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im so unhappy. i dont really know why, people just bring me down with stupidity and selfishness. i guess mostly just teenage problems, im just afraid this unhappiness is going to get to far. ive picked up smoking, and drinking, and popping pills, just to feel better. (no cutting or anything i think thats rediculous) but i guess my question is, what do i do to make myself happier. what can i say to myself or do for myself without having to go to a doctor because im another one of the millions of kids with "depression"? 17/f thanks ahead of time (link)
well i really cant help you because im kinda in the same place as you! sorry! buh bye!


I am on the yearbook staff this year - and need some help coming up with some superlatives. Here's my problem - I don't want things that everybody doesn't have a chance at such as "Best Dressed" Here's what we have come up with so far

Funniest
Sweetest
Best Hair
Most Creative
Most Outgoing
Most Athletic
Best Smile
Best Eyes
Most Likely To Suceed and
Most School Spirit

Any suggestions would be nice, but preferably not ones like "Most trendy" "Best dressed" and such because thats just demeaning.. (link)
um you could always try things like messiest locker and most likely to become a president and things like that. well those are just some of the ones that i found in my yearbook. if you need any more help im me at T3RRI2010. hope i helped buh bye


heyy well heres the thing .. i'm getting old and i haven't started to shave my legs yet. with winter coming up i can wear long pants but in gym, we have to change into uniforms that are shorts. all the popular and good looking guys are in my gym class and i don't want them to get any wrong impressions .. i want to bring this up with my mom but it really gets uncomfortable talking about puberty and such .. i really need some help! thanks ahead of time ! (link)
um just start shaving them! and if your mom finds out and your not suppost to be like i was going to talk to you but i couldnt fing the rite time too. hope i helped!!! buh bye!!!


This one girl invited me to her birthday party I dont want to be mean and say no because that'll be men does anybody know any good excuses and PLEASE HURRY. (link)
well you could say that you have to babysit, its your aunts birthday also and you have to go to hers, or just call on that day and say you must have gotten sick or something. y dont you wanna go??? or just go for like an hour and see if you and if not see if your parents can come and and pick you up and tell her that you have to leave early cux you have to be somewhere at a certain time. hope i helped!!! buh-bye!!!


I have liked this guy for a long time, and we've just recently become friends. He is really nice to me and always makes me crack up. He's completely perfect but I have no idea if he likes me. I'm afraid to ask him, because it might scare him off. How do I know if he likes me? Is it lame for a girl to ask a guy out? (link)
um no it is so0o00o0o not lame for a girl to ask a gut out! a lot of girls ask the guys out! well you could have your bf ask him to find out whethor or not he likes you. or some guys play hard to get and make you make the first move. hope i helped! buh-bye!


ok so my name is lauren elizabeth ______ ( not using last name to save unneccessary dramma to people. Namely, me.)

and i really want to go by lizzie, how do i get everyone to call me lizzie and not lauren

friends, teachers, adults, and non-friends..... please help very desperate i am doing like a mini makeover

--new name
--new makeup
--new hair (brown to red) (link)
um just ask them to call you lizzie or just secretly act like you best friend calls you that(lol!) then everyone will start calling you that
hope i helped! buh-bye!


I'm writing an essay on who inspires me and I'm doing my grandma when i said "grandma" in the essay would it be capital? For example My grandma...Captil or not? (link)
um...... no! buh bye!!


my friends boyfriend recently got stabbed by his ex-girlfriend. my friend thinks it is all her fault because he got stabbed because of something she told him to tell his ex. and then his ex went locco on him. does is sound like her fault?

will rate...
smartass answers not welcome

PS-wat can i do to comfort her? (link)
um yeah sorry. it kinda does. is her boyfriend okay from the crazy b****?!?


OK well im a 13/f and when I was little and still now if like i do somthing "bad"..or i get my dad mad...he'll like hit me...and like i dont know if thats really considered abuse..well see this all came up because my friend jessica was tellin us how she stayed out late and her dad got really mad and she called her mom and was like i think dads gunna hit me cuz hes really mad but if he lays a hand on me ill call the cops...so that just got me thinkin to myself...is what my dad does considered abuse or just a way of him "punishing" me.
plz answer
thanks

.... (link)
well it depends wut you mean. if there are marks left behind then it is most likely considered as abuse. you should contact someone at school or someoone you trust that is a grown up and tell them what is going on. if you have any more questions plz feel free to im at T3RRI2010. buh-bye!!!


okay so i met this guy hes soooooo freaking nice to me, we talk all the time. and he told me he liked me and stuff but last thursday he hooked up with this BEAUTIFUL girl. and then on homecomign i hear he has a girlfriend and hes all over like every freaking girl.im the type who gets jealus real easy. but we made up or whatever and he came over again yesturday we didnt hook up like usual we just kissed. hes a senior and im a freshman. and i dont know why i belive him when he says he likes me. but hes soo nice. and he told my friends he liked me andd stuff but he is considered a man whore. people even tolld me its funny that i think he likes me, but i cannot help it. (link)
i think he is just trying to get in your pants! you so need to tell him that its over and its up to you if you wanna still be friends wit him but yeah like i said he is only trying to get in your pants! hope i helped! buh bye!!!


