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18 female.
i have somewhat of self-confidence only because every guy i pretty much meet tells me i'm so gorgeous (sorry not to sound conceded) and sometimes i do believe i am pretty, but other days i will just hate the way i look. i'm somewhat outgoing, around people i know pretty well and i do talk around people i just meet but why is it that i feel so shy and feel like i can't be myself around the guy i like? i've known him for about 3 and a half years now, but i just always think about what i'm going to say before i say it because i don't want to say something stupid, i don't act crazy around him because i'm afraid he will think i'm annoying, or just plain weird. i am a fun girl to be around though, but around him i am a sort of different. we flirt, but i just wish he could always see the crazy side of me because he is outgoing, and very funny. he always knows how to make me laugh. he will dance wherever he is, he will sing out of nowhere to a song on the radio, he will do anything to make me smile and i love that. when i'm with my best friends, i'll act stupid, i'll dance crazy and be a complete dork and they all think i'm funny but when i'm around this guy, i can't let myself go. for example, one day in the summer we were at my friends house and he was acting crazy and was like dancing on me, grinding on me and just acting goofy and i just stood there and was like "oh my god haha.." now if it were one of my best girl friends, i would of been dancing with them and all of that but i can't let myself do it with him. i know he should like me for me, but i'm just nervous because i don't want him to think it came out of nowhere you know? i talk really really fast, so alot of times people don't understand me haha and so if i say something he will be like what? and i'll just be like nevermind. and like over text one day he confused me and i was like you're confusing and he was like well you say weird stuff. and i was like ohhhh, okay? what's that suppose to mean you know. i just wish i could be the crazy girl i am when i'm with my friends. i'll admit, i don't know how to dance for anything i've never really dirty danced with a guy before, never really had an actual boyfriend yet all these guys give me attention and i don't understand why. i'm still a virgin, not a slut at all. is there anything that could help me overcome being so low key around this guy, i want him to know the real me. (link)
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this will sound drastic. but you need to do something super crazy around him just once. it's like when people talk. if two people share their most intimate thoughts then anything under the sun is okay to talk about. well much the same way, i think if u let yourself just once just act really crazy in a good way then u wont be so bashful.
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So two weeks after school started my brother, who's a sophmore tells me that the senior boys are going after the prettiest freshmen girls this year(PS- I never told my friends)....like sex.... well 2 of the freshmens have already done it with 2 of the seniors.... i have family friend who is a senior boy and he is majorly cute...and fit...and well i have a little crush on him......well all of a sudden he starts hanging around me.... he sits by me at lunch.... and recently he gave me a candy cane gram and it said "I like you a lot. Your different then most girls. Your beautiful." And then I started liking him a lot more.. Like boyfriend more. But my friends know the rumor and they don't trust him......i told them he's been a family friend for a long time. They told me he'd have sex with me then dump me. And now I barely talk. He will start a conversation and ill try to end it quickly. Then he keeps asking me why!!Im so confused on what to do....i feel if i tell him about the rumor, he'll think i wont trust or i thought hes been lying this hole time and never talk to me. and i also feel if i dont do anything my friends will be pissed at me..or not want to hang around me!HElp?!?
ps. 14/f
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i don't know what is in this guy's heart. but i know how things work. guys take advantage of girls that don't know any better. 9 times out of 10 this guy just wants action. if you don't mind the idea of a one night stand fine. but you have to ask yourself "am i okay if everyone knows i had sex with him?" and "am i okay to lose my virginity and maybe regret it?" it seems that you don't want used. i would think that more an likely this guy would want to use you then leave you. i don't want to make you sad or anything. but at the most, you could have a relationship til he graduates or goes to college. once there you'd be dropped for a college girl. i think this guys should be left alone. i'm sorry i couldnt say more positive stuff.
