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I'm Steph. I love helping people and I have a great interest in music, I play the piano well and I hope to be a vet nurse one day. I am easy to trust and whatever you say to me personally will be strictly confidential. Thanks for reading! :) x

advice

how do you set your myspace account to private .. so people can only see ur site if theyre ur friends ..thanks

Go into "Settings" and then "Permissions". You can set your account to private there! :)
x Steph x

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what does "525,600 minutes" mean??.. i did know but i forgot??..thankss..


*ALL 5'S!*

I'm not bothered about the rating! :)
525,600 is how many minutes are in a year!
x Steph x

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I am really not shy but i find it hard to start conversations with guys. SOmeone picked me up from the movies and i was quiet the whole time. Is their a strategy i could use or something to help me think of topics? PLease help its so akward!

List them...so, for example, it could be like:
- Talking about a friend or something you did
- How was their weekend?
- What they like doing i.e. hobbies
- What they want for Christmas

It's all about practice! :)
x Steph x

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How does a gurl flirt so that aguy would be interested?

- Smile at him across the room
- Make conversation to him i.e. what did he do on the weekend, favourite sport/hobby etc..
- Entertain him, i.e. jokes and funny stories
- Compliment him, tell him that you like his handwriting or that he has a nice smile or nice hair!
Best of luck!
x Steph x

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i need help FAST!!

how does this quote from alguna beach go?
u have a __________ way of making me cry yet a ________ way of making me smile

i'll rate all 5's

You have that amazing way of making me laugh, and yet a beautiful way of making me cry.
x Steph x

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15/f
me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months. 2 out of the 2 months we have been going out he has been grounded.(grades he && he doesnt try to bring them up) i really like him but its not working out what do i do. i like him so much but we only get to see each other at school and i like him so mucb but the fact we never get to see each otehr out side of school is hard what should i do break up? stick with him? or take a break. i dont want things to be awkward between us at school uhh i hate high school
*will rate high

I'm not bothered about the rating - Just here to help! :)
Why not talk to him about how you're feeling? I'm sure he'll understand or even try to help if he can!
Best of luck!
x Steph x

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hi i just want to know that can we have sex during pregnancy, if yes then till which month,
or if no then why.
please answer me.

Yes, you can. As the baby grows and the bump develops, it could be awkward or the female may feel unattractive and uncomfortable to have sex during this time. It causes no harm to the baby whatsoever.
x Steph x

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I just started a new job. The store is new, it's only been open about a week and a half. I've had about 7 shifts so far.

Well I had today(saturday) off. I knew I didnt have to work again until Sunday. The problem was that my boss left a message at 10 in the morning today saying that she needed me to cover someones shift at 5 today. I didnt actually get the message until after 5 pm because my answering maching wasnt working. So by the time I phoned the store the manager said my supervisor was gone for the day. I know that I wasnt scheduled to work today but could I get fired for not atleast phoning her? I talked to my friends and they told me I am worried for nothing and that I am allowed to have a life, but I just wanted to check here first.

It's VERY doubtful that you would get fired, I'm sure if you explained to her about the problem with your answering machine, she'll hopefully understand! :)
x Steph x

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I have wavy/curly hair.
When i straighten my hair the strightener damages it.
My hair is still a little bit frizzy after I straighten it and a few strands wave up after about half an hour.
Is there anything I could put into my hair before I straighten it to make it straight and not frizzy?

There is special shampoo which is new at the minute which helps de-curl/friz hair. Perhaps you could wash your hair with that, blow dry and brush then straigten it.
G'luck!
x Steph x

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ok here's what's up. I went to an anti drug camp with some of my friends. There was this one girl there that really started to hang with me a lot. it just so happens that we had dated before but she was not that interested in me so we broke up but stayed friends. Anyway we really started to bond and stuff and people kept telling me i should of asked her out. Then this other guy comes into the picture and whenever he is around she is talking with him and stuff, but when he's not around she's hanging around me. So is she even intested in me or is it false hope?

Maybe she likes both of you, which isn't fair on you. Why not talk to her when he is on the scene, see if that helps her notice you more and pay more attention to you rather than him. Compliment her too, females love to be complimented!
Best of luck!!
x Steph x