alrighty, one of my good friends is...i guess what people would call a 'music elitist'? she's very unique and listens to old rock bands like the who and the beatles and stuff. she acts like she doesnt care what anyone thinks of her, but obviously she does or she would try so hard to be different, right? anyway, I on the other hand, am to her, the stereotypical prep. yeah, i get up and take an hour to get ready every morning, i shop at stores like AE and GAP, and i listen to pop music. whenever i give her a ride home or anything, she's always criticizing and making fun of the music that's playing, and if i go to the bathroom to fix my hair or makeup, she HAS to make a comment. i really do try so hard not to say anything to her about it. i tolerate her BLASTING the who and coldplay in my ears when i'm around her without saying anything, and i completely respect her political and religious opinions (WHICH ARE COMPLETELY OPPOSITE THAN MINE) and she doesnt. what do i do??? today i got mad and i blasted the music in the car and i kept making fun of her music, but now i feel bad. what do i do to tell her how i feel without coming off as a total b****??? (link)
well i know exactly how you feel! you should apologize and be like this is how i feel everytime you criticize me. i dont do this to you and you should treat me with some respect becuase it hurts me and makes me so0o0o0o0o freaking mad! also if you wanna sit here and criticize me thats fine i just dont think that we should be friends then. thats wut you should tell her. like i said i know how you feel im kinda going through the same thing rite now at school. lol. hope i helped! buh bye!


Well i have this friend lets call him albert.. well okay (SORRY IF THIS IS LONG ILL RATE 5s FOR SERIOUS ANSWERS) so i have known albert since 2nd grade.. and well i need opinions on this.. okay so

1.) Albert is always flirty, touchy, smiley, etc. around me

2.) I asked his friend how he was around people he liked and he said that list above (but thats how he always is around me so im not sure)

3.) Me albert and melinda (other friend not really important) were playing in the snow.. and he always kept tackling me and throwing me in the snow and jumping one me and not letting me get up.

4.) Once i was saying about how no one liked me and stuff and he said thaat i was wrong and i told him he couldnt argue and he said he could etc.

5.) One day albert was preforming in some kind of club and he came over and was talking to me for most of the time and poking me etc. and then hugged me later on.

6.) One morning before school he came up to me and he put his arm around me (lower back not shoulder) and just stood there.

7.) Once when i was mad at him he asked all of my friends why and my one friend told me that he "flipped" out and was asking why he was mad and stuff like that

8.) He complimented me on my earings at my friends party

9.) He kind of kept moving towards me at my friends party and kept poking me and when he was sitting down he kept telling me to sit next to him.

10.) He told me that i should go to my friends party (more than once)

11.) I told him that some kid said to me i hate you you suck and he was like his life and face suck and that he hated him..

12.) He once told me if anything was seriously wrong i would be one of the first to know

13.) Once i asked him who he liked and he told me he couldnt tell me and he said his friend would tell me the next morning and his friend was like can i tell her can i tell her and he was like no.. and then he said something to him and he was like okay.. and he said some girl and then i found out he liked someone else too.. but he wouldnt tell me who that was.

WHAT IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK? DO YOU THINK HE LIKES ME AS MORE THAN FRIENDS OR JUST AS FRIENDS?

thnx 4 your help (link)
it sounds like he likes you as in a girlfriend. maybe he is just shy to ask you out and is making the moves on you so that youll ask him out. it seems that he is trying to hint it out to you. you should start flirting with him and then ask him out. or if he sees that you r flirting back to him he mite see that you actually like him.


I am 13 and I think Im to old for trick or treating any ideas on what to do during halloween? (link)
well you could throw a halloween party! those are always fun and scary! if you dont want to have a big party then you could just have a couple of friends over and watch some really good scary movies. or maybe you could just go hang out around the neighborhood with a couple of friends and take someone young out trick or treating. thats always good you could just steal their candy!lol!


Well there this girl at school and shes so annoying! everything i do she follows me. like if I'll put my hair up a certian way she'll do it to and it's really starting to get on my nerves!!plz help me!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
well i fell so0o0o0 sorry for you! you should go up to that person and be like why the hell are you copying me after all you were born an original so dont die a copy- gotta love that quote. if this person continues to do the same thing you should try and copy off of her and shell see how annoying it is. dude i so know how it feels this person use to do it to me i just wanted to punch them! one more thing you could try is if she tries copying like ideas and things like that tell her the opposite of what you like in other words what you hate. hope i helped love always ***TERRI*** IF YOU HAVE ANY MORE QUESTIONS IM ME AT T3RRI2010! BUH BYE~


my friend is acting really different towards me and they always ditch me what should i do?
(link)
well it seems to me that they dont deserve your attention and you should sit that person down and have a talk with them. tell them whats been bothering you. if they dont listen then you should just not talk to them. ***TERRI***




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