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Q: Ok this guy really likes me. He asked me out today. I didnt want to hurt his feelings by sayin no so I said I dont know. And he started crying. I felt soo bad. What should i do?? He's 15/m and im 13/f. Please help. I rate high.
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If he cryed he really must have feeling for you!! The age dont matter. If you like someone and have feelings for them nothings going to stop that!! But if you dont want to go out with him dont go out with him cause its only going to hurt him worse in the end when he finds out why you went out with him. Most of all dont go out with him thinking you'll learn to like him. Love aint like math like you'll learn how to do it. But i really think he likes you and you should give him a chance. Let me no how things turn up
Love'
Sweetie Pie Ashley
I read your feed back. IF he hit you dont go out with him!! And your brother will be pissed. Just tell him what you told me that your bro will be mad and your mom and dad dont want you dating him.
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Q: how do you get over a broken heart?
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Go out with you girls and have a great night!! Dont go out with another boy right after take some time to get over the lover. Dont go out with another boy right after you brake up with them cause ive done that not good. I broke up with a great lover and then i went out with another one fell in love and broke up then went out with another boy to get over them two boys and then we broke up and i just kept doing it and i just made things worse. But when your ready to move on then you should.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: 13/f - Yesterday I think my mom walked in on me and my BFF watching porn on my computer. Im not positive if she saw EVERYTHING because we clicked out fast, but its been akward between us all morning! I dont know what to do/say or if im just being paranoid and she didnt see. What do i do here?! My friend just went home, but still my mom hasnt said a word about it. i feel SO AWKWARD! HELP ME PLEASE
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lol sorry but thats funny. I would have felt like a dork if my mom walked in. Well jus tact like you always act dont let her think there something up just in case she didnt see it. And if she seen it beleive me i think she would have said something lol. I hope the porn was good!! Maybe next time like make sure she aint around to see.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: How long does it take for a symtom of an STD to show up? I just gave my boyfriend a blow job last night for the first time and now i have a sore in my mouth. Could it be an STD and should i be worried? Thanks so much.
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Well it could be something from that. Maybe he had herpes like the other girl said but then you dont no. Id say that if it dont go away really really soon then you should go get it checked!!
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: this may be weird but i was just wondering if you could bleach hair on your body with regular laundry bleach. please help and ill rate
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Dont bleach eats away your skin. My dad does long homes and bleaches then first and it ate away his hands skin and it was bad!!Dont do it!!You could use the stuff for hair but i herd that you can use peroxide my sis did it once.
Love,
AsssHleYyYy
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Q: I feel emontionally unable to control my self at times . Im only 15 and I have to go throught menopause. I very stressed and I just wanna give up. My bf wants me to change a part of myself for him (stop datting girls) but i dont even have enough feeling for that him and im a female. Im really need to stop doing overdose and im going to cut myself. What shoud i do?
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Dont ever change for someone!! If they dont like you for who you are then forget them hun. There sure in the hell aint nothing wrong with being BI. And about the emontionally thing its really hard. Ive been there so many times in my life. For that i think you need to talk to someone. To me it took alot to ask for help from my mom and when i did she never talked about it again. People dont under stand things like we do. They just dont realize how hard it is to ask for help and it really hurt to ask and not be helped and to deal with stressed things on your own. So if you can ask for help. Most of all dont cut yourself!! Just dont people do it and they like show it off im like omg what the hell. But i under stand you have reasons but well you no what i mean when i say ive been there before. I scared friends so bad and i scare myself just thinking about it now. Some times i think about doing it but....i talk myself out of it. And im sure your bf dont want to see that on your arm!! And i hope your bf learns that liking girls is just apart of you hes gonna have to deal with and take you for who you are. Does your bf no about you wanting to cut yourself? Cause if he cares for you talk to him about it if you dont want to ask your family for help. Ive found out if you have a great bf they'll help you through stressed times really good. They'll back you up and be there to pick you up when you need the help most of all they'll just care and listen to you like no one does in your life. I hoped i helped cause i think i did alittle cause ive been there but if i left any feelings or questions un answered write back!!and write back and let me now how things are!!hoped i helped and stay strong..
Love,
AssHlyYYy
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Q: 13/f
I used to wish my bf would take our relationship more seriously. I wished he weren't so prude. Well, I finally worked up the courage to kiss him one day. But now he's so different. After we kissed he said it wasn't as awkward and now all he wants to do is talk romantic, hold me, kiss me, etc. I miss the times when we were more like friends. I feel like we're going too fast (since we're only 13). I don't know what to do and if I talk to him, he might get mad or something. Got any advice for me please?
