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lately me and my girlfriend have tried to have sex my "member" is about 10 inches and whenever i put it in her it kinda hurts me when i start thrusting but she is orgasming like crazy after we are finished she is completely satisfied but my "member" is hurting sure im satisfied too but it just hurts for a while (link)
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Try a more lotion based lubricant and prepare her a little more. It also sounds like she's tencing so have her get used to your size before pushing in completly so she can ease up:) Hope I helped:) Godd wishes to you;)
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hey. well, i'm really into romantic-comedy movies. so can anyone tell me some really good ones? some examples are Sleepover, 13 Going on 30, Because I Said So, and just movies like that. i don't want super old movies, but they don't have to be brand new. they can be movies in theaters that are out right now too. thakns! (link)
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try sounds and lyrics? with drew barrymore in it. it was pretty good and funny. Also Shakspere in love but don't knocxk it before you watch it because its extreamly funny with the romeo and juliet story built in:) Hope I helped and good wishes to you dear:)
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my sister is only about maybe a year or so younger than me.but she the problem is all my friends talk to her more than me and always want her to come with us wherever we go.i know its her just makin more friends, but these are mine and she has her own (not to sound selfish)what do i do? (link)
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Try and help her find younger friends and also tell her that you'd like to just hang out with your friends. But maybe once or twice on occassion bring your sister with you and your friends to show her that your not being mean or anything:) Hope I helped and good wishes to you dear:)
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OK, so the other day my friend Megz and I were hangin out with these 2 guys, Paul and Dave. Well, Megz has pretty big boobs. She was wearing yellow. We heard Paul and Dave whisper to each other, "She looks like a banana.. a JUICY banana muahaha." I thought they were talkin bout her boobs, but Megz got upset cause she thought they were calling her fat. Which one is it? (link)
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They were definetