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hey guys! my name is suzy, and i'm currently a freshman. i love my friends, they are amazing and i can't live without them. i live to have fun, and i love meeting new people, i am a friendly person, but that doesn't mean i let people step all over me. yes i can be a pain if i am pissed off, but deal with it. i love to laugh, and i love people that can make me laugh. i am here to help as best as i can. so just ask away! =]

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Hey. Well, I'm 14f. Before school starts, I'm going to get a new hair cut/color. Right now my hair is lightish darkish brown (not my natural color) and I'm going to get it like, really dark brown again, like it was a while ago. But I really need a new cut. I did get it cut about..umm... 1-2 months ago, and they were the like, straight across bangs, but they were getting in my eyes, and I just wasn't into them very much, so i changed my hair to a side part. So now I have short side bangs. My hair is not long, but not short. It goes past my sholders. But I just don't like it. I have a round face, and brown eyes. So what I want to know is what hair styles are in style right now, and what would look good on me?? Should I get it cut down to my shoulders, or should I leave it long? I just don't know what to do. I have some layers. I need help!!!!!!! And if it is possible, I would like pictures. Thank you!!!!

arite well try looking at pictures in magazines, you might see a hairstyle you really like. what i did to my hair was i got it cut, so now it is a couple inches past my shoulder, i had REALLLY REALLLYY long hair and i wanted a change. i got it angled with layers and side bangs. this look is reallyy cute, maybe you should try it.

hope i helpeedd =]

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what happens if you break the rules about oujia board.
- dont ask about god.
- dont ask when your going to die.
- dont ask where gold is burried.
- dont ask if it's good or bad.

i asked 3 of those 4.. whats gonna happen?

haha i remember the first time me and my friends played that. we were so scared something bad was going to happen to us. but don't worry nothing happens =]

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i want to do something really memorable with my girl friends this summer. i have a lot of guy friends too and despite that they're my friends the guys just normally cause stress so i want something to do with my girls. there's about 5 of us and i want like a girls night out sort of thing, or something to do during the day, doesn't matter. i want it to be something that we dont normally do. we're 15 some 16 and we normally go to the movies or the mall or to somebody's house. so any ideas? thanks a bunch

there is a lot of things you can do! throw a party at someone's house. go swimming. go to the beach; it's a lot of fun, plus a good way to meet guys. go mini-golfing! it may be silly but i love it and again there should be guys there. have a huge bbq party, invite all your friends. go out to dinner or lunch. get really dressed up and go out somewhere fancy for dinner, that will be fun. have a sleepover, but sleep somewhere crazy. take a "tour" of your town. go to an amusment park or water park.

that's all i can think of right now.
haha hope i helped! have fun =]

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ok so i woke up this morning with four small dots on my arm and they were red and kind of itchy... and now i hav one on each leg that r kind of bigger but not much. last night i had to sleep on the couch and i could here like flies or bugs or whatever. and noone i came in contact with had chicken pox. i think i got a shot for it and iv never had it. but they kind of look like mosquito bites. I DONT KNOW.
can someone help me out PLEASEE??!

relax, you probably just have a couple bug bites. but if you are still unsure ask an adult.

hope i helpedd =]

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ok,i really need to build up my confidence,personality,and stuff like that. i feel like i want to change,for me,to feel better about myself. i want to be able to yell and scream and have fun,not care. what i need help is, how can i do all this***? how can i break down my wall i've had up for so long?

i was EXACTLY like you. i was always shy, not really outgoing. i'd just sit back and basically watch all my friends talk to guys, get the guys. and i felt like crap about it. one day i finally opened up to two of my best friends about it. i don't know why but it was emotional for me. but they understood. now i am differnt. i am a lot more outgoing, just think to yourself, i am such an incredible person. anyone that doesn't want to get to know me...oh well that's their loss. its hard because i was always thinking, what if people don't like me? or how do i just act "carefree". well you only live once, so make it amazing. you can even pretend to have confidence and then you'll get used to it. just do something you wouldn't normally do. take a chance go out of your comfort zone a little bit. it is very hard, but it is wayy wayyy worth it, truust me.


hope i helpedd

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ok so my boyfriend and i have been together for a year on thursday (next week) and this is what we're going to do, but i wanted to know if it seems weird or anything...

we were gonna go out to dinner at our fave restaurant (don pablos) and go see a movie and get each gifts and stuff... but instead, we both just got back from a cruise, so time is dwindling down to go shopping, so we decided to do this: there's this place like 20 minutes from my house called 'the promenade shops at saucon valley' they have lots of stores, a red robins and some other smaller places to eat, and a movie theater. it's like an outdoor mall and is really cool. we were gonna go there and go to red robins, and catch a movie. but before eating and the movie, we were gonna go shopping for each other but together... like pick stuff out for each other, but together. for a few reasons, one cause we'll both be there so we'll be sure we like it, two cause it's alot easier, and its just more convienant. now is that weird or strange? i think it's okay but i just want some opinions =) THANKS ♥

by the way we're both 16 and he has his liscense but no car... but he can probably get one to use for the date lol

no actually that sounds like such an amazing time =]. it's deffinitley not weird at all.

congrats oon your one year anniverseryyy!! =] have a good time

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I'm having a party in a few days, and I need music to play. I'm not really into popular music though. I like indie bands and everything- not good party music. If anyone could tell me some songs that I could play, that would be great!

okay well im not sure if this is the music you are into, because as you said you like indie bands. but here's what i would play at a party.