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I'm 15, 5'6" and about 159 pounds. I've been overweight since I was a child, not from eating wrong or not being active, it's just how it happened. I started going to the gym in May, and in the past few months I've been working out a lot. I look different appearence-wise, I can see my body slowly changing, but my weight isn't really changing. It's taking a long time for my physical appaearence to change, too. I'm not eating badly, I've cut down completely from fast food and things high in calories. Can someone tell me how to lose weight faster than I am? I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. (link)
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i dont know if you are male or female and that does make a difference with weight loss. but when you start working out, you will lose weight and sort of plateau as your body becomes more muscular. only use your actual weight as a guide and not an exact answer. think of things more in terms of what outfits you can fit into and the sizes you wear. that is a much better judge.
i would also say that sometimes your body gets used to doing the same exercises all of the time and kind of slows down. try to vary what you do to work out. if you have been jogging then try riding a bike or swimming or going for a walk. if you can handle it try jumping rope or aerobics or sliding. try to not go more than 2 weeks in a row doing the same thing.
also with your meals, if you can try to spread out your eating times. for a female you want to eat something within every 3 hours and for a guy about every 5 hours to keep your metabolism at it's peak. this means smaller meals which are more like snacks. but it does help alot. you arent ever full but you arent ever really hungry. starving yourself is never the way to go unless maybe you HAVE to fit in something in like 2 days. but outside of that it's always a mistake.
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hi I am a wife and a mother mother of four great kids. I love my family to death but they say that I am onesided and to hard on them. I however dont see that way. I just think i want the best for them. Now mind you 3 of my kids are handicapped and this puts alot of stress on me. it seems at times that I am the only parent in the house. my husband works and I stay home with the kids. I cook,clean,help kids with their things and try to be a loving wife. but when he comes home if feel i need a break and it is his time with them. we do share so household chores. but when it his day to do something he useally doesnt do or only half way do it. and i feel if you start something you need to finish no matter what. he says that i have to have my way about everything and that i dont care what he feels or how it makes him feel. he also says that I have a way of doing everything and if i see someone doing it diffrent then its wrong. plus he say I have a spot for everything and that the house isnt going to stay clean and I should let it go sometimes and chill.he also state that no matter what he does it doent please me. Now I feel that you should have a clean house and keep it nice but i now its not going to stay clean but if you see something out of place put it away this makes it easier on me.should i chill? i have a very bad temper and we get into fights not hand to hand but yelling matches and sometimes i feel that i am not tiring my best to stop the fights and that im overbearing and out of control what should I do? i feel sometimes that it would be easier to be by myself.
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you have special needs children which surely adds to the workload. i feel for you with your husbands attitude. naturally you will fell ike he doesn't care or doesn't care enough for you to finish his jobs. but lets say you give him a job of cleaning the garage and raking the leaves. if he does 50 percent of both, he feels as if he really accomplished one total job. he surely thinks that partly doing something is better than doing nothing at all. every little bit does help out your situation. but at the same time, if you only partly clean then you never have it completely clean. you may feel awkward about having guests and such because of it. my thinking is this as far as the chores go. so it seems that you aren't the one complaining, have your husband make a list of what chores he will finish or take care of for the week. but have it set up that it must be finished. if you let him in charge of his destiny/workload he cannot resent you. plus this also locks him into a commitment. it's a bit like letting a child decide their own punishment and all guys are children really. i know, i am a guy.
with your arguments, you both have to learn how to discuss and not yell. i had a teacher once that instead of yelling would get quieter and quieter. but the students would actually get quiet and would strain to hear what she said. that may help. you could also try to do something like the following. when you are arguing, use some object like a football or stuffed animal or whatever. but whoever is holding the football gets to speak while the other listens. but you can take turns holding it and speaking. this will keep the need for yelling at a minimum. louder doesn't mean right but yelling causes things to be emotional. you two have to be a team. insulting each other will only make things worse. i think you'd be better served saying something like 'you're my man, i need you. i can't do this alone. i need you and your help" not something like "you're a slob". i know you may feel like he is and are dying to say he is a slob or whatever. but that's counterproductive.
i don't know if you are overbearing or not. you very well may be. odds are you are a bit and he is a bit lazy. he's probably just used to his mom doing things for him and never grew up.
also, you may want to be more selective with his chores. like if you have him do the laundry, it's either not in the washer or it is. it's a job where it's almost either not done at all or completely done. if you can find jobs like that or going to the store for milk or filling up the gas tanks in the car he can be helpful. this will allow you to use that time for jobs that he doesn't complete. i hope i was some help for you
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I reaally like this boy. I have no idea if he likes me or not. He stares at me in assembly sometimes, and when i look at him, he looks away.
Also when he's talking to his mates. they look at me?
im so confused. Does he like me? (link)
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i'd assume he does. if he looks away when u look, he feels you caught him and he's embarassed.
