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Hi, MFS here again...

This is not really a question, but a request...

Can we please stop it with the "I rate" and "Rate me!" crap? Are getting ratings THAT important to you? Does it somehow make your life complete? This site isn't a game, people... ratings are not for keeping score. There is no competition - just advice. The ratings are supposed to be for keeping the bad advice off the site, much like we have the moderators in place to help keep the really bad questions off the site.

I mean, when I see a question that says "I rate!" in the body or even subjet of it, it just screams "OMG! PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!!!!" It is getting kind of pathetic, as we're seeing it ALL THE TIME!

Let's give it a rest. (link)
yea i knoe wut ya mean but i think that ppl do wnna get rated so they knoe how well they did but i totally agree

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why do guys find thongs so sexy? (link)
cuz the less clothing the better
thats wut they'll all say
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is it still pleasurable for a guy to kiss a girl with braces? do you have to do anything differnt? (link)
i think its totally fine i had braces b4 but i still made out wit guys so i think its all good but make shua theres no food or n e thing stuck in thurr then that could get kinda nasty. and if the guy has braces too....aaahh i think that would b a toughy..your teeth might get stuck together! lol
hope i helped
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how do u kiss a guy???? (link)
mostly it come natually its kinda one of those spur of the moment type things lol but if you need more go to this website http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html

its really fun

well hope i helped
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hi ok i really want a thong i am 14 and i am in 9th grade. i asked mi mom if i could get i last year and she said no i wuz too young well i am a shy person at times now i wunt to ask her but im scared !!! help (link)
tell her that you got these new pants that are tight and you don't want your undie line to show so then just b like so can i buy a thong??? then she'll b like i guess you can buy one and c how you like it.... (maybe i don't knoe your mom but thats wut i think she would say)
hope i helped
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ok im going into the 8th grade and ive never made-out wit someone...most of the girls in my grade had...ive had the chance to wit a cute boy but i didnt want to and everythin...how can i get more comfortable wit doing it (link)
i dont think that there is n e thing wrong wit that but if you wanna but you just aren't confortable then practice! i mean practice makes perfect right? i hear that some gurls practice on their bffs but thats kinda wrong so practice like on the back of your hand or on an apple like in tumble weeds! lol so wat ever works for you!
hope i helped out
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Theres this guy at my school, and towards the end of my 6th grade year (last year) he started acting really perverted. We were never friends or anything, but at the end of the year he started to like me..well any way. I had to sit by him in all the classes we had together (it was only 3 but still) and after my 5th hour he would always get out of the class room before me and when I would walk out he would be around the cornor and he'd chase me down to my next class..and it was all just really wierd, he was always starin at my but and all that crap..and it was really grose! Can anyone tell me what I could do to stop him from doing these things next year? I just dont want to be stalked again! Thanx for the help! (link)
SLAP HIM!!!! i so would! and no one can like yell at you for it cuz you reported him already and nothing happend! so just slap him! idk maybe your not one to start n e thing but its self defence...(i think)
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Hi, I'm 14 years old and my mom doesn't allow me to wear thongs!!!! So she makes me buy the regular kind or boy briefs, whatever. I used to own a whole bunch but I think she threw them away so now I only have one. And my question is that if a guy finds out that I don't wear thongs then they will think I'm not good enough, or sexy. And I don't think they should base it on that. But I feel really insecure and not good enough because I don't wear a thong. What should I do? How do I get over this? Thanks for your help! (link)
well if a guy doesn't like you becuase of the undiez you wear then hes prolly not the guy you want. but it is tru i think that you could buy those one shorts undiez maybe like lace or sumthing then it will still b sexy and your mom will prolly approve of them.
hope i helped
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a guy friend says u look sexy or u look cute, or good in a particular outfit does that mean he likes u?? (link)
it really depends on the guy if hes a mayjor playa then hes only saying it to you as a compliment and he really doesn't mean much about it. but if hes a sweet sincere guy then he prolly wants you to knoe that hes into you so he gives you a compliment and if he is then he prolly wont say the word sexy or hot he will say beautiful and thats how you can tell.

hope i helped
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guys- is there any signs/actions a guy does to show that he is real and true, and hes not just trying to get some? (link)
yes, he tells you how beautiful you are and how lucky he is to have you and he gives you compliments alot but not sexual compliments like he will say i like that shirt on you or i like your hair that way or you have sexy eyes but if hes talkin like ' o i luv your boobs or your butt' then all he wants is sex. and if he is really genuine or sincere he will buy you sumthing sweet like chocolates or a necklace. and he will ask you for a kiss not just try to lay a wet one on you.

hope i helped
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ok well here it goes: i got dis cuzin hes like a second cuzin i think nd in my opionin hes cute..but is it wrong to think that hes cute jus bcuz his ma family member? some1 helpppp (link)
i don't think that there is ne thing wrong with thikning your cousins r hot! i think mine are but the only thing weird is that you knoe them soo well and you knoe things about them that aren't so hot! lol but just as long as you don't do anything with them i mean then things would get a lil weird!
well hope i helped out
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hey wuts up livvvy!its andrea(sunny)lyl (link)
hey babe waddup? who did you get my thingy from?


so i have this pet cactus and im going on vacation and i dont have anyone to watch it for me i dont want it to dye but i donno who to ask to watch it for me. cuz i dont like to bug people.i donno wat 2 do?
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lol i think that you should ask a friend to watch it for you. or if you don't wanna ask n e one then talk to your family maybe they'll watch it for you!
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I've been having these dreams that are really weird and I don't understand them. First, last night I dreamt that I was being very intimate with this guy. It wasn't anyone that I know, but this is kinda weird but I dreamt that I was kinda having sex. I've dreamt it before and I just don't understand. Maybe you could help me out? Please..these are really bothering me and I've been having them more often now. Also I dreamt that I was going to marry this one guy that I know and he lives far far away from me. But the thing is I barely know him! So I'm confused. I don't exactly want an answer about that dream just the ones where I'm being very intimate. Thanks for your help!, If you need anymore info, IM me at AnnaxBanana45 or email me AnnaBanana146@aol.com *Love Me* (link)
well i couldn't possibly knoe wut your dream means but i knoe if you go to like myjellybean.com there is a dream dictionary you can look at and c if it helps you out a bit
hope i helped you
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this may be a weird question, but i just wanted to see what people thought of my situation:

i'm not saying this to be mean, but you have to know it to get the full picture - i have a cousin (21) who is sort of one fry short of a happy meal if ya know what i mean...she lives in another state and is now pregnant with the baby of a man of another race who she nolonger is seeing. i'm the only person in our family that she has told, but she claims that she is going to come to our home state (where all my relatives live) in december after having the baby without first telling anybody...my problem is that i don't want my relatives to find out that i knew and didn't tell anyone but i don't want to disrespect her by telling either...like i said, she's sort of odd and i know she won't understand where i'm coming from - anyway, she may not even come home cuz she never really does what she says, but it's still a big deal!

...sorry this was long/thanks in advance (link)
i think that you r being very matture about this situation. i think that you should just keep this whole thing on the DL cuz she really didn't want you to tell n e one until she comes home. or if your really haveing troubles hiding it i think that you can talk to your cousin and ask her if it would b okay to tell some one in your family. maybe your cousins mom (your aunt) should knoe. i think that that would b best because she will probably want her mom by her side in the delivery room.
i hopei helped you out sum
luv
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k, so let's c...i realli like this one dude... and this dude use to realli like me...but now he's all kinda not kewl and stuff, and duzn't even wanna talk to me. and i still like him a whole bunch. i don't even think of any other guy. like if sumbody asks me for a list of let's say... The top 5 guyz I like..., i couldn't even give it to them, cuz it's only him... i don't even think of any other guy. and i kno he's pretty much not worth all the hurt and stuff at all. i mean, he's alreadi broken my heart once, but i still like him just as much or maybe even more than the last time, like wud do i do??? oh yah, he still sorta gives me reason to make me think he still likes me too...

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wow i knoe exactly how you feel thats happend to me like 10 times! i think that you should talk to him like 1 more time and b cool about it just be like "so i still have feelings for you and i was wonderin if you would wanna give it another chance....?" then he'll answer you and if he is all dumb about it and turns your offer down then hes deff not worth it! then you will go and find some one who will treat you like the princess you truly are.

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luv
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OK.. so heres my story. There's this guy I met and its hard to explain but only fate brought us together. He lives in a state I had never been to but b/c my mom met his mom through a school she is going to in Virginia, thats how we got brought together. And its the craziest thing... I mean I know it was fate. When we went to go see him, I was like wow.. I feel at home. But now Im at my real home. And it sucks. It really does.I dont think he knows I like him more than a friend.. but he hasnt been online. And I really wanted to talk online. I cant call b/c I dnt want to stalk him I already gave him my number I already made a move. So for all you advice givers I CANT CALL HIM... lol long distance is too much. He hasnt been on but his mom was telling my mom hes busy or whatever. I know theres no point in giving up, this was such fate and whether or not I say 'im giving up on him' deep down you cant do that if your really in love. So what do I do? Just wait... and if he does sign on, is it good to tell him I like him.. or will that ruin eveything.. how do you even ease into that topic?

Well.. sorry if I've stumped alot of people :-p

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okay i totally understand where your comein from! i would deff wait till he comes online and then just be like "hey i had a really good time when me and my mom came to visit (or w/e i don't really understan y u were there but it doesn't matter) im really happy i met you..." then wait he'll prolly say like "yea i was happy you came too. i like u alot" and if it doesn't go over that easy just b like "i kinda miss you...." and then he'll prolly say the same back and then go from there lol thats wut i would do n e ways
well i hope i helped you out a bit
so leave me a message and tell me how it goes
lyl
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My boyfriends parents just said he could have the basement as a room to hang out in. He gets minor water leakage in one corner. We are going to move all the storage into the garage. the walls are already painted and in good condition. We are just going to use this room as a hang out. Any ideas or themes? Don't forget its all cement and has cement poles in there. Only 2 windows too.

Thanks!!!!! (link)
i think that you should do sumthin like tiki maybe you could find some palm tree sculptures or sumthin i mean the look is just relaxing and calm. or if you wannna make like a lounge area you could find some bean bag chairs and love sacks and add a black light or so. and if you want you can hang up posters to give the room some personality!
hope i helped
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HELP! I'm going to a party 2nite, and I need 2 get rid of two nasty looking pimples! I already popped them, but blood just came out. HELP!!! I'll rate, just please help! Don't delete this question, please! (: (link)
i think that you should put baking soda on it cuz then i soaks up all the grease and stuff it really works!!
hope i helped!!!
lyl
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Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16? (link)
i think that you r still young but if your really redy hen go for it! but is he the right guy for you? i mean sumthin like this is special to a gurl it only happends once. you wanna make shua you do it with some one you really care about. but if you do then make shua you use protection! bcuz if you get stuck with a bby then things could turn ugly! like he would prolly ditch you and then you would b stuck with a child.
so becareful with this decision
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