about

5'10
130 lbs
16.5 yrs old
had my share of drugs/alcohol. and learned.
16+ piercings
1 tattoo
no regrets




"you know what i still dont get, why are you trying so hard to fit in when u were born to stand out"-What A Girl Wants


!!STAY SiC!!

advice

ok i am 13/f and i have dark circles under my eyes they aren't really really bad but i was wondering is there any way to get rid of them without using make up

I know there is this stuff, but its for "serious dark circles"
http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml;jsessionid=42GV5JPUUFQGJLAUCLABXCQ?id=P113602&cm_mmc=us_search-_-GG-_-br-_-brem%20seriousdarkcircles&_requestid=367636

Other than that, i know using foundation works. BUT! Remember to use a foundation shade which is LiGHTER!!! Than your normal shade, becuase that brightens the area up, rather than darkening it with darker foundations!! Sounds good, right?! It works really good. and theres makeup products you can buy for under eye circles that help C0VER them, not get rid of them sorry =\

But good luck&& i hope i help!!

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ok i have pretty big feet;
they are not out of the ordinary but they are kinda big.
size 11 in womens.
i am 13 years old. and in 8th grade.
everyone and i mean everyone
makes fun of my feet;
i also have bunions;
and everyone makes fun.
even people that are not even in my friendship 'circle' is like wtf?!?!
i always wear UGGS to hide them and stuff
what should i do
i mean the joking is ok, too my face.
but ppl are doing behind my back
and it hurts.
help.
:(

dude
to me thats not a big freakin deal,
it just goes to show you that people effing suck, seriously. And i hate the truth that people are always going to be the same, and they all make me sick;
but theres going to be some people in your life that won't do stupid crap to you like this and i've found some..and i am thankful for them everyday, so it might be hard for now, but eventually things will get better. The waiting part really sucks, but really it's all worth it. If i were in this situation, which im not (and i have about like the same size feet as you) and they said something to me like "You have big feet" or just something stupid like that, i'd probably say "...and you have nothing better to do then just stand around all day and look at the size of people's feet. It must be fun, keep it up." UGH people piss me off! I dont know what bunions are but you can probably get them treated? im not sure.

But anyways,
having big feet is good.
All the better to kick peoples asses' with.

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The other night in bed with my bf, I fell asleep and had a dream in which I kissed one of my flatmates, and enjoyed it a lot - this guy is like a brother to me, and although he is attractive and 'my type' (I guess that's why we are friends), I have never considered him as anything more than a friend, and have never (and still don't) wished we could be anything more. As I said, he is like a brother. When I woke up I felt SO guilty.
What could this dream mean, and should I feel bad about it?

Oh jeez do NOT feel guilty about your dreams please haha..i've had so many weird and questionable dreams that I don't even ask myself why i had them !lol its not like we'd actually do the things we dream about in real life, right?

well lets hope not,
cuz i'd probably be killed or soemthing
!!!hope i help and good luck with your dreams..

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i'm 15, and i really want my nose pierced. my dad would not let me get it pierced, no matter how much i beg, no matter what. on the other hand, my mom said she would let me get it pierced, in a heart beat. obviously i'm not going to have my mom take me to get my nose-pierced, as my parents are still together, and i'm not going to have them get into a huge argument over some stupid little thing. so, since i'm kind of an idiot (haha), i've been thinking about piercing my own nose. i know my dad would make me take it out, if he saw it. so maybe piercing it, and then putting a flathead pin in, and putting a little concealer on over it would hide it? probably not. but what my main question is, is would piercing my own nose be really dangerous? i know that i could get an infection. but would it travel up to my brain and kill me? well, not so extreme, but could i really be putting myself in a life or death situation? if you haven't noticed from my other questions, i'm paranoid of everything. sorry.

thanks for any help that you could give me, though.

self-piercing IS dangerous, but like you said, it's not going to "travel up your brain and kill" you..but in some rare cases, bad piercing jobs end up fatal. But most likely, i can garuntee you, that it WILL get infected and you're gonna end up with one ugly bump on your nose that everyone will notice. seriously. so lets say you pierce it yourself..yay now you have an infection where everyone can see the ball of infectious fluid between your nostril. But now you want to put a flathead pin in it! Yay for transferring even more bacteria into your new infection! And then!... clogging up the bacteria-infested infection with concealer and make-up?! Yeah. good luck with that.