Ain't No Other Man - Christina aguilera
bad boy- cascada
beautiful girls - sean kingston
beautiful liar - beyonce ft shakira
buy you a drink - t-pain
crowded- jeannie ortega
cyclone- baby bash
dance hall drug - boys like girls
do it to it- cherish
everytime we touch - cascada
fergalicious- fergie
get it shawty - young lloyd
girlfriend (either the regular version or the remixed ft lil mama) - avril lavigne
give it up to me - sean paul
hips don't lie- shakira
like this -mims
lip gloss- lil mama
london bridge - fergie
long way to go - cassie
love me or hate me - lady sovereign
maneater- nelly furtado
miracle- cascada
move your body girl -nina sky
my love - justin timberlake
one two step - ciara
party like a rockstar - shop boyz
promiscuous- nelly furtado
pump it - black eyed peas
run it - chris brown
sexy back - justin timberlake
sexy lady - young berg
show me the money - petey pablo
showstopper- danity kane
smack that- akon
sorry - madonna
summer love - justin timberlake
thanks for the memories- fall out boy
the way i are- timberland
this is why i rock - mims ft purple popcorn
this is why i'm hot ( i like this is why i rock a lot better thoughh haha) - mims
umbrella (remix with chris brown) - rhianna
whine up- Kat DeLuna ft Elephant Man




hahah well i hope that helps a bit

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My bestfriends baby shower is this afternoon. I've known about this event for about 2 1/2 months now. the problem is i dont have any money to get the baby anything im young and i've been trying to find a job but i hven't gotten 1one yet. i feel really bad about it. she will be very dissapointed in me if i didn't show up. i dont know what to do.

well, i think you should get creative. a scrapbook of the two of you, you can try baking her one of her favorite desserts - cookies?, then you can make a coupon that says VALID FOR A DAY OF BABYSITTING or something like that because im sure once the baby comes, she will be very happy to have a babysitter. or you can make a scrapbook for the baby, so when the baby comes she can put all picturs in it, like babys first word, or babys first tooth. hahah something like that. or go to google and type in babyshower gifts or homemade baby shower gifts, something like that.

i hope i helped a bittt

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i just got my belly button pierced!
it is summer time and i got the cutest bathing suit.
i want to go swimming but my mom doesn't know about the piercing.
what do i do?

i would like to wear the bathing suit but my mom will see it. if i wear a tank top in the pool, the belly ring will show when i get wet.
what do i do?

hmmm, well if you JUST got your belly button pierced you shouldn't go swimming right away because of the chlorine.

well i think you should tell your mom. she has to find out sooner or later, even though she might be mad i think she will be less mad that you told her right away instead of a while after.and it' better that you tell her instead of her finding out on her own.

if not then maybe you can wear a big t-shirt when you go in. just make sure the t-shirt isn't white, because then you would be able to see it. maybe like the color blue? basically any color besides a light color.

hope i helpedd =)

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Okay, so my computer is like, majorly messed up.
I've tried restarting it a few times, but it's not working.. so here's my problem..


My dad messed the computer up somehow (he's not very good with them..) So, now you go to the desktop or w/e, and all that's showing is the picture. no toolbar, no icons. nothing. the only way i'm on this, is because my AIM box came up for sign on, like it always does, along with the regular block up popping block up poppers.


So what I was wondering was, either A)how do i get my 'stuff' back? I've tried going through programs (ctrl, alt and delete) and i've tried just hitting that thing for the start up options to come up (key between ctrl and alt).

Either that, or how can I get to system restore, if I don't have my icons, because I was just planning on going back a week or something.

I've tried calling the people I always call who help with the computer, they're professionals, but they were really no help like, at all.


Please help if you actually know something about computers?


