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Q: yes he is very into me! but i have no idea wat to do. by the way my bf talks bout his exs and other girls in front of my face just to make me mad
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Okay then that makes a difference. you shouldn't depend on me 100% but i think the other guy might be better for you
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Q: Hello there
Well my husband and i have been married a little over a year now. I'm not on any form of birth control and when we have sex we dont ever use condoms and he never pulls out. It has been this way the whole marriage. Well I'm concerned that I havnt gotten pregnant yet. I visited the gyn late last year and tested me for a buncha things (including any stds) Well she says everything is fine with me, nothing wrong. My period has always been irregular so idk, could this possibly be a cause? I've always thought i prolly needed to do some special stuff just to get pregnant.
If we're not able to concieve naturally i dont even know how id feel about it. My husband has also questioned the fact that maybe he doesnt produce enough sperm or something but idk.
Anybody recommend anything??
If anyone has any info on this please let me know.
We def see children in our future & it would be devastating if we found out we couldnt...
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One or both of you could be sterile. It could also be amazing timing that hasn't gotten you pregnant (doubt it). Both of you should see a doctor.
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Q: I'm 17/f and I discovered when I was 14 that I was attracted to girls as well as guys. This doesn't bother me in the least because I know first and foremost I want to end up with a guy, and trust me I am pretty much the epitome of a girly-girl. However my question is even though I like guys, why do I still find myself strongly attracted to girls? I will end up meeting someone who is younger than I am and all of the sudden its this dominant personality that comes out of nowhere. I feel like I need the girl around me constantly and find myself noticing things that I would look for in a guy. I'm not freaked out by it I'm just wondering if this is just something that happens or if I'm just weird like that.
Thank you much,
Sparxx
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I think it means you're bisexual. Or bicurious. It isn't a bad thing.
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Q: Hey 14f
Well the other day at lunch with my peeps my friend told me about a dream wear she was walking down the hallway at school and she saw me and a guy( i use to love soo much..but i wasn't loved in return.. :/) well me nd him were making out... in her dream? i liked him last year... we had a lot of problems haha he despises me nd my friends now..but a couple time last year i thought he did like me..because he always looked at me from my head all the way down to my feet..nd some times stopped at my crouch.. ya nd he checked my ass out to..so watever! i just want to know if thts a sign or something? >.< please interperet it! thanks!
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I think it's just one of those crazy random dreams. I'm pretty sure it doesn't mean anything. I have those all the time :)
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Q: Im 14/f i keep feeling depressed and i dont know what about, usually im really talkative, but when i get this depression, i just dont want to commmunicate and i feel like my body is slowing down, i often feel ill and sometimes i just start crying for no reason, why is this?
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is it only sometimes or all the time? If it's getting worse, you might want to talk to someone because it could lead to suicide. I remember feeling like this sometimes with all the stress in my life (that's what you get when you're asian :/). I found a hobby in art and expressed myself through that. Find something you like to do; don't sulk at home. Try to think happy thoughts.
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Q: ok so i have a boyfriend. we have been dating for 1 yr. and 3 months.....well heres the thing...i might be falling in love with someone else....its confusing but really he treats me better...i feel like i wanna break up with my boyfriend....but i dont know. Im really interested in my in him but i lov my boyfriend....please help!
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I guess it really depends who you love more. It would be nicer to NOT dump your boyfriend over another guy, but it really depends on the people. If he treats you better, then it might be a good idea. First you probably find out if he's interested in you before you break up with him.
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Q: I'm talking to a guy named Josh and we've been talking for about 2 weeks. During the last two weeks,we've texted a lot and hungout 4-5 times and kissed and held hands and all that.The last couple of days,he's been saying he will call me to hangout later.Yet he never did ,but then texted me apologizing for not being able to.We texted a few times and then he just stopped.Today at school,he told me he got in trouble with his parents and they might drug test him or something after school this day .He walked me to my locker,sat with me and my friends at lunch,kissed me before two different classes,put his arm around me,etc. today and told me he would call me later if he could chill.He hasn't called or texted ....I was thinking maybe his mom drug tested him and he got in trouble? or I don't know why he isn't texting me! Am I just overthinking? I guess im expecting so much and we've only been talking for 2 weeks. Help!
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Don't be too clingy. Guys (normally) take things a little slower. He may have gotten in trouble for something, so ask him when you see him at school. You may be overthinking, or he might have gotten into some trouble.
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Q: So I keep having these dreams in black in white where everything is dark and there's like a small scene. like one time I came out of my cousins house and there was a strange man there then I hear a scream but it slowly fades and I wake up and my muscles are very tense. I think it's because I have just started to fall asleep. Then I had a dream of a man outside a parking lot with my friend and then I hear the scream fade and I wake up, paralyzed again but I CAN move out of it, I just feel so tense. but the one that scared me the most was last night when I dreamt a man came to my house and shot my family...yet it came from the mans perspective, going to each room in the house but he left my house before he got me. Then I woke up and this time it was the gun shot sound that faded away. My muscles were tense. These dreams are really strange, and in black and white when usually i dream in color. I'm so confused, what do they mean?
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That is very scary. Do you worry about these things throughout the day? Black and white could symbolize depression or saddness. Stress could also cause nightmares. I'm not exactly what these could mean. Have you seen or experienced anything that could have frightened you about something? Sorry I couldn't be much help
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Q: http://14.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_kvokrn1HeF1qaci8ko1_500.jpg
what are these called? awkward penguin?
