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My name Is Kittzen, i have a fresh personalty and i never get old on you. i enjoy to have fun and i will love to help you with your life. got any questions for me just ask and i will answer. i have no problem being myself and i love to do anything crazzy and wild but always have time to be serious. don't worry I'll do my best to help you and i will never try to let anyone down. think what you want about me but that doesn't always make you right.don't let these pretty pink words fool yaa, i am no girly girl!
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i got asked out by this guy that i really like about 2 weeks ago and he hasnt kissed me yet...we definetly act like we're dating but im definetly hinting that im ready to kiss and he kinda just sways away...and i know he really cares about me cause of the things he tells my friends...why wont he kiss me? (link)
I think he dosn't want to kiss you because he is afraid to or he dosn't want to rush anything. If you want him to kiss you, you can have one of your friends ask his friends if he wants to and stuff like that. Sometimes they can find out more information than you asking him up front.


wats the diff between race and ethnicity and nationality? (link)
Race is like for example: african, Asain, German Ect.

Ethnicity is where you desend from.

Nationality is what you are to the goverment. LIke democrat or republican.


my boyfriend now is still friends with his ex girlfriend he dated for a little over a year. he does small little errins for her, and texts her alot. he has her name tattooed on his arm...

i dont know what to do, i want someone else to give me some sort of idea. (link)
I would continuously ask him if he still loved her and it he would get the name removed because it bothered me. And i would ask him if he could stop doing all the little errins for her and try to talk to her less. And than if that didn't work i would play his little game. i would get one of my guy best friends or ex boy friends talking to me alot and ask him to do a few little things for me also. i might be a hard and cruel way to play this game but if he won't listen to you, you have to make your point some how.


what s a good hairspray that has that "sssssshhhh" sound when you spray it? (link)
Well i have Head games and unscented Aqua net and they work good. also my friend has beadhead and her mother's a hair stylist so they are all good products with the "sssssshhhh" sound. believe me i have tried.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tz_oJf3sG6A


1 in this video , did she do all that style with her hair DAMP? remember in the beginning she said that after she showers or something like that and it DID look wet.


2 in the end of the video why didnt she spray hair spray on her haed or at least ON HER CURLS! isnt it gonna go away during the day when you dont spray it ?

3 or is the helen of troy a good curling iron [the one she used] that she DOESNT NEED ALL THAT HAIRSPRAY TO HOLE THAT CURLS IN?


PLEASSSSSEEEE answer!
p.s.
i need tips on curling hair. (link)
1. No it was dry. she said after she got out of the shower she puts on her conditioner and when it is dry also.
2. She said to spray it, but because she was doing a video and if she messes up it would stay there. plus i believe that maybe for her hair it would stay like that.
3. Refer to number 2. And i did hear it is a good curler.


Well, I was going out with Denver and I really liked him. This other boy Ccory asked me out and I kinda liked him too so I broke up with Denver to go out with him. Well, noe I'm going out with Cory and he's sweet and all but girls are always hanging all over him.. I get jealous and sometimes I think of breaking up with him..... What should I do?? (link)
Well you could either get over this problem with this guy if you want to make it work. Or you can talk to him about of it. But if you really want it to stop and you really don't really love him you can dump him and you can just be friends. other wise you got to make it work some way. the best would be to talk to Cory. If you need more help you could always talk to me.


ok, so im "talking" to this guy. lets call him nathan. well, me and nathan have been talking for about 5 months. we always talk about dating, and i give him hints all the time, but he ever actually asks me out. We act like we're dating, but were not, ya know? but i guess what im asking is what are some ways i can get him to ask me out.

ps, i dont ask guys out haha (link)
You can get your friend to ask him to ask you out. She can also tell him that you like him and ect. that's one way.


I have a new style this year for going back to school. Before it was kind of preppy, but now I have all Hollister, Aeropostle, and Pacsun clothes.. Do you think people will think im a "poser" ( I know, it's stupid...but i worry about it) or not? I mean, i have a lot of popular friends and stuff.. but i have never worn clothes like that besides 1 american eagle shirt... so, help? Oh, and do you think a handbag for school would be over the top? (link)
popular people are sometimes know as the preps. so don't go crazy about it, if the person hates you they think what they want about about you and it will not matter. i think the clothes you brought would look great with a handbag. And if you like the clothes you shouldn't have any shame in wearing them.


