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i've just gotten a modeling audition for a prestigious program. I'm average looking with brown hair,brown eyes,and skin. I'm 13 and i'm 5'1. Should I do the program or should I turn it down?

why not? if you get a contract you can turn it to a career and it just seems like a good opputunity -- id take it -- seems worth it to me .. plus if you get turned down you can take it as practice for the future .. your young -- gotta lot ahead of you.

-- hope this helps -- x0x --

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I'm kinda scared of shots, and tomorrow i have to go to the doctor to get a physical and i have to get a tetnis shot. im freaking out. do u have any tricks to help me relax or to numb the pain? i need some advice asap b/c the appointment's tomorrow morning. thx!
signed, shot-phobia

its not that bad, just breath before during and after the docotrs givin u the shot, and ask 2 squeeze someones hand to relieve the stress

-- it shouldnt hurt that bad after if u move your arm around a lot, but i kno my arm hurt 4 about a week after because i didnt want to move my arm around -- its a good excuse 2 get outa things and its just soreness so its not that bad

-- hope this helps -- x0x --

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Ok, so Im sopussed to go on this vacation to this rented house on a beach with my moms side of the family and Im not really close to them like yeah I never talk to anyone of them but no matter how much I begged not to go my mom still said I had to; but then when my brother asked not to go she didnt care. So Im kinda already mad at my mom for that. Then my friend could go to help me not be so miserable but my mom wont help pay for her with the money that she was gonna use for my brother. Im inbetween going and not going because #1 there is a SLIGHT chance it could be fun, but #2 it could be really boring, #3 my mom would be miserable without one of us kids around with her, and #4 Id get a grand tan. So if you were me would you go?

I would go -- just for the experience. you never know, u just might have some fun

-- hope this helps a lil -- x0x --

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I've read before that pink eyeshadow is not a good shade for your eye for some reason- is this true, and if so why?

yeah..well bright pink -- lighter shades arent bad if you blend them with other shades -- and bright pink DOSENT work well because, just look at it -- its pretty bad..its kinda like blue eyeshadow..its just not right most of the time

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okay .. one of my really good guy friends is moving away. im 13/f and we just finished 8th grade.. well i want to have a moving party for hym and make it a suprise..
what kind of theme do we need ??
What Gift Should We Give Him??

i rate high bc thys kid is pretty much y best friend

well why dont you just make it a really nice event that you and all your friends can chill at and have a great time before he leaves. a gift? well maybe be creative and make like a collage of all your memories together..&/or a gift for his new room, something unforgetable that will always be in his heart.

-- hope this helps cuz i kno this type of situation is hard -- x0x

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Just wondering and don't ask why ( you might not want to know ) if there is anyway I could knock a guy unconcious without him knowing or waking up for an entire night or at least a few hours or being to ovious like hitting him with a vase or anything. Just wondering. :)

u use Chloroform..u can get it at the pharmacy.. but i'm very interested in what you plan to do.. haha leave it in my inbox 4 me? ..

-- x0x --

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This guy is really cool. But, it's so confusing to tell if he likes me. First, he has a cute nickname for me, and he touches my shoulders a lot when we're walking. Also, he gives me complements and looks right into my eyes when we talk. I also catch him starring at me during class sometimes like at my legs or at my face. Does it sound like he really does like me?

thanks! ill rate 5's!!

he probably does like you in some way and you should talk about it to him -- cant do any harm, now can it

-- hope this helps -- x0x

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hey...does anyone know how to getr certain news articles online? like what website would I go to to find news articles from the daily local news? i tried dailylocalnews.com, but i couldn't find it. Please answer!! i will rate high for good ones!
~*jaimee*~

search the title of your local newspaper online
they should have a website -- idk where you live but *for example* i live on LI so i would search Newsday or the Daily News .. or if i wanted even more local newspapers id just search that -- or go to the supermarket -- i think there free there

-- hope this helps -- x0x

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i intend to pull out my hair for some reason and i dont know why. im only 13. i dont want to go bald. what is causing this? what should i do?

stress, problems, having a need to be in control .. you should get some help for that

no1 should b bald at 13 --

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hey therr. ok heres my problem . in july im going to universal studios for 5 days and i invited my friend to go with me. i bought her a ticket n evrything and her ticket was like$120 . well i just called her and she tells me she cant go anymore because her little sister found out and got mad because she wanted her to go to keywest with her. so she completly bailed on me and its most likely i'll never see her again either because shes trying to move back in with her mom and shes not going to the same school i was at anymore. can anyone give me advice on what I should do now. Ive tried inviting other friends but my mom hates most of my friends andthe ones she does like are busy doing something else or im not that good of friends with them to take with me for 5 days. i need help...fast.
thanx

get ya money back! just call up the girl, or next time you see her, explain to her that you spent that money on her and now that she cant go she should pay you back -- i kno its kind of a sticky kinda in-the-middle like should i ask 4 the money back or not, but if shes totally playin you like that i would definatley ask her to pay you just out of courtesy.


