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im buying some cds for my dad for x-mas but i dont know which ones are the best from each band
can you tell me which cds are the best from

1- The Eagles
2- Chicago
3- Any other cds from around this time or cds that people liked if they like these two bands (link)
I'd get him The Eagles Greatest Hits cd. I'm sure you could buy it for a pretty cheap price, and the eagles are a great band. Good luck!


What does this mean? "Note: AOL member profiles are not accessible through AOL Instant Messenger." i dont get it and really want to know!! thanks in adance! ill rate!

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xo (link)
It means the screen name of the person's profile that you are looking at has AOL and a person using AIM can't veiw an AOL users profile.


So a girl i really like(im a boy 14 year she is 14 too) has her birthday in 2 weeks and i don't know what to give her...PLEASE VERY PLEASE HELP!ALL 5


she likes rock music the most guitar and stuff...also she likes pets like dogs and cats. (link)
I would get her a cd. Or maybe a gift card to a local cd store. And maybe have her over at your house to watch a movie with her. I know I would like that.


While ice skating a week ago, i fell very very hard on my backside. I couldn't get up by myself, and when i got picked up it hurt so much i couldn't carry on skating, had to go sit down for a while. I didn't put an ice-pack on it there and then as there was too long a queue at the first aid.
Anyway, i thought the pain would go away, but a week later my tailbone is still hurting loads, when i sit down, when i walk, dance etc, when i bend over. Anyone think I could've done some serious damage? Should I see a doctor or wait longer for it to go away? (link)
I've hurt my tailbone before by skating too and it hurts bad, but goes away about a week or so later. If it's still hurting in a few days, then definetly make an appointment to see your doctor.


So im a freshman in highschool (and a girl!)...most of my friends have all experienced dating and boyfriends....except me....i feel like I'm kinda behind...and i do want a boyfriend...any advice about how to get to know guys better etc...i rate :) thanx (link)
Start talking to them online and in person, and flirt alot. Try hanging out with them outside of school too. That's the best I can come up with, hope I was some help.=]


hey i have a question for you that i dont ant to show up on our coulm.... can i have your screen name??!! thank you....... (link)
My AIM screen name is Kristen Noel 08.


okay well i asked that question about missa. and brittany and where all the girls in my grade come to the bathroom with me and so on..

Heres the story:

I IM'ED Marisa and I questioned "May i ask why you are mad at me and why you hate me?"

and she said:

Marisa: Yeah you may ask and heres the answer.. Because you talk about me behind my back.. You said im a backstabber.. You send my convos to people and try to get them to go against me.. your a spoiled brat.. you get pissed off when im hanging out with brittany.. And last but not least; You LIE.

Me: Okay, i never called you a backstabber... I never talked about you behind your back except the day you made me cry.. I ADMIT IT. I once sent a convo to brittany and nora when you said we arent friends anymore. And i was upset and they both helped me. I am a spoiled brat and i get everything i want. I do get jellous when you are with brittany but i suck it up, is that all a lie? no its all the truth.

Marisa: Yeah well i dont know if we can be friends with eachother anymore, i dont trust you!

Me: I don't know you are throwing away a good friendship and really im not going to come crawling back and if you do im going to reject your plead.

Marisa: You were ging to back stabb me anyways

Me: NO I WASNT!

Marisa: well thats what brittany said

********I IM BRITTANY************

Me: heyy

brit: heyy

Me: why did you tell missa that i was going to back stabb her, you are trying to just hogg her!

Brit signs off at 3:57:52 PM

**********MARISA IMS ME************

Marisa: why are you sending convos to people?

Me: im just asking brittany why she said that i was going to back stabb you

Marisa: Well I know you will i dont trust you!!

Me: dont okay, i apologize, but i dont think that you deserve a apology after what you did to me.

Marisa: bye

Me: bye


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Do you think that i should get over her.. but now i have no friends and all of them went against me because marisa is making them and i feel heart broken....

should i apologize to god or should i forget about her?

x0o Brok3n (link)
I've been here before. You feel like you have no friends left at all. But trust me, if she is going to be like that..She isn't worth a friendship. Get over her. She'll come around eventually and say sorry and wanna be your bestfriend again. As for Brittany, she sounds like a snob for just signing off like that. I'd get over both of them, that's ridiculous. But if they DO apologize, accept the apology and say "Next time, will you PLEASE believe me though?" That way it makes you look trustworthy. Hope this helps.


