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I'm burningXstar (feel free to shorten that to any name you like!) i'm a student living in the UK, and as well as having a very mixed up life, I do enjoy trying to help others with their problems and woes in return for everyone elses much appreciated advice =)I try to help people as best as I can, most of my advice is through personal experience, and experiences I have learnt through people around me. I consider myself to be a good listener, and tend to pick up on lots of little details, so hopefully this will also help me to answer any questions! I also study biology so if relevant I will use scientific data to back up any questions. However there are always going to be some things I honestly know nothing about! I will not give half hearted answers to these questions! Therefore I will only answer questions I can put all my knowledge and effort into.
My realm of topics still varies, hence why I haven't listed any "main catagories". But if you have any questions feel free to ask me for any advice and I promise I will reply! =)
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i have a bf of 2 weeks..for the 1st week we talked all the time on the phone and stuff but then we just stopped..we talk ocasionaly on the computer and stuff but not alot like most couples..i still like him but going out with him isnt as great as i imagained..he always seemes irrated by me and i dunno if thats just his guy tone..i dunno if i should break up with him and see what else is out there..im just scared b.c i love the idea of having a bf and dunno if ill find some else
plz help/ill rate
I'm pretty sure you'd find somebody else eventually! These things just take time. But anyway! About your guy... don't compare yourself to other couples. just be comfortable between yourselfs and about how you feel. I made this mistake with my last guy :( If you feel like you don't talk enough, discus it with your bf! See how he reacts, if he's understanding and wants to make it work better or doesn't agree... well just see how you feel from there. Either the feeling is mutual to make it work or it won't be in which case you might be better leaving it.
Hope this helps :)
Sometimes after I finsh masturbate I start leaking.Is that noramal?If not how can i make it stop?Plese help me!
Yeah... I presume you're female, this discharge is present to lubricate naturally your vagina to make penis entry easier... imagine trying to do that if your all dry! Ouch! so it's normal for this to happen if you're masturbating... or just generally turned on!
Hope this helped.
I'm thinking about using Veet (the hair removing stuff). Is it bad for your skin?
Personally... I used that stuff once and it's awful... You have to smother this cream over your legs and sit for AGES while it takes affect making sure it doesn't drip off your legs! It smells like it's burning your hair off and when you wipe it away if the cream got moved off any areas the hair won't be removed, and it makes your skin REALLY dry! It's a right pain! I would suugest sticking to the razor!
I don’t think people have anything to live for at all. Most people live for other people even thought everyone will eventually die. I think life is pointless and there is no such thing as “making a difference” because in the end none of it matters. My teacher says everyone wants to be remembered after they die, I don’t want to be remembered. Some people live for God, which I think is stupid because I don’t believe in God. If I did, I would hate him, why? Because he has control over us. Killing yourself is wrong because you’re interfering with “God’s little plan”, right? That doesn’t sound right now, does it? Everything happens for a reason doesn’t it? If something happened to make you want to kill yourself then is killing yourself still wrong? If God doesn’t want it to happen then it shouldn’t happen because he makes everything happen, doesn’t he? Can someone help me understand this whole “God” concept?
Hmm I can understand kinda' where you're coming from. Personally I'm agnostic, I don't particually believe in "God" because I don't believe in the bible and some of it's teachings. I'd have a hard time putting my faith in God when I don't believe in some of his teachings! But yeah, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, nobody should ever force you to believe in God. I think it's great that peopel believe strongly in God and for some that trust has helped them and gave them happiness and inner peace through which I think is wonderful so long as they don't try to push their values onto me! As for living, I truly believe it's an experience. You live to learn as much as you can, be curious and try things out, sometimes you fail, sometimes you suceed, and it's the memories of everything that keeps peopel alive and the hope for the future and futher experiences, and memories. I found myself questioning life and it's worth for three years of my life, and then I suddenly just realised... Ok I don't believe in God so it's not something I can put my faith in, so now I'm just going with what I feel is right which is to live each day as it comes and just do you're little part in making the world a nicer place for yourself and people around you ^_^
Hope this helps you in some way!
wat works better neutragena rapid acne spot treatment (the 8 hour one) or clearasil ?
thanks 4 da help =]
Hmm Clearasil never worked for me :( Infact, I spent sooo much money on different types of treatments and NONE worked! My acne wasn't too bad but it was a real downer when all my friends has beautifully clear skin and it looked like I wasn't even trying to clear mine up because nothing worked! In the end I visited my doctor and she put me on pills and liquid zinc for six months, which cleared up the majority, but then I moved treatment onto a gel which I used for a further six months and basically all the acne is gone =D Everyone's skin is different and if you can't find any products on the market the best thing you can do is visit your doctor they can give you stronger stuff which has more chance of working! Hope this helps ^_^
Hey. I'm Taylor and i'm in 9th grade.
Okay, I have 3 best friends, Jenna, Kayla, and Mandy. Kayla's hair was straight but she got a perm and it seems like she thinks shes better then everyone else because she has straight hair and boys like her. She barely talks to me Jenna or Mandy anymore. Shes always hanging out with snobby people. What should I do?
TaYLoR =]
lol, remind me of a similar situation of my own! This girl obviously has lost her loyalties to you. It depends how much she means to you guys as a group. You can either talk to her and explain that you're upset with the way she's behaving, or just leave her to do her own thing! I used to have a good friend and she lost herself in popular people and we haven't spoken for nearly a year... At the time it was sad but my group of friends grew stronger and was better because of it! She just wasn't worth the arguement it was causing. But I wouldn't be mean to her, let her know you are a nice group of friends by talking to her nicely explaining you're upset about the way she's behaving. If she doesn't swing back into format then leave her be and stick with your other buddies! I'm sure you'll become closer then ever and Kayla will be left regretting she ever left such a great group of friends. But people live and learn from their mistakes, be the stronger ones here and let her run her course...
Hope this helps lol =)
13/f
I just got my school year book and I want a certain guy to sign it only I'm too shy to ask. If someone told me if I should or should not and give me confidence then I would ask him directly. So, should I or should I not ask him to sign my year book directly and why? Also, if you said no is there any other way I can get him to sign my year book?
Lol, aww, just ask him, best thing to do is make out you're getting everyone to sign your yearbook, that way he thinks you just want everyone to sign it, unless by asking him you're trying to give him a hint? But yeah, awww I used to be like that! Seriously, don't get so nervous, it's no biggie, and remember to flash a cute smile when you ask him! Then how could he say no =)
I’ve never been kissed and I was wondering if that is a turn off for guys (if they know). I personally find it embarrassing because I am 15/f. So my second question is, is it stupid that I haven’t kissed anyone yet, at my age?
It kinda depends on the guy, worthwhile guys shouldn't be worried about it, afterall kissing is something I guess comes different and naturally to everyone! So the guy can't judge you, before you've actually kissed him, any guys that do are just being shallow! There's a first time for everything, just remember that just because you're waiting for your first kiss doesn't make you any less of a person, infact it makes you pretty awesome because it means you're waiting for the right guy to share this with! And as for your age.. Personally I'm 16 and was so worried about my first kiss! I researched every little detail I could on how to move your mouth, your head, everything! When it actually happened to me I didn't even need any of this detail because it's one of those things you learn through *doing* so to speak... Don't be embarrased because it's totally awesome you're waiting, just make sure you find the right guy to share your first with =)