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Ok, well me and my boyfriend broke up last night. I'm actually kind of happy, cause now I can see what a jerk he was, but here's what happened: I'm kind of upset over something that's happening at my house and only my best friend and my mom knows, and he kept on going, what's wrong? please tell me. And I told him I wasn't ready to tell him, and he wouldn't stop bothering me about it, and started saying things like, you won't tell your bf a damn thing and that I was pissing him off. So we just broke up. I really felt like he was pressuring me and I didn't want to tell him. And another thing, when we were going out, he would always say he loved me, and I would think that he didn't, because first off, we were online bf/gf, but he only lives an 1 away and we were gonna meet at the movies real soon, but like, how can he love me when we've never even met? And second, we only went out for a month, and I remember him saying that the first day we went out and I totally think he was abusing it. My question is, was he being a jerk and broke up with me for no reason, or should I have told him "just cause we're going out"? And what do you think about him saying I love you. Because I think that if he did, he would have given me the time and waited until I was ready to tell him. And today, I got online and he had "TASHA" with a winky face next to it. Well, he sure has moved on. What do you think about it? Thanks, I'll rate if good.
x3 Erin
He is a jerl amd i hate guys who say i love you with no emotion you were right to not tell him if you 2 didnt see much of eachotehr then you shouldnt have to tell him anything he should have respected that and know that when you are ready you would tell him. Move on cause its obvious he already has... Be happy that he doesnt like you anymore who wants jerks like that saying they love you i bet you would rather a decent guy who only says it when they mean it!
I'm 13 and my brother is 15. He picks on me a lot and sometimes makes me mad but i love him very much. I just wish we were closer. I try to talk to him but he don't talk to me much. How do I get my brother and me to be closer?
Sory but youll have to wait hes at the point where its not cool to chill with your siblings just wiat it out meanwhile chill with your friends. stop worying about it you will get close again just not now.
WILL RATE HIGH my ex boyfriend is really worrying me. i broke up with him because he started to make me think that all he wanted from me was sex. im 14 hes 15. he was asking me if was a virgin (which i am), if i would leave him a sexy message on his messge maching, and he wasnt actualy talkin to me on the fone, it was all thr txt msgs.when i tried to talk to him he wouldnt pic up. and i cant stand relatiotships where there is no communication and he knew that was important to me. i went out with him once before and he broke up with me "because he thought i didnt like him" which didnt make much sense because i always made the first moves, he seemes like a whole different person now. anyway, i knew he drank occasionally and what i thoguht used to do some drugs. but i dont know, he says he has an anger problem and that he's going to get homeschooled. i think that would be worse for him. i know he has problems at home, but his parents are still marrried. he hurts himself, like he beats himself up and i dont understand. i dont think its anger problems i think he nees counsoling. i still care about him and i dont want him to do this to himself. i dont know what i should do...i dont want him to hurt himself
Okay well your talking to the main self abuser ive done Anorexia and cutting and i know the reasons for doing it. He is insecure i think. It shows by him teling you he thought you didnt like him and the fact that he beats himself up that just shows that right now hes not happy with himself. The whole virginity thing well he probably just feels that your very attractive and that you having sex with him would make him feel sexy because a girl finds him attractive. All this is just his deeper need to feel needed make sure hes feeling supportive by you. Just be sweet and show him that you love him. tell him taht although you love him doesnt mean having sex it means making him know you love him.
I have a friend who I dated in High School and I have been in love with him since I can remember. He broke up with me then due to personal matters and we stay in contact. We are now both divorced and he is still very anti-love relationship. We have been intimate on occasion, but I want him so bad it hurts and I continue to play it cool but its so hard. How do I assist in turning this relationship into more than just friends?
I spent three years with a guy and i fell inlove but sudenly he just stoped wanting me in that way what i did is i established the fact that i might not be able to move on but i could try. I went out with this guy eric and now im completly inlove hes amazing the trick was to find someone better. Find out if your Friend would like to be more and if he says no then thats it. Its how he feels and you have to try moving on.
I NEED SERIOUS HELPPPPPPPP!
My friend and I recently had a huge fight.
She started to spread rumors about me.
HALF OF THE PEOPLE at school want to murder me.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
How horrible. get back at that bitch!! Okay first try being phony with her say your sory and shit and make sure you two are seen in school together when you feel you are in a public place that alot of people can see you. Turn around and starts yelling "I dont care if your sory about spreading those damn rumors and if you wish you could be my friend again just back off cause your a (Curse word)and your getting annoying calling my house every night apologizing" she will be tO shocked to talk and everyoen around will get the point that the rumors were not true and they might even start to dislike that bitch. It works believe me.... I know it sounds mean but She sounds like she deserves it.
im failing math, not by much, i have a 69 and a c is a 70, i just took a test and think i did pretty good so it should be a c now but i have to get a report card signed with the f on it and in like a week were getting our official grade cards with my f on it.i cant show my parents it, ive always been a great student until this year, now im getting only 2 a's , one b i pulled up from a c, a high c, and now this f.and im just so upset with myself for it and now i have to tell my parents who are putting it on me to raise my grades and reminding me that this is my worst grades every and i just cant do it(tell them), i especially dont want my dad to know and its almost the end of the year so i hardly have time to bring it up and if i do bad again im screwed for sure, how do i tell them? how do i bring up my grade?(im not sure my teacher is giving extra credit work anymore) and how do i not fail by the end of the year?
how do i tell them?
ive never even had a c befor this year
how do i tell them?
sorry its so long
Believe me i know exactly how you feel. Alright tell your parents that you dont need to hear anything about your grades from them and that its already bad enough and how your so upset and you wish you didnt mess up so badly this year make sure to say that you will try harder. As for bringing up your grades talk to your teachers and say that you have never done this badly and if there was anything you can do to bring it up and if there are any extra credit assignments. If there arnt any ask if they could make any for you. Hope i helped
ok here the thing. i like this one girl. i've heard she likes me too but i'm not sure.and we haven't talked in about a year. (we've went out before)wat do i do?
It seems to me that if you two havnt talked in about a year that you should start before anyone asks anybody out so make sure not to do that. Just talk to her and say "Heyy you know what we should hang out some time" just keep it casual. Make sure to start a conversation firt be like heyy (her name) havnt talkedt o you in awhile. Hope i helped
Is it a turnoff if a girl asks a guy out???
And can you like kinda clarify... i really need help... anyone... i rate high
Gomesy
Of cource its not its all about how confident you are in doing so. if your not confident enough to ask them out then dont. I've asked guys out before but i mainly stick to waiting for them to ask. Try saying stuff like you find him attractive just be confident cause thats a big turnon.