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hey hey hey! sup? my names sami and lets see what do i like to do.... well i like to play volleyball and soccer, go shopping, watch scary movies with bf and kelsey( lol), talk on the phone, hang out with friends,talk on the computer and so much more!

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i told this guy i liked him and he told me he likes me. well we are unable to go out cause of his grades in school and because he can't have a gf right now. to make the situation better i was told i should hug him. and i have been he gives me hugs and i give him hugs. what more can i do?!

well i think you should keep giving him hugs! maybe a bear hug! lol! um and maybe you could give him a kiss on the cheak or somethin! but if ur guna do that then give him a kiss on valentines cuz that would be sooooooooooooooooo cute!

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I am pretty sure I am the first guy to e evr poston this site, but... Whatever. Anyways. Let's go ahead and get on with it... I'm 15 and I like this girl. And I don't know if she likes me or not. But you know, I'm hoping she does... We don't hang out all that much, and I really don't know her all that well... But, I'm wiling to chance it... And seeing how you are apparently a girl, I thought I might ask what is like the best way I should tell her..

well i would definetly say face to face, but for most guys that is way to hard so i would write a note to her telling her how you feel! dont be afraid to express your feelings either! a girl loves it when a guy will express his feelings!

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: My friend and I used to be really close and walk together to class. Now everytime I try to meet her she isn't there because shes with her new friend. What sould I do?

oh this has happened to me before to! i would personally talk to her and ask her why she isint waiting for you! if she doesent say anything or change then well this may be hard to here but she isint a good friend! sorry~

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ok well i like this guy chris and he flirts with me in indpendent study and i really like him and i want to send him a candy gram on valentines dayand i will probly write Will You Go Out With Me?
Love Jess and hes in my home room and we have independent study that day should i send him a candy gram or just ask him out face to face? i need help pleaze ill rate high

oh yea you should definetly send him a candygram and then when he gets it walk over to him and ask him to his face again! just remmember dont be afraid of the words NO! let me know how everything goes!

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uMmMMM.. ii like this guy n he said he likes me but.. i liked him at the beginiinq of the year n he broke my heart 3 times be4 sOo ii dont know what i shud do shud i just ask him out or move on since he hurt me be4

are you kidding me, 3 times? totally move on any guy that breaks your heart and then keeps comin back just wants something from you when he comes back! trust me it is not worth it at all!

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There's this kid at my school...we are both freshman and at this oriantation, we were together a lot...( in the same groupd )Well, now i see him one to two times a day, and i dont have much time inbetween classes b.c they have a strict schedule...=(...Anyways, i really like this kid...I had the dream that you have, like when you are crushing...well I saw him today...and i literally stopped breathing...I`m trying to get his screen name and im hoping i can talk to him sometime...but my question is...What can i do to get him to notice me? Like for a minitur betweet classes or a minute after school, or online even...We both play soccer so we can talk about that but what else...? Thanks to anyone who took the time to read this...! =)

well bump into him in the hallways or drop your books or somehthing right in front of him. and if you do gt his screen name just im him and when he asks who you are and everything then just start talking to him. Good Luck

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Okay I failed a test in school with a 65, and to raise the grade, the teacher said we could take a retest. Problem is, we have to show a note to our parents saying we failed, and have them sign it. The re-test is tomorrow, and I still haven't showed my parents the note. WHAT do I do? Because..my parents kill me if I even get an 85. Help me. :(

you can choose one of two options:
choice number 1: have your parents sign the note. -- tell them that the test was way harder than you thought it was, but you are getting a second chance to take it and pick up your grade. tell them you have prepared yourslef more for the test this time around.

or
choice number 2: dont retest!

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Theres a girl at my school that i realy like Im 13 and i asked her out about 3or4 monthes ago and she sayd "i dont want to ruin our frendship by going out so for now that a no"
i dont no wat to do should i ask her out again-does she even like me?-wat should i do?

personally i think you should leave it as just friends. Shes nont doing it because she doesnt like you so dont think that but she really doesnt want to ruin the friendship.i have been there with one on my best friends ever and were not as close anymore. trust me its better in the end to have her as a friend then nothing at all, but thats just my opinion.hope i helped.good luck.let me know what happenes.

