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ok so i like this guy and i dont think that he is in my league. i mean we are friends but he is a senior and im a freshman. we are getting to know each other better but he is pretty popular and i dont think he wil ever like me... what should i do?

It's all about confidence girl..Like i say to so many other pple i truly believe, what u think of yourself, and what you "classify" yourself as ..is what other people are going to think of u as. whos to say your not in his league? im sure your a beautiful gurl inside and out so dont think that u could never hav a chance with him..try getting to kno him better find out more stuff about him to see if u really DO like this guy. if u get to kno him better and things dont work out keep in mind that he might want someone more on his level say agewise. i wish u the best of luck!!! hope i helped ,,xox kara

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Ok, I have been friends with this girl "K" for about 2 years. Anyways, "K" threw a big birthday party, but not all her friends were invited. So she told me not to say anything because she didnt want to hurt anyone. Well, after her party on the bus she and "J" were talking about a party that I wasnt invited too. I was just sitting there, looking out the window. Everyone who was invited to "K"'s party was invited to the other party. Right now it seems like all my friends are acting like that, talking to me and then when someone else comes, Im not there!

12/female

trust me i totally understand how you feel, i've been in your situation before and it seems like all of your friend have turned on you and no one understands how u feel. i suggest u find out who your TRUE friends are..the ones who are there for you and care for you most...also be confident...dont be afraid to make new friends. This doesnt mean u still cant be friends with your old ones u just need to try and talk to them, tell them exactly how u feel about this..u could find out they never ment to hurt u ..or u could realize that there just some people that arent worth your time and u dont want to be around anymore,,all in all u will come to make the right decision..hope i helped out a bit..xox kara

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Alright Well..I want to lose weight in my thighs and abs and stomach area. Does anyone have any GOOD excersizes that will work in a month in a half or so? I wanna loose 20 pounds. Thanks and please dont delte.

my advice to you is to go on the treadmill as many days a week as you can. say, if you go 3 times a week do longer sessions, snd if you go 5 times a week or more, do regular sessions. Also if you are a walker then go for twice the time than if your were running or jogging since that burns more calories..may seem hard to believe but the treadmill is one of the best ways becaus it removes fat from ALL areas of your body, and is great on the thighs. for me its the best way to burn calories. if u are also focusing on your stomach try doing 100 CRUNCHES not situps, daily to tighten the muscle..see how it works out..you can work on the treadmill to burn the calories and trim the fat, and do the crunches to achieve those amazing looking abs...hope this works! xox

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I have known this guy since 5th grade and i'm in 9th now. His name is Nick. In elementary we were practically enemies. We would fight all the time. Well at the time i was in love with his best friend Gabe. Well this past yr (in 8th grade, i had religion class with Nick and I thought that if i could maybe get closer to Nick that it would help me get close to Gabe like i wanted to. Instead of all that happening i just got closer to Nick and started to fall for him. Now i feel like he is the best person that i ever met because we connect in a way that i never have before. The thing is, he is going to a different school. I am going to one in Clearwater and he is going to one in Tarpon Springs. Now I feel like I am in misery because I didn't make a move and I don't know when I am ever going to see him again. And as many guys as I've met, none of them are as good as he was. I miss him so much. What do I do now?

my advice to you is to flat out tell him how u feel. If he is moving then what do u hav to loseby telling him? If he feels the same way for you then maybe u can make the relationship work (by the way i live right near you! oldsmar lol) , tarpon isnt too far from clearwater. Maybe u can schedule your time so u can see eachother on weekends.
Remember if it doesnt work out, as hard as it may be to believe..EVERYTHING happens for a reason..good luck girl..kara