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here's my problem, lately I feel like I've done absolutely nothing with my life.... I feel really empty...I'm great at poetry and art. I've graduated from highschool during this year but I haven't gone to college yet because I have an avoidence personallity and I can't be around large groups of people I don't know,which is why I had a hard time in high school an now I'm seeing a psychiatrist... Well all my life I've spent helping others but I can't help my self. Its hard for me to get a girlfriend because I'm really shy and I've been alone for a very long time..I do love someone very close to me but she only wants to be friends..we haven't really been talking lately and I don't know why. An it feels like she's avoiding me, I've been trying to get myself together but more an more I feel so empty an I jus don't know what to do any more, thank you in advance for listing/helping (link)
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i'm going to break this down for you piece by piece. you have an avoidance personality. i'm just assuming that is a social disorder where you come off as highly shy and you have high anxiety either around large groups or around certain people. first it's good that you are getting help. i was probably in the same boat and it is quite a struggle to be honest. whether it's esteem issues or fear, you feel this way. when in college i would highly suggest some sort of oral communication class. you want to make it second nature to speak in front of others so there is much less fear. you could get some sort of sales job that forces you to speak more as well.
when it comes to love and getting girls, i suggest the following. first, try to be more open to many more girls. i know it's easy to find this one to be amazing. she very well may be. but really you almost have to get used to trying to talk to all girls. if you can talk to all girls, you can talk to the ones you really want to talk to. plus if this one wants to just be friends odds are she can only think of you as a friend. you'd be best to move on. heck maybe it would make her jealous if you were no longer interested.
normally the advice people give to someone shy is "um well go talk to people". basically they just say to stop being shy which is no help at all. but don't label yourself as shy. think of it more as you have to learn social skills. if you label yourself as shy you will believe it can't be changed. like u were born to be shy.
more often than not if you great someone with a smile, are pleasant, are funny the person will be glad that you talked to them. start smiling more. it will invite people to talk more to you first. be more open. if you go to a party, don't stand in the corners or against the wall. watch how popular people act. listen to what they say. try to emulate that. if you hear some interesting hello or remark write it down if need be. i hope was a bit of help. i'm sure i could think of more advice if you need it.
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i met this guy online and we decided to meet in person.
unfortunately, he's gorgeous, articulate, intelligent, interesting, athletic, and into all the music i'm into.
however, he is older than me and i'm worried that i came off as immature and dorky.
we just met yesterday, i haven't talked to him about how he thought it went yet, but he said he might see me again.
i'm just worried because i've never been even kind of involved with a guy i'm that attracted to because i always think they're out of my league.
i'm a little stuck and don't know what to do here, someone give me some advice? (link)
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You may fix his impression of you but his first impression is just going to be his first impression. Sometimes it's actually better to see how wrong the first impression was. You can't be that out of his league if he is willing to meet you and such. All you can be is you. If at this point in your life, you aren't mature enough you just aren't. That is not a deal breaker though. Maturity is not just being wise or articulate though. Maturity can be having a caring heart and thinking of others and being strong. Just let your good qualities shine through. If this guy asked you to meet, he's attracted. It's that simple. Putyour fear aside, he already wants to kiss you.
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I've been dating my boyfriend for going on 6 Months. His dad died about two years ago and I've had 2 dreams about meeting his father in an all white room. Is there an symbolism in this dream? (link)
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it would help if you said a bit more. fromt he little bit that yo said i'd say there is symbolism. it sounds like you want his dad to approve. the white would represent purity. my thought is in the dream his dad approves because your relationship is right or pure. now, this is your dream so that doesn't make it fact or anything. it is your wish when you get down to it. but i think your basically trying to tell yourself that his dad is happy with the situation. it's only natural in your situation to hope that his dad would approve if he were here.
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The other girls my age tease me alot just because I'm a Tomboy. My friends that dont tease me just constantly talk about the boys they like and what make up would look good with the new clothes they bought and what hair styles would look cute and what shade pink to paint there nails and blahbly blahbly blah. I dont tease them because of it, I think it is mean to tease other people you should treat people the way you want to be treated! I'm just tired of being teased so much and not being invited to slumber partys because they are going to do make overs and not being able to hang out with my friends because they are always going to the mall or going to have some weird jappanese laddie paint there nails and talk on the phone and all this stuff I dont want to do. Not once have they asked me what I cared about or wanted to do or anything I'm really sick of it what should I do? (link)
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You have to ask yourself if your problem is that they tease you or that you don't want to be girly. If you like who you are, you will have to get used to people that don't understand. There are lots of girls that don't want to be girly though. If you do want to wear makeup more often and things like that, you can. If nobody in your family is able to help, I'm sure your friends would. If you change your image, just do it slowly. Little by little and people won't notice too much. Before long you could do anything. If you want to just stay as you are. You just need to explain to your friends that you feel left out. It's like when you and your friends would watch movies. Maybe you like comedies, maybe they like action. You find a way to make it work. Same thing with them liking makeup and you having yourlikes.
