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How do I get dates?
Hi, I'm a 20-year-old female, I have never had a boyfriend and I have never dated before. Is there anything I can do to meet guys to date? Just for fun I mean, I know guys my age rarely want anything serious. And I know my happiness doesn't depend on a guy, I'm very happy by myself, thank you; but I really want to know what is like to have someone pick you up and share dinner and a movie with you. Any ideas?
Thank you.
Tallulah
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i know im much much younger than u but i do know a thing or two theere has got to be a reason guys arent dating u first i have to figure out why then try to fix it if u want to pick up a guy go to a club and sometimes it wouldnt kill for u do pick him up if u know what i mean juat approach the guy guys like girls who r forward u can depnd on me ask me a question whenever u like
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Hey tallulah!
I really think you need advice. Since you know that really meeting guys in the ways suggested might not get you your dreamboat, I can rest easy. So, I'll just dive into it.
There are many way to get a date or at least meet guys. You could always try to go to these speed dating places. If you go to the right places, they're fun fast and most importantly not long-term. Of course, it could turn long term if you asked him out and made him go steady with you.
Another way, is the obvious ask you friends to introduce someone. Although it might be embaressing, I assure, there a TON of things that are WAY worse than asking for help. I should know.
Perhaps you could go to personal ads in the papers or magazines. There are always people there looking to hook up with other people. Surely, there's someone there to catch your fancy.
One thing though. When you go through all these ideas, you must be willing and brave enough to go through with them. Just remember. Oh and another thing. When you are out with a guy, please make it clear that it might not be a long term thing ESP if the guy you are out with isn't your type. You really do NOT want to hurt the guy right?
Fair is fair enough and I think it's high time you kicked some guys into the dating arena.
Good luck and plesant dates,
Actualtruths.
Ps. If you actually do tak eadvice from me, let me know the results. just email me teri_advice@hotmail.com Remember, take charge!!
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Tallulah,
There are limited options, and all take a little work.
Are you doing any college stuff? If so, it's actually quite easy to find guys who are willing to go out, classmates. Or, in your place of work?
If not, the next easiest option is church. Try a big church with a large 'singles' group. Meet people your age for friendships, and possibly dates.
Church not your thing? How about going with a couple of girl friends to an 18 and over club? These are pretty much everywhere, and you can have a great time dancing and meeting new people. How much real date material you will find is a little bit harder to evaluate.
Not a clubber? Perhaps the thing to do would be to look at some organizations and support groups, check out your local paper for a listing of what's available.
Last resort: personals or the internet. You never know...
Hopefully some other people will answer with some good suggestions.
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