I understan things that most people have poblems with in fact i have a lot of problems too. my friends tell me that giving advice is my future. I love helping people, I listen to what you have to say.
I sont make snap disisions about u from anything you say.
Some times lifes gives you lemons(i know what your thinking, and make lemonade ow corny what a cliche.)
So let me start again when life gives you lemons squeez the juice into a watergun and shoot it into peoples eyes or throw the lemon right back and say what the hell am i supposed to do with a leon im here 24/7 and ill help i swear
Gender: Female
Location: nowheresville usa
Occupation: student duh
Age: 14
AIM: scarymonkey1991
Member Since: December 6, 2003
Answers: 80
Last Update: December 30, 2004
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I am a quiter how can i prevent it. (link)
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this is easy just stick with something sometims u have to work for something but just think of how the final result will be thats all u have to do i know it sounds difficlut but if u really try it isnt
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How can make myself to seem mysterious in front of guys and not so easy. (link)
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first of all why do u want to make urslef look more misterious so they will like u? welll if that is what u r wanting to do then all y have to do is not go aroundtellin everybody everything about u and seem shy and distant but not afriad to speakk ur mind and as for not seeming easy all u have to do is not sleep aroung or dress sltty i know harsh but it is true and if u r labled easy there is bound to be a reason for it
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What should I ask you? (link)
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anything u wanna know im sure we will help lol hahaha good question
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my friend likes this guy we hang around with. But the problem is that he doesnt like her even though when there alone he kisses her. The biggest problem is that me and him interacts very well and we kissed i mean really kissed and my friend knows that i dont like him so she doesnt mind after all the shit he has said about her. Am i being a good friend? if not how can i.
P.S. i secretly like him. (link)
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if u really want to be a good friend tell her and tell her that this guy doesnt like her if u dont she will probably end up getting hurt or takin atvantage of just trust me it may be hard and she may get mad at u but atleast that way u know that u kept her from gettin hurt worse than she ciould of and by the way ur welcome
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im curiopus about sex but im afarid of the consequenses involed plus my partner is pressuring me into it (link)
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if u r afraid u r not ready and if ur partner keeps presuing u into break up he isnt right for u
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Why do boys have ask girls out and why cant girls ask boys out. It make it so much more complicated for the boys. And the boys will never have a girlfriend if they are to shy to ask out the girl they like. (link)
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girls can ask guys out it is perfectly ok to but sometimes if u really like the person u should take a shot at it no matter how shy u r that the only way anything will ever get done
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okay, i asked you guys about a 22 year old minister who loves me, a 14 year old. well, it's gotten worse. he's called me, and he told me that he had a dream about me, and we had sex. yikes! i really don't know what to do about him. i don't want to make him mad, because he knows my phone number and could easily find out where i live. any advice? (link)
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wow it sounds like this guy is a major whack job if i were u i would totally just tell him u dont think of him that way and tell him that u alread have a boyfriend just whatever u do get out of it
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Hi, I'm a 20-year-old female, I have never had a boyfriend and I have never dated before. Is there anything I can do to meet guys to date? Just for fun I mean, I know guys my age rarely want anything serious. And I know my happiness doesn't depend on a guy, I'm very happy by myself, thank you; but I really want to know what is like to have someone pick you up and share dinner and a movie with you. Any ideas?
Thank you.
Tallulah (link)
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i know im much much younger than u but i do know a thing or two theere has got to be a reason guys arent dating u first i have to figure out why then try to fix it if u want to pick up a guy go to a club and sometimes it wouldnt kill for u do pick him up if u know what i mean juat approach the guy guys like girls who r forward u can depnd on me ask me a question whenever u like
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i started seeing this guy we got along great then his exgirl friend who is crasy started calling me telling me that he is still with her. i broke things off we decided to just be friends he calls me every night and the other night we kissed (peck)"hold on we are just friends" i told him i was confused all he said was that "he was to" what should i do? (link)
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it sounds to me that u still have feelings for him and him with u tell him how u feel and decide whether or not u should hook back up and if he is still with his girlfriend sat hell no because u dont want to ghet a rep as a cheater
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Ok, Not too long ago, my best friend and I both liked the same guy. I dont think anyone knew it but us 3. Anyways, the guy (I'll call him Roboert) told me that he liked me. And my best friend was sitting right there. She got really mad because he knew that she liked him alot and he decided to like me. She even got mad at me. Well, she got a boyfriend and everything was cool. But now, they're fighting and she's started talking to Robert more. We're not goin out or anything but, I dont want the same problem to happen again. What should I do? I mean, should I stop liking him for my friend or is she a friend at all if she'd get mad at me for someone liking me??
--Thanks--
~Confused~
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ill tell u what to do and trust me ive been in this situation before what u wanna do no matter how hard is tell ur friend how u feel about this and if she gets upset then she isnt a good friend at all but remember to dont get too pushy or arguemenetive
ill be there for u
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my boyfriend sometimes says that im too quiet and when he tells me to talk i dont know what to talk about and when i tell him to talk he says no because im the one thats supposed to talk.....what should i talk to him about?
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what i think is that if u dont have anything to say to him then u both either need to take some time apart or need to tell him how u feel maybe he is crowding ur space the best thing to do is take time apart let news flow so when u guys get back together u will have things to talk about and if that is jjust a complete no then just say what is ever on ur mind anywhere from welli love cheese cake to did u hear the thing about martha sleeping with her cuzin lol
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i just slept with a classmate of mine. But the problem is i dont know how i will face him at school. Also did i mention his not my boyfriend and i am afraid he'll use it against me. even though we promised each other not to tell anyone even my best friend. Also i am not sure whether he likes me more than just a friend even thought we dont interact that much in school. What do i do? (link)
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girl sex is like an ice cream truck if u keep handin out the ice-cream for free no one will want to buy the ice-cream i guess what im tryin to say is that if u keep sleeping with people noone will want to commit and to tell u the truth i would be suprised if he accually liked u in the first place guys r just like that and i know that revenge isn the best thing to do but if he tries to use it against u deny it ever happened and spred a rumor around the school that he asked u to and u turned him down or sya that he is only tellin people that because u caught him jacking off to a cartoon and u told his friend but if u really r against lieing to everyone the best thing to do is just admit it and that way he cant use it against u and if u wont do that b-cuz u dont want to be labled as a slut then u shouldnt have slept with him
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I've been leaving my window open at night because the room is so hot, and some time within the last month I have developed an odd crawling, painful sensation in my stomach. At night I have interesting dreams about creatures laughing and poking me with sticks and blue lightning coming from the ground. I am beginning to think I'm in serious trouble.
The thing I'm wondering most is, am i carrying a demon child or an alien one? I would much rather have a demon child, because with aliens, who knows? I find demons a bit more amiable and predictable. Plus, demons generally speak English. Can anyone tell me if I'm pregnant by a demon or an alien? (link)
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i seriously doubt that u are having muscle convulsions and if they say r u r not i would watch out b-cuz u r probably carring a demon alien child ahhhhhhhh!!!!!!
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ok i was siting with my freind today at lunch and all and i have been hanging with him quite a bit during school and stuff and i am confused about how i feel about him because becuase today i was partners with him in the wieght room and we were having a blast and all then at lunch our friends went to sit with other people so it was just me and him and i was like in my head gosh i feel like a geek and stuff but as we talked i was reall comfy with him and stuff and other times i just think of him as a friend i mean right now i would never be able to see my self kissing hin but i sometimes could see us hugging and stuff and then lik yesterday i was like 'f you matt" kidding around and he knew it and then he was like " i love you too becah" and i was like you love me and he was like sure so i dont know no how i feel casue sometimes i kinda like him like him and other times i only like him as a friend (link)
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maybe u might be getting the love of friends and the love of a boyfriend confused i know how confusing they can be so maybe u should take a day to just spend with him and at the end of the day if u feel like u are into hi tell him how u feel i know easieer said then done but if he is ur real friend then thi shoulnd affect ur friendship but if u both decide that this could ruin ur friendship u r better off stayin good friends
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well I am having trouble in my 7th grade math class and my grandma wants me to get a touter.She has been buging me for ever and to me if I get a totour I will feel stupid so.. Should I or should I not get a totour. (link)
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well it depends on whetehr or not u really want and need the help if u do u arent goingt o be stupid there are tons of people out there with tutors and most of them arent stupid it is just maybe math isnt ur thing everybody is bad at somthing and good at something but if u r really needing the help u should get a tutor but as for feeling stupid dont because u were smart enough to seek help!!!!
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