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hey guys.im here to help you out with any problems you might have. i have been through a lot of tough times but i am happy to say that i am back on stable ground. ask me questions about anything you want, i will do my best to anwser them and help you out. post me or e-mail me to ask me to ask a question. bye bye.
E-mail: shutupnkissme101
Gender: Female
Location: St. Louis, MO
Occupation: student
Member Since: August 21, 2007
Answers: 169
Last Update: November 5, 2007
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well if you've ever fainted before this is what it's like, or well this is what it was like for me when i fainted:

i started feeling heavy
my body was moving around in circles
i started getting hot
my eyes started to hurt
my eyes saw fuzz, like a broken tee vee
then i woke up and was on the floor
& had no idea what happend

that was a few years ago though, but im asking this.. everytime i get up i get hot and my eyes get fuzzy, like a broken teve and i start to move in circles a little, but i don't faint. it happens mostly evverytime i get up from sitting for about 15 - 20 seconds then it just goes back to normal.. why does this happen when i get up? do i need to drink or eat more? please help

13/f if that helps (link)
you might be getting dehydated. you should drink 6 to 8 glasses of water a day. when your in school carry a water bottle around with you and try to fill it up a couple times a day. if you keep feeling dizzy and weird a lot go to the docter because there could be something wrong thats more serious.


is it okay that i change my tampon everytime i have to pee? or do some people leave it in while they pee? i neever thought about it until my friend told me she didnt change it everytime she peed. (link)
you need to change a tampon every 4 hours at least. so it is perfectly fine to leave it in while you pee. its also okay to change it every time. whatever you prefer and what makes you more comfortable.


18-f


when i was 13 i was medicated more then what i think i should of been until the age of 15 when i refused to take any of it anymore. i smoke pot daily because it feels like somethings missing i feel so empty inside and i dont know what it is i need to get that feeling of nothing away. i just sit there smoking pot and staring at myself in the mirror and occasionly i see myself in some ones elses body which freaks me out i dont know whats reality i feel im dead imaganing and living my life as tho i was still alive i dont know whats wrong with me please im desprate

and if im still alive i blame the doctors because theyd caused this problem. (link)
well , i smoked pot for a looooooooong time. i became really depressed for awhile. i swore up and down that it didnt have ANYTHING to do with smoking weed. but then i got caught up and could no longer smoke. i imediatly started feeling better. i still didnt want to believe it was the weed that caused my problem so i started smoking again and i got depressed again. i felt the same way you do. basically empty, like nothing really matters and nothing is ever going to change. try quitting for a couple months. trust me i know its hard, but weed is not physically addictive, just mentally. so you CAN do it. if you dont feel better then try seeing a physciatrist.


Why do guys like girls with curvy butts? What's the appeal? (link)
most guys think a curvy body is more sexy. if a girl has big boobs and big butt there is more for the guy to touch, thats pretty much the only reason.


october 16th.

i work for a highschool.
my highschool.
and i absolutely love my job.
and my boss'/supervisors.

we have 3 assistant principals i work for.
of course, the "big boss" principal
and 2 supervisors.

question is, what should i do for them? we do have random jokes that we play on eachother. one involving marshmallows. i want to do something nice for them. but what? make them lunch?
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making them lunch is a good idea. it is appropriate for a school setting and it will give them a time to come together and talk for awhile and have a break from work.but i would tell them before hand and plan it on a certain day so you know everyone will be there to enjoy your yummy meal.


Ok so im going into highschool, and well i found the cutest out fit, but its a tube top, and well my school isnt SO strict about it, like after three weeks they don't care what we wear. But my question is On the first day of school do they really look out and care what we wear and stuff and were they really strict about it at your school? thankss (link)
my wasnt strict about clothes at all but we definetly could not wear tube tops. thats probably not the best choice anyway because people that dont know you could get the wrong impression. also you want to show your teachers that your a good student whos going to pay attention to the class not to her shoes or hair. but they might let it slip by the first day. after that i doubt you'll get away with it. it will probably be okay i you wear a jacket though.


