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Ok well i really like this girl. She is amazing, beautiful, smart etc. I really want to go out with her. She is so perfect. Me and her went out before and she broke up with me. But i really feel she's changed a lot in a good way and i really want to ask her out. What should i say and how should i do it? And thank you for anything you can help me with (link)
well assuming she likes you too it should be fairly easy. but most likely there is a reason she broke up w/ u b4... if u kno what the reason is u might wanna consider that first. but if its something shes changed in then i say go for it. ask her out. oh but one thing... trust me on this... ask her out in person!! lol Good Luck


Ok so i am almost 15 and i lived with my dad untill i was 12 and 1/2 then i moved in with my mom but now i want to live with my dad again becuase all my family is here and i come from a big family and when i live with my mom i only had her as family so i am very lonely cuase i live in a diff state then the rest of my family and it makes me depressed and i wanted to know if any one had any suggestion on how to tell my mom i want to move back with my dad for 10th grade and mind you i need an answer soon cuase i need to tell her on thursday june 24 becuase we are having a family meeting and i want to tell her before then please help me thanks so much (link)
well the best way to tell her would just be to tell her how much u miss ur other family and though you still love her and would visit her you would rather live where you have more family and more contact w/ them. plus living there for so long w/ ur dad has u missing it even more. just be curtious to her feelings and tell her the truth.


Marijuana is obviously one of the most popular illigal drugs. but is it really a bad thing? I have personal experiences and well to tell truth, it doesnt really hinder your judgement, nor does it make you feel invincible. All marijuana does is make you really goofy. Ppl say that car accidents happen alot due to marijuana. what these ppl over look is that those kids that are in the accidents are also drunk. which is what really hinders and clouds your judgement.
Is there actually any REAL physical harm that will come from marijuana, aside from the obvious? (link)
well for one thing it kills brain cells and therefore will ultimately hinder your judgement and other things as well. and just cause in ur personal experience it hasnt hurt or changed you it has to other people. different people are affected by it in different ways but it really does kill the brain.


Okay thur is two gurls rite. one gurl you can talk to on the phone for hours and on aim. But in person she dosnt really talk to you that much. and the other gurl is like u can kinda talk to her on the phone and then she is really talkitive in person. u like both of them but ur not sure witch one you like more. ANd the first gurl u can tell her like anything you want and she wont judge u and you can kinda tell she likes you more thean a friend. The 2 gurl will probly be most likely to help you the same way but not entirely certain that she wont just laugh in ur face. U dont reallly know if she likes you more than a friend. SO what should i do go with the gulr that you can tell that she liks you er should i chase the other gurl? (link)
ok well there is no way to know if she likes you unless you ask her. so in order to figure that part out u gotta ask. and u really should be w/ the person that is comfortable in perface to face cause if ur w/ someone who is shy in person it could get annoying or send u the wrong signal. so i say go w/ the girl that u can talk to in person and ask her if she likes you. most likely she'll be happy to tell u if she does or doesnt. especially if u tell her u like her. if she ends up not likeing u more than a friend and the other girl does like u more than a friend then go w/ the other one... but ur first pick should be the chic u can talk to in person.


Ok my name is Tiana and I am a female and I am 14 years old. I have a boyfriend named Keith. Ok to cut a story really short my mom talked about my boyfriend behind his back and smiled in his face. I told my boyfriend what happened. He told his mom and his mom said that she was talking to my mom and she said tha what my mom was saying sort of sounded like she is using my boyfriend. Today he just dumped me and said I will still love you but I can't be with you until we become indepedent! I feel so hurt! Should I try to get him back. What should I do?????? (link)
wow that sux! ok well first of definitly scold ur mom...BAD MOM AWARD! but anyways i think you should talk to him about it. and tell him if he loves u then he shouldnt care what ur mom says. and and if u like him a lot or w/e then u guys can work through it


What does it mean if you and your boyfriend are talking and you tell him you feel you dont meet up to his standards and he goes in otherwords you feel you arent good enough for me? so you say yeah your correct and he says if anything your to good for me... is that a bad or good thing? or does it just mean like dont let it get to you its not bad its not good its just a whatever thing. (link)
it means that he doesnt deserve you. its good not bad. and u shouldnt worry about he obviously thinks ur fine great w/e so yeah dont let it get to u


Whut do u do when someone u really lykes tells u he lyks u but then gos behind ur back n tells otha ppl that he doesnt lyk u.. and other ppl r telling u thats hes playing u.. whut do i do?! (link)
well it proly means that he is playing u and u shouldnt waste ur time on people who do that. dont both w/ the person. i kno u like him but if hes gonna play games and stuff its not worth it.