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13-m---like on a regular day, what kind of manners do girls notice the most or expect to see. guys dont care but thats not the group im aimed at. (just like when ur doing regualr things not like in front of ur g/f)

well most girls want a gentlemen so they might look for maybe possibley burping? oh and definetly dont pick food out of your teeth ( or your nose) lol! pretend your infront of your gf or someone you dont know!

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3-m What clothes should be worn on a regular day when ur trying to impress people.(im on a budget so no p diddy stuff.)

well when your trying to impress girls then i would sugest like a nice t-shirt ( doesent have to be churchy) and like so tan shorts/pants! i think what is really cute is a striped shirt and tan pants! what ever you wear is probley fine, just make it snazzy!

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alright I've been dating this guy for about a month in a half. Hes perfect he already bought me roses and he treats me soo good. But i dont know what to get him for Valentines Day can you please help me? thanks

yea i would love to help you, ok well for valentines how about you try and get him candy,cologne,gift certificates( to his favorite places),or if your totally broke then get him something like a picture frame from the dollar store with a picture of you both together! hope the info helps!
p.s-most guys just want to be with the girlfriend on valentines!

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k, there's this one guy right? He's really intense with the game and stuff, and he's really cool and all but he can get really agressive and if you do anything wrong he will get mad and stuff. So this one time i just wanted to have fun.. (it was an afterschool thingy) so im like can i be QB? (im really bad at throwing too) and he's like moaning and getting irritated over there being a Wide Recivier (person who cathes the ball) so i throw it and it sucked and the other team got it and scored a touch down. Then i beg the QB to throw it to me and stuff like that and i only get like 2 yards, and he tells me to stop so i kinda just ignore him thinking he didn't say anything mean. And somtimes i just randomly get the ball and start running around and stuff and he gets irritated and he tells me to stop and play the game, so by the time he is done with his non-sense i had just about enough of his crap. and i just like go all out... i'm like "dude, im playing around, people just wanna have fun! if you so intense then why dont you go off into the side line and play by your self, im not kidding anymore. So if your going to act like a fag go away or do somthing, your really pissing me off Ok?!?!" and i really think i hurt his feelings because he looked alll sad and stuff....Should i have done what i did?

Ok if he was being a total jerk, then of course you should've done what you did...as long as you didn't like attack him haha or like do something drastic, then you were right to have gotten mad..It didn't seem like anything you said was really mean, what else could you have done? Push him down? Im serious, dont worry about it...If hes your friend than he should understand not to be so rude to you. How you are treated means just as much as how he is treated..Sounds to me like he's bossy..but hey thats your call..hope it works out

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my best friend has this other best friend n my best friend n their best friend always get mad at eachother n i want to help them n stuff but they always stay mad over stupid stuff then they forgive eachother n then get mad again for another stupid thing i hate them being mad at eachother because i hate it when people are mad at other people especially my best friend ya know? what should i do cuz i hate them always being mad at eachother

Theres really nothing you can do if you're not involved. I guess the best thing to do is let them "vent" through you to get off some steam or whatnot, but don't take sides on it...You can't force them to be friends...it just doesn't work that way..the only thing to do is hope for the best and try to stay mutual on the whole situation...hope i could help.

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ok my one nite i came home form my friends house and i could hear my mom and dad yelling and now i think there gunna get a divorce and i dont want them to wat do i do.....

k, you should really ask your mom or dad about it. most of the time, when parents fight, they get over it, but sometimes they split up. i dont think its that big of a deal if its just one time but you can always ask them and expect them to be totally honest with you. send me another question when you find out whats going on. i hope i helped and i hope that it works out

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thanks for u for ur advice, i relized that i love my boyfriend more than anything n fred is just a guuy n the hall now i dont notice him at all n i love my boyfriend.

O anytime im so glad it all worked out..always good to hear that...hope you guys stay close!

