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I AM 13 YEARS OLD AND I AM IN MIDDLE SCHOOL. WHEN I GROW UP I WOULD LIKE TO BE A MODEL. EVERYBODY NEEDS ADVICE SOMETIMES AND I THINK THAT I CAN GIVE GOOD ADVICE AND IF I DON'T KNOW THE ANSWER TO SOMETHING THEN I SKIP IT. CHECK BACK EVEYDAY OR WEEK TO C MY NEW WEBSITE CAUSE I LIKE TO TRY NEW THINGS. HOPE THAT SO FAR I COULD HELP U ALL OUT. ADIOS,PEACE,HOLLA BACK, BYE
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Occupation: Going to Middle School
Age: 13
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Hi my friend katie is a little over weight... but the thing is i dont think she realizes it and its not a big deal that she has a few extra pounds but its the clothes she wears. She wears really tiny mini skirts and tight shirts that do not flatter her at all. Everyone makes fun of her behind her back for it and she doesn't realize it how can i confront her about this without hurting her feelings, she is a really sensitive girl and she cares about what she looks like more than anything.. very superficial so i don't want to hurt her feelings, I think that it would hurt her ore if she heard what people said about her.. please help (link)
i think that if you have like 20 dollers you should get her some clothes that fit her and ask her if she likes them and if she does then take her shopping but let her pay. take some pictures of her and show her but see if she says anything about the way she dresses if not go with the shopping thing and keep all the miniskirts away from her. write back asap


always lil attitude


My parents smoke pot and I've always known that but I have been taught in school that POT IS BAD. I want them to stop but I'm afraid to tell them. Is it really that bad?
~gir with pothead parents~ (link)
well i doupt that your parents will listen but just let them do what they want i dont mean that to be rude but you have to let them decide. maybe sit them down and write them a note to tell them how you feel and i hope they come around. show them this e-mail and tell them that you don't want them to dye or nothing. hope i could help you.



always lil attitude


Im afraid to talk to a boy that I like because of nerves or something, like im afraid of messing up or embarresing myself. Even when we were going out I was afraid to talk to him in person. I would only talk to him on the phone because he is usually with his friends, and I easily get shy. He usually has a lot of girls around him because everyone thinks he is so hot and amazing. I need help with this... How do I get over my fear and go talk to him without it being through a friend or something? (link)
i know how it is maybe where talking about the same dude cause my boy is like that too. just talk to him go up to him and be like hey what's up. he might be nervous too. don't talk to much though cause then he will think that you have a big mouth. keep it simple. keep your cool and don't sweat. the words will come out easier than you think. you could even write him a letter. get to know him more and you 2 could have something going on. don't sweat and try to get him off of your mind sometimes.


always lil attitude


i have a boyfriend well two actually the first one i live with the second one is just a guy im trying to see if him and i can work or not there are things lacking with the one i live with so im not sure about the second one but he is pushing me and he promised he would not what should i do (link)
for of all don't cheat cause if you get caught up that leaves none 4 u but if you can get away with it then do what you wish. dump the second one he's not worth it. stick with the first one writ me back.


always lil attitude


Is there any chance at all of a woman getting pregnant if the man wears a condom, without actual intercourse?
The penis would still be quite close (touching, probably) to the vagina, but not inside. (link)
there is always a chance of a girl getting pregnet. there is also a chance that he could have aids. if you r under 16 then don't rush you have your whole life for that and just in case you do get pregnet it's there unless you have a abortion. make sure he's the right person.




always lil attitude


Is it wrong to make plans with one of your best friends and after all the trouble they went thur to ask there parents,they go and make plans with someone else. After you have been planing this since like Sunday. Or is it a signal that they dont wanna be your friend anymore? help
-Me (link)
yes it's wrong very wrong. she should have never asked you or your mom. i will give you more advice but how close of a riend is she to you. maybe she's useing you but that's not a true friend. try talking to her and write me back.

always lil attitude


My best friend is like getting really annoying to me, and sometimes i like her and sometimes i don't. I don't know if she should be my bestfriend anymore, cause she get's on my nerves, but I have said I don't want to be her best friend about like 4 times and I don't want to say it again. But she told me we have to secretly be best friends because she told some of my other friends that her mom said that she shouldn't have best friends. And my best friend told me she doesn't want our friends talking about her behing her back.. What should i do. answer please asap!! (link)
i think that you should tell her that you need a break from you guyes friendship for a while but break it to her so that you won't hurt her feelings. try to find someone to be her friend. but don't talk about anyone behind there back because that isn't right. if worse comes to worse try to work things out with her and be her friend one last time but if in your heart you don't want to be her friend then don't. why does she get on your nerves. write me back at lilattitude2004 that's not an e-adress but you'll see when you read the letter. hope that i helped you out cause friends can feel like that sometimes.



always lil attitude


Hey. Im getting a guitar for my birthday. And the sad thing is that i dont kow how to play one. Which means i need lessons. But i am lacking in the monetry department at the moment... so im gonna be a laxy screw and get them off the internet or summink.
Does anyone here use those online guitar lessons?? Do you reckon theyre any better/ worse than real live people lessons??
Any tips on starting out on the guitar would be peachy too.

Thanks n stuff...
~ Mordak, she who has moved your cheese. (link)
i don't play a guitar but if you have ten or five dollers then go to media play and by on there just as good. see if it helps you if not or if you don't want to then look on the internet and see what happens.



Always lil attitude


I'm doing a report on Anorexia and i would like to know what it is so could you please tell me what it is. Thank you so very much!! (link)
i think that you should look it up yourself i meen i don't want to sound rude but you can't go through life trying to see what other people know so follow your heart to see what you want to do.


always lil attitude


how can you tell if a really likes you, even though you are close friends, and how can you tell if theres anything more than just friends, even though he calls me'girlfriend', whats wrong, awwwwwwwwww you pooor girl.
And he constantly says how am i, it's every thing ok, in a day he would say this to me about 3 times.
Not only that, when ever i talk to him he always smiles, and winks at me if he see's me in the corridor and as i talk he laughs, so i say what, whats funny, and he does'nt say nothing apart from smiling and looking into my eyes.
He also said that i remind him of his ex-girlfirend, which he used to say good things about her before. (link)
well i can tell you like him and of course he likes you. just play his games back and don't sweat he will come around just be cool and be yourself and something will happen soon. but in order for that to happen you have to tell him how you fell. don't be nervous just go for it cause you know you want to. get the guts to go for it and you won't regret it trust me.

always,lil attitude


how do i find the words to say to get back in his heart to make him love me again from the deep down fall we had? (link)
Explain to him that your sorry. i know that it might not sound that easy but once you tell him that you didn't mean it you will feel better. if he still likes or loves you then he will forgive you. e-mail me if you can in a week and stick with you heart.

always,lil attitude


I like this guy.I mean I really,really,like him. He stares at me all the tame and teases me playfully. And when this kid tried 2 kiss me he had his head down.He has his head down a lot around me.Does he like me or is he just friendly to all girls? (link)
of course he likes you just stare at him back and keep on playing his little games and soon he will come around. you can tell that he likes you back but he doesn't want to make the first move. wait about a week and see what happens then e-mail back and tell me how it goes.



Always,Lil Attitude




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