Well ive been hurt a lot of times with guys, and i dont trust very easily. i dont usually stay with a guy very long anymore bekuz of it. i just met this guy, Cody, and i love everythin about him! hes amazing, ugh i duno what to do though. im scared, i feel like i like him to much that i shouldnt be with him or ill get hurt.... but its like should i trust him or no?? if i do and he hurts me again i dont kno what i would do, but i dont know if i should miss out on this love experiance i could have... i dont kno what to do?!? (link)
well it sounds like you really do like this kid. personally i think being afraid of going out w/ a guy is only going to make you regret things. its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all...


Hi. Well i met this girl at school and she was awesome, the best girl you can imagine and she was so smart and beautiful so once i got to know her i waited then asked her out. We went out and never got to see eachother because i had to keep moving and doing different faimly oriented things. So we broke up and I need her back i miss her so much. How and what should i do to get her back? (link)
well u know what i personally believe in the theory that everything happens for a reason. so if u 2 broke up it was probably meant to happen. however that doesnt mean that the 2 of u together isnt also meant to be. but only time will tell. and if this girl is so awesome like u say and she likes u back then things will come together if they r meant to. but trust me im sure u will meet plenty of other girls so if it doesnt work out dont be so hard on urself. Good Luck :)


I'm in the 5th grade and going to be in 6th next year and I like someone whp is going to be in 1st uh help (link)
wow... thats... interesitng... u kno lil 1st graders r cute in like the teddy bear lil kid kinda way but... ur almost in junior high..?? what r u doing thinking about a 1st grader??...going to be nonetheless... which means just got out of kindergarden... can the kid even spell his name?! ok yeah no... unless you wanna end up like michael jackson or something id suggest u forget about it.


i dont know what is wrong with me i can literally jsut finish a meal, and want to eat again.. i have been diagpnised with mild depression does that have anything to do with this? Please help me i think i am geting really... fat.. i weigh 135 pounds and i just hate how i look..

please lend me some friendly advice..

~*~cj~*~ (link)
it might be that ur depression makes u want to eat but it could really just be that u arent getting the right nutrition. even eating a whole full meal could not give u the right nutrients. for example if u r eating protien and what ur body really needs is iron even if u fill urself up w/ that protien, such as meat, ur body might will tell u r hungry because what u really need is iron. so if possible go to a doctor and have them tell u what u might be low on and balance urself out. i hope this helps!


hi again. ok. i have this friend and she is soo nuce and i love her to death but, weve grown in different directions. Shes become like a major punk and tells me all this stuff i dont want to hear. She wants me to do all sorts of stuff with her and i want to its just hard to decide what to do because shes not all that great of an influence. what should i do?? (link)
ok well listen friends grow apart that happens. but i can totally understand u wanting to stay friends and you should try. but if shes bringing bad things into ur life and friendship and u dont like it u have to let her know. that might mean that shell get upset for a little while but u have to speak ur mind and if u want ur friendship to last u have to tell her what ur not comfortable with... i hope this helps!


i dont no what to do anymore my best friend she seems like shes not my best friend anymore.i am in 7th grade, but anyway it seems like she never wants to do anything wit me any more. HELP ME PLEASE. (link)
i suggest u talk to her. ask her about it. ask her if it is that u are growing apart, which is very possible. if she denys this then shes proly just got other things on her mind or something. its proly not u at all. and if she does say that she feels like u 2 r growing apart then u have to realize that these things happen and maybe shell change her mind. just dont ignore it. and dont push her away back.


How do I get over a guy?!? I thought I didn't like him, so I pushed him away. Now everytime I talk to him, I think I want to be with him. idk what to do. (link)
i totally know how this is. if this guy is a friend it could just be that u r really close and like spending time w/ him. but its also very possible that u do like this kid but maybe ur scared to like him. one thing... dont ever be scared to like a guy! that will just make u regret. it sounds like ur not gonna be able to push this guy away... so dont!




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