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My names Marissa. I have gone threw a lot in my life.So im pretty good at giving advice from my experince.I always try to answer to the best i can.So if u got a question dont be shy ask away and i will get to yuh as soon as i can.


~Marissa

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My friend made a Flash movie and I am doing the voice acting for one of the characters. The character has one line, which has to be said very quickly, loudly and forcefully. Every time I say this line into my microphone and listen to it there is a little static "explosion" on the hard consonants. Short of getting a new microphone, what can I do to lessen this?

My guess is to sit further away from the mic. Thats always been a problem for me and normally when i get back away from the mic it dosnt have the big "static explosion"

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i'm 14/f.. me and my ex.. zack.. went out for 3 months and 6 days in 2003.. then we went out over christmas break for like 4 days and he has a gf right now.. he dumped me during christmas break for her because he missed her. well i miss him so much! i cant stop thinking about him and i smile when he talks to me. when i look at him i feel sad though because he was a lot of 1sts for me. 1st time lying to my mom to go on a date with him, 1st time making out at the movies, 1st time holding hands, 1st time having his arm around me, i know.. pretty pathetic but i miss him! i'll always have feelings for him but i want him back, he knows and he was kind of weirded out because i talked to him and.. well.. he wasnt weirded out but he thought it was.. odd and so i told him i was over him but i'm not.. i dont want to tell him though.. i know i cant get in the way of the 2 of them.. but i want him back!!!!! but then i have like.. side feelings for other guys and they like me back but they dont want to go out or anything.. its weird but i need help! if you want to ask me specific questions you can IM me on msn ( sisofasoldier23@hotmail.com ) or aim / aol instant messenger ( xoxo pink rosez ) thanks!!

plus. he was my 1st boyfriend and my 1st love..

this happend to one of my friends (but it was a guy)..he just tried talking it out with her and telling her how much he still cared for her and loved her..After awhile she noticed it was the truth,they started hanging out more bein friends and stuff and as soon as i knew it they were going out again.So maybe you should try talking to him or have a friend do it for you.Maybe just talk as friends and hang out for awhile trying to show him how much you do care for him and love him.Stuff like that.Well i hope i helped some


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My best friend dated my ex. It was a tough thing for me to see.They are totally over and you would think everything is fine. Wrong. I still like him. At least I think I still like him. I even have a boyfriend who I love very much. But then I read a note from my ex that was about me that was to my best friend when they were together, and now I feel sad. He liked her a lot. And I feel like a bitch. I need to know what is going on! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!

i think u might be seeing signals that you still like him.im not completly for sure but it seems like you are having them because if it was tough to see them together.Even though u have a boyfriend and love him very much you still may have feelings for your ex.I've seen this happen with many people and this could be the case happening with you.

Hmm well i did my best hope i helped you.

-SilentTears

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i've been using this 3step acne thing called proactiv. i'm sure most of you know what it is, theres alot of infomercials on tv about it. anyway, i've been using it for about 2 weeks now and it dries up my face alot and it makes my face sting or feel numb and makes it extremely red. does anybody know how i can get rid of this? because i dunlike my newfound redness on the face. please help! thanks in advance

maybe you should cut down on using it.one of my friend used that stuff at one point in time and the same thing happened to her i told her the same thing and it worked for her the dryness and redness started going away little by little you just need to give it time.so maybe not use it for a day or two then use it again and maybe it will help you also.

Hope i helped :)

--SilentTears

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I can't seem to get a boyfriend. I am fat but im a good friend. Im also trying to lose weight. I have only had two boyfriends in my life, one in second grade, and my last boyfriend lived in Virginia (I live in Missouri) and he didn't know what I looked like. I think im desent looking aside from my weight. I don't have really that many guy friends eaither. I was hoping someone could give me tips on how to get a guy.