-- hope you get your money back -- x0x

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ok...does anybody know how you can make your hair big...like in the 80s? like, REALLY really big....mostly blondes did this to their hair, but ive been wanting to do it, but i dont know what its called or how to make it stick up and stay up...so if u can, PLEASE reply a.s.a.p!!! thanx

tease is hun!! easiest way to describe it is to take a chunk of dry hair that you have already put mousse in before you dried it and then back comb it messin it up as much as possible, then HAIRSPRAY!! lots of heavy duty hairspray because thats the only things thats gonna hold it -- this works depending on the type of hair you have, but just play with it, mess around with it a lil and youll get it eventually

-- hope this helps -- x0x

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i am just really hard on myself for not being exactly how i wanna be. i want to be more popular, and a beauty. everyone tells me i am beutiful and i know i am (not to be conceited) but i wish people at school could see it. (or atleast the popular people cuz geeks have crushes on me). just what are some tips to boost my confidence and be everything i wanna be! help!

aw, ok so personally, i really dont like those realllyy "popular" people or people who just live there life trying to be popular. its actually pretty shallow if you think about it cause all you care about is what people think of you. theres more to life than that, and i guess thats just growing up. i learned this the hard way cuz i used to want to be popular, and ive witnessed firsthand people who are diehard trying to be popular, and all that happens is you lose all your true friends that ACTUALLY care about you. I figured out that being true to yourself gets you more friends than anything. dont try hard b/c people weed out the fakes... in a snap.


good luck and i hope i explained this alright. i'm not the best at it --x0x

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ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?

nah, people just mature on there own time. You probably know yourdelf the best and if its not the right timing, youll know. its just not right. when you do know, youll know and itll be fine.

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f/13. i really like this guy his name is zack but he does not know i like him at all cause im really shy an i do not flirt that much hardly. so how can i give him some hints that i like him?

okay, get to know him and talk to him more. you just gotta like..if hes saying something and you think of something to say, say it to break the ice. dont come up with this random thing to say, just b natural and go with the conversation..idk how to explain it, i'm bad at that.

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there is a song that sounds a lot like this: love me, love me, say that you love me. I would really like to know who sings that song and what the rest of the lyrics are please.

www.letssingit.com

look up the lyrics cause i dont know either..

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i'm redoing my room so it has black and red walls and all modern furniture! i'm also getting a new room in the basement that's pretty big and i want to have some fun things in it! what do u suggest i should incorporate into it?? any tips appreciatedd

accecories, but not too many. cant overdo it because then its cluttered. the basement room should definately have a nice area rug and a sofa type thing so when you have friends over it can b like the "chill room" . dividers and stuff works, and also if the rooms big enough get a lil fridge. if i have that oppurtunity id make it into a crazy lounge/mini apartmeny type place so every1 can just chill there and have a great time.

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OK this might sound a little strange but i think my boyfriend is bi. I want to dump him but i don't know if i should or not though. I think he's bi because he acts gay and when we started going out he said he was really glad we're going out because before he thought he was gay. And he just acts like a girl. PLZ help me i don't know if i should dump him or not. What do you think i should do?

i think you should talk to him and help him figure things out. if hes "confused" then he needs time to figure things out and yall shouldnt be going out at this moment.

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i need a job for this summer but im only 15. i know that sonic and chick-fil-a hire at 15, but does anyone know of any other places that do? thanks.

lots of places..like water parks, delis, mcdonalds, you just have to ask around.

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I have a best friend, and we have always had each backs..But, she got this boyfriend, that she had a crush on for a long time. I didnt like him, when she was crushing on him, but now that i really know him...i really really like him. I've been flirting alot with him..and kidding around with him. I wanna know, if there is anyway i can tell him? OR at least tell my bff, without her over-reacting.HELP!

noo way , not without her overreacting. but depending on the type of person she is, her repsonse will either be "you bitch..." or "i understand" .. but dont go telling other people you know or even him because shell find out and things will be worse off. talking to her and explaining whats going on is probably the best way.

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this might sound really bad but how do you get a boy to break up with his girlfriend. i like this boy a lot and i really think he would like me if he broke up with this other girl. what can i do to make him break and get him with me? please help!!!!! i rate high for anything!

um, well first off you suck. but second, if u really wanna get this guy, make sure he likes you 2? before you go breaking people up. cuz if he dosent even like you, than thats just kinda rotten. but if he likes you enough to break things off with his girl then he will. also, talking to him will help clear the air a bit, dontcha think?

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