Thanks.

well something happened to my computer and it got messed up, what i did was i restarted my computer and when it started up i pressed F10. that basically like reboots your whole computer, it may take like 10 min. but when you do this you can loose files, like i lost all my songs on iTUNES, but they were still on limewire so that was good. when you do this its basically like you just got your computer and its new and everything.


well hope i helped, if not then here try this:
1-800-GEEK-SQUAD

i think thats the number...if not go to google and type in geek squad, they are a computer fixing service lol. =)

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Quick Question.
I'm not use to the whole "relationship" thing. I'm a better friend than a girlfriend.
So my question is, how can i be a better girlfriend? What can i do, and how do i act? Thankss

yeahp i agree with raychullx, to be a good girlfriend you have to be a good friend. just be there for him, when he needs you. you deffinitley have to trust him. show him you love him. BUTT don't be to clingy and needy, give him some space sometimes, he might want to hang out with the guys. just be yourself, because that's the person he likes. don't flirt with other guys and act like a slut. surprise him sometimes, with little stuff. just be yourself and im sure everything will be fine =].


hope i helpedd, if u need aanything else message mee

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what's your favorite love song? :]
imma put together a mix..

well one of my favories is
we belong together - mariah carey

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my best friend and i have been doing gymnastics together for a long time. the gym we've gone to is really good (the best in the state), but its really far away and really expensive.

well, this year i decided to try out for cheerleading at my school, and i made it. i thought i'd be able to stay on my gymnastics team, but it just wouldnt work out with the cheer schedule. so i changed to another gym thats a lot closer to my house. its a lot smaller than my old gym and the team is not as good. and it was really hard to leave my old teammates! but at least i can still do gymnastics, which i love, and also cheerleading.

well, now my best friend keeps making remarks about my new gym... like how small it is, how bad the coaches are, how ugly the leotards are, and how she'd never go there. and she keeps bragging about how good she's getting, and how great things are going at our old gym. and then she has these parties and sleepovers with all our teammates from the old gym (who i know as well as she does), and she doesnt invite me. but she makes sure i hear about it. it really makes me feel bad.

i dont want to get in a big fight with her becuz i still have to see her at school and stuff, and we do some other activities together. but it really hurts when she does this stuff. why is she being so mean??

aw. im sorry about you and your friend =/.

well honestly i think she is just upset that you left your old gym. she probably misses you a lot and all the fun you guys use to have there. and since you're a cheerleader and you have a busy schedule she probably feels neglected. i think you should talk to her about it and tell her how you really feel, it hurts you when she says this stuff. tell her that you just couldn't keep going to the old gym because of you crazy schedule...but that you still want to hang out with her besides gymnastics. maybe you guys could have a girls night and just hang out together like once a week, or something. just let her know how you feel.

hope i helped! =)

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There's this song that goes like this:
"Lalalala... lalalalala lalalala lalalalalala can't get you outta my head, boy it's more than I think you think about. There's a night... a secret in me... " or something like that then it goes back to LALALALA'ing. Anyone know it? Thanks.

hahah yeah, im pretty sure the song you're talking bout is Can't Get You Out Of My Head- Kylie Minogue.

hope i helpedd

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ive always been wondering but can you download movies off of limewire to put on your ipod video? (for free) with the regular limewire, not the paid account one.

yeahh you can deffinitley download movies off of limewire. =)

well for me it takes a long time to download movies, but for you it might not because your computer may be faster or something hahah.

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I have a really bad unibrow. Like REALLY bad. My mom won't let me do anything with it: I am not allowed to pluck it, wax it, or remove it in any way. I try to pluck it, but its really hard because there's so many hairs, and also my mom hates it when I do. But recently she kind of gave up, because I still pluck it anyways.

I want to convince my mom to let me go to a salon and get it professionallly waxed. She will most definetly not be happy upon hearing this, but I just want to remove the unibrow, and get some touchups on my eyebrows. She thinks they will do it really thin, "just like those cashier ladies with drawn on eyebrows". It just makes me really mad. I was over at my friends house once, and she gets her eyebrows waxed, and they were starting to grow back a little, and her mom was like "OMG your eyebrows look horrible we need to get them fixed ASAP". I wish my mom was like that. I actually got my unibrow from her, and she doesn't do anything about hers... and well it looks really bad.

She says waxed eyebrows aren't natural, but unibrows arent either!!

How do I get her to let me? Any good arguments?

okay well maybe you should do some research on waxing your eyebrows, show your mom this and maybe then she will see that waxing isn't that bad. i suggest you set up a pros & cons list about waxing your eyebrows, if she still says no to waxing, there are other things you can do to get rid of your unibrow, she might say no to this too, but how about threading? look it up on google, and just show your mom all of the options.

or you can just talk to her and tell her how you feel, you really want to get it waxed because you don't like your unibrow, maybe you two will come to an agreement.

hope i helped a bit!

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okay so i have stretch marks because i've had my growth sperk suring the summer of 2006. but they are still very visible, what can i do to make them nearly invisible? i'm already losing weight, but they're so noticable and my friends always ask what they are and i'm embarrassed to say "stretch marks." so anything to make them nearly invisible?

heyy, well there is this lotion that you can try, it's called Cocoa Butter Formula Massage Cream For Stretch Marks, you can find it at anywhere, drugstores; target; etc. i'm not exactly sure if it will make them nearly invisible but you can try it.

hope i helped

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