I am 6'8 240lbs. I have blonde hair. What else,,,, I work in concrete. I love sports, fitness, poetry and woodwork. You can ask me anything. I have gone through a lot in my life. what ever your concerns are or problems tell me and i will do my best to help you. I am honest and open minded. I wont take you for a ride but treat you as i would like myself to be treated.
Gender: Male
Location: Canada
Occupation: concrete
Age: 25
MSN: acu-build@hotmail.com
Member Since: March 22, 2006
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I have this friend.. Haley. She is going out with Steven. Steven is really really really cute. and he is the ONLY guy that will accualy be my friend. hes so niicee.. and is the only guy that I am confertable being arround. But he likes haley, and haley likes him. And I dont wana ruin the relationship between them but i flirt with him so much that its not even funny!! Help!! I dont wana lose either of my friends!! (link)
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My advice? Let them be. Harsh? Yes. Why? if you intervene now and they break up, he may no like you anymore and she may leave you. Just be who you are. Stay friends with both of them. Who knows, if they break up, well you win. Other than that let them be and stay happy.
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Well at the moment, i fancy this guy, i never get to talk to him because he's always around with his friends. He's really shy and he's knows that i like him, but he's always looks at me whenever i see me.does that mean he likes me? (link)
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How do you know he likes you. Did he tell you or you heard it throught he grapevine. He notices you. However, because a guy looks at you means little. Next time, "accidentally" bump into him. Say "oops, Im sorry, you alright?" "By the way my name is X whats yours?" Thats a good conversation starter. Once you start to talk to him, things will begin to open and you will be able to see more. He may be cute but that is just the wrapping of the present. You need to know whats in the present. And that means pealing away the wrapping by talking to him!!!!!
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My boyfriend of about 4 months, now ignores me on a regular basis. I ask him if something is going on, and he claims that he "is in love" with me and doesn't ignore me on purpose.
I'm thinking that he wants to break up, but everytime I try to talk to him about it, he assures me that nothing is wrong, and that he would never ever want to break up with me.
But, I'm getting different vibes. Should I just break up with him than deal with this? Because I'm about to. (link)
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Don't break up with him yet. Does he have brothers/sisters or a close friend. Getin touch with one of them and ask them about him. If all else fails, threaten to break up. Tell him you feel uncomfortable with his silence. If he does not react then yes go ahead and leave him. I mean you've only gone out for four months. There are other guys who would give you all they can. That would give you the love and attention you deserve.
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hey my boyfriend and i have been talking about making out lately. i gave him this website to show him all the tips that someone posted. he says he doesnt just like to make out. and he says he uses tongue. i dont think im mature enough to use tongue yet...i think,...its gross.. no offence for all u people who french kiss. but i dont want to french kiss just yet. hes made out with a ton of girls before. ive never made out before. any help? thanks! (link)
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sweetheart, there is nothing gross about tongue. If you really love him, and the two of you are entrusted to one another you should do it. Remember this, If you've kissed someone on the lips before, the French Kiss is actually not that dramatically different from a normal kiss. During a regular mouth kiss, your lips should already be slightly parted and relaxed.
Now, it's just a matter of bringing your tongue to the front of your mouth, until it touches your partner's tongue or lips. If their tongue is not already in position, the sensation of your tongue at their lips is a tell-tale sign that you're ready for this kiss to become a FRENCH kiss Done correctly and with a partner you feel a romantic connection with, French kissing can be a very enjoyable experience.
Enjoy it while you can
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I have a huge problem.
Last night, I went over my boyfriend's house.
While I was there .. I ended up giving him a hickie.
His parents saw it but they dont care. But how can I make it so noone else notices it?
How long does it take for them to go away? (link)
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A hickie is a indication to everyone else this guy/girl is taken. Back off. Be proud of the hickie. Show it off. Dont be ashamed.
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well i like this guy and he already knows i like him i also have alreaddy asked him out but he didnt say yes or no he just kinda stop talking to me i mean not like he doesnt say hi or anything he does its just that he wont say nothing about if he wants to go out with me or not. and now my friend who is his older brother said that he likes me but that hes just afraid (i have boy problems i never last with a boy cuz i kinda cheat in them)how can i show him that its different with him that i really like him!!!!
~will give 5'S~ (link)
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Ah yes. The answer is short. Trust. You have to prove to him he can trust you. And that means always honest with each other. Never lie. Show you care. Show your worth it. Maybe he also is no ready. He may have fear of commitment. Take him for a coffee or so once and talk to eachother. What works good. When your out for coffee take two pieces of paper and a pencil. Each has one. You write all the thigs you like and dont like about him and he writes all the things he likes and doesnt like about you. Then exchange them. You will then know where you stand. good luck.
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Ok here's my situation.
I have a best friend.
He's totally beautiful inside and out. Well, we've been friends for a while..a long while.
I've recently had (cliche!) my eyes opened to see that I've started caring for him more then just a best friend.
He's everything I want in someone.
We've both had our hearts broken,been stepped all over..and we both are pretty lonely.
The only thing that's stopping me is, I don't know how to present this question to him.
I want to go out with him!
But I don't want things to get weird.
He wouldn't hurt me intentionally, I know this.
I've thought of a letter... But that's just to formal for a best friend.
I'm not to good wtih words. I don't know what to do. Please help,. Thank you.
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Wow. All I can say is if only a girl thought of me that way. You have it all. You sound like a very sincere compassionate girl. A soft heart. I've been stepped on to many times and after awhile it creates a fear in a person to approach others. You become enclosed meaning you start saying little. Alright, here's my advice. Obviously you care very much about this guy. I don't know if you communicate with him alot but this is what i would do. Get him to do things for you. If your walking in a school hallway with him and you have books, accidentally drop one or two so he can help you. If you have homework, ask him to help you. What ever your need is ask him for help anyway you can. That way he will know you depend on him. You trust him. You like him. Hang out more often. Once you begin to get close you can ask him out. Trust me, there is nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out. You just don't hear it often but there is nothing wrong. You can write a letter but you know what, a letter shows no emotion or character. And it will not help with your lack of words. Approach him face to face. I know its not easy but once you did it, it will feel so much better and and you will find yourself opening up more and more. Hold your head up, keep a smile on your face, and feel confident. Best wishes and take care.
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Ok. I just broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and I really miss him! I've tried to get over him but I dont know it's just not working. and like I mean we were going out for about 2 months but I liked him for a LONG time before that! so I don't know if I should try to get him back or move on. We talk a lot and flirt sometimes. And he always seems rly interested in who I like and what I'm doing but I'm just not sure. So my question is should I even waste my time trying to get him back? or should I move... Please help me decide!oh yeah and of course I'm a girl and I'm 14. (link)
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Stay friends. Dont go into a relationship. Your still young. You got a whole life ahead of you. Prince charming will come on a white horse when you least expect it and you will feel it. I know its hard. Ive been there. If you are meant for eachother, it will work out. Just stay friends, give it time.
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I need your help. I have been going out with this guy for five months now. He is a very nice person, he treats me well, and we have fun together.
The main problem is recently he lied to me. We were supposed to meet, but he did not appear. He claimed he was carjacked. He has keys to my house, so he went and took money and pretended the carjackers did it.
I want to forgive him but I'm not sure what to do. He asked for forgiveness and promised that this incident will never be repeated. Can I trust him again?
but i raelly luv him and i dont know what to do :(:( (link)
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You know, trust is earned not bought by love. I know you love him. But look, you've been going for five months. He stole from you and he lied. result, he took advantage of you. Even if you stick together you will nevergain the trust 100% again. You will forever have the doubt in your mind, did he steal from me, is he lying to me. I dated a girl for a while. We were engaged. She went on my computer and went into my personal stuff. We are not together anymore and most likely never will be. Why? The trust is gone. Trust is the key to a strong relationship and love holds it together. Hope it helps. You deserve better
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I don't know what to do. my boyfriend is deeply in love with me, obsesses over me, gets jealous really easy, annoys me, talks about beating up guys that I talk to, and cries when we get in the littlest fights. I'm going through so much right now and i just want to break it off with him because my families going through problems and I don't need his problems and commitment on top of it. I just don't know what to do. HELP MEE!
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I hate to break the news but you have to let him go. He is not worth your tears. I mean a real boyfriend respects his girlfriend. Will give her her space. Never annoys her. Doesn't cry. You deserve better. And there are better guys out there. If he is like this, trust me, this is your future. Let him go. Enjoy your life. Life is to short to be tied up with guys like this. With love.
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my name is Rachel and iam 16 and this boy asked me out yesterday at school,but he told me to keep it secrete is this normal for a boy who just started dating a girl to want to keep their relationship secret from evrybody?If it's not normal what should I do? (link)
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It is normal especially at 16 for a guy to keep it secret? Why? because if he tells everyone and you two break up after a short period he loses his pride and his self esteem goes down. However if you two have been together for a couple months already he will feel more confident and it will come out in the open. Don't worry. A lot of guys are like that. Just be happy. Have good times together. Life is short. Just be yourself. Once he feels comfortable, things will be better.
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