Okay umm well what i'm trying to say is that this is not a good idea haha. Anyways you definetly have to use certain needles and jewelry for piercings so it doesnt get infected. And your dad might get mad at your for shoving a metal spike through your face? I dont know, just a guess. I know it seems like you want it done soo bad but when you do get it done, its not gonna be that great. I was happy when i got my nose pierced..but i dont know about it now. I see more and more girls walking around with crooked piercing jobs on their noses and nose rings the size of a rock. But, i still love my piercings. =].

So the decision is up to you!
Good luck and I hope i help!

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okay so im going to a nickelback concert on tues. and i need to know how 2 wear my hair and what to wear. im about 4 10 muscular, skinny. i have brown curly hair but i straighten it EVERY day..its a little longer than shoulder length and its layered...PLZ HELP!!!

youre probably going to get sweaty so put your hair in a ponytail and dont bother straightening it cuz it might get curly from the sweat so just put it up when its wet and put gel on the ponytail and scrunch that part, but straighten your bangs. as for your clothes, just wear jeans and a hott shirt, or just a reg tshirt that maybe says nickelback? But make sure to wear a belt that stands out if your outfit is kinda boring..

Well good luck and i hope you have fun! I like nickelback.

=)

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i'm 16 and i'm in high school right now and I know this might seem like a cliche, but all of my close friends are getting into serious drugs and alcohol, and I made an oath to myself awhile back never to get into that shit. So what to I do, find new friends? Tell it's stupid and have them exile me? Even I myself at one point almost gave in.... I keep trying to tell them pot makes them stupid and they're alcholics. Any suggestions?

stay intelligent and don't start the stupid "cool" shit. keep the respect that you have for your body and your brain cells, and be the mature one in the high school crowd. It may be hard but you'll appreciate your decisions when all your friends get busted, and maybe even get that crap down on their profile. That affects what jobs you get, what schools you get accepted into, etc.

You're smart. stay that way
Hope i help at least
!

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Am i the only person who actually HATES panic! at the disco???

EVERYONE at my highschool is "scene" and they love panic!.. when ppl found out theyre like "omg she doesnt like panic!!" then they went off and cut their wrists and cried about stupid stuff.

So yea if anyone else hates panic please tell me.

panic and fall out boy and hawthorne heights can all bite me!!!!!!!!!!!

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what does it take to be a famous model at the age of 15 and how can i be in a hot music video?

A Lot......
=\

im super skinny and super tall and I find it hard to get a job to model so the best of luck to you my dear....

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So my girlfriend and I have been going out for about a month now (we are 16 years old). She is a very open person and shares a lot with me, but I am not so open of a person. So always complains that I am not contributing enough to the conversation when ever I talk to her. I am not sky or anything around her, I am very confortable around her. I need some advice, how is a person suppost to open up to another person? I want to, I just don't know how. :'(
PLease help.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash

Hmm i'd like to say it takes time for you to feel more comfortable around her. If you try and make yourself feel and do things you dont feel comfortable with..you're going to have a bad relationship. PLus youre a guy and guys have harder times opening up and stuff. Just try to feel more comfortable opening up but if you don't feel right you should wait because time will tell!!
Good luck&I hope the relationship goes good!

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So my gf and I have been going out for a month, we are 16 years old, what should I get her????
I love her a lot and am open to all ideas!
I hate high!
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash

chocolate, card, and make a lovey-dovey mushy love poem from your heart awww girls love that.

yuck.
good luck!

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I took a hallucenogen 5 days ago, and I think it's really messed me up. I researched it a lot before I did it, and it didn't seem to cause problems in anyone else or in medical studies.

But I feel so sick. My appetite is really inconsistent and food tastes digusting. I have constant headaches and I get disoriented really easily. I'm also having trouble recognizing familiar people. My emotions are weird too. I still get happy and sad, but really mildly.

I will never do it again. I'm too scared to go to a doctor about it. I'm afraid that I'll get sent to rehab, which is pointless because I only did it once and I'll never do it again.

So my question is, what do I do? Will I ever get back to normal, or did I _really_ screw up? Does anyone know how I might start feeling better?

Thanks in advance.

it depends on what you took, and you don't wanna tell anybody, even though telling someone like one of your parents would be a good idea, and leaving your condition untreated can mess u up real good. So the best thing i can say is to tell an older person, or one of your friends that knows alotta about this crap. mmk

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Ok. I just shaved 'down there', and the little stubs are hitting my legs and making them itch.. It's driving me crazy!!! Anyway to get rid of the stubs? Helppp!

welcome to one of the fine points of being a girl.

or just a weirdo..

