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hey,,
alright. theres this guy.. and he was so sweet.. or atleast seemed to be and we talked and almost dated but he told me that the distance wouldnt work and then he just stopped talking and that hurts so much because i really thought i could trust him. then a while after i asked him if he still had the same feelings and he said yes but, still doesnt talk to me often..
just wondering if you knew what was going on because it hurts and im confused.
well.. thanks for your time. (link)
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hmm... if I were you id start talking to him again even though it might be awkward. Distance does take a toll especially when your living your life and hes living his such as different hours or visiting eachother rarely. Did he get hurt in anyway in his life that made him stop talking to you?
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so yeah. I have this Friend. Actually shes like one of my best. And she really likes this kid. Its the first time in a long time that shes felt right with a guy but as much as she likes him and hes in love with her from what i know; Alot of people admire him. I trust this boy because of how much he loves her and all but i've gotten hurt and so has she and i just dont want her to get crushed again.
He hasn't cheated on her from what i know and hes inlove with her but like how do i kinda watch over and protect my best friend without one: getting in the middle and two:hurting anyone or like being the "stalker best friend". (link)
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Well, You Should Just Stay Out Of It But Let Your Best Friend Know If She Needs Anything You Are There For Her. To Be Honest, If You Do Get In It, The Problems Between Them Could Get Worse.
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I'm afraid to tell him because we're gonna be seeing each other a lot, and if he freaks out about it, then what? I'm too afraid to take this chance.
I wouldn't be able to handle him ignoring me. (link)
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Take A Risk What Could It Hurt? Tell Him How You Feel And That He Can Take It Or Leave It But Also Tell Him You Dont Want Him To Think Differently About You.
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Hey Dennis...How come guys can just completely ignore you when you'd give anything to be with them?
And even though you're alone, the girl no one thought would ever get a boyfriend is in love?
I just don't understand. (link)
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Well some guys can be jerks and don't understand hearts and others can be sweet and know everything about hearts. As for you, look out for a sweet and sensetive guy. Someone who will treat you right and wont break you into pieces. Sometime love doesnt come easy, so keep an eye out and an open mind and you might find the right guy. The guy you like, have you told him you like him?
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i really, don't do this often, like, talk to like random people online , asking for help, but like, i dont know your whole history and stuff, so like, don't be offended if i dont take your advice.
i just really need someone to talk to right now. i can hardly see the keyboard because my eyes are so filled with tears. im freaking out. and im really afraid,but i dont want to tell anyone, cus im also embarassed. but i thought that since i dont know you, it migth be okay. well, like, you see, i crashed my first party last night, little did i know itd be gay as fuck and totally turn out like shit. i was gunna hook up with this like totally cute guy, and we were naked and shit, and he was nibbling on my niples, and we were both totally horny, and he took out these really kinky handcuffs. and , im sorry, im so embarassed, but he, he .... he handcuffed me to the bed, and bit my nipples untilll they bled. i wasreally scared i was gunna bleed to death, untill he shot me up with heroin. i thnk. i dont really remember what i t was. but all i can remeber after that is waking up with a little blood spilling out of where theneedle wasput in my arm, and my crusty blood stuck to my naked breasts, and stranded alone in a gross bed in a strangers house handcuffed. i was able to break the bedposts because i havebeen working out lately, luckily. im jsut so grateful im alive. but the thing is, we were both trshed when we got in the bed, and im afraid the he didin't use protection, and i think i might have aids. i know thats a quick assumption, but i feel that it is very accurate. i dont even know, can boys get aids? like ,i really don't know what to do. i mean,im only a 15 year old boy, and like, i totally feel used. i think they guy who was with me, was like 23 or something. i kindalikedit, or something, if thats qrong, but, isn';t that lieksagiutary rape orsomething? im really. please dont callthe policeor anything.i just want kid to kid advice, i really need you den.
love always,
benXcore (link)
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Note: Im Not Too Experienced With This Kind Of Stuff But If I Was In Your Situation This Would Be The Advice. First, Anyone could get aids. Rape is going against your will, the question is, were you willing to do stuff with him? I wont say anything, but you deff need to talk to somebody about it like with more experience.
