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Hey...I kno u prolly get asked thiz alot lol..but i think i am like fat,my friend's say im notz..but they mite b juss sayin ti cuz im thurr friend...but ne wayz...im lyke 4'11-5'0 in i weigh 115 lbs....do u think itz fat??

Hey Girl* Dont worry your not fat , believe me !
Your friends are right your not fat !!* :) This is the truth * : ) Ihope this helped and your beautiful inside and out ::.Thanx for asking
-Melissa- Please rate me **

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Well if u dont have any plans wiff kate and its nice out maybe we could tan..do u want me to call u?-kaci

Hey Well it depends on the weather* :) -Melissa-

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ok hey i am having some trouble with my friend he does drugs and he wants me to try i am scared what should i do?

Hey :) , dont be scared im here for you dont worry , Im glad you came to me for this * Please dont try to do drugs its way stupid !! It hurts your body , it ruins your life , family and your mind, it not cool , even if if a celebrity were to do . Please Cherrish your life and just SAY NO TO DRUGS ! :) Please be smart and dont start**
I hope this helps !~* Make the right decision:)
-Melissa- Please rate me** :)

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Hey Mel..dont make any plans for monday please?-Casey...ill call u lata when i get a chance kk?

Hey Girl * Umm ok I'll try :) Call me ::.
-Melissa-

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Hey Mel..do u have any plans for tomorrow or Monday?-Casey

Hey Casey , :) Umm I dont know... I might Im not sure . But if I dont then, I 'll let you know * :)Thanx for asking * -Melissa-

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melissa- im gettin braces soon even tho i dont even need them and i dont want them cuz i think thr ugly and they dont exactly make ppl look great wen u wear them. wat do u think???????

Hey I think you can still look pretty with braces
and it doesnt matter whats on the outside, its whats on the (Inside) :) I hope this helps* Good Luck -Melissa- PLEASE Rate me*

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hey grl-
k well my bf is cheating on me with this other grl and i kno it and he knos that i kno it but were not really mentioning it. the grl hes cheatin on me with has a rep. and shes totally shovin this in my face. wat should i do?


- renee

Hey maybe you should talk to your boyfriend more about this whole situation to get it off your chest and make you feel better. As for that girl she's obviously not worth even talking to ,so when she gets you mad just ignore her or have something to say like "you cant even get your own man you have to steal one of of somebody"
I hope this helps * Good Luck -Melissa-
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have you ever gotten like those lace underwear type stuff? if so, did you like it better than cotton?

~jackie

Hey Girl ~* :) Umm no I just stick to the regular undies and bra's cuz Im not that type and I like the feeling of cotton too. I dont think my mom would let me have that cuz she would think Im looking way too sexy to be thirteen and its true too. I hope this helps*
Thanx for asking Jackie * Good Luck -Melissa-
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Hey Mel..are u going to tha saint theresa's festival tonite?

I doubt it . I dont want to go.

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By the way the are u going to tha saint theresa's festival tonite was from me (casey)

Hey Casey ,Umm I doubt it cuz Im not crazy about that festival. To me its kinda boring but to others it might be fun .
Ok call if you need me* Thanx for asking -Melissa- Please rate me*

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hey, ok i have this friend who use to be my best friends but we stop talking because of our differences. well she has this boyfriend, and they have been together for about six months, and he is also my good friend. she told me that she cheated on him(just by kissing tho) but i still dont think its right. i really dont think its my buissness telling him, but i did and he's really hurt about it but she doesnt know i told him. do you think its right i told him? and do you think that i should talk to her about this? :/ please help me. thanks so much! your advice is great :)

Hey well thanx first of all !~* ;)
I think its good for him to know cuz she shouldnt have cheated on him .
I think you dont really have to bring it up that you told on her unless it comes up and just tell her straight out " I think you shouldnt have been cheating on him and he has a right to know ". I hope this helps !* :) Good Luck
-Melissa- PLEASE RATE ME ;)

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Ohh it feels like i can finally rest my head on something real. I like the way that feels!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do you think i should sign up for teenager american idol or kids with talents? Do you also think i can sing and make up good songs from that song up there?-Julia

Hey Umm well if its your dream go for it ! :)
I dont know how well you sing , I have never heard you but I bet your good * Thanx for asking !~* Good Luck -Melissa- Please Rate Me *

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Hey! Ok..i need some advice and i have some questions for ya!! kk?!? ok..now i love this one guy and he loves me but hes in juvey for doing drugs and selling them..and i cheat on him and stuff..should i tell him this? Why, if so? Also, should i quit selling and doing drugs before i get caught? Why, if so? Also, should i still be friends with this one chick after she fooled around with one of the men im cheating on my boy with? Why, if so? Have you ever been in any of these situations? Do you like boys or girls? Do you play you're boyfriend? Do you have any friends that have done or tried drugs? Write back! Kristy

