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I have fallen in love with someone who doesnt feel the same. when he's infront of me he's like the sweetest person in the world, everyone who knows us are always saying what a good couple we'd make, people already think we're dating! however, when he isn't around me, say we dont see eachother for a bit he'd completely ignore me. well, ive fallen in love with him now and i cant get him out my head. he is not interestd as i told him how i feel, he told me staight up hes not interested and he has a girl. but i dont understand why he gets jelous when i talk to other boys though. he still stays with me all day at work, we have a laugh, he just doesnt want a relationship. he stares at me, touches me, jokes about and shows he cares but i really dont understand it. please give me some advice to get over him?
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This guy seems to be giving out all the signs that he likes you. Maybe when you told him how you feel he just thought it was the wrong time to ask you our. Maybe he thinks it is the wrong time to get into relationships. I defiantly think he likes you. When he told you there was another girl, he was probably lying because he might secretly be in love with you. If you want to know for sure, please email me his character and exactly how he acts around you. For any more advice please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com, if you want to know more about me please go to my temporary website www.AskAliceMadisson.webstarts.com. I give professional advice
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So I have this friend. He is gay. We share a lot of laughs, a lot of tears, and we've been through a lot with each other. He's funny and a really cool person, but sometimes he gets on my nerves.
I used to shake it off, but now it is unbearable. He's depressed but pushes away my advice. He sulks and cries over breakups when he has guys all over him. He's naggy, dramatic, rude, and spoiled. My family was cleaning the house today and he sat around doing nothing. He didn't offer any help. I find him very disrespectful lately. He causes a lot of drama, too. He posts it on facebook and tries to get me in between it. I just can't stand him lately. He's my best friend, but I walk on glass to please him when he never does it for me. I am done tolerating his rude behavior. My family can't stand him, either.
Today he got mad because I was on the phone with the guy he hooked me up with. He said I was rude but earlier he said he didn't care how long I talked on the phone. He starts crap and he lies about his life. He said he was super rich and I went to his house once and it was just a tiny little shack. I'm so tired of his selfishness. I can't ever make him happy. He complains that he's fat and ugly and I tell him different and he always accuses me of lying. I just want to end the friendship, but somehow I know I will miss him if I do. I get so irritated.
Any advice? (link)
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Since he is gay, he is hard to get along with. Gay people tend to have mood swings because people make fun if them for being what they are. Usually gay people can't stand up for themselves. What I think your friends problem could be is that he is being told by his parents that being gay is not good, and/or, he could have some problems standing up for himself. So what he is going through now could just be him showing people he knows will not get mad at him that he can stand up for himself. I think your gay friend really needs you to be his friend. Since you are his friend you should talk to him and ask him why he is behaving like this. For a proper answer you should email exactly what his character was before and how it is now. For any more advice please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com, if you want to know more about me please go to my temporary website www.AskAliceMadisson.webstarts.com. I give professional advice
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i need help!!one of my friends is violent wen shes mad and i dont realy know why but shes happy wen people are scared of her i dont know if i should stay friends cause i have a friend that is scared of her and my friend doesnt like her its hard who sould i chooes? (link)
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I think that your friend might have some problems that need some urgent attention. I think that she is lacking attention at home and that she tries to get peoples attention by acting out. I think you should stay with your normal friends at school but in the weekend or after school, you should go somewhere with her to make her feel like she has some one. But make sure other people are around. If you want proper advice you need to tell me what she is like and what she does to scare people.Please email me that if you would like me to help you further. For any more advice please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com, if you want to know more about me please go to my temporary website www.AskAliceMadisson.webstarts.com. I give professional advice
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i'll try to keep it short: i'm 21, female, and i currently weigh 170 i believe.
i used to be 120 something, then it went up to around 140 something, now the scale is telling me i'm 170!!!!!!!! i gained most of my weight after meeting my boyfriend and now it just seems like i can't stop gaining weight. why am i all of a sudden gaining so much weight and how can i shed it off quickly? thank you all. (link)
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You seem to have started gaining weight since you met your boyfriend. Is there some difficulties going on between you. Because what people tend to do is when they feel something is not right but they don't want to admit it, they eat allot. They tend to gain weight very fast. I think you should try to find out if you have any problems with your boyfriend. And if that is not the issue, people tend to eat allot of midday snakes, I suggest you eat cereal bars for that or nut bars. Also eat lots of fruit. For any more advice please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com, if you want to know more about me please go to my temporary website www.AskAliceMadisson.webstarts.com. I give professional advice.
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i don;t know what is wrong with me but i feel so lonely and i want a boyfriend soo badly :S
lol
does anyone have any tips on how i can find people or go out and date? anything on the subject would be great. or any experiences you have gone through thanks ..:) (link)
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Finding a boyfriend is hard. But you should allways know that when you stop looking it will come to you. If you try really hard to get guys to like you, you might look a little desprate and that would make guys not want to go out with you. If you want a deeper answer you should tell me more about your characteristics so I can tell you a clear solution. If you have any more questions please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com I am professional at giving advice. IF you want to know more about me please go to my temporary website www.askalicemadisson.webstarts.com
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i broke up with my ex cause he had cheated on me
i had no plans of going back to him
and i stopped talking to him completely
but then he keeps on calling me everyday and saying sorry
i dont know what he wants cause
he does say sorry and says he feels terrible for everything
but not once has he mentioned he wants me back
i miss him a alot and obv i want him to come back so u see its very hard for me to be rude to him and not talk at all
what do you think he wants?
he just wants to be friends?
or is he just lying cause he doesnt want me to hate him forever cause we have a lot of mutual friends?
or..
he does love me but is scared to tell me he wants me back?! (link)
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I am not going to say that he wants you back, or that he just wants to be friends. But I am going to say that to answer your question you need to give some more details about the kind of person your ex is. Then I can give you a proper answer. If you want some professional advice, please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com. If you want to know more about me and why I am asking what your ex is like look on my website www.askalicemadisson.webstarts.com.
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I've been dating my boyfriend for a month now and it's been the best month ever because he's the first of a handful of guys who've made me happy. So far, we mostly hug and kiss. I feel like I do most of the talking, but I know it's just because he's shy, which is totally cute. I was wondering, though, is there anything we can do other than this or is there a way to make it better, maybe get him talking more?
By the way, I don't mean anything sexual since he's obviously too shy and I'm terrified of the idea of it... And we're too young, haha, so yea.
Basically, is there anyway to get him talking more maybe? Or some way to cuddle with him more? (link)
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Hi,
I know how it is to have a shy boyfriend, I had plenty back in high school. Since this is only the first moth you guys are dating, he still needs to learn to open up to you. Trust me. He is shy, and also from what you said, he might be afraid that if you does something more, you might dump him. Just wait for another month and I am sure he will open up to you. If you want more advice please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com, I am a professional advice column writer and I answer your questions free of charge. Just email me.
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