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Thinking about suicide? Think about this
You've decided to do it. Life is impossible. Suicide is your way out.
Fine--but before you kill yourself consider these facts:
Suicide is not usually successful.
You think you know a guaranteed way?
Ask the 25-year-old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived. But, both his arms are gone.
What about jumping?
Ask John. He used to be intelligent , with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leapt from a building. Now, he's brain- damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fog. But, worst of all, he KNOWS he used to be normal.
What about pills?
Ask the 12-year-old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.
What about a gun?
Ask the 24-year-old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "foolproof" suicide.
You might too.
But...
Who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse that job- -but SOMEONE has to do it. Who will have to cut you down from where you hung yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned?
Your father?
Your mother?
Your wife?
Your son?
The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will NEVER completely recover. They'll feel regret and an unending pain.
Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. Look closely at the 4 year old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight, and he may do it ten years from now.
You DO have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend.
Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or hospital.
Call the police.
They will tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow. Or in a phone call this weekend. But what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.
You say you don't want to be stopped? Still want to do it?
Well, then, I may see you in the psychiatric ward later.
And we'll work with whatever you have left.
I love you all LOTS
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I wish girls didnt like me becuz of my looks I mean I try to find some I like and I am so popular at my school but they just like me becuz of my looks and the spread stories around that I have sex on the first date and stuff liek that and I do have a girlfriend and we been going out sence 8th grade and we are in the 10th grade now but the other girls always tells my girl friend that I am cheating on her and I am really not please help (link)
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Just tell you girl friend about what the girls are doing and tell her you love her to much to do something liek that you cant change the way girls feel about you or your looks
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ok see like my moms going out with this guy..hes kool and all just stupid stuff that really annoys me about him..like the fact that everytime i do somthing wrong he wont come n tell me he tells my mom n she overreacts about it..for example the time i left my straightener on on the bed..he want and told my mom about it but he wouldn't come n tell me..so i get in over trouble cuz my mom thinks its a BIG deal when its really not ..and like he nags my mom all the time about how i dont know how to cook, clean, do laundry, chores, fold clothes, make the bed good..etc and then i get bitched at for not knowing how to do it and its not my fault..anyways people say i should tell him how i feel but i dont want to hurt their relationship and i dont want him to be mad at me.. i dont know id feel bad :/ well wut should i do?
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Well I know you said you didnt want to but it probably would make the relationship allot better just tell him he can just tell you in stead of you mom its the best thing if you dont do it now it will just get worst
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okay so im 14 and im ready to more with guys than just make out and i was wodnering like .. i know a lot of girls shave .. and i was wondering like how much to shave and like what it shoudld loook like i guess.. not to be sick but im just wodnering .. cuz i dont want to get embarassed please just give me some advice (link)
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shave the front and like a inch behind just try to look your best and I know this hurts but I would wax becuz when you shave it still leaves some patches of hair here a there and you cant alway get it I really dont know why]
hope I helped
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I am a girl and 13 and i'm obsessed with a 41 year old actor, (Johnny Depp). Is this a bad thing to want to be with a man that much older than I am?
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NO its so normal I was looking at a Magazine and he was choosen to be the hottest guy of november month every girl likes him.. well most of them like him he looks really good for his age
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How old do you think a girl has to be to sleep over at their boyfriends house, say if their boyfriend was the same age or 1 year older? (link)
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I think 16-18 are some of the best ages but then if you move out sleep over and who evers house you want but 15 is good if there is adults it depends
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okay i know this is nasty- but you know how when you work out, etc, sweating makes you loose calories or w/e? Well just say you work out for a long long time, and sweat alot, and you don't get home for awhile and so you cant take a shower and wash the sweat off of your body, so the sweat like sinks back into you kinda or it dries up or w/e.. ew i know gross, but does that mean you dont loose any weight cause the sweat just went back into ur body?? [gross i know] (link)
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NO it doesnt the sweat dries up but you still lost weight its all cool lol
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ok I'll start from the beginning,
one day I ask this girl out. I tell her a few nice things. then I ask her out. she says let me get back to you. well she goes and and tells her friends what happened. so they go hide & talk.
well after lunch shes yes. two days after shes yes she breaks up with me. now thats been about 6mons. ago. and I still have feelings for her.
I also hear she still has feelings for me.
but I'm scared that if I ask her she'll say no.
what should I do? (link)
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Well the thing is that you never know tell you ask her out evan if she says no there will be allot more gitls out there for you I would ask her out if I where you she might be thinking the same thing as you so go for it
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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
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Thats normal all women do it nothing is wrong with you all that happends is that you watch it and get into it and want to do some thing about it
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My cat came to my house as a stray she is was declawed... i put her with my kitten he isnt neuterd she is getting fatter how can i tell she is pregnant? (link)
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Feel under her if it feels like bumps like big bumps like gulf balls thens she pregnant
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My friend and I experimented with each other. Were both 13 and are both girls also. We kissed, french kissed, nibbled and felt on each other, but nothing "below the belt." I would just like to know does that mean were lovers if we don't have boyfriends? We never had sex before and we experimented, but not "below the belt." Does that mean were not virgins anymore? Help!! (link)
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yall are ok I mean I did the same thing yall arent lovers it is perfectly normal for young girls below the ages of 15 to experiment on each other and no you are still virgen look at teen vogue they some times have stuff about what you did and tells you about it and all
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is it possible to get constipated from cheese (link)
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It is but thats if you eat allot but they say that only old people get constipated because of cheese but I dont know becuz I'm not a big fan on cheese lol nor am I old
Megan
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does braces hurt when they tighten them and o yeah what are some good colors for them 2 and well not being racsit but i need some people who wear braces to tell but if anybody elese wants to answer feel free. (link)
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Well it hurts a little but not as bad as you first get them and some good colors are
red and blue
purple and green
pink and blue
green and pink
yellow and blue
orange and blue
green and blue
Megan
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What are some good excersises to getting a six pack? (im a girl) (link)
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sit ups 30 minutes a day 3 times a week it really does help in about a month or you can do it every day 30 minutes in a week you will have a 6 pack
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has anyone seen the phantom of the opera movie? and if so what did you think of it compared to the musical? (link)
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I seen it and it was an ok movie its kind of a movie you go and see with your friends so you can laugh at the stupid parts lol
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I'm overweight... I participate in a lot of sports and i think i get enough excercise... i could be doing more... but my big problem is sweets... its like an addiction... i just cant seem to stop eating them!!!!!! does anyone have any ideas on how to help me eat more healthy? (link)
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THey make suger free candy and stuff like that they have them at walmart or publix
Megan
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Hey guys. Sherry here. My little sister (10) got like white stuff on her underwear like a few weeks ago and yeah I knew it was normal but she told me just today that she got a really small red spot on her underwear...I never got these spots before my period or anything so do you think she'll get her period soon? She's really young though so idk! thanks:) I'll rate! (link)
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She is starting the ages are 9-17 my sister is 16 and hasnt started yet and I started when I was 12 and now I am 14 its noraml hope I helped
Megan
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You know those pictures that people put on their websites (especially xangas and stuff) that are like square.. and then they say little quotes on them? Does anyone know what I'm talking about? Can someone PLEASE tell me where to find them! I will rate 5's!! Thank u!! (link)
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they are jsut little icons for aol you can right click on one you like and save picture as thats what will come
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I love you how can fix that lol (link)
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Aw I love you too why would you want to fix dat
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I love you how can fix that lol (link)
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I love you too
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I love you how can fix that lol (link)
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AW I love you too
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