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okay im goin out with guy n i love him soo much but im starting to get mixed feelings about this other guy (lets just call him fred)when im with my boyfriend hes the only thing that matters but when i see "fred" n the hall i just think bout him until i spend time with my boyfriend again....but like idno who would treat me better im very high maintence n i know that n sometimes its hard to deal with me but like my boyfriend doesnt allways make the best decisons on how to make me happy or on what to do b.c i usually get mad....idno if its a self problem or a relationship problem or if i just wanna move on with someone else thats why im getten mixed feelings bout "fred" or b.c i just get mad at really dumb things...b.c i do get mad very easly n idno how to stop so i guess i have a lot of problmes so can u help me?
*confused*

Alrighty.. if you say that you love your boyfriend so much, why break up with him? we all have problems with people...but if they're simple things, then you should be able to look past those and see the person that you really do love..Since when have you been getting these feelings about your boyfriend? I can guarantee they started when you started to notice "Fred." This isnt a big deal...its subconscious..you start to subconsiously look for problems with your boyfriend to make it seem less of a problem for you to like/have feelings for "Fred." These things that you don't even notice you're doing can start to really make you believe that your boyfriend is wasting your time...think about it...if you really love him like you say you do, i say stick with him...but on the other side..if you could see "Fred" as a better option, go with him...Personally, im not a big fan of dumping one for another...it happens to everyone, and its a really cool feeling to realize you werent good enough...but then again this is all your decision...its for you to decide if you love your boyfriend enough to stay with him or if these conflicts are creating too much of a barrier between you and your guy....decisions yours..i hope i could help

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i like this guy a lot and he likes me too... hes planning on asking me out but the thing is we go do different schools and are in different grades.... and im really busy so we might never see each other that often and stuff...but he says that if we cant hang out that it is still cool with him...but we may never get to hang out...ever...but he is really sweet to me... and i really like him a lot... what should i do?

If you really like him a lot, give it a try..why not? if it doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out...but chances are if you both really like each other, you will make an effort to see him...and if it doesnt, then oh well...it just sounds to me as if youre scared of what will happen..dont worry about what will happen..worry about what will NOT happen...you could be missing out on a wonderful guy just because youre nervous...dont stress about it...give it a try..hope it works out for you two.

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my friend has a boyfriend and they have been going out for like 10 or 11 months and last night she cheated on him for her friend..she likes her friend a lot and he was just kissing her to well..kiss her, he doesnt like her. her boyfriend happens to be my friend too and he loves her and everything..what should she do..i think she might have told him by now..

you need to tell you friend *the girl* that her friend she likes a whole lot doesn't like her like that he just kissed her to kiss her. you need to tell her boyfriend that she cheated on him wether he wanst to hear or believe it! you need to tell the guy your friend really likes to stay out of it and not make stuff complicated if you don't like the girl in the first place!

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ok well i just got a email form this really hot girl i mean holy nuts man. but i have a girlfriend already but its going kinda rough so should i sak out the hot girl or stay in a bad realation ship? ill rate high

If your in a bad relationship, why continue? if u dont want to be with this girl, than break up with her. If the only reason you want to break up with her is because you could possibly go out with someone hotter, than think about it. Do you KNOW the girl who sent you the email personally? have you talked to her and gotten to know her personality? I think if you have feelings for the other girl and you dont want to be in the relationship u are in now, then go for it.

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There's this kid named Brian, whos liked me since 2nd grade, and I've liked him since 5th grade. We're now in nineth grade. (freshmens) and There's this huge dance in April called Freshmen dance. He asked me to go with him, and I said yes, but he heard from my best friend Charles, that I was going with him, Of which I'm not. So Brian went and asked this 8th grader to the dance, and he PROMISED he'd take her. So now he's saying he'll break it off with her so he can go with me. I really don't know what to say. I'll feel bad for the 8th grader, but I really don't know. Should I stop him from breaking it off with the 8th grader? Or should I let him? Please help. Sry its so long!

well first of all do you really wanna go with him? if so ask him, say brian who do u like more? and if he doesent give you an honest answer, or the answer you were looking for then forget it and go with someone else, remmember there are lots of fish in the sea! oh and dont worry about the length! hope everything goes well! write back soon

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