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hey. okay. theres this guy that ive dated on and off for a couple months. we saw eacother again at a party and things felt like they did when we were dating. but theres another guy that i started talking to then we stopped talking for a couple weeks now we're talking again and we almost dated but the distance wouldnt work. now that we're talking again im afraid i might like him again and i dont want to hurt the boy ive been dating on and off for a few months. ugh its really messed up and i care about both of them.. help please? (link)
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Well what you need to do is follow your heart and who you really love. If the distance isnt gonna work for you ant the one boy, tell him in the most nice way.
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Hey, what's up? I was browsing through columnists and you're looked cool. And if you're wondering, I am [very] bored...anywhos my name thingy is ductape_n_roses
Yea. Ductape. =D Kae and I are weird like that =] (link)
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Hii
Thanks
Just Doing My Advicing, Yourself?
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dennis i'm in love with you.
you don't even notice me.
I wish things were different
and you knew me .
sorry this is kind of a dumb thing
but, i just wanted to tell you that you
make me smile and you don't even know. (link)
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Listen, Just Talk To Me. Stay Secret If You Want To Or Just Tell Me Who You Are Because I'd Really Like To Talk To You. Please Keep In Touch
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Okk, soo I've liked two guys for a while nww, the first one since about 4th grade, and one since 7th grade (im going into 9th now). I've dated both of them, broke up with both of them, thatwhole thingg, but I still like boh of them. The one I've known since 4th grade lives next door, so he and I are best of friends, chill a lot, and he is always flirting with me(he's single), but then when I ask if he like me, or something like that, he stops. Then he later starts again. Is he just messing with me? The other guy is a good friend, but we havent talked much over the summer, but I wanna start again, but I don't know how. I have his number, IM, and myspace, but I don't want him to think I'm wierd or anything. Should I wait the 3 or so weeks until school starts, or juss say HI, what's up on aim or the phone or sumthin?
please help!!
p.s. sorry this si soo long!!=[ (link)
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Well, Let Me First Tell You This. You Need To See Which One Means The Most To You And Work That One. As You For Your Neighbor Have A One on One Chat With Him About How You Feel And If He Has The Same Feelings.
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heyyy! well i have an advice thingy too i saw it in ur profile!! and i got on i think they`re soo cool! i love giving advice... even though people didn`t ask me yet. oo well hows ur summer going? (link)
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My Summer Has Been Wonderful, Yours?
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I just wanted to let you know that you are REALLY good at giving advice. I've seen a lot of your answers. I just want to say keep it up & good job.
my advice column = triciaXterror.
btw. your cute too lol. (link)
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Thankyou Very Much :]
We Shall!
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about 3 months ago, i was diagnosed with leaukemia=[. the doctor told me that i am gonna die after my 8th month. is he allowed to tell me this? he just flat out said... " in about 8 months your gonna die ", he made me my mom my dad and my brother cry. so anyways.... can he tell me this... and can i like sue him for it?
f/13 (link)
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I am sorry, I really don't know if he is allowed to say that, but I just want to say God Bless You and I hope you get better in anyway possible.
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yeah but he's changed into this total a**hole. and pretty much no one wants to be around him, and he doesn't seem to care. he's acting like he's king of the world or something when everyone looks down on him now. i don't get why he'd do this when he used to promise me we'd ALWAYS be best friends? (link)
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Guys are Guys and you can't do anything about it... Im sorry :\
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I used to have this amazing best friend. I started talking to him last summer and hanging out with him a lot, and not that many people knew him because he had been gone for a year. Then school came and he started changing because he got ALL the attention he's ever wanted. He got all the girls and had many girlfriends in the year. All of a sudden things change after he decides that my turn is over and somehow I'm a horrible person. People are ALWAYS saying lies about what happened, and he broke his promise to keep our private relationship exactly what it was - private. Now he's going around telling all these girls he loves them, when quite frankly, neither me or any of my friends think he knows what he's doing. What should I do about this kid? He's really starting to get on EVERYONE'S last nerve with his ego and all this crap he says. (link)
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Let him go have his fun, theres nothing you can do. People change over time and maybe what hes doing could be good for him or bad for him. But you can't change him, only he can...