~*~Britt~*~

try hanging out with a friend that hangs out with a lot of guys to get more guy fiends then maybe on the how to get a guy thing everyone has there own way maybe see how a friend does it be flirty to the guys you like or something to give a hint

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i'm dating this guy who i've known for a really long time, and i'm afraid that if we broke up we wouldn't be friends anymore. anyone have some advice? f/14

i see what your saying my friend lets call her hmm i guess"T" she is in the same situation as you. i told her to discuss it with him or one of his friends to see so mayeb that will help

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heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall!

yes an no because its not to date but to have sex it is


~Marissa

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Ok. There is this girl at our school and like 2 monthes ago, i got the same shoes as her. Now, yesterday she wore these shoes to school and my friend and I alreayd have them but we were just too scared to wear them. So anyways, should we wear them to school or what, beacuse this girl gets mad whenver people :copy: her. What should we do?!

WEAR THE DAMN SHOES!!!! she needs to get over it....im sorry but thats pathetic some one did that to me once i told them to get over it you can do that same to if she buggs you about wearin them

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Me and my ex boyfriend don't really talk anymore, he has a new girlfriend now. But, i found out that he cheated on her and i know for a fact cuz he told me too. Should i tell his girlfriend?? his girlfriend and i have always hated eachother but i hate them being together it makes me like sick cuz i'll always love him :-/.. i think thats why i want to tell his girlfriend the news. Should i tell her? or leave it alone? thanks ill rate

i think you should tell her. she has a right to know i thinkits better for her to know and for it to end sooner and to get over it sooner then to wait till she is really in love with him and thens he would get hurt either way she she will end up finding out somehow trust me

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if i wanted to be a model... how would i go about doing that? (not as a lifetime career)

maybe try goin to a store or a website..im not a big thing on modeling i would have to ask my friend about it cause she keeps gettin people tryin to get her to model for them but she dosnt want to so maybe i can find out what types of places those are for you and try that or something.i know there is barbarin or something like that mostly those model magazine things though. im not sure if thats what u were lookin 4 but i tried:)

~Marissa

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okay i have a question about how to people get music in there pro and those pop up things that go HEY wElCoMe tO mY pRo. or then when you leave it gose ThAnKs 4 vEiWiNg or something and then there is like a star or something when you leave. understand? i donno really how to explain it if it is confusing sorry but please help!!!! thanks

was woundering that to but never cared to ask.maybe i can find out from your question.but sometimes they can get annoying though

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my boyfriend and i wanna have sex but im still a virgin and pretty tight down there... and im scared to do it cause i heard it hurts really really bad... i can take a lot of pain, but how much does it really hurt? :-/

thanks!

well if you feel your ready go ahead.no one can stop you.yes it will hurt your first time maybe maybe if you and your boyfriend do decided to do it maybe take it slow and see if that would help any

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There is this guy i really like, but my friend has been really flirty to him and is also messing w/ him hardcore and one day i was on the phone w/ him and he was like i don't like it when your friend is all over me and that he likes me alot and i'm the most beautiful/ wonderful/ nicest person he knows and about then she beeped in on his line so when he came back he was like i told her i couldn't go out w/ her because she is christian and i was like ohh. but, he goes to church with me? and he asked me out and i was like i dont even know, because my friend aparently likes you and im a christian and he was like it was just an excuse because i have wanted to ask you out since matts party ( november 9) and he wasn't sure if i liked him. yet, he is the 1st and only i have ever frech kissed and that i've liked this much and i don't know what to do because when he holds me in his arms it makes me feel good inside and i know my friend likes him should i tell her that i want to be with him or should i wait till shes over him if he likes me as much as he claims then he could wait. i dont know though. please help, i rate high. *sorry for the length*

Genni

Talk to your friend about try to work something out and tell her you like him n he likes you or something close to that.

~Marissa

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Im going to make this shrot I want to get him a cookie that says kiss kiss on it and i dont know if that is a good idea. I just want something that noone really does im not wierd or anything I just dont want the old hear is a box of chocolates happy valentines day i want a haha a cookie. funny. sort of memorable thing. But i still want it to be thoughtful. I was thinking a card, cookie, and a small box of chocolates. Dumb idea?

sounds cute...not a dumb idea at all its differnt but not dumb.maybe try that sounds good to me seems like some other people that have commented like it to good luck with that!