I really liked this kid let's call him Ryan. I was pretty sure he liked me and everything, but we stopped talking for a brief period of time and I thought i was over him. But i hung out with him, my friend Lisa, and this kid Danny tonight.
Me and Ryan were pratcically cuddling on the couch and same with Lisa and Danny. Then when they went home Lisa told me she likes Danny and I told her I like Ryan, cause I'm pretty sure I do again.
Well Anyways, When they left me and Lisa talked to them online and Lisa and Danny were talking about how cute me and Ryan looked and then Lisa and Danny were talking about hooking up when we hung out on Monday. Lisa then i/med Ryan asking if he liked me and would hook up with me or something and he Kept saying like. uh no. And he even told Danny he wouldn't hook up with me. Yet he acts like he likes me, But anyways, Then Ryan was all to Lisa, "why didn't you guys tell us you wanted to hook up tonight?" And stuff and then Danny told Lisa he 'Might' Hook up with me now. And then Ryan told Lisa he would 'think about it.' Now there is a problem here, I NEVER made out with a guy. Let alone KISS ONE. Yeah, I never had my first kiss yet. So I don't know WHAT I'm doing. I'm pretty sure Ryan has expirence, but me, I have NONE. I don't want him to think I am a bad kisser or anything. I'm really scared, I have no idea what I'm doing. Please Helpp=( (link)
It's funny i just got in to a fight with a ryan but that is a different story. Well you could either wing it and just kiss him and all that or you could get another gut you don't really like and practice on him. Or you can practice kissing fruit. But i'll tell you it's never the same as kissing the real guy. what you need to do is probably go in there with confidence and kiss him when you two finally hook up. let him think what he wants to think. cause when you do kiss him you'll have a sense of acomplishment.


anyone know a good way to clam down bad sinus headache (link)
to clear a sinus headache you could make tea out of lavender leaves it works very well. Or you could take a bath with it.


Sorry this is in wrong
category
Hi,
Week algo my Grandma Found dead butterfly and Gave it to me. and I was wondering anybody hase good Idea what I can do with it? i had one with about picture frame? or any ides? and yet anything I need to do with that don't get you know runie? sorry bad spelling,
thanks (link)
well you could either get ride of it or you could frame it in like a normal frame and keep it. there are very popular or so i hear.


where did you buy your bounce cream and right on curl form iSo? (link)
Well my aunt owns a hair salon so i got it from her. but you can get it at.
www.BeautyDeal.net
www.Beauty-Mart.com/iso
Amazon.com/health
BizRate.com/haircare
www.shopping.com
Hope you find it, it really works!


I was offered a job in the same company as my fiance. Is it a good idea for a couple to work in the same place. We ride to work together we eat lunch together we ride home together. And if I take this job, we will now be together ALL THE TIME. Could this cause a strain on our relationship? (link)
It could be a stain on your relationship because if you were together all the time it could be stressing and you could get on each other's nerves alot. But if you to get along very well and enjoy each others company so much you can learn to love this job and relationship all in one.


17/f
ok see i have this friend chris, we dated for like a month about two yrs ago, then i broke up with him, and lately we've become friends again, and he still likes me. and for a while ive sort of started to have feelings for him but im not really sure b/c wen i picture kissing him, i cant hold back the grimance...and another bad thing is it's not just him, if i think about kissing any GUY i just get all disgusted(fyi im bisexual)...
is it possible that im becoming a lezbo? not that i mind at all, if i am, well i'll be ok with it......
last week chris asked me out and i told him that i just needed time to fully make up my ind about how i feel about him , adn he was ok with it since he's already been waiting for almost 2yrs...
would it be wrong to go out with him if i wudn't feel comfortable kissing him?
or do ya think that if i stay with him long enough i'll get used to the idea???
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i think you should give him a shot and see how you feel dating him and kissing him if your don't like him you can break up with him and you might know if your a lezbo of not. it's worth a shout at good match and you might find out if your a complete lezbo. Plus you'll know how you really feel about him.


okay I lost my self. I use to be very understanding person and had high postive, well two summer algo i had a freind was so unpostive and betrayed by a freind and well thing is I am over it, but now and days I still have crap going on in head and getting bad thoughts. and I bored these days. I don't do alot, I babysit twice or 3 time a week, I don't drive, I am 23 years old and I have certain disbities, I live with my parents and I have freinds but not freinds i like to have now to talk to. i mean i don't want borther my friends who are in collage and have there own life it good meet new people. well thing is i want my life back I want be postive and understanding again. there a book somewhere that help your selfhelp about being understanding and staying postive alot more? or music? I know i not saying i am mean or anything. just sometimes i get cought up with my minds out no where i say things or get upset easy. and i need trust back, i lost alot trust to. thanks (link)
well what you need to do is figure out what you want to do with the rest of your life. get a job, or start saving up for collage. get out of the house and join activities. this will bring you more friends and you won't be so bored. Keep reminding your self of all the good things and get the negative thoughts out of your mind for good. Go to a book store and find that book that your searching for and read it. it could help you.to get your trust back you got to forgive them and talk out the problem and than hope that it will come back. hope you find your self.


is there anyway i can find this exact clip, but on a different website, that i can also send it to my phone? My phone is a LG VX5400 verizon so it can only send like mini clips. I've been trying to send it from photobucket, but it's blank when i send and recieve it. it can be with or without sound.
thanks! =]
my friend loveeees this movie! so make sure i can also forward it to her!