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depression is not a mental health disorder.
its a fucking disease.
an epidemic.
its a plague.
its the black death.
and we still think we can fix it; by blood letting.
regardless of our knowledge of how fruitless it may be.
we don’t have too much red.
we have too much sertraline.
we don’t have a disorder.
we have a contradiction.
i hate everything right now. i have been thinking about it for the longest time and i finally figured out why i'm generally unhappy; and it disgusts me. i'm miserable because i don't hate anyone. i used to use that as a way of connecting with people, showing them how beautiful they were by pointing out other peoples flaws, and in return getting the same. but things have changed, i've lost every good friend i've ever had. i have a bunch of acquaintances now, and i hate it.I am hott now versus beautiful for my personality. I feel like no one knows me therefore i complain alot to everyone but, i complain about other things to hide my true feelings about myself.i feel so overwhelmingly disconnected its pathetic. i need get drunk or something, because when i act am drunk or over tired or different, i can think rationally. nomatter what the sucumstances. i need to be drunk, melting into the ground with a cigg on hand or dancing to what sounded like the most beautiful music in the world.
i have no one
all my true friends are gone
the hole summer i haven't woken up to someone i was truly happy or comftuable or safe with
i've been trapped in summerschool maybe summer school helped tho i didn't face the obvious factor of total aloness and not been sitting home
i've lost all of my morals. i don't know what i'm supposed to do anymore. (link)
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Hmm... Well let me start out with this, Alcohol is not the way to go no matter how upset and unhappy you are. As for what you are saying to me, you might be thinking you hit rock bottom but this could be a positive stage in your life, and you need to sit and think how to make things great and work again because you are the only one who can really make a difference in this situation. As for your friends, what happened to them?
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ok..i think my guy friend likes me.Wherever i go he follows me.Then at lunch he sat next to me on the same side as me.I think he likes me.Please help!What should i do? (link)
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Well he might like you, and well do you like him?
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okay so i used to like this kid way along time ago and he used to like me we did have a age difference but not too much 2 years, and i really did like him alot and he wanted to take our relationship to the next level and i wasn't ready for that so when he tried i pulled away and said i wasn't ready. after that we stopped speaking and whenever we saw each other he would give me weird looks and i must say i've never gotten over him and i'd like to be friends again but i can't just IM him cause im pretty positive im on his hate list. But i don't know how i can stop liking him becuase it's driving me insane! haha help? (link)
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Well it seems to me he is being or was being very unfair to you about taking your relationship to the next level because you werent ready. If you want to be his friend again, make an attempt saying that was then, and this is now. Lets leave it in the past and be friends or something like that, that will be positive. And if he denies it... theres nothing you can do. As for you liking him, its gonna take time no matter how hard it is and your gonna have to except that and find someone different for example, someone who will completely understand you if you dont like or want to take the relationship to the next level. I hope I helped, and if you have further questions im here for you :]
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good advice (link)
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Thankyou, I Try :]
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alright.. so theres this kid and i really like him alot, and we used to talk for hours apon hours. and he had a girlfriend at the time and of course i was jealous like any normal person would be,but i never wanted to butt in. then later the guy i like used to tell me over and over how much he hated his girlfriend and blah and he knew that i liked him at the time he was telling me i did not know what to think at all. my head was spinning out of controll. later i started talking to him again after they broke up like a month or so.. and he was completely different. he would give me the signal like um.. yeah whatever and i just don't know what to think anymore. (link)
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Well it seems to me he might be still hurt or confused at what he really wants. Has he been saying anything to you or doing anything offensive or rude besides weird signals?
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when i first got to my new elemtary school in second grade the first person i met was this girl. We became awsome friends and people thought we were cousins and we were always together but then as the years went on we started not hanging out as much and we started hanging out with didfferent groups of people. it has been four years since that has started to happen and i reallly want us to be good friends again. what should i do ( i have tried talking to them and things just get awkward) (link)
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Well it might be awkward but you need to keep talking and open up with eachother more. Eventually over time you will be closer as really good friends again. Be nice and easy and laid back or it might annoy them. Be yourself and let them know that you miss them being around and having them as good friends.
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