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Whats the name of that magician that died because of a magic trick he was doing and then he never came back?
is it like .. somthing "Houdini"?
No its not HARRY Houdini.. cuz that guy died because of getting kicked in the nuts i think
but thats not my point.. my point is....
whats the name of the magician that died and he was like supposedly the greatest magician??
and hhe died because of a stunt he was doing and never came back
im really curiouss! I researched and it didnt even help... i couldnt find him! (link)
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Harry Houdini died because of an appendicitis after punched in the abdomen. He let it go untreated too long and passed away. He wasn't the only Houdini magician though. His brother took up his act afterwards. Are you positive what you are thinking of isn't from a movie or something? There is an old movie where a Houdini type dies doing Houdinis one water stunt. I can't think of any famous magicians that have died while performing.
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ok i must ask;
do guys care if a girl has a hairy vagina or not?
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what are their... tastes. (link)
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I can't speak for all guys or all tastes. Some would love that and some would hate that. Personally speaking, I'd say most guys don't want it too hairy. Most guys would prefer it shaven or very much groomed. Not all guys would care but we still prefer it certain ways.
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last winter i became friends with a girl named gianna who i worked with at a grocery store. i was a sophomore in high school and she was a senior but we both went to different schools. our friendship grew as the year went on and i always had a great time around her and never felt like she was judging me. at random times, she would tell me these weird reasons why she couldn't hang out. she said her parents grounded her because she was seeing her boyfriend who was two years younger than her and they didn't like the idea of that. she quit her job at the grocery store and said it was because her mom didn't like the people who worked there and that we were corrupting her, since she goes to catholic school and the rest of us go to public school. keep in mind she was no more innocent than the rest of us, and none of us are druggies or alcoholics or anything. she said she wasn't allowed to hang out with me for this reason. over the summer we started hanging out again and we got so close. she was calling me almost everyday to hang out and we always had a great time. she still said she wasn't allowed to hang out but since she drives, it didn't really matter. she was starting college in september at a local school and she was nervous so i called to wish her good luck the day before and she was so happy to hear from me and thanked me and asked if she could call me back in a few minutes so i said okay. she never called back that night, and i never talked to her again. i've called her cell phone and left messages, text messaged her, and called her house. when i called her house, she answered but when i said it was me she hung up. on new years at like 1am, she finally came on AIM but her away message was on instantly and it said she had been onlnie for 8 hours. so i i/med her saying omg gianna please answer me and she signed off again. i checked on another screen name and truth comes out she blocked me. the story gets worse, someone who works with me and worked with her in the past saw her sitting in the parking lot of the grocery store. she was sitting in her car for over an hour. it was definately her, the person went to the car to say hi but she didn't say anything about why she dissapeared for so long. i miss her like crazy, nothing is the same without her. i don't know what to think and i don't know how to get her back. ideas on anything would be a big help! and thanks to whoever took the time to read this long thing (link)
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It definitely does sound strange. If she wants to contact you she surely can. She knows your number, she has your aim and she knows where you work. There is no telling why things are the way they are. Some people just do very strange things. This may be because of her family. Maybe she found some guy. She does owe you an explanation I feel but you probably wouldn't get the truth anyhow. She has had plenty of time to let you in on things. The thing is, she probably thinks your clingy because you desperatly try to talk to her. Let her go. You sound like you like her as more than ta friend. Maybe her bf didn't like the idea of her with another guy so much. Maybe she just used you to make him jealous. If she wanted to talk, you would have heard from her. I wouldn't worry about it. I'd just chalk it up as one more girl doing totally illogical stuff.
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I'm in the 7th grade there this 8th grader i really like and he alway talk to me so i wanted too know should i tell him i like him or wait please and thanks (link)
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More often than not, he likes you. Guys tend to show more attention to girls they like. If you are fearless enough to tell him, you should say it. It all depends on this. If he doesn't feel the same, can you handle that? If you can, then go for it. It's better for both people to know than to keep playing games. If he doesn't you can show some other guy attention.