http://i167.photobucket.com/albums/u125/at0mz/1153445025-ricky_bobby.gif (link)
I would try You tube i already search it out and i see a hole bunch of Ricky bobby clips, but since i haven't see the movie i don't know exactly what you are looking for even though i have see the clip.


can i use


http://shop.avon.com/shop/product.asp?department=&level1_id=300&level2_id=469&pdept_id=536&dept_id=538&pf_id=8781&find_spec=


before i curl my hair with a curling iron so that my curls / waves would look natural and make it long lasting?


if it wont work since youve tried that, what will?



also, if you tried this volume thing:

http://shop.avon.com/shop/product.asp?department=&level1_id=300&level2_id=469&pdept_id=536&dept_id=539&pf_id=8909&find_spec=


tell me if you like it and gives a good biiggg hair


=]

i love hair. thanks =] (link)
I would give those products a try and see if they work for you i use bounce cream and right on curl form iSo. and they really do work for me. Basically you have to try a little bit of this and a little bit of that to find the stuff that works perfectly for you.


ok basically i dated this guy for about 2 years. he broke up with my probably 3 times and then came back. we've now been broken up for maybe 3 months? but during that 3 months we still talked and i still really loved him, and thought maybe he had feelings there too. about a month ago i told him how much i really still loved him and wanted to make it work, and he told me that it just wasnt like that anymore. it realllly hurt. so i decided i really needed to move on. i started hanging out with a lot more guys and i realllly started to get over him. me& him still texted a few times a week, which continued keeping my feelings for him.. about 2 weeks ago he saw this picture of me and a guy on my myspace, and texted me telling me wht a stupid picture it was because the guy was all over me. i think he was jealous? and then he actually deleted me from his friendslist.... since then we hadnt talked. it was the longest we had ever gone without talking. about a week later i requested him as a friend and he DENYED me. like what the hell?? so i figured he was mad at me, and we werent friends or anything lke that anymore. it reallly pissed me off. but i decided whatever, i hated him. about 3 days ago i saw him at the state fair. i shot him a dirty look and walked the other way.. yesterday he texted me saying "why do you give me mean dirty looks for no reason??" and i texted back "why does it matter?" and he said "beacuse you pretend to hate me when you know you love me" and i said "no..i dont" and he said "right." and i didnt text him back. wtff like WHY did he text me??? i was really starting to get over him and then he texted me and i was like wow what an idiot. but now for some reason, today im missing him? i just dont get why he texted me saying that, does he maybe still have feeligns for me? or what? like we hadnt been talking, he said we were done for good, he deleted me off myspace, like why would my dirty looks matter to him?!! (link)
like why would my (YOUR) dirty looks matter to him?!! Well i believe that he still likes you and he's trying the best he can to get over you. he deleted you from myspace because he wanted to delete you from his life but it turns out that it isn't going so well for him anymore. He texted you because he finally gave in. you gave him a reason to talk to you, to text you acutely and he bit. Like i said i believe he still likes you but he's trying his best not to. so everything you do towards him or that he see, he's going to give in like him texting you it's probably because he misses you. deleting you from myspace was probably because he was jealous of you and that guy. and rejecting you from your friend request was like a white flag to him and he's not going to let him self noticeably give in to you. he wants to get over you but i believe he can't. And that he still somewhere in there he still likes you maybe even love.

i think he will give in again and talk to you. and when he does you should get to the bottom of this does he like you, does he not thing that's going on.


I would really like people to explain to me, what you personally feel like love is. I'm not saying I'm in love, I just want to know what everyone thinks it is and how they describe it. I would like to know maybe stuff he does, or the way you feel, did it last? did you get hurt?

I know this sounds completely pointless, but everyone askes if their in love, I just want to know how other people see love through their eyes.

Thanks sorry if this makes no sense :) (link)
the feeling of love, i describe it as a feeling of safety, devotion, and warmth towards one person. where you keep thinking about them and wonder if they are thing of you to of you to. where you feel like you'll die if you'll never see them again.


this will probably get a bit lengthy. I got a summer job at a small store, and there's a guy who works there who's about my age (he's 16, i'm 15) and he told me he liked me a few weeks ago. I told him that i liked him too, but i didn't really want to date anyone. As we got to know each other, i realized i didn't like him very much as anything but a friend. I figured he was getting over me and we could be friends, but then yesterday he told me that he was waiting until i felt ready to date. I don't want him to be waiting for me! I'm not gonna change my mind, and i don't want to deal with the pressure of knowing he won't date anyone but me.

What should I tell him? should i tell him that i don't like him anymore??? how do i do that without being mean? What can I do that hurts him as little as possible? lots of questions... (link)
you should tell him you enjoy his friend ship and don't want to risk it by dating him. tell him if there is a break up that can kill a very good friendship like the one you to have. this is telling him to move on and date people and it's not really a big punch in the face, like saying "i don't like you."




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