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can anyone give me a website that gives quotes from movies like a walk to remember or things like that. even funny movies. just really good quotes but not from songs.
thanks!
(by the way, don't give me xangas unless they have quotes JUST from movies or something)

http://www.humorsphere.com/movie_quotes/

That's a fairly amusing one! I hope it's what you're looking for! :)
x Steph x

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Okay well i have a fairly confusing situation, i went out with this guy for a long time for 6 months straight, and on and off until school went out in between girlfriends.. yeah i was pretty dumb back then but anyways he goes to a different school now and has a girlfriend but we sometimes still talk and every now and then i run into him somewhere... its realy weird seeing him and he brings up past times and stuff and it makes me miss him and stuff i know i cant go back to him.. and then i went to a party and met this other guy from a different school and we ended up hooking up but it was weird cuz it was the first guy ive hooked up with since my x and i never thought we would talk again until he imed me and now we talk all the time and says he likes me but i thought he liked this other girl but he swears there only friends and crap... well last nite i eneded up going to a movie with my x nothing happend but it was awkward and made me sad again. when i got home the other guy i met at a party called me and we talked until like 4 in the morning and he ended up asking me out and i didnt know what to say... i like him but i stil have feelings for my ex boyfriend and i cant get him outta my head and im just scared it will be different so i said wait till we hang out again and then we'll figure out what were going to do and he agreed with that. i guess im just scared to take a chance because i hate change and i dont wanna get hurt again but im really not sure what to do so if someone could help me thanks a bunch

Friendships and any relationships are mainly based on trust and communication. Why not talk to him about how you're feeling? You don't have to go down to the gory details but just that you don't want to get hurt and you're just confused. See what he says, it could turn out he really cares about you and wouldn't do anything to hurt you, unlike you ex..
Best of luck deciding!
x Steph x

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hi, can anybody tell me, is it possible to reduce the size of MP3s? You know like making a 5 MB mp3 smaller so that it can fit on my mobile phone which only has about 3MB space left. Thanks for your help

chris

P.S ill rate high for any1 who at least tries to help me.

Yes! Take the mp3 and burn it to your cd and with that, rip the burned cd onto your computer again - repeat it...send it then send it back in other words.
G'luck!!
x Steph x

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What shoudl i do when me n my friend keep gettign in to fights for no reason and aour last one was a BIG one n we havent really talked since! should i say something to her or what?! i mean we made up after our last fight n we sadi everything was all good! what should i do!
need advice
ASAP!

We need friends, each and every one of us. Why not write her a note saying that you're sorry for everything and that she means a lot to you as a friend and you want things back as they were. If this doesn't work then it might turn out that she isn't as good a friend than you thought.
Try though...at least it shows you have maturity!
x Steph x

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Hey i have a program called Warez p2p (download it from www.warez.com its well good) and it allows you to download anything, including full movies. Well i download these films and they are on my computer but it isn't that great watchin full films on a PC is it? So i wanted to burn the videos onto a blank DVD, i have the dvds and my computer has a dvd writer but what software do i need to download to be able to burn the videos onto the dvds? please help im desperate.

Thank you and sorry for the length lol

ps i will rate high for even crappy attempts to help me ok thanks bye

No need to rate - I'll try to help!
There shouldn't be any software required to allow you to burn. Put the black CD in go into My Computer and click the drive, save the file you want to burn and simply copy it onto the disk! :)
Good luck!!
x Steph x

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my best friend and i are crushing on the same guy she loves him but dosent even like her and i told him i liked him and he might like me if he asks me out i badly want to say yes but at the same time i dont want to loose my best friend. what should i do?

I guess this is about priorities, what matters more to you; a super-cute boy who could end up hurting you and breaking your heart and hurting your friend in the long run or your friend who has been there for you. It's a tuffy but I'll let you answer that question!
Best of luck though!
x Steph x

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Can enyone give me lists of diet foods? like these would be the only things that i eat for one month kind of foods, if you could that would be great!

http://www.berkeleywellness.com/html/fw/fwNut01HealthyDiet.html

Scroll down and skim-read the 14 key points on what to do/eat during a diet!
Best of luck and stay healthy!
x Steph x

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hi, my family has 4 animals, 2 dogs, a, cat and a guinnea pig. i REALLY want a kitten for my birthday or Christmas. my mom and dad already said no, how can i get them to say yes?

If you're really determined, I suppose you could say that you want to show them how responsible you can be by taking care of a kitten. This way, it gives them a chance to see you take care of it. If it doesn't work, don't be too upset...you could always bother them for ages until they say yes!
x Steph x

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how do you kiss someone ... im afriad i not going to do it right...

thankss

http://www.thekiss.com/

Look down the left hand side, there are stories and tips on how to kiss.
Best of luck, hope it's helpful!
x Steph x

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ok, i have fat cheeks for some reason and i need to know is there anything i could do to make them appear less chubby? I have greyish-blue eyes, average sized lips, and my skin tone is a little darker than fair. thanks!

Surely if you're a small/medium build, your cheeks can't be out of proportion from the rest of you...but, I'm afraid there is not exercise or action you can make to make them to appear less-chubby.
x Steph x

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