I don't think there's nething wrong with that. I mean she is really pretty. But, I hope you know that its probably unlikely that you'll find a mermaid with long red hair and blue eyes in real life. So, you might as well start looking on land for a girl! :)

ok 1st of all, if ur thinking about becoming sexually active with this guy you should tell him the truth. Why do you feel the need to lie about it? It's not like he can judge you because he isn't a virgin either. And if he does judge you than all you have to do is find sumbody better than that because you deserve so much more. But anyway, yes I think he will be able to tell that you've had sex before because there won't be as much resistance. In other words you won't pop. But, if he hasn't had sex with a virgin before than he might not be able to tell because he won't know what it feels like to have sex with a virgin. I think that you should just tell him that you aren't a virgin. Then, you don't even have to worry about any of this. Get back to me if you need any further help.

you got urself a good guy if he trys to please you and make sure you know that you're his everything. If it bothers you that much just tell him. Be like "I appreciate that you want me to know how you feel and it means a lot to me, but you don't have to do it all the time." Tell him that every now and then it doesn't have to be about "giving you the world" but just hanging out and having a good time.

"bust a nut" is used when a guy cums. Its the same thing as like if a guy pops a boner he cums.

your problem could lie within your question. You seem to think highly of yourself. There's nothing wrong with that, but if you act stuck up it could throw guys off. But besides that, im pretty sure you still have a long time to go before the "perfect" guy asks you out. Be patient. If not then you could try making the first move. I don't think there's anything wrong with a girl asking a guy out. Find somebody you're interested in. Talk to him and let him get to know you then ask him out.

It really depends. I think that long distance relationships are difficult because you don't get to spend time with each other. You might often find yourself wanting to be with other ppl because your needs may not be getting met. But, long distance relationships can work out if both people are entirely committed. I say though it is better to not get involved in them. Especially if you're a teen.

I say get rid of him. He didn't have enough respect for you or himself to be true to you. You can find somebody better.

I think that there's nothing wrong with having a little fun. BUT, you owe it to this guy and to yourself to make sure that he knows what you're thinking. If you plan to continue having innocent fun make sure he knows that you are only in it for the fun. If you don't, somebody could end up hurt.

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