about

I am an easy person to get along with. I also enjoy giving advice, and I am pretty good at it. I tend to have a bit of a gift for giving advice. So if you need help then feel free to ask..The one thing about me though is i will not "sugar coat" anything if you want to know then you need to accept whatever answer I may give you. Hmmmm..some things you may want to know about me?
-I'm 17 years old,female. No, because of the obvious reasons..I will not release my name, or my state I live in.
-I absolutely love little kids, and animals.
-I am in a really serious relationship
-I have had a lot of experiences and I am very wide ranged..for advice giving I mean. I have had a tough past, and can answer alot.
Thanks for listening

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some people think that my friend and i are gay and it is geting on my last nurve. how do i stop people from thinking this ? i'm not gay but he might be idk he has never had a girl friend, and i have but no one knows, cause it was bad and ugly. please help

hmm the best advice i can give you is that you need to look at the relationship. Why are people calling you both gay? Do you act gay, and deep down you don't feel gay right? If you answered no to most of these questions they I wouldn't worry so much. However, you may want to be less spoken about the time you spend together in public..it leads to rumors. Good luck.

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I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you.

yeah my answer to this question is very simple and can be followed in steps.
1-you dont like our advice dont take it
2-not everyone on here is young
3-umm some teenagers actually can give more advice than others depends on how they were raised or what they have been through
and one other thing..obviously you have not been through much to say all that. soo there.

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I have a hair straightener that works okay.. but I asked my mom for a new one for Christmas and I was wondering which one would be better: Remington wet2straight, Helen of Troy (I think that's the name), or Conair Infiniti? Thanks! :)

I would reccomend the conair one DO NOT USE WETSTRAIGHT its really bad for your hair

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14/m
right iv been goin out with my girlfreind for 9 weeks now and its been amazing i can chat to her about anything weve never had an argument or anything its mad i ring her every nite and we talk for hours i see her nearly every day is this normal lol!! its crazy is it love or am i jus geting everything muddled up. i really am crazy about her is it normal lol?? advice would be great thanx:)

100% normal and 100% adorable. No need to worry, but I just wonder..have you told her how you feel? just a question cause a lot of girls love hearing that.

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My friend, she grew up havin a hard life... and so did her boyfriend, but his was really bad with an abusive father who was really bad. and know her boyfriend is like pshyco. I love my friend to death, and her and this boy have been going out for 8 months or more now and shes so in love with him. The other night she came over and she told us a story. He beat her up, threatened to kill her, and told her to get in a cage and she said no so he started beating her up. shes only 14, same with him. Im scared to death for her, but i know she loves him. He's been sent away to soo many places to try and fix him, but none work. Does anybody know any advice to try and help him.. Iknow when hes not in one of his pshyco stages his a really big sweat heart.. but what if someday something more happens, and he really hurts her/ or worse.

this is a really tough situation..the best advice I can give is that she needs to go away for a while. She is only endangering herself at the moment. Even if the kid is nice, its not good to let him get away with that..because he will only get worse. Her best bet is to refer someone on his case, and then tell him (with supervision case he freaks) that she loves him and is doing it to help him and will be waiting for him. But she absolutely cannot subject herself to the terrible harm..I know this case very well I have had a very similar experience but the guy did different things, and by the way something horrible happened and we are no longer together..at all. GOOD LUCK

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well i have this boyfriend, and he is older and more experienced then i am. He says that he loves me and he wants to be with me I love him soo much. He says that he wants to take it to the next level. Where im from alot of the girls my age arent virgins and dont care bout sex or nethin. Im young but veryy mature for my age, i dont know what to do, I feel that im ready but i dont know.

You need to look deep inside your heart and ask yourself if you love this guy or not.You also need to consider if you can bare the thought of possibly breaking up with him, and never being able to share your virginity with your true love. But, if he is your true love then you should go for it...but this may not be right..it kinda depends on your age.

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I am 14/f... and I like this guy, we will call him K... He is a real gentleman and is very funny and nice to me. But the thing is everyone hates him, and theres not a day that goes by that people dont ask me, omg why do you like him. eew thats nasty, and personaly, i really dont care what others think of him, my best friend thinks he is a great guy and will treat me with respect. What I am asking is, How do I make them stop.. and how do I just ignore it because honestly i am getting sick and tired of epople telling me not to go out with him or hes a jerk or he stinks... i could care less what he smells like, and i could care less if he is a jerk to htem, he is nice to me and i do not care what he looks like or smells like. ANd people dont understand I am not the kind of girl who judges by looks. Im not saying looks dont mean a thing about a person because if someone thinks they look bad theya re going to have low self exteem and that effects there personality.. but he isnt like that, hes fun, nice, caring, funny, and much more. but otheres dont see that in him... any ideas on anything?

just to ask you a question back if you basically asked and answered your own question by asking what to do about them, but then saying you dont care anyway..then the only words I have for you are "GO DATE HIM" Just ignore everyone, like you said you were gonna do.

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lately the past like 3 times i've gotten my period (i've only had it like 4 or 5 times though) it's been like REALLY heavy, and lasts like a week. it's sooo annoying, especially in school.. and it is always getting on my underwear and ugh it's just bad. what should i do?! how can i make it shorter and lighterrrr. ugh i have it now and it's really bad. in school i always feel like it's going through my pants and everyone can see it :( what should i do?!

The only thing I can suggest is going to see a GYN. I went to one last year, and he put me on a type of birth control called "OrthoTriCyclenlo" it is very effective, and it helps with my cramps. Plus, my period is up to 3 days shorter, and almost non existant at times. I really recommend it.

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14/f. i hang out with guys alot and now girls think im a slut. does that seem slutty to hangout with mostly guy? im just friends with them, and i still hang out with girls too. this is really bothering mee.

You are only a slut if you are actually "messing around with the guys" but just to be hanging out with them. NO there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a lot of guy friends..I use to be like that..at least until I got into a real real serious relationship..thats when it starts to look kinda weird..hope I helped.

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I have a really really important question. It's gonna be long,,sorry, but plz answer!! I will rate.

My best friend told me her deepest darkest secret. Her secret was that she was raped by her cousin as a child.(7 yrs old.) He actually had sex with her, but she doesn't think that he "popped her cherry". She didn't really know what was going on...and she told her parents about it and everything when it happend. (we are 14 now) My question is: is she a virgin?

In technicality your friend is not a virgin because it's sex. However, I personally do not count rape as a form of losing your virginity..she did lose it by force in all reality though. Please tell her I am terribly sorry for the news. Hug her for me to.

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