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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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i got my eyebrows waxed today and there is red part on one of them, maybe because it was pulled too hard but its not like bleeding on the outside or anything its just red underneath and im afraid it will turn in to a scab because it happend before is there anything i can do to calm it down or make it less red to not form a scab

put milk on a cotton swab and put that on the red part.. it helps

im 13/f and i want to start wearing make-up to school. i have greenish hazel eyes and red hair. and glasses. anyone have any suggestions as to what kind of make-up i should wear?

first of all remember less is more
use just lip gloss
for your eyes id try a brown eyeliner and brown mascara and say a earthy color eye shadow

on the first day of school kids are always hanging out with there freinds in litle groups they dont really care about the new girl and i dont want to juststand there by my self but i dont want to go up to them and be all you have no clue who i am but be my friend what do i do?

i know its hard because your putting yourself out there but just walk up to people who you admire and would maybe like to be friends with and say hi my name is ____ and im new or something like that. or during lunch be like hi im ___ do you mind if i sit wit you guys and then theyll probably say sure and youll become friends with them. good luck

Me and my 2 friends are all 13, and were going to the mall on saturday alone, like without a parent or nething. We all are probbly going 2 go into JC Penney's and get push-up bras lol so i was wondering if stores alow young people (like minors) to buy push up bras without an adult or older person there.

all stores allow young people to buy push-up bras and any other item you might wish to purshase

I havent gone all the way with my boyfriend, but hes given me oral sex. Every time he comes over, we do it!! Im 13 and want to be a virgin. Am I considered a virgin or not?

yes you are only not considered a virgin if a erect penis is inserted into ur vagina.

Who sings the song "Material girl" Thanks!

i loved that song as a little girl lol
its madonna

I have some pictures taken with 2 or 3 different digital cameras uploaded and saved onto my computer that I would like to have "developed" or whatever. What kind of disk should I burn them onto to take them to Walgreens to develop them or what are some other ways to get them printed? Thanks.

put them all on a cd and then you can go to like eckerd or something and you their machine to print them

so I used to cut myself--bad
not just a littl red mark
these deep gauges in my skin
but I got over it and battled it.
and won.

But I still have the aftermath and the embarrasment of scars on my thigs/shoulders.
is there any creams or lotions that I could put on them to help the scars fade away?

my sister used to have a really dark scar on her wrist. she used mederma and it helped alot so i would reccomend that

Okay, So some people say im pretty..
&& others well think im the ugliest thing in the world.I want opionons from strangers..? If that makes any sence..

heres my myspace for one.. www.myspace.com/meg_92

http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d111/oXoCutiex6/TONSOFMEBUDDYPIC2-1.jpg

http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d111/oXoCutiex6/picture14174.jpg

http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d111/oXoCutiex6/Picture14696.jpg

http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d111/oXoCutiex6/8thgradegraduation.jpg

you shouldnt care what other people think about you. no one is perfect. others peoples opinions dont matter, its how you view yourself

does anybody know any sites i can legally download songs from, free?
greatly appreciated.

thank you.

any legal song you download wont be free
but you can use programs like :
limewire
bearshare
aries

just go to download.com and search for them

Do you guys know any songs that a girl can sing thats under 3 minutes. im an alto and a second so i cant really sing high. thanks.

only hope-- mandy moore
i just think that would be the perfect song

whats the song called where the main chorus is like "i like big butts and i can not lie, all the.. can not deny.." or something like that, and how does the main chorus go??

i love that song lol
baby got back--Sir-Mix-A-Lot

I know from scabs and cuts that I get scars all the time.. Is there anything I can use (cream) to put on these cuts/scrapes that will reduce the scarring or hopefully leave no scar at all?

Ill rate high...please respond fast =/

thanks a tonnnn

my sister had a bad scar and she used mederma and it helped alot

hey
i was wondering where you can buy soffee shorts at? (for girls or women) because i go to the mall and almost everyone is wearing them with the top part of the shorts flipped back so you can see Soffee on the tags.. thanks !

i get mine at kohls

hey im gonna start 8th grade in august, and i still havent gotten my period. is this normal??

its veryyy normal. some people dont get it until their late teens. you usually get your period around the same age your mother did

when you add me as a friend, it says you need my email or last name. but when i went to account setting, it said i didn't have that checked. how can i fix this?

its probably because your age is too low. so to fix it.. make it so your age is higher.. but this means your profile will no longer be private

Does anyone know of any good online game sites for when you're bored??? *other than miniclip*

thanks!

http://www.addictinggames.com

it has like tons of games organized by catagory

My boyfriend cheated on me one week after we got together. Now I have taken him back (about 2 weeks after he cheated on me). All of my friends thinks it's a misstake but I believe in second chaces and I like this guy...All advicenators out there do you believe in the term- "once a cheater, always a cheater"??
Was it a big misstake to take him back, should I dump him for what he did to me?

well since you already took him back, see how it goes. if he does cheat again tho then that should be the end

Hey! My boyfriend is really horny. I know, he is a guy but come on! He wants to have sex 24/7!! We haven't had sex yet. I want to but when ever he has tried to go for it there has been sort of a crowd there =/
1 st time he tried/wanted: on a buss!
2nd time he tried/wanted: outside of a metal consert up against a steel wall with peple just around the corner
3rd: on gravel right infront of a parking lot with at least 15 car wich had their light on. SPOTLIGHT!
4th: at a café!!!

Seriously, does that sound hot or just weird??
Don't get me wrong, it's not like I'm a virgin and I do want to sleep with him...just not in thoose places =/
What should I do?

thats deff weird. i hope he not using you to get sex b.c it sounds like its all he thinks about

This is quite long, sorry.

Ever since I was young, I've had what I suppose are 'bad' dreams. I've never really considered them bad, beacuse I've had them all my life. They generally involve running to things and running from things that want to hurt me. Some of the more vivid dreams have included me being beaten up, shot and almost raped [none of which, despite the pain, I've woken from like you see in the movies]. Most of these I don't really recall and I do know that the vividness and frequency is directly related to stress. However I found out today that I still have these sorts of dreams at least once a week, even though as far as I'm concerned I haven't been. And apparently they must be the vivid sort, since apparently I talk and cry in my sleep.
I've been informed by my partner and a good freind of ours that this really isn't normal and that I need to see a shrink. Isn't it and do I?

But that's not all. Again, since I was very young [since I was a baby too, apparently] I've always had trouble getting to sleep. It takes me a good 3 hours to get to sleep, some times longer if I'm stressed. I've tried all the tricks in the book, but the only reliable thing that will be knock me out almost straight away is a glass of wine followed by a painkiller [yeah I know - you can lecture me about how non-existant my liver is later]. Even when I was at school and was reliably going to bed at 10 and waking at 8, this was still the case. Again, I thought this was normal considering it's been happening my whole life, but again I'm infomed it's very not normal. Is this true?

Two more things, possibly related. My eyes don't shut completly when I close them. This sounds really freaky I know, and I know that it's true when I'm awake beacuse I can see out of the slits, but I'm told it happens when I'm asleep as well. I'm highly sure that this isn't normal... but it may relate to this: I'm never really awake. I often feel really groggy during the day despite getting a 'good' night's sleep. Dark thinks that not only might this be related to the dreams, but also to the fact my eyes don't shut, but I don't know. I wouldn't say that I feel groggy all the time, but a large percentage of it. The few times I've woken up feeling really energetic and awake where when I did the last NaNoWriMo and went to sleep on a tonne of caffene and when I had wine and then took a painkiller. So, is that normal too?

So, for those that couldn't be bothered to read the thing:
How normal is it to:
Have a high frequency of very vivid bad dreams? [What sort of frequency is normal for those sorts of dreams anyway?]
Not be able to sleep several hours after turning out the lights to sleep? [Is this what insomnia is? I thought it was only if you couldn't sleep ever]
Not wake feeling rested and refreshed, despite how you thought you had a good night sleep?

I don't want advice on how to get to sleep, I just want to know if I'm some sort of freak who should see a doctor and a shrink like my partner is trying to get me to. Hell, any discusion would probably be useful....

i think a shrink would deff help you out. it isnt normal and maybe there is something you can take to help it

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