well see i like this guy, and he has a girlfriend... but we have all our classes together and none w/his girlfriend. so he's always flirting with me and saying "i love you" but were just really good friends and i think he likes me too, and my friends think so too... so i'm confused. he always wants hugs from me, and he'll say "you don't love me anymore..." and i'll say, "how do you know?" so this one time he said "well i know for a fact, that if i asked you out right now you'd say no" so i never thought he was saying i love you like that... so, does he like me? sorry so long and confusing
He either likes you or is a player/flirt.
If he likes you, wait until he and his gf are over and then make more moves on him, there is nothing more furious than a played girl's wrath.
If he is a player/flirt then you dont want him as a bf anyways. Stop flirting with him sooo much and tone it down a bit so that he moves on and it is easier for you to do so.
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Well i got my girlfriend a really nice gift for her birthday...well not gift....more like gifts....they were pretty expensive all together....but its her first birthday since weve been going out....and weve been going out for about 4 months now....do u think really expensive is a bad or good thing?
Aww I think its sweet. Good Job, you are quite a catch.
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I'm about to ask out a boy that i like...how do i do it!? ahh!!!
I know you might think it is, but it isnt a good idea. Don't ask a guy out. A man likes to feel like he is in control, I know it sounds stupid and messed up, but its guys right? Haha, but seriously, let him come to you.
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When do normal people have their periods?
"Normal" people have their periods about once a month, however, if it is your first year, it can vary by about a week in a half. Dont worry if it is a week after "normally", it should be fine. Also, stress and fatigue can cause you to miss a period.
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omg, someone's gotta help me get rid of this feeling. He's just messing with my head i know it..why do guys do this? I cant fall for him!! how do you make sure you DO NOT fall for a guy? i mean i dont trust him..i def. gotta get rid of these feelings. But still everytime he touches me or looks at me, or just comes online ´my heart jumps. i must read that one e-mail he sent me about 11 times a day..but whats the point? Oh lord i dont even know what im asking here..does anyone r3ecognize this feeling? does anyone know how to get rid of it? Its making me feel nervous, restless, scared, jumpy.. i dont think there's a word for it. Its like..i know FOR SURE he's messing with my mind, making me feel lust,nervousness..jittery. He does it to 10000 girls everyday. So i cant fall for him! omg i hate this feeling..i hate being scared without knowing why im actually scared..
I know exactly how you feel. There was this guy named Steven, gorgeous sweet silly flirt. I felt exactly the same. What you have to do is realize that you are not special to him. He doesnt care about you. You are just another number on his cell phone. If you were to be his gf he would cheat on you. If you mustered up the courage to call him he is probably on the line with another one of the "10000" girls just like you that he doesnt care about.
Sorry. Its the truth.
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do guys like it better when girls shave "down there?" i've tried before w/ a razor but it stung sooo bad and i got razor burn horribly! does anybody know any ways you can shave w/ out it leaving bumps everywhere or stinging? thanks in advance! i rate 5s for good answers!
Get a good razor. Shave carefully. Put lotion on it and dont wear undies after. Simple as that :)
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ok so last night i went to my boyfriends house and he fingered me and yeah...when i got home i noticed that there was blood down there, and i know it wasnt my period because that was last week...and the blood seemed to be coming from around the opening, not from in me...my question...what might've happened? like did he just stretch me out alot and something tore? or was it my hymen (he went in really far a few times, to a point where it kinda hurt a little and i had to tell him to be gentle) and also it kinda burns down there now when i go to the bathroom...any ideas on what happened?
thanks in advance. :)
Uh, to start out, that is really dangerous. You should never let someone do that to you. It may feel good (though obviously it didn't) but there are so many germs and diseases that can be transmitted that way. Also he probably either tore the hymen or cut you with his fingernail (though he didnt mean to I'm sure). It probably hurts because there is a cut down there and I don't know about you, but peein on a cut cant feel too good.
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lately i've be really sad because i feel like i'm not pretty and the boy i've liked for so long likes my friend and he hugs her and everything and i feel like no one likes me and i know i won't get a date to homecoming
i need some advice
signed depressed
ugh man i hate that feeling. My friend Michelle is the biggest flirt. It doesn't matter if you LOVE the guy she just throws herself on them and she is super model pretty so they love it. There have been a few guys in my time she has taken. First of all, you need to stop thinking that you are ugly. There is nothing more than low self-esteem that turns a guy off.
Also, you need to find out whether or not your friend likes him. If she does, I WOULD NOT advise stealing him from her. Face it,you arent gonna marry this guy, so her friendship is much more important. In that case, I know it will be hard, but you need to try to let him go, find a guy who appriciates you.
If she doesnt, tell her that you like him! If she is a friend at all she will stop letting him hug her and step aside so the GORGEOUS YOU can set it up so he WANTS to sweep you off your feet. Try reading "Jane Austen's Guide to Dating" or "The Rules" for dating advise.
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14/f ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a few weeks now. But i am starting not to like him as much as i did before we started going out. OK i still like him but i think we should see different people. i wanna go out with someone else. Im not sure exactly how to tell him that i just wanna see different people. I mean were really close and all. But after i dump him i still want us to be friends and still have that open communication u kno. Like i wanna still be there for him and stuff.. (hes in a foster home) and he says that im the only one he can say i love you to because he doesn't have a family really. So i would feel bad dumping him. I just dont kno how to dump him without breaking his heart and i still wanna have the open communication thing. Please someone help me out i rate 5s for good answers!
Ohh thats a tough one, I've had that before. It really hurts guys more when you lead them on. Your problem is that you are such a nice person. I am too and that is why it is so hard for us to break up with guys we care about and who care about us. Your relationship with him is a bit more motherly (looking over him and wanting to make him happy) than romantically. Tell him what you are telling us "I think we should see other people, but I still really care about you and want to be friends."
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i have an amazing boyfriend who i am totally in love with.
my friend, however, likes me..he won't leave me alone and is always sad because i have a boyfriend..he's getting pretty annoying and i don't want him to be all depressed.. what should i do?
If its buggin you, you need to let that guy friend go! What he is doing is waiting for you to break up with this bf that you love. You need to tell him that you love your bf and that Friend/Stalker needs to find someone that will love him instead of waiting for you to break up with your guy. That will let him go, sure he'll be a little sad, but then again, who wants a Friend/Stalker? Ach not me!
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Any cute ideas for a Halloween costume? Thanks.
13/f
Me and a bunch of my friends are 14 and 15 AND in high school and this year we are dressing up as Disney Princesses. Haha, try a group thing with your friends, then when you are brain storming i deas with each other you have more than one person saying ideas.
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my boobs are just so big.. they just dont fit in my a cup anymore.. my bras too big.. what do i do..
Hunny, I am telling you right now, you are lucky to have big boobs. Thank your lucky stars. Ok, buy a new bra! Go to Dillards or Foleys; they have in-between sizes and cute bras to go with them. By the way, congrats, growing out of a cup is a big thing!
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