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okay my lil sis want to kno the answer to this question . . .okay my sis is 14 and she likes this kidd that is 15 but turning 16 in cecember is that okay to go wout with him becuz he likes he bac but see my sis used to do pot and smoke cigg and drink cuz she hung out with the wrong ppl and she hung out with me which i did them all i mean she quit smoking and all but the guys she likes does all that stuff and she said she will go bac to all of it i mean we dont ahve a mom or a dad at all and i woundlnt care cuz i do all of that shit should she go out with him they really like each other
please answer the questions please dont say that is wrong that u do all that stuff and shit just please answer the question
thanxs i rate

hey ..i think that if your sister has stopped smokin and all that other ish its def for the better,, its not a life u wanna hav FOREVER theres a time to stop. If the guy she likes does that stuff my advice would be for her to tell him how she feels but explain that she doesnt want to get back into that stuff. Just because you are going out with someone who smokes and drinks doesnt mean u hav to do it too. If he starts pressuring to do those things with him, ultimately that is the time she will have to make her own decision. Although at this time she may think omg i want this guy soo bad..in a few months she'll be movin on to someone else..and remember there are so many guys out there with wonderful qualities..why settle? thanks for listening to my opinion..hope i helped..xoxo kara

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yo yo pimpey... haha.... well as you know i am having trouble trying to reach my goal of getting a ride home with corey. i was just wondering... how should i attempt to reach my goal? should i ask him for a ride home or should i just let things take its coarse? please help me out.
~~Karen~~ lol

yo yo i appreciate you askin me out of all these lovely pimps up in hurr i think that u should be like bitch giv me ride or ill fuck you up..hope i helped..one love one heart lets get together and feel alright...

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I go out with this guy and I REALLy like him, I mean REALLY. I want to do things with him like kiss etc but all our friends follow us around and tease us and we never get to spend time alone. Like, someone will say: Izzi kiss Jon and I just can't do it with everyone there. It makes me really embarassed and I get scared that Jon will think that I don't want to when I DO. I tried to tell my friends to leave me alone and they kinda do, but everyone else doesn't.

i think that u should talk to HIM and tell him that u really like to hang out with him but it would be more fun if sometimes it were just the 2 of you. talk to your other friends and tell them how u feel if they really care about u they will understand the situation. Remember u hav nothing to lose , and everything to gain.

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I just asked about first time tampons. I saw these teen ones at Walgreens, they are like "teen satin" or something. Has anyone tried them? Should I use those, or would I be better with Tampax pearl? I always thought those were adult sized and a teen kind would be better.

Also, how old are you, and do you use pads or tampons? Sorry, but I really want to know before I try them.

If your are new to using tampons, and have never tried them before i suggest starting out with the lites which are the smallest kinda available.It will be easier learning how to put them in since they wont be as big. once u get use to it then u can get whatever absorbancy u need. tampax pearl do work well however, any kind of tampon that is plastic works pretty well too.. normally the cardboard ones are the most uncomforatable..
hope i helped....kara

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arite i'm 15 i been goin out wit this boy for almost a month n knew him for like 2 1/2 or w/e cept it's online. he lives somewhat close n everything n he's my age-ish. he really wants to meet me cuz we have real strong feelings for each other, strong as they can get over the computer. i've seen his pic he aint seen mine but i told him everything i look like, eyes hair, and that i'm overweight. he said he doesnt care n he just wants to be wit the person he cares for this much. i'm a naturally shy person n i'm even more shy/scared now cuz i don't want to lose him. how do i meet him n not be shy or scared? shuld i trust that he doesnt care about looks? what do i doooo?

well, although u may feel you know this person to the point u hav feelings, theres a good chance this person is not who he says he is. i know your probably thinking yea doesnt everyone say that about meeting someone online, but it is so true. i have been in your situation one to many times and whos to say that the picture is actually this person you are talking to? Although there are some situations where people do meet..its very different when u meet that person theres so much more u didnt realize about them because you only had to type back and forth before, and now u have to see eachother, and things become different. Also you have to think what if your parents dont approve of this? or what will my friends think of me? although you may not care what they think, you might want to think of these things before you make the big decision to meet this person..ultimately i know you are going to make you own choices but i hope my advice helped you to understand some facts about this situation...thanks for listening ,,kara

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