpack. Does anybody know any sites/stores I could get one at. Just to give you the idea of what I like, my last backpack was a hott pink, canvas and corduroy messenger bag I decoratd with millions of buttons (pins). LoVe To AlL!!!

omg im not a rocker or anything like that but hott topics in the mall has some
b-e-a-u-t-i-f-u-l backpacks!

Q: alright. here's the sitch.
i have this boyfriend, who i've been dating for
2 days. and i love him very much.

now that probabbly sounds rediculous,
but me and him dated once before, for about
7 months. he treated me like gold. i loved it.

but after a while he seemed to lose interest.
he broke up with me. and he said upfront that he
started to like another girl. i was very hurt, but
i appreciated his honesty.

after like a week of us being broken up. he called
me at 2am. crying. saying he made a big mistake,
and he cared about me yada yada. and i believed
him, and took him back.

then literally 2 days later, he told me he thought
he was making the right decision by asking me back.
but he just realised he doesnt feel the same.

and i felt stupid for taking him back.

now, weve been good friends for about 4
months now.and the other day i went to his
house andhe told me he liked me again, he
claims he never stopped. he ended things
with this girl for me. which must mean something.

he asked me back out when i went to his house.
and we didnt do anything sexual, he just held me
tight and said how much he missed holding me.
and he would kiss my forhead and such.

now,weve been pretty good these past days.
i just feel kindof paranoid ya know.
like when hes gone and i dont know where he is
i'll be all nervous and such. i hate this feeling.
i dont think he would do anything, but its still
a weight on my shoulders. i'd like to learn some
advice on how to not be so paranoid, and learn
to trust him. so our relationship will be stronger.

anyone know any REAL advice on how to do that?

thank you so much.
xxxoxoxo

ok first of all dont start to get to attatched because you never know when hes gonna do something like before(not trying to be a bitch or nothing you know!)but yeah and i think you should start getting involved in other things to sort of get your mind out of onlii your b/f...this will help so that hes not allways in your mind and just before you know it hell b with you again and you wouldnt have even stressed about him 1 bit=]

Q: People make fun of me and my friends and call us "emo" just because we wear black.
They say stuff like hey emo go run home to your mommy! Its so annoying! What do I do?

uhhh jerks no no!
first of all tell them they should go running home to their mommy with their childish attitude!!! then i wear black occasionaly does dat make me emo too??? haha they r just a bunch of loosers dat have nothing 2 do so dont give it importance but whatever you do dont make fun of their style of clothes because that just lowers u down to their level!!!

Q: sorry about the length..
ok well i just got out of a relationship about a week ago and it was over the stupidest reason. at night he would come over around 1 and 2 in the morning and he did it alot for the entire time we we're dating bc most of the time we we're dating he was grounded and that was the only way he could get out. but then one night he told me he was going to come over and i told him that was fine but i didn't want to really "do" anything that night and he got REALLY affended but EVERY time he came over he would always want to do stuff so i just gave him a heads up beforehand so he didn't get mad when i turned him down or whatever when he came over. anyways he got PISSED and decided to not talk to me so we broke up. but during that week i kind of found another guy that i kind of might like a little bit but nothing serious. and then today i got an instant message from my ex apologizing for being a dick and now he wants to talk before school starts up again. i don't know what to do! hpoefully someone can help?
oh btw i'm a softmore in hs if that helps any..

umm i think you should talk to him first but if your starting to feel something for this other guy dont go back with your ex because not only wont you b able to b with the guy you like but you will b hurting him to...but towards the other part i think you should tell him he needs to understand that you were just saying it so he wouldnt b like oh man she dosent wanna do it or shyt like dat you kno!

Q: ok so everytime ive tried to log on my myspace it just keeps asking me to log on or join myspace it just does this over and over no matter how many times i try to log on [it has been doing this for like 5 monthes]

[and my password and email are right and my myspace hasnt been deleted cause i can log on at other peoples houses!]

if anyone has any advice or knows what to do to fix this pleeeeasse tell me!!! any imformation would be greatly appreciated thanks so much!

oh no no no
myspace hasent been working lately its had too many power outranges or something like that and its not available to most people like mine cant logg in eigther because it onli goes in 4 like 15 minutes and yeah dont worry tom said he would fix the profiles that got messed ^

Q: ok there is this girl named brittany i really like her and she dont know i tell her brother to tell her that i do but she dont believer me i want to know what to do? do i make our friends ship better then ask her or jus ask her? idk what to do so can yall please help me out?

ok mijo first of all you go up 2 her and tell her dat you like her right but first flirt a little with her...dont try to b really good friends first because she might get caught up in da "oh i think we make better friends dan a couple" you know so yeah just go up 2 her and ask her out

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