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My boyfriend and I have been having terrible sex. When we first started it was amazing...now it sucks. Well do you have any advice to get things a little more interesting? What types of roleplay do you suggest? How is the best way to play out those roleplays? Any other kinky ideas? Please explain the roleplays and other things. Not like complete details, but what I will need and how to start it. Also is there something we can do before sex and roleplaying to know each others bodies better that might help when actually having sex? (link)
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The first person to answer had some good points and ideas which i'm going to try to add to as well as give my own ideas. Telling each other your fantasies is a good idea. It's hard to be truthful about that stuff though. We all worry about being judged. The longer together the harder it can be to bring some of them out in the open. I'd say to tell each other your fantasies just so you both have this knowledge. If he says something too bizarre or creepy, realize it is only a fantasy. Some fantasies shouldn't be acted on.
You didn't completely explain why the sex is stale now. I'm assuming here that you both feel like you are running out of things to try. One thing to keep in mind is that sometimes it's not so bad to do things you have done previously. If something was good, it was good. It's not so bad to do it over. Maybe you would want to reinvent it though or add a twist. You have to realize that things that seem sexy to a girl are not always as sexy for the guy and vice versa. Most people are either inclined to be more passive or aggressive in bed. You two probably have found your natural roles. Let's say he is the aggressive dominant one. You can reverse things to be totally different or you can ask that you go further on your current path. If you want things to be harder or rougher, maybe cause a lil argument right before hand so he may take things out on you. You have to REALLY trust him to do that though. Nobody wants hurt. You could try doing things in strange places. You could make a list with or without his knowledge of places you are dying to do it. You could either spring it on him once there or you could head there together all giddy at the possibilities. I cannot speak for all guys. Like they say "different strokes for different folks" but it's just sexy when a girl is enthusiastic. He is yours and you are his. It is okay to be the bad girl. It's okay to be at a party with him and just either whisper somehting really bad in his ear or to pull him aside and let him know your intentions for the night. Having him wanting you and not able to do anything about it will have him dying for the things to come. I'd suggest either getting a mirror or being near a mirror sometime so you may get more visual stimulation while with him. Basically, attitude is the key with most of this. You want him wanting knockdown drag out sex. Costumes and role playing are fine and all but i think they lead to more of a laughing type silly bonding type of adventure. You asked about roleplay and getting to know each others bodies better. You could try to get some body paint and just paint one another. Perhaps only allow hands used to do the painting. Maybe just 2 fingers or something so it has to drag out. Maybe just have a session where you two can do anything to one another but it has to all be from the waist up. Maybe something like this, your bf shows up at your place. You're all alone. You call your friend or family member who is let's say 30 minutes away to come over. Tell them the door will be open and to just walk in. Then you jump your bf insisting you two do it right there and then. That way you two are racing against time. Insist the act take place just feet from the door. If it's a situation where you just have a bedroom in your parents house and nobody is home then do it so your door is open or something. The sky is the limit on all of this. Just think of what turns you on and what you have been missing. Then just go in that sorta direction. I hope i was of help for you.
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14f.
155 lbs.
type 1 diabetes / thyroid problems.
i want to lose weight really badly, i want to do that special k diet and i was wondering if anyone knows if it works well.
also, i need way to keep my self motivated, i just don't feel like going to the gym sometimes, and if i go to the gym, i usually end up eating a lot after and gaining all th calories i burned off back.
help please, also i want to know how i can get to a size 3 or 5 in pants.
im like a 9 or 11 now. (link)
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I don't know your height so I'm going to assume you are average height. First off, you are 14. You can change this. You have plenty of time to change your body so you have things the way you want them. I'm assuming you have an underactive thyroid. That coupled with being a diabetic makes things a little bit tricky for you. The thyroid would slow your metabolism and then being a diabetic, you need to have a certain calorie intake. For now, lets look at the exercising. Not all exercising has to be at the gym. It's easy to get bored with any exercise. I don't want to scare you here, but people with thyroid disorders often have ADD (attention deficit disorder) or OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) both of which will make it harder to stay interested in things. It would be a good idea to ask your doctor about both. I would say to find several ways to have fun while burning calories. If you have a dog, take it for walks or slightly longer walks than you do now. If you like taking pictures, go for a walk and take pictures while you do. Make it about using the walking to get where you have fun. I say walking because anybody can do it. If you get bored with that, just go to a playground and shoot hoops. It burns twice as many calories as walking does and you feel you are doing something. You are not that overweight as it is. You just want to be a little more active. Try to go swimming a little more. Anything you love to do outside is good. You can do this. The main thing is to get out of the house. If you aren't inside, you aren't looking at food. Plus you probably are doing something that's helping your cause. If you just get used to being a little more active, you will notice changes. let's look at it this way. lets say you are 30 pounds overweight and your goal is 125 pounds. to be 30 pounds overwight, that means you gained about 2 pound 2 much a year of your life. that works out to having 20 calories too many a day. it isn't that much of a lifestyle change for you to be fine.
