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okay im goin out with guy n i love him soo much but im starting to get mixed feelings about this other guy (lets just call him fred)when im with my boyfriend hes the only thing that matters but when i see "fred" n the hall i just think bout him until i spend time with my boyfriend again....but like idno who would treat me better im very high maintence n i know that n sometimes its hard to deal with me but like my boyfriend doesnt allways make the best decisons on how to make me happy or on what to do b.c i usually get mad....idno if its a self problem or a relationship problem or if i just wanna move on with someone else thats why im getten mixed feelings bout "fred" or b.c i just get mad at really dumb things...b.c i do get mad very easly n idno how to stop so i guess i have a lot of problmes so can u help me?
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Alrighty.. if you say that you love your boyfriend so much, why break up with him? we all have problems with people...but if they're simple things, then you should be able to look past those and see the person that you really do love..Since when have you been getting these feelings about your boyfriend? I can guarantee they started when you started to notice "Fred." This isnt a big deal...its subconscious..you start to subconsiously look for problems with your boyfriend to make it seem less of a problem for you to like/have feelings for "Fred." These things that you don't even notice you're doing can start to really make you believe that your boyfriend is wasting your time...think about it...if you really love him like you say you do, i say stick with him...but on the other side..if you could see "Fred" as a better option, go with him...Personally, im not a big fan of dumping one for another...it happens to everyone, and its a really cool feeling to realize you werent good enough...but then again this is all your decision...its for you to decide if you love your boyfriend enough to stay with him or if these conflicts are creating too much of a barrier between you and your guy....decisions yours..i hope i could help
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