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i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do?

wait until your ready

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do girls like a guy to be to sensitive or not sensitive at all

sensitive, but not too sensitive

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im going to b a freshman in high school and i was wonderin if anyone could tell me what homecoming is like. do u have to get all fancy or wut? i have never heard about it b4 so im kinda nervous. also r there like sadie hawkins dances?(where the girl asks the boy) im just wonderin. thanx!

homecoming is fun! At our school it is a formal dance, so yes, you get all fancy :). Most schools do have sadies ;)

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i was jw...is it wrong to maturbate???is there a lotta people that do it???please answer...thank you

It's not wrong, but I dont do it :P

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i had sex but im not preagnant i feel horrible

Im sorry

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me n my friend sam have this big arguement goin on for months now wen you put a tampon in do you insert it upwards or downwards? plz help me!

Upwards

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hey sweety if it like that.ok i wiil leave u alone.but u should know something that i was real.bye bye sweety.i am crying.i am serious.muuuaaaahh!!!!

stop stop stop! you freak! UHm what was i supposed to do? think you were fake!? I think not. YOUR REALLY FREAKING ME OUT. So go right on ahead and cry

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HELP! I'm going to a party 2nite, and I need 2 get rid of two nasty looking pimples! I already popped them, but blood just came out. HELP!!! I'll rate, just please help! Don't delete this question, please! (:

I dont think there is an instant way to get rid of them, I would just use LOTS of concealer

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when are the earliest signs of pregnancy and what are they??? how can you avoid a birth IF NESSECARY??

Youll miss your period. Crave weird foods, tighter stomach, Morning sickness, just stuff like that. The only way to avoid birth is abortion.

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Is it nice having a boyfriend or are boyfriends annoying? I'll rate really good, thanks so much!

Sometimes it's good, but other times it is soo annoying because you just want your space.

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is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok??

Its perfectly fine

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I'm a great advice columnist but i guess every advice person needs some advice as well.

Ok so about a month ago my sister and my brother in law came to visit us and i was sleeping (it was night time) and I remember waking up for my brother inlaw touching my leg. I didnt think much of it but after that I kept on thinking about it. Well i was at their house and last night he said he was sorry, and i didnt know what he was talking about and i was like for what and hes like I touched you in a place that you shouldnt have been touched by me (higher than my legs) I dont know what to do! because I mean I dont think he was doing it for more than a sec cuz i think i woke up right away but I dont want to tell my mom and dad because my dad would kill him and they would say something to my sister and then my sister and him would probably get a devorice and my sisters really happy. I mean that was the first time but I still cry about it like i feel so violated and i dont know what to do. I cant sleep cuz i think about it. All I do is cry about it. Please help me please!

I promise i'll rate a 5 no matter what! Atleast your trying to help me.

Thats just not right. Even though you want your sister to be happy, you should still tell someone. He might do it again, and that would hurt your sister even more. You have to tell someone

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how long after sex is the morning after pil effective??? do you have to take it the very next day?

48 hours

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k me and my boyfriend had sex lat night...and we didnt use a condom but he pulled out right bofore he came. but i was kind of worried because he got a little "stuff" right below where he puts his....well you know...is it possible for something to happen? or does it actually have to be inside the girl?? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

Yes, you could be pregnant. Sperm can travel. There is also something called PRE- Ejaculation and that leaks out before he comes that could get you pregnant . You could see a doctor about the morning after pill to make shure that you do not get pregnant. If that is not possible, just hope for the best. But don't stress out about it, that will just make your period later. Believe me. The more you worry about it the more stressed you will be. If you miss your period, get a pregnancy test from a store like walmart or eckerds. Make shure to try two different brands because they can sometimes give inaccurate results. I would also go to the doctors and check if I was pregnant. Good luck and please keep me updated on your situation.

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Both of my great grandma's just died. I went out shopping with my best friend all day yesterday after going to a doctors appointment with her dad. I feel terrible about not helping my dad with the funeral stuff... Should I feel bad?

Im really sorry about your loss. Don't feel bad. People cope with the pain in different ways, and that's perfectly fine. I mean even though it hurts and your gonna miss them, you need to move on with your life, because that is what they would want you to do.

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what is the right age to have sex and what are some good things to do?

There is no set age. You just do it when you feel like you are ready. Wait as long as possible, because you will probably end up regretting it. For example, my friend Amanda said that she really regrets it, and wishes that she would have waited until she was in love. She really got off to a rocky start, and she realized that you should just wait for a while and have sex with the person that you are in some sort of relationship with.
Dont rush it, it will happen when the time is right. Virginity is a precious thing, I would be proud to keep it.

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How many people are fed up with the really silly questions.. ok ready everybody

1. if theres a guy you like YOU TALK TO HIM!!!! you dont need to ask about that ne more.. you cant get a guy to like you without being friends first...


AM I CLEAR?


thanks!

XOoxoO-- not trying to be rude but just trying to answer questions that are ALWAYS being posted...ALWAYS,ALWAYS,ALWAYYYYYS

True that

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Can you get prenaunt from fingering?

No way. well you could if he touched his uhh yeah and then touched you directly. But that is very uncommon.

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i rele didnt no what to call this
last school year i was rele flat if u no what i mean and now im not but im not fake how do i get people to realize that? because all the guys think i stuff what am i suppose to do take off my clothes and prove it?

Ignore them. I mean don't worry about what people think about you. You know that you are real. Thats all that matters. Dont worry if they beleive you or not.

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Hey theres this girl that im just dying to be with and she knows that I like her. Im 16 and shes 14 but her parents dont let her date guys my age cuz theyre more near her brothers ages. What should i do to get her parents to let her be with me?

Show them that you are responsible and that they can trust you with their daughter. Get to know them and tell them why you want to go out with their daughter. I was 16, and my mom wouldn't let me date an 18 year old, but he just did those things and they were pretty okay with it.

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