on december 26, a new family is moving in to the house next door to mine. my mom talked to their realtor (another neighbor) and found out that the family will have a 3 yr. old and a 5 yr. old. by the way, I'm 13.
the question that i have is, how long should i wait before i introduce myself, and how should i do it? i really want to babysit for them, and i work really well with little kids. i've never worked for pay before, just as favors for my aunt (with kids age 2 and 7) so im not really sure what to charge either.
i know this is really long, and has a bunch of different questions. but any answers will be appreciated to the tone of a 5! thanks in advance! (link)
I would just walk over to their yard when they're outside one day. And say "Hi, my name is ___." Then say that you'd be willing to babysit for them anytime they needed. If they ask for a charge, say it's up to them..and that the amount doesn't really matter to you. Tell them you've had experience with kids and you know what you're doing.


I feel so depressed. I feel as if everyone in my life is moving on. I feel as tho I have no friends I spend my saturdays doing nothing, i feel as tho everyone hates me and Ive thought about sucide.
I have an incurable skin disease its so ugly and difiguring and the only cure for it is sunlight. I live in a cold place and my mum wont let me use tanning beds even tho thats the only cure.
I havnt got a boyfriend, and I dont trust anyone. I cant teell anyine about my skin disease. I feel so ugly and gross all the time. PLEASE HELP!!
What can I do?? (link)
Depression is pretty common with teens lately. You can't feel this way about yourself, and suicide isn't the answer. Suicide helps nothing, it only makes things worse. Trust me, you may feel that no one at all cares about you..Everyone feels that way at times. Things will eventually chance. Life is more important than friends. And boyfriends only give you more troubles, you're better off without them. Trusting people isn't always good either. Your looks shouldn't matter, if people can't accept the way you look then don't worry about them. I'm sure you're incredible and beautiful on the inside, and that's all that matters. You can't let people ruin your life. Try to take antidepressant medicines, and if you ever need somebody to talk to..I'm a pretty trustworthy person and you can email me if you feel the need to. My email address is cinderella_x33@yahoo.com ..I hope my advice helped at least a little bit.


what does quarantine mean? i just know it has to do with a virus program (link)
Quarantine can mean a few different things. One definition is to like block off something, or depart from something. Another definition is to hold back, or delay.


So I (female and 14)absolutely luv this kid (male and 14). He flirts with me all the time. We go skating every Friday together. He kind of plays hard to get (he goes off and skates with other girls every now and then) but when he isn't he's all over me. We don't kiss or whatever, he just tries to grind w/me and he hugs me a lot. I steal his hat and he lets me wear it every now and then. Everyone says he likes me, but I dont know.

So here's the question:
I'm inviting him to my xmas party. Guys and girls in my friends basement. I want to get him something. Not something big or something that's too forward. I just want to know....what should I get him to hint that I want him to be exclusive with me?????


as much advice as possible. rate 5s!!!! (link)
hmm, I would get him a movie or cd or something like that. Maybe even a shirt from his favorite store? ..That shows you care. And you should let him know that you like him, maybe he's waiting for you to make the first move.


recently moved far from where i have lived most of my life. i liked this guy, and he liked me. (i was 15 he was 17.) we told eachother about 3 weeks before i left. we didn't talk too much, i never went out with him or anything and we never did anything. still, i cannot get him out of my head! i'm seriously always thinking about him, and nothing else, just him. and how i want to be with him so bad. we never really talk anymore, except sometimes he'll leave me a comment on my myspace, but that's all. so i guess what im asking is, is this normal? and how can i stop thinking about him constantly, or is this good because i'm in love? i think he might still like me, but i have no idea! please help me. i'm so confused.

XO Jill (link)
Love's rough.
It could be love, or maybe just puppy love. There's a huge difference between the two. Trust me, I thought I was in love with my ex-boyfriend.I was just whipped, and I admit that. I thought about him constantly, and I always said too myself "I love him." and it'd make me cry for hours to think that. I think he must have some feelings for you still or he wouldn't have been commenting you. You should try keeping in touch with him by phone, email, letters, anything. Maybe eventually you can start to visit eachother and stuff. Keep him around you, and don't try getting over him unless he doesn't like you back. Chances are, if he's stuck in your heard..he's there for a reason.