Hey , yes you should because if you want a a nice relationship then you need be truthful and you shouldn't be cheating on him for the same reason. You shouldnt be doing drugs or selling them either, its totally not smart! You can hurt your mind body and life . Also you can get caught by the cops cuz its ILLEGAL !* I guess you could still be friends with her as long as she doesnt do drugs .Of coarse I like guys cuz Im a girl *
No I dont play my boyfriend cuz I believe in being truthful and sticking with that one person.
My one friend said she tried a drug but she's not gonna start doing drugs cuz she said its stupid and its not worth it . I hope this helps * : ) Thanx for asking , Good Luck -Melissa-

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Hey BabesZ!Ok well this isnt really askin 4 advice but,i just wanna kno what ur prospective is on my Relationship cuz ppl think im crazy!Ok make a long ass story short,Last year,july 16,03 i started goin o/w my boyfrined,we lasted 2 mnths nd broke up cuz we never saw eachother,so i never got over him and we liked eachother again,so we started goin out that following Ocober 5th,we lasted again for 2 mnths reason being,he cheated on me w.1 of my ex.best gurls,(they actaulyl Had sex =( ) so that was sad cuz i really had storng feelings 4 him nd i never thought it woudl happen,but we never stopped talking he would ask 4 me back all the time nd tell me that he made the biggest mistake of his life nd he would just go on nd on about how much he cared!so it had been about two mnths that we had broke up,nd i gave him 1 more chance!On janurary 21st i took him back,nd i kno it was dumb all my friends couldnt believe it,but the feelings i had were UNREAL! so we have now been together for about 6 mnths..and its been goin great..the 3rd mnth in i gave him my virginity nd i def kno hes been faithful and shit cuz i live in a small town so i would kno if he wasnt lol,i love him to death but the 5th mnth in i kinda kissed a guy, reason being..he was being an ass so i couldnt take it and it just felt like the right thing to do at the time..:( nd later that night i called my baby nd told him,this was the first time i had ever heard my boy cry :( thats when i new he really loved me,i was in shock hearing what i was hearing.."how could u do this..u dont kno what love is" and i just keept saying baby yea i do i kno i love you, i never knew how much he loved me,i always doubted it,cuz ive never had full turst for him after he cheated,but hearing him cry made me believe nd fall 38493483943 times more in love,so now we are both faced w/hate lol not between eachother but our friends hate us cuz we only hang out w/eachother,but w/e i love him and i kno he loves me,we actualyl wanna get married..i kno its crazy but we do,nd i couldnt be more sure hes the one for me and im sure he feels the same,i just dunno if what we have is healthy,i mean we have been through so many fights bcuz we are both so scared of loosing eachother,but we also fight cuz hes so goddamn jealous of guys and FRIENDS..i cant even go to my girls house cuz he thinks ill do drugs and cheat again..but i guess he has a reason to be scared? i dunno im so confused about shit tho 4 some reason, i dunno what do u think about this? Telllllllllllll meee what ya think hunnie..thanks MuahZzZ!!

Hey ........WOW !!! confusing.... Umm I think you should just try to keep a honest relationship , both of you * Ok well I hope this helps * Good luck -Melissa- Please rate me !~*
:)

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Can i make a move on you and we can get it on in public? By the way..u know me Melissa.

Hey Umm... Im afraid I dont ,if you would be nice enought to let me know just I.M. Me or write back and say who . And first of I am not haviing sex with anyone . : )Thanx for asking
-Melissa- Please rate me : )

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Hey are you that girl from Girls vs. Boys Hawaii? The Christina one? J.w cuz she was saying teenqueen and theres alotta rumors that u are. Is this soooo true?!?!?!?!-Monique

Hey Girl : ) No Im sorry to disapoint you but no Im not . But I do love to be a teenqueen alot ~*
If theres anymore i can do for you just write back !* Thanx for asking -Melissa- Please Rate me too **

p.s. I like watching that show though :)

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Does it hurt to have ur cherry popped?

Hey , Im not sure I have never had it popped
I dont think so .. I hope this hepled* Good luck
-Melissa- Please Rate Me ! : ) xoxo

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One of my best friend is on the chubby side. She has never had a boyfriend and she is so lonely and she is going to this camp were there is a lot of guys and she needs to know how to loose weigt fast and easy? please help i dont want her to be depressed when she comes back!!

Hey I just wanted to say its sweet that you care for your friend * Its does take time to lose weight. Your friend needs to drink lots of water,exercise,dont eat junk food and eat small amount of the daily meals= breakfast , lunch and dinner . And if a guy is a real gentalmen then he wouldnt judge her for her outside but for what on the inside

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i like this guy. ok. he is kinda in to drungs and all and i dont do them!!! and i think he likes me i dunno though!!! what should i do?? please tell me
sara
a 14 yr old girl

Hey well I dont think you should be hanging around a guy who does drugs cuz you could start doing them or get in trouble (cops) . Im just letting you know I care .Good kids dont do drugs or drink . : ) I hope this helped * -Melissa- please rate me

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Melissa call me-Casey

ok girl :)

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