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i am moving all the way across the counrty....and i dont know how i should tell my best friend! :'( plez help me

I will be facing the same problem, soon. I've been considering this as well. I think I will pull her aside during school and tell her I have to tell her something important. Then I'm just going to tell her. Just say that I found out I am moving at the end of the year. She will be surprised and probably really upset and I'll hug her and say that I can't believe it and I will miss her so much. I hope this helped you a little.♥

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Im going to Las Vegas in April..has anyone been there and seen some good magic shows or something entertaining for 13/14 yr olds?

Go to a Blue Man Group concert if you can! They are Tons of Fun! I also went to a magic show there once of a guy named Lance. It was pretty good! There are also Great pools at some resorts such as Mandalay Bay... you almost don't even have to leave the hotel. There's tons to do. Rate! ♥

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i have a friend.. she's 5'9 and 127 pounds.. she's athletic and all, she lifts weights and plays vball all year around. recently her and her bf broke up and shes been really depressed. shes been losing sleep and she can barely eat.. she only eats like one thing a day. would she be considered anerexic ? and are there any other symptoms for it besides lack of eating ? anything is appreciated ! thank you

5'9" and 127 pounds is a little on the light side, but not unheard of. If she eats only one thing a day, it could be due to her bf but if it keeps up then she might be considered anorexic. Anorexia is a mental disease as well, with a distorted body image. Talk to her and ask her why she doesn't eat. Help her get through her breakup and if she thinks she is fat reassure her she's not. If this doesn't work tell a trusted adult. ♥

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well theres this guy and me were not going out, but we always talk and we always make plans to do stuff and go places and he always talks to me and even flirts alot and he does alot of thing he does with me that he doesnt do with other people so i know he likes me and he knows i like him but today i found out that he has a girlfriend and im just really crushed like just miserable cause i liek this guy alot hes like greatest guy ive met, but what should i do, just stay strong or spill out my feelings to him? any suggestions? ill rate high
and sorry so long!

Aww. I'm sorry. Ask the guy if he really does have a girlfriend. If he says yes then tell him that you thought you two had a little thing for one another. If he says no, then maybe you were mistaken. If he says yes, then the two of you can talk it out. You should tell him that you really like him and maybe he will break up w/ her if he doesn't really like her. If not then at least you know the truth, and you can try to move on. I'm sure he didn't try to intentionally hurt you. Keep your head up! There's plenty of fish in the sea. ♥

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Does anyone know a fast way to get rid of dandruff? I only have untill 1/7/04 and only going to Walmart before then! Help please!

Hair Scare

Head and Shoulders is the best and fastest way. ♥

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Her, I'm having a a slumber party (10 girls) What should we do? ( we aren't allowed to invite guys over, cuz we're only 13)

That sounds like fun! Make popcorn and watch movies, paint nails, play truth or dare or other games, prank call people, call boys ;), order pizza or some other dinner, make your own ice cream sundaes, and when u guys get ready for bed put ur sleeping bags in a big circle so you can all talk! ♥

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my nameis antionette and my boyfriend called me a bitch.I want to break up with him because i'm such a bitch to him.I love him so much but he called me a bitch and he thinks its so funny.What should I should I break up with or try to make the relationship last.I need your help!

antoinette


Unless you did something really bad, then it was extremely rude and Wrong of him to call you that. First, tell him how you feel. tell him You don't think that it's funny and its disrespectful. The right thing for him to do would be to stop after you talk to him. If he doesn't, then I suggest you break up with him because he is not being respectful to you at all. ♥

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Hi my name is shannon bell and am 13 years old i had surgery on my back at12 and my family andn friinds say that i could never be a model with i scar in my back.I think that i can becuase i am fabulous.but when i seen americas next top model i new i would be good for runway but i did mot know if any modeling agency would won't me with a big scar on back.What should I do go on with dream or just forget.I need your help please.

of course you should still be a model. it wouldn't be fair to say no... however some agencies might but i doubt a lot would. if you have the right look then go for it! its good that your confident but u might want to tone it down a notch below "fabulous" ;) confidant + somewhat humble/sweet = great

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ok heres the deal its close to valentines day and i dont no wat to get my girlfriend(we started going out on friday the 13th the day before valentines day)so since its also our 1 year anniversery i dont have a clue wat to get her

some ideas- make her a scrapbook, buy her chocolates, flowers, a gift certificate, take her to dinner and/or a movie, cook for her, bake her something, give her a picture of you two in a nice frame! think of something personal that she will remember

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I Have this friend who is always putting themselves down and somethimes i dont know what to say becuase they arent the most attractive person and i dont want to seem fake about it. Whenever they tell me that there ugly or whatnot...im always like dont put yourself down like that your not ugly. Every time i talk to this person they always tell me how ugly they are! PLEASE HELP ME IN WHAT TO SAY TO THEM!!

just say... look, (friends name here), i think you are great and thats why i am your friend! so i think you should stop putting yourself down because everyone thinks ur great, especially me. and she'll say thanks. and if she does it again jsut be like... hey, remember what i said? and she'll prob stop

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Right now, my hair is REALLY blonde (i just dyed it, but it was still really blonde before i dyed it), and i want my hair the color of Paris Hiltons. Does anybody know if she bleaches her hair? or how does she get it that light?
xo

its dyed. everyone in hollywoods is dyed. and she has extensions as well.

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Okay,everyone at school always calls me a slut and a hoe and a whore and i never even did anything! They won't stop and it's really getting on my nerves. I don't think I am, but when you hear it all day from all of your friends you start to believe it and that's kind of what's happening! But i don't know what to do! Please help! i rate

hey. i'm so sorry that that is happening. that has happened to me before as well but not by a lot of people, just some. i think you should just hang in there, it is most likely because they are jealous.

people could see the word "slut" in many differnet ways...
slut- someone who hooks up with a lot of different guys; goes really far; wears provokative/revealing clothing; talks about dirty things; or even just flirts with a lot of boys

although some of those things shouldn't be considered a slut for example the flirting thing, some ppl do consider these "slutty" things. the best thing for you to do is ignore it, be proud of who you are and don't let it affect you. try to go on with your life and talk to people one on one to develop friendships. eventually you should be able to enjoy these relationships and people will let you in.

another option is talking to an adult or teacher about the problem and they can go to a further step to help you fix it.

Another thing- People who call you that are NOt your friends. Tell your "friends" that it pisses you off

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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians?

well u could be just curious because most ppl are at this age...but if you actually care about her as a girlfriend then id say yah you might be.

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ok, i have this boyfriend which i love very much and hes moving to california in 30 days and im thinking about breaking up with him because i think it would be better to not see him b4 he goes so i wont be as devistated s i would be watching him leave in front of me so should i break up with him or not?

no. if you love him, savor every last moment with him. create more memories. the same thing is happening w/ me and my bf only i am the one who is moving. if you really do love him like you say... then stay with him until he leaves. and treasure all the last times you can have.

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username for what?

like what is ur name on advicenators? because i wanted to ask you about texas since u live there

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all my friends are either doing something with their family or are out of town! and i have nothing to do or anyone to do something with! =( i'm from minnesota and moved to texas about 3 years ago and each year for new years we have gone to celebrate new years with our family and friends in Minnesota. so this is my first new years in texas and i dont want to spend it alone. does anyone have any ideas of what i can do?

hey whats ur username?

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