~Marissa

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See, ive liked this girl for a long time now, but i never got the urge to ask her out yet because i never get to see her much. just recently, i figured out she likes this other guy and shes probably the only girl ive ever liked in a while. yeah, sounds corny and sry for the longness, so now what should i do? it seems that i have nothing else to live for in this life and that im just wasitng space and air and food

I see what your talking about not in my point of view though,my cousin is in the same situation but he has actually told the girl.Maybe you should tell her and see how that goes,if it just donsn't work out seems more like your wasting time on her not space air or food,and u will be able to find something else to live form if you think thats one of the probalems so dont worry about it i wish you luck with her!!

~Marissa

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i went to a club saturday and like there was this guy there that i knew lets call him joey well his nefu my ex wesley he went to and he dumped this girl lets call her corey he did it at the club to and so joey told me to go talk to her and she was in the bathroom so i went in my friend holly followed me and i told her joey told me to come in her to talk to that girl the girl started screaming at me and then she had an asma attack and i just cant forget about it because she was so angry at me plz help

ok well if your thinking this was your fault i truly don't think it was,maybe talk to *Joey* or maybe talk to ur ex wesley about it and try to get this situated it can be very easy thing to get off your mind. maybe not forget forever but get off your mind maybe hang out with your best friend at the mall or something.do something fun with a friend or your friend and try to forget about at the time and not even talk about that subject or think about it. hope i helped


~Marissa

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i know this is kinda confusing...

ok i met this guy on-line from one of my friends last saturday night and we talked and all, and i think i may like him i dk hes 2 years older n he went out with one of my some-what friends, i mean i talk to her but were not like close or anything...they recently just broke up and all....so he said he was single n looking or w/e, we were joking around n crap over cyber stuff on-line then he asked me how far i went with a guy...and im like uhh well im not suppose to date till im 16 so i have to wait and then he said n ur turnin 15 soon arent u and i said yeahh...then he asked me how long would i wait to have sex. or if i would give a bj or a hj...or if i would enter the back door and all...then he said that i would prob b the only one who doesnt have muchs bf all threw high school and i said yeahh well i rather be single then screw my life over be4 i graduate then he said that i could use a condom n i said yeahh condom or no condom if my parents found out i would be dead...i get a feelin that i wont turn out a virgin when i graduate im gettin this feelin that i wouldnt but anyways...then he asked me if i was bush or bare as in the south of the border..and i basically refused that and all..he knows i know his ex..and i was wonderin if this sounded like he liked me or something? any ideas?

- thx

ok,sounds to me that all he cares about is sex.which i think is gay cause there is more then that.so if i were u i would do what feels is best to do about it.

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im 14/f and i just started goin out with this kid whos 15 and i was just wondering when it would be time to take things to the next level, fingering etc. thanks!

I think whenever your ready.maybe talk to him about it or something to help,also to see if he feels the same about it as you do.

~Silent Tears

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Okay well I have liked this kid whose 1 year younger then me for a while now. He has two other twins so let's just he's a part of triplets. My best friend Allie well kinda my best friend likes his brother, and I kinda like him too. Well she likes the kid I like a bit and I like the kid she likes a bit yet I really like Alex, and she really likes Sam. Besides that. Alex is taken and it really makes me sad, yet Sam isn't. I don't think he likes either of us tho =o/ Yet Alex said if he wasn't taken he'd go out with me .. But besides that also.. Everytime I am like talking to Alex or Sam everyone tries to embarass's me or however you spell it. Like on Friday I was talking to Alex and Allie came up and was like "Hey penis" and Alex was like you have a penis? and they both laughed! Usually I am more the talkative type and Allie doesn't really talk but idk what to do? I know this doesn't make too much sence but what should I do? I rate high!

ok well looks like your chances with Alex are still open from what i see, maybe wait till him and his girlfriend break up,then make a move or let him,there's a chance for everything if you wait **hope i helped a lil at least**

~SilentTears

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He might be moving. I was thinking what should I do if he does leave?

well, if you both dont mind having a long distance relation ship then everythings ok.But if you don't then maybe you should brake up,cause you shouldn't do something you dont want to.

~*SilentTears

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