MH
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Well i had my first kiss in 4th grade so being 13 aint bad. Theres nothing wrong with kissing. Yeah your right your only 13 and sex would be alittle to much i no. If you dont like it just tell him. He seems like a sweet boy and wont get mad. Just when he goes to kiss you just be like bab i no you love me and love to kiss me but i just wish that we could just talk alittle. Also when you say friends do you do you mean like not go out any more? If you feel to awkward you might wanna take a break but he sound like a great boy!! Let me no how things go.
good luck :o)
Love'
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: How do you know when your boyfriend/girlfriend is ready to have sex? I'm ready, but I don't know how to find out if he is.
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Well just come out and say it "I wanna have sex do you?". Just have safe sex !!!
Love,
Sweeti Pie Ashley
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Q: hey again, it's me, the 15 year old who has a boy friend who pays no attention to her, haha yeah well it has always been like that, so really he has always ignored me, first it was the play station, then it was the X Box, and now its the PSP! I don’t no, and yes I have tried playing them, but they don’t make me as happy as they make him, I mean yes he can play them, but when I go over his house, I just kind of want it to be us, yah no? I’m still not sure what to do. And here’s another funny thing, he called me today!!!!! Yea well he only did that cause he’s trying to win me over again, (he can tell when I’m mad at him for ignoring me ) so he gets all wish washy wit me and then I’m stuck again ha...I have so many problems, and thanks for helping on my other one, but i just thought id let u no the rest of I’t, thank you Ashley!!
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lol well at least he noes you. I hope things work out for the two of you. Good Luck!!
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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LOL i love people like you. Im not really a lez but me and my girls joke you no. All girls do it. We all say were BI and everything its funny boys love it but they'll never really not the trueth cause its a girl thing. But IM NOT A LEZ!! Theres nothing wrong with them iv none a few lezs in my life before but i would not pick to be one I LOVE BOYS im boy crazy!!
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q:
Hey Ashley, i was online and i found your page, its kute, i have one too, but i just wanted to ask u a question...im 15 and im from PA..well hmm lets see, ive been with this guy for about 2 years now, and i love him with all my heart, we have been threw so much together, however i just wish he was how he was before...see now he never calls, he never talks to me, and when i finnaly get the chance to see him, hes always playing video games..and he is sometimes rude to me, but i dont think he relizes how much he is sometimes...i dont no what to do, ive asked my friends and they all just say to dump him, but thats easier said then done...and i have alot of guy friends that i could easily go out with, but i only want him....i thought i was in love, but now all he wants to do is ditch me for a gay game...and yes i have tried talking to him, a million times, but he isnt going to change for anyone, he says that video gamez are very important to him, maybe even more important then me...i just want him to love me how i love him....what should i do in this situation...?? please let me no!!! =) thank you
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Hey im so glad you asked for my help. I no how this one feels hun. How long has the games been more important? Well i used to have bf like this but he was all into skate boerding and that such stuff. His only lasted awhile not to long. But if this has been going on along time then theres a problem. I cant beleive even after a talk he still treats you like this. If you dont want to leave him dont!! Also dont listen to your friend (there great and everything but there not in your shoes) Well try this one if your gonna stay try playing the games with him that should be fun you could get to no why he likes them so much. If you dont want to play sit him down and talk with a strong voice. Just come out and say *bab i cant take this anymore your really upsetting me and you dont see how much i love you and i cant even show you cause your damn face is stuck to the damn game. I no you gotta care about me so why dont you show me. Dont throw away our love for a game cause its going to far your being mean and your hurting my feelings and i just dont think i can take it so plz show me what i gotta do for you to show me. Whats better the game or me? I dont think you see it hun but your loosing me day by day and i dont want you out of my love life i want you. I can get any guy but your the one ill always love so plz try to make this work with me* If not hun maybe you should just go i no its hard but staying with him might hurt you worse. I hope the little talk i gave to you to say to him will help cause i no how it is to dump a boy you really love over something so dumb and i wish i never dumped him now!! Well let me no how things turn up..And try to work things out before dumping him.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: i dont usually do this but ok..im in love with this one guy that i've been with for 11 months, and he claims he is in love with me, but when we get in an arguement he says he doesnt love me right now, which is weird bc i thought that if you was in love with someoen you would love them unconditionally, he makes all the rules and doesnt let me have input on anything.every timei talk to him i end up crying bc he hurts me so bad emotionally..the only time he acts good to me is when he is about to get something(you know what i mean) after that he's back to his normal self.what should i do? i try leaving him but i always get weak and run back to him.i love him alot and i dnt know what i should do.i try telling him how i feel and he gets pissed so i just keep it to myself..im getting really close with this other guy who feels the same way about me as i do my guy, and i dont know what i should do, i love the guy im with, not the one who treats me like a goddess,..*confused*..what should i do..sorry its so long..forgive me lol
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Never stay with a guy like this!! it never is good the fights will get worse. You dont want to get hurt in any kinda way and if he makes all the rules that aint fair cause when it comes to a relashionship it goes both ways you work together not one works and the other dont. And wow if you cant talk to him about your feelings then you should for sure leave. Thats what your lovers are there for to listen and love you at all times not just when hes getting ready to get something. If you need help after you two brake up you always got that other guy to be there to hold you when you need held and to support you through it. But its your choice and its hard to leave the one your in love with i under stand. Hope you make the right choice.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: Do you guys think it's okay to think that no matter what you do to me, if you apologize and are sincere about it, I will forgive you. That's how I've always been. I just feel that it take courage to apologize to someone after you've hurt them and if you do do it then you are truly sorry. I know sometimes people just throw around the "I'm sorry's" but most don't. Everyone makes mistakes (I know I do) and they need to be forgiven. What do you guys think of that?