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ok so theres this boy and i liked him alott and he told me he liked me too, and he said it to me first so its not like i told him i liked him first and he just agreed because he felt bad. anyways, he told me his wish was to see me and to hook up with me before the winter break ended. and then a day or two later i found out he was giong out with someone. so i asked him what happened to him likeing me and he said "yeah, but she asked me out so i was just like alright" what am i supposed to do? i did, and still do like him a lot.. is there anyway i can find out if he likes me too still, or if he actually even likes his girlfriend. oh and also my friend got into a little fight w/ him after i found out he just got a gf and i think he might be mad at me
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uhh, you should move on. i've never been into a girl like that and then see myself with somoene else. if he really liked you and knew he could be with you he would have said no to the girl. he is only interested in who is around, so in other words he isn't worth you time. he probably just wants hookups and probably would lead numerous girls on if he could get away with it.
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17/f. I play the guitar. I haven't been playing for that long but still...
I am from Australia and I have searched on google with no luck for the guitar chords or tabs for the songs "Losing My Mind" and "Blueprint Architecture" by an Australian band called Something For Kate. I would much prefer to play the song "Losing My Mind" but the other one is okay too.
I can find the chords and tabs to other songs by Something For Kate but just not the two I want. :(
Could anyone pleaseee help me find the guitar chords or tabs for this song? or songs.
Thanks.
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here is losing my mind, i dont know how accurate it is.
http://www.sfkforthenovice.com/tabs/sfk-guitar-tab/GUITAR--[something_for_kate--singles--deja_vu]-02-losing_my_mind--joel_wright.txt
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k so i reallly want to learn how to play the guitar but in this website it says all of the chords and thats great but, it doesnt really tell me the fingers i should use to play the chords like it doesnt say 1 2 3 or 4. and i dont understand the diagram can you explain it to me please
HERES THE WEBSITE IM TALKING ABOUT.
http://www.skynet.ie/~mel/hobbies/guitar/chords/G.php (link)
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i looked at the site you had there. normally the chord charts do give suggested fingering. there is no "right" way. you have to go by what is most comfortable for you. since you are a girl, you probably have smaller fingers than other people that play. you may have to make adjustments because of this. most of the chord charts on the page you have are shown from the perspective of the top of the chart being open strings. if you see a number to the top left of the chart, that is the top fret included. for example, if there is a "3" then the frets included would be the 3rd, 4th, 5th, and 6th. unless noted it would be open, 1st, 2nd, and 3rd. if you are in need of a good guitar resource, check out www.wholenote.com. it has lessons, chord info, tablature and just so many helpful things. i hope i was a little help. if there is anything else you are unsure about feel free to ask and i'll give you all of the help i can.
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i saw you had another problem in your feedback, can u ask any problems directly to me so i can answer each one?
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this is a controversal subject but can you choose the sex of your baby? if so, how? i think it would be wrong but im very curious... (link)
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to my knowledge no. it all depends on the the chromosones during conception. perhaps science will find a way but as far as i know, it hasn't been done as of yet.
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so the other day i sent this guy i met a mesaje to meet up the next day or when he was free and have a drink or something to get to know eachother and all... he rang back after a while( i thought he wouldnt) and he said that he was busy at work and that was why he took long to answer... to cut the long story short, he said that he really wanted to see me again but that he was tied with work and stuff and that he would give me a call the next day sometime too see when we would meet. Thing is i assumed he would but he never did ring, he didnt even send a mesaje to say he couldnt... now i am a bit confused should i be angry at him for not or am i blowing it out of proportion? should i give him another chance to hear his side? or assume he isnt interesed although he told me he was :s
we didnt really plan anything but he hasnt called... or anything
its been 3 days since we last spoke (link)
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Either he was busy or he wanted you to wait and didn't want to act too quickly. The proper time for a guy to call back is considered 4 days. That way he doesn't seem too eager and also so you start to wonder. Give him a week. If you don't hear from him, look elsewhere.
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