ok, i have three really good friends that are girls. (lets call the jane, lacy, and kacy) jane goes through guys like a kid eating candy! every week (just about) she calls me to tell me about her new boyfriend. lacy and kacy both are in a long term relationship, and have had a long term relationships before. i have never had a boyfriend, never held hands, kissed.... and i am feeling really left out! one of my guy friends likes my best friend, and i feel so jealous! i dont have a "crush" right now...i dont throw my heart out there. my cousins both have boyfriends, and are bringing them to Christmas at my house. i am feeling really jealous and left out...any tips? what do guys look for in a girl? sorry this is so long...its just very important to me.
First thing is first, you really dont need a bf rite, but it totally normal to feel like that. yet dont rush things, if a guy was meant to be he will come toward you. just try to be more outgoing and not shy, be yourself, and have confedense. BE YOURSLEF, with a little more flirt, but dont go over the top. Love is a delicate thing, dont go overboard and have someone love you for someone your not, beacause if you do, in the end you will feel worse than you do now.
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my dad is such a jerk. i'm not going to try to make this sound any worse than it is. ok well he, i guess, "verbally abuses" me. he doesn't treat me like a daughter. the other day he called me a slut, which i'm not, and he cussed me out because he doesn't trust me. i haven't even done anything. he thinks im a druggy too. he tells me that i'm just a mistake. it hurts so bad. i want to run away, but i'm trying to stop myself. im just really afraid he's going to hit me. he jerks me around, but not too bad. i need advice. dont tell me to talk to him about it.
I am so sorry about what you are going through but hold on it will get better. Try to tell a teacher or someone you trust about it, but that will be hard, if your not ready just wait... And dont belive him you are so much better than that, you are NOT a slut and NOT a mistake. Even though it doesnt seem like it at all everything does happen for a reason hang on things will get better and if they dont someone who loves you will help you, you just have to make that first step. I really hope this works and things go rite for you.
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Ok I am not a geek and I am not popular. I am in the middle and I am sure of it. I am in 8th grade and I have never had a boyfriend before. In all I have asked 4 guys out and they all turned me down. I am pretty...but not like WOW GOREGOUS pretty but resonably cute. I have to ask is there something wrong with me?
-single and hatin it
Rite now having a boyfriend is a huge thing, but dont worry Im in 8th to and dont have a boyfriend. Rite now you really dont have to have a boyfriend, there isnt anything wrong if you dont. Dont worry what people think of you only think about how you think of yourself. I know its going to take a while for this to sink in, but take time your not going to marry any of this guys, and everything like this wil happen for a reason, you just havent found your true love yet but dont worry i promise you you will.
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My friend has has some things happen to her this year, and she cut herself afew days ago! She is the nicest person I have ever met in my entire life and I'm not even exaderating. What should I do?
If any one could change her it would be you. Dont tell anyone yet even though it would help her in the long run it will make her life more miserable and hard now. you have to talk to her. Tell her life is better and will get better, tell her you will be there and if she loved you she would try her best to stop. Help try to fix her problems be there for her no matter what dont give up, becuase even if you lose a friendship you wont lose a friend, cutting can led to suicide and if your the friend you know you are you wont let that happen. If it gets to out of hand then tell someone but for now rely on yourself.
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