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I feel the same way. I forgive to much i really do. All my friends yell at me. But its great to no that your that kinda person too. There should be more people out there like us. And its so true that people must really mean it if they have the bravness to say it. It's hard to do it to i no. I wont lie i dislike people you dont mean it and joke about it. But its ok to forgive them really it is. Im glad that you asked such a great question!!
Love Your Girl'
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: yea well you see im really worried b/c today my boyfriend for about 1 month and a couple weeks IMs me and is all like do u think were moving too slow? and i asked him in what way and he was like well u know...so i asked him what he wants...but he didnt tell me yet. I like him and all but i dont feel ready to go farther than 2nd base with him... i know him pretty well but not well enough. I dont want to hear that i should just break up with him becasue its easier said than done... if i want to talk to him... break up with him... what are some ways i could do it?
PS if its helpful we havent gona to far... like weve hooked up and hes felt me up but thats pretty much it. hes tried to drop hints that he wants more i think.
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Well hun i no just how you feel. If you aint ready for moving on dont you even dare step off 2nd bace for him!! If he really likes you then he'll wait for you. All true boys/man will if not hun push him off the bace and stay lol. Your right you should talk to him about it just like go out to eat or maybe go over one another house. Sit him down and just say it flat out im not ready to go that fast. Tell him and make sure you make it clean that you really do like him. Dont just dump him before talking this one out dont. Some times us girl justt take things alittle to far and get scared and then turn to a gfs and they say leave him before he does something dumb. But all girls do that. He also didnt tell you what he ment yet so you really dont no so dont get that scared. And your not that old im gussing so dont worry about it im sure you pretty and if this boy screws up or something that means theres even someone better out there for you.
Love Your Girl,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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bio
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^At the Glo Show
(from left to right)
Lisa
Sam
Ashley(me)
Hey!! How you all doing today? Well im ok i guess people. My names Ashley im 15. I go to the dumbest school ever Shenango!! I love to hang with my friends, partying, listening to music, riding my horses, talking on the phone, watching lifetime. Ohs i have black hair brown eyes 5'1 and a 1/2 cant forget that 1/5 115lbs(im fat i no) dont tell danielle i said that she'll kick my ass!!lol oh yeah im BI!!! I'm a freindly person and i love to meet new people and try new things. I'm a smart girl too but i have no commion sence!!Well i dont no what eles to say but ask my some great qestions plz im here to help when it comes to anything. Every one says im a great peron to talk to about problems. Well i love all of you Poop butts!!
*:.rate me !
.:*[a]ddiction: Boys
*:.[b]irthday: March 1
.:*[c]olor: light babi blue
*:.[d]ream: To have a great life someday(Nikki live with me)
.:*[e]yes: lots colors
*:.[f]riends: too many to name!
.:*[g]rade average: B+ ? lol
*:.[h]air color: Black with some red
.:*[i]nterests: Partying % hanging with friend
*:.[j]ob: barn cleaner
.:*[k]razy: KRAZY AINT EVEN THE WORD FOR ME!!
*:.[l]ocation: in a sucky place called New Castle
.:*[m]usic: Punk, Rap, Metal, Rock
*:.[n]ame: Skeeter
.:*[o]bsession: SEX
*:.[p]lace: Computer room
.:*[q]uotes: love quotes
*:.[r]ace: um..Indian
.:*[s]pecial talents: I can lick my boob
*:.[t]ell something about you: I love my girlsss
.:*[u]nbelievably embarressing moment: too many to name!!
*:.[v]ery best thing about me: My sexi body(Lisa you no you want this)
.:*[w]orst thing about me: I cry over everything
*:.[x]tremly daring stunts: I can hide boys
.:*[y]ummy food: Fruit
*:.[z]odiac sign: if only i new how to spell it LOL
.:*[1]love
*:.[2]Friends
.:*[3]Party
*:.[4]Drinking
.:*[5]Sex
*:.[6]Sexi boys
.:*[7]God(what god??)
*:.[8]peroids
.:*[9]Hair
Video code provided by HotCodez.com
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: PA Age: 15 AIM: Member Since: May 3, 2005 Answers: 94 Last Update: August 28, 2005 Visitors: 9143
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