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yes, it's an awkward penguin. the wolf is called a "courage wolf". i don't know about the painting one, except for the fact that they're funny.
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Q: 16/f
okay, so i missed my period when i was supposed to have it around december 29 - january 4 the reason why i say between those days, are because i have irregular periods.. it never sticks to a specific date. so i was wondering if i was pregnant, so i took two tests during the time i was supposed to recieve my period and a couple of days after i missed it. they both came out negative. so then i had sex a week later, we had protected sex and most likely nothing happened. but i took plan b 34 hours after the sex just in case if anything got in me. so since i skipped my last period, how am i supposed to know if my period is going to come since plan b's side effects did say it may make my period come a week sooner or later. and i asked the nurse and she said skipping periods are normal because she sometimes skips two months and then she starts her period. so how exactly am i supposed to know when it's supposed to come?
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Well it mainly depends if you have protected sex all the time because you mentioned thinking you were pregnant, so you must have had sex before. If your period is still irregular, you shouldn't worry until you haven't gotten it for about 3-4 months. Personally, about a day before mine I get lower backaches, small cramps and feel exhausted. It's different for everyone though. There isn't a real way to tell
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Q: i want to make a website so bad but i dont have enough money too do you know how to make a "REAL" one for free?!?!?!
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You can't make a real one for free. All of the free ones will be "www.something.thewebsite.com", unless that's fine with you.
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Q: so i had a dream that i was going to prom it was outside a a concert we went in the woods to have fun and it was muddy we fell and our dresses got wet so we went in this building and got the ones we were gonna use for the end of the night after that a gross guy chased us i was the only one to make it so i ran out and went near are tour bus we used for the prom and i saw a ghoul looking creature coming out of the ground very slimy and there were things like zombies chasing me and i got on the bus and sat there and the ghoul busted the window and i woke up from it...uh whats that mean???
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I don't know if it necessarily means something. A dream could be a fear (if you're fearing this...), but the human brain is almost like a movie editor when you're asleep. It takes things you have seen, experienced, or imagined and changes them involuntarily. (I used to want to be a phsycologist. That's why i know that). Just pray that doesn't happen :/
-Nicole
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Q: Okay, so I know this does sound really mean, but I cannot stand my boyfriends sister. I've been with him for a year now. I'm 16, he's 17 and his sister is 10. I can't even explain what it is about her that winds me up so much. We actually had a good relationship to start with, and we did get on really well. She was brought up to be polite and nice and that but, up until a few months ago she's just been so needy and clingy and sucking upto my boyf soo much than she used to. Like, the other day was a snow day at school so we weren't in, so I went round his house during the day, but I wasn't feeling well, and he knew this. But, I only had about an hour and a half with him that day and we played xbox for about half an hour, then his sister insisted on him going out in the garden with her. He did ask me but, obviously I wasn't feeling well so I really didn't want too. But he still went outside with her knowing I only had a little longer left there! Now, I did think this through and to begin with I thought I was being selfish, but after a while I realised that he could of done that any other time! He can't exactly see me alot, yet he lives with his sister?? :/. The thing is, it isn't my boyf, she's always the one asking to do something with him when I'm there. I don't exactly see him that much during the week, 2 days at the maxium and thats from about 4 til 6 or 7pm maybe.
Sorry, abit off track there. So anyway, recently she's been like slyly insulting me. Like, when just me and my boyf were playing xbox (like split screen, top and bottom) and she knew damn well that he was top screen and she said "oh whoever's top screen is so good" then looked at me and said "no offence". And whenever me and my boyf just want to spend time together she always interferes. For example, we were watching a film in his room and about 5 mins after it finished we were quite tired and she came into his room and said can we watch this film in here. I know it was wrong but I was being annoying throughout the film, but it actually gave her no right to tell me to "shut up".
I feel so bad for disliking her this much, I mean she is only 10 and my boyf loves her, obviously, and I know it'd be different if it was my little sister. I do try to get along with her but she just throws it back in my face (quite literally the other day, me her and my boyf were having a snowball fight, me and her against my boyf although she kept on throwing snowballs at me....??). Tbh, I'm just fed up of it. Not just her, but me not liking her.
I can't tell my boyf about all this though, it would cause extreme awkwardness whenever I'm at his house and I just really don't know how to explain this to him without sounding selfish and like I only want him to spend time with me. Because it's really not like that, I just want to see more of him without his sister there.
I guess this is more of a rant than a question, but I really don't know what to do :/
Help!?!?
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Well, she's 10. She's immature, and maybe jealous because that's the age where you start feeling... i guess you can say "insecure" about youself. Some kids at that age can be really mean (mainly annoying, trust me) and try to seem "cool" by insulting older people. Once she matures a little (assuming you're still with him) she will definately calm down. I hope this helps you :) good luck with her.
ps. can't you two hang out somewhere else? Like at a mall or something? (without her)
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bio
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Hello there! I'm Nicole(:
I would not like to give away my age, but I'll just say that I'm in high school.
I love giving people advice, so just ask me anything.
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Website: Gender: Female Location: California AIM: Member Since: January 13, 2010 Answers: 73 Last Update: December 26, 2010 Visitors: 3304
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