Just yesterday I got my first period, and I'm unsure how to tell my mom, or if it's even neccessary. Any tips would be greatly appreciated. I just don't know how to tell her this because she's not one of the cool moms that are easy to talk to, and I'm the youngest of four, at 13, and I just want a way to tell my mom. (link)
You just have to come out and say it, no matter how awkward or hard it may seem. Just say "Mom, I started my period yesterday. Can you take me to get pads/tampons?" No matter how hard to talk to she may be, she HAS to know. She's a mom. She'll eventually find out anyway..Let her know ASAP.


okae guys
uhmm .. recently one of my really good friends .. infact best friend has moved around here but we use to be basically in each others back yard .. and her parents are spliting up .. so ever since they've decided to .. its just been blah between us .. like we never hang out anymore .. its kinda like she keeps blowing me off .. like we make plans and then ooops .. i cant do that .. i have different plans .. so yeah .. and i don't know if shes telling me that we shouldn't be friends anymore or what .. bkuz it sounds really lame coming from my "bestfriend" .. so i dno .. can someone help??

xO: (link)
I have a friend who does the same. Even whenever we have a girls night with a few other girls too, she still cancels plans. Maybe she's going through a hard time with your parents splitting up and all. Give it a little bit of time, and maybe you should talk to her about it if it keeps getting worse.


does anyone know any good love songs about having a really good relationshiop, and things like never wanting it to end? im putting together a CD and just thought id ask here. ill rate.

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There's "Only One" by yellowcard. And probably my favorite song ever "I'll be there for you" by Bon Jovi. "I'll Be" by Edwin McCain. "Best I Ever Had" by Vertical Herizon. "I knew i loved you" savage garden, "truly madly deeply" by savage garden. umm, that's all I can think of off the top of my head. Hope it was some help.


Lately my friends have been following the heard, you know, 'trendoids'. They always do whats popular at the time, and listen to the popular music. I hate that. I like being different. When an underground band i liked went mainstream, i stopped likeing them, because when everyone else likes them, it was no longer my thing. So my question is, am i trying TOO hard to be my own person? and am i being true to myself? thanks in advance, please no stupid answers! (link)
You are who you are. And you shouldn't change that. You should be happy with you are, and what decisions you make with your life and all the choices that it comes with. Maybe you are trying to hard you be your own person..But, if that's what you want to do then do it. I think that makes you very unique, and you should stick with it.


Okay...I've had my period for exactly 2 years as of December 5. I want to use tampons, and I know how to put them in and all the dangers. But I have a few other questions:

Does it hurt going in/while its in/coming out?
What is an appropriate size?
What exactly does Toxic Shock Sydrome do to your body?
How do you know that you have TSS?

I rate. (link)
I've had my period for two years, too. I tried tampons awhile back. And I hated them. They don't hurt coming in, and they usually don't hurt while in..but it's like hell coming out. Lol. I don't know what size you would need, it just depends. I started out with regulars. And I honestly don't know what TSS is. lol, sorry..But i hope this helps you.


Hey well I found out that this girl that im not really friends with but we dont have anything against each and so i found out that she heard that i said i wanted to fuck her exboyfriend and now she wants to kick my ass.well i never said that and im really scared about it too.....im just wondering because the person who told me isnt really my friend either so i think mabye she was just saying that so i would get all scared for nothing...please tell me what to do before this coming up monday because im really scared!!ill rate 5's for anyone w/ good advice (link)
Alot of rumors get started, and very easily. Someone may have said that you wanted to have sex with her ex-boyfriend, or maybe this other girl is just trying to scare you. If I were you, I would talk to the girl online or on the phone and say "I don't know what you've heard, but I haven't said anything about your ex. We may not be good friends, but I wouldn't do that to you. I'm sorry for any rumors you heard about though." And that should take care of it. Hope i helped!


I am confused. I am a Christian, and I am trying to figure out, well, what "kind" of Christian to be, like a Catholic, Baptist, etc etc.

My question is, what religion are you, Christian-wise (I have nothing against other religions, I promise!), and why? What are some of your beliefs? Thanks! (link)
I'm pentecostal. It's a fun religion to be. But I sometimes think there's too many restrictions. First off, we believe in God, and only God. No budha's or anything like that. You only worship God. Some of the beliefs are no drinking, no smoking, save sex till marriage, no cussing, no gambling. During the services people speak in "tongues". It's a language that only God knows. Not everyone has the privelege of being able to speak in tongues. You can only receive the gift by a lot of prayer to God. It's supposed to be said to God, and the devil can't understand what's being said. hope that's some help.


I'm getting a new red puppy daschund tomorrow. I need help with some names for her. I like the name Roxy. I need more similar like that. I don't want it to me a characteristical name like brownie. (link)
I think Roxy is an adorable name.

If not..then Sassy, Honey, Cocoa, they're all cute names. =]




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