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There's this song, it's kinda rock
but the point is
that I've fallen in love with it
and I only know the name
it's called "My black deliah"
[i think]
Some of the lyrics are kinda like...
remember? I loved you. You made me...I used to be lovestruck, now I'm just fucked up...and I lost it all It fell today It's all the same....and i've been abused I feel so used

help if you can.
xx

my black dahlia from hollywood undead.
theyre an awesome band.
check them out
www.myspace.com/hollywoodundead

EDIT:
after reading your feedback..

"I obviously did check them out concidering I knew the song title/lyrics."

It would be reasonably inferred that with your comment being said..it would kind of DEFEAT THE PURPOSE OF THE QUESTION WOULDNT IT?

you spelled the name of the song wrong and left out half of it anyways.

People these days.
Hope I help!


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OKay so what is the code to put links in your profile (like your friends)?
How do you put spaces between paragraphs?
How do you make words bold??
How do you get hearts???
Thanks so much.. i had them all but i somehow lost them!!!

1)
link text here
2) or
3)
4)♥

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Why is it that because I have a 24-inch waist and wear 00 pants, that I'm a stick with a drawn-on face? I know that this is a dumb question, but I was reading the responses to a question, one of the users used that phrase as if really thin people are just an empty shell and that hurt my feelings...

im super skinny too

fat fu*ks dont like being fat so they feel like making rude comments towards the people THAT THEY WANNA BE will make them more secure with their body, but really, its not going to help, so why don't we just suggest for them to go excersize a little, instead of sitting on their fat ***es all day and making up s*it about the poeple theyre jealous about.

I guess us skinny people, are just sticks with drawn on faces,
as well as they are piles of lard,
with meatball eyes, and noodle mouths.

and im really sorry if i offended you, i'm just kinda mad about the comments i get about my skinniness too. just let off some steam.
Hope i help!


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if youre on your period and your boyfriend wants to have sexual contact and you want out of your period what should you do or he wants to wonder in your pants?

Sorry but theres nothing you can do about stopping your period so your boyfriend can wander in your pants. Or even stoppping your period..(yeah it sucks to be a girl). Unless he wants a handful, or face full for that matter, of blood, i suggest you tell him before you do anything that might leave the situation a bit gruesome.

Just in my opinion.
Hope i help!

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16/f
What are some signs that your boyfriend (of 4 months) is no longer interested in you?

He tells you so,
or he doesnt want to hang out with you anymore.

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Alright, Im 13 and a girl, I weigh 100 lbs, and I am about 5'6. My question is, am I overweight, underweight or average?

Youre underweight.

"You are emaciated. Consult your doctor or dietitian!" According to www.am-i-fat.com.

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i just got a hamster from my friends around 10 days ago .. it has grown really bloated now .. i am afraid that it might have something to do with her eating the rubber stopper .. she has not been eliminating much.. could you please advice me.

You have to bring this little guy to the vet.
I can garauntee you it is in ALot of pain.
Please bring it to the vet it'; be the best thing you can do. The rubber stopper is probably the reason for this, all the clues add up.
Quit reading and make an appt. right now please i can emphasize how badly i need you to do this.
I hate to see this happen..

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Hi there!
Im having troubles with a specefic someone.
Iv known this guy since i was about 7 or 8, our familes r friends, and about 8 months ago we saw eachother and caught up on everything and swapped emails. Since then wev talked alot, wev seen eachother at various places such as dances, weddings, and most recently New years eve party.
Just after christmas he asked me to go see a movie with him, he was going with his sister and her boyfriend and he wanted me to go with him, so i went and it was great! Hes a very sweet guy, and hes said alot of sweet commesnts to me before, also he asked me to dance afew times at new years (which i did) and we just had a great time! Now summing all this up, youd think wed have a thing foreachother, but im in denial! hes 4 years older than me and lives in london, he comes to my area once in a while (becuase his family is here)hes going to be in london for aout 1 more year, but why would he be intrested in someone who is totaly different, who lives far away, and wis alot younger than him! Does he like me? or do you think he just sees me as a close friend?
PLEASSEE HELP ME! IM GOING CRAZY (hehe) thanks a bunch!

Hmm, we'll hes definitely interested in you. How much?? I can't say, becuase i dont know the guy. The only way to really find out is to ask him yourself. You dont have to flat out say "How do you like me?" Just bring it up, you said that you guys get along wth each other and that you've known each other for a long time. He wouldnt be asking you to go places and dances, etc. with him if he had no interest with you.

Im sorry i couldnt be of better help but the only way to really find out is to ask him, or have someone ask him for you =x

hehe

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