I am really sad right now because well I'm 14. That gives you a good idea of what my life is like. Well I have a sister and she's 17. I love here to death but I hate her at the same time. The problem is guys of course. The guys that like her are like 16 or 17. So they're a lil' bit older. I just feel ugly because guys are always paying attention to her and not me. Is it because of the three years? They are just in love with her. they dont even know I'm alive. I dont think I'm pretty but I'm not ugly. Just average. People tell me all the time that I'm really pretty but when I take pictures of myself all I see is an ugly person. So I really do believe guys think I'm really ugly. They dont even talk to me. I just want to know why or how this is happening??? I dont really want a boyfriend just want guys to talk to me. (link)
okay well by the time you are 17 you will have no problem having guys talk to you. trust me. if you want them to talk to you now then you have to talk to them! when your in school or whatever just start up a conversation with a boy you think is cute. they are just as scared to talk to a girl as you are to them. 14 is a hard year to go through. your emotions are raging and hormones are just all over the place. and if people are telling you your pretty then its true!!! everybody sees imperfections when they look in the mirrior but what you have to do is look at yourself and really believe your beautiful, because you are.


you know that bar that you type in the address that you want to go to on the computer? mine isnt on there. so how do i get that back on there? (link)
go to tools at the top, left of the screen and then go down to internet options.then go to advanced, on the right, and there will be a whole list of computer options. scroll down until you find the one that talks about the address bar.


I recently reaquired an old game I used to play called eternam. It is made to run on DOS. When I try to run it now, on windows XP, it runs way too fast. Is there anyway to slow it down? I tried messing with the compatibility options, but theres no option for DOS, oldest it goes is widnows 95 (link)
try using the windows 95 option, im not sure if it will work or not but give it a try and it might slow it down a bit if it does work.computers have gotten a TON faster since windows 95 came out.


I don't know if I should have sex with my b/f. He's 17 and I'm 15. Usually guys older pressure you to have sex. I dont think he's trying to harm me in any kind of way. I just feel like that's about all he wants is some sex. I'm not ready for sex. I dont want to lose him. I know if he really cares then i wont lose him. But he's tired of waiting . Help??? (link)
never have sex unless you feel completely comfortable with the idea. if you feel nervous about it or scared or pressured then you arent ready. a lot of 17 year old guys do only want sex from younger girls so dont give it up to him unless you are ABSOLUTLY ready. anyway if he doesnt want to wait for you then hes not worth your time.


So, my mom seriously doesn't approve of me being a vegetarian. She believes in eating all food categories to be healthy and blah blah. Well, I've been a vegetarian for almost 5 months now and I'm well and healthy and enjoying it. Well, my mom still opposes it and views it as an unhealthy thing. I've tried to get it through her head that I can still get the nutrients I'm missing from omitting meat out of my diet. But at times, she keeps on saying stupid things about me being a veg and vegetarianism and sometimes they just want to make me cry. And she absolutely opposes me becoming a vegan in the future. She thinks that I need meat, chicken, seafood, blah blah to be healthy to keep studying hard and I really don't. I'm getting all my protein and vitamins and etc with other foods. I know that I can't change her views on this because I've tried to do that a long time ago for almost 2 years straight. I just need to know how to get over what she says and no let it effect me. I really do enjoy being a veg and look forward to being a vegan in the future. And I really need to learn how to get over my mom's words.

15/f (link)
okay well its your body not hers. she cant exactly force the food down your throat so dont let her get to you so much. a lot of parents are just so stuck in there own ways they dont see another option. your mom has a point that those foods you are missing do contain tons ofminerals and vitamins, but what she doesnt understand is that there are other ways to get those things without hurting and torturing animals.try sitting your mom down and talking to her. tell her that you undersand where she is coming from but explain that you know how to stay healthy the way you want to. maybe do a little research before hand to find out specific foods that contain those vitamins your missing.


what does it mean to skeet? is that the same thing as cum? (link)
i think your talking about "being skeet" as in "that guy is really skeet". if thats what your talking about then it means short or small. people will say it if someones wearing really short pants, shorts etc. also if someone doesnt hold up there side of a deal, they would be considered skeet, as in they didnt give as much as they were supossed to. its hard to explain but there you go.


my boyfriend came to my house on saturday & he was playing with my little brother in the living room and i was in the kitchen. i looked in and i saw him lying on the floor, so i thought he was asleep, but he was twitching. so i kept watching and his eyes opened and closed a few times. i walked in the living room, and he was staring sraight at me and just twitching. i was talking to him, but e just kept looking at me and twitching, so i rolled him over, and he said"what happened?" my brother told me that he saw my bf fall over, while they were playing. i of course freaked out because my boyfriend just had a seizure! but i have no idea why. he hasnt gone to the doctor b/c he has no insurance. hes 14 and plays golf and football, so his parents think it has something to do with not drinking enough water. this is the first time it has happened. and i am going to be horrified until i know why it did. any guesses as to what caused this? (link)
people can have small seizures that dont harm anything but it still is not good to have them. i would reccomend seeing a docter even though he doesnt have insurance, there could be a really serious problem with his brain. also he could have hit his head previously playing sports.


ok ive been straghtening my hair alot lately.
& im scared im killing it alot.
what kind of products could i use to help it.
name any products?
thankyou (link)
always make sure you use a conditioner meant for damaged hair. your hair might not be damaged now but using this conditioner will prevent it from ever becoming damaged in the first place. also use a damage control conditioner. they have these in Pantene, Tresemme etc. they cost a little more but its definitly worth it.


I love my boyfriend I really do but its just that lately I feel like I haven't seen him in weeks (because of my strictd parents) that I don't see how this is going to work out I have talked to him about it and he says he doesn't care about the amount of days he hasn't seen me but I know he does because everytime he asks me to hang out with him I always say no or make up a dumb excuse all because I'm not allowed to go out with boys or any friends because of my strictd parents I feel like it isn't right going out with him if I can't see him should I break it off with him?? If so how can I do it?? (link)
talk to him about your parents. tell him that they are very strict with you and dont like you to hang out with boys a lot. if you REALLY like him then dont break up with him. but if you feel like your parents just arent going to get any better about letting you see him then you might want to think about how much the relationship means to you. are you going to be able to keep in touch long distance? if you can, then go for it!


hey my name is madeline im 17 years of age, i got my period on the thursday and it was normal i then had sex on the saturday with a condom while i was on my period, and my period stoped just after we had sex, me and my boyfriend always use protection. i dont understand why my period didnt come back? its now monday and i still dont have it? im really worried i might be pregenant? or shuld i just wait for my next period? please help! (link)
your probably just at the end of your period. if you were careful and used a condom like you said you should be safe. but there is a small chance you could have gotten pregnant somehow so i would wait for your next period but if it doesnt come on regular time i would try taking a pregnancy test or going to see the docter. but dont stress over it, it's probably nothing to worry about.


Usually I design my own costumes. I was queen of hearts, alice in wonderland, mimi in rent and elphaba. Now I've ran out of ideas. I'm not really into the whole idea of a costume, but a person or a character from a movie or book. Any ideas? I go out in thrift stores and put things together instead of buying things, so I'll like to get some idea ahead of time.

My house is rather popular on our block so we tend to dress up over the top for that night. (link)
you could be the crazy scientist from Back to the Future, headless horseman from Sleepy Hollow, leather face from Texas Chainsaw Massacre, darth vader from star wars, ummmm dracula...post me if you want some more ideas or one in more detail.


what does it mean when a guy says blow in your ear like i know its something sexual? but what is it inferring or mean? (link)
he probably wants you to blow into his ear.it may sound weird but if you do it really soft it tickles and feels good. its just a way of flirting.


alright, i smoked weed a month ago back. i hit a gravity bong, and it was my second time ever getting high.

long story short, i think i murdered my memory. and unless if i "lock something in" i can't remember it, so like im not able to remember where i put my cell phone or wallet.

also, if im not preoccupied, my mind wanders, and i can feel like im having an out of body experience.

i have quit intaking all substances that are harmful, quit eating chips and junk food.

any sure shot way to get my memory back, or to at least trick myself into at least thinking im fine? (link)
trust me...your problem is not weed. 2 or 3, even 20 times of smoking isnt going to make an effect on your memory. dont get me wrong its not GOOD for you at all but it doesnt affect you that quickly.you probably have a lot on your mind. try going to bed a specific time every night and waking up the same. this will get your body in a pattern and hopefully help your attention. if not go to your docter and see if you have ADD or ADHD.


Ok, I don't have very many pimples (thank goodness) but when i have a pimple i tend to pop them. Now i know you shouldn't but depending sometimes i do it anyways. Anyway i have scar tissue from a pimple on my forehead and school is starting so i really want to know what to do to make it go away. It's not a pimple anymore so i know it's just scar tissue and i don't know how to make it go away! Please help me!!! Thanks sooo much! :D (link)
well it wont be gone by tomorrow but if there is a cream called Mederma and its for scars. your scar will be much less noticable or even completely gone in about a month.it will be only a couple of bucks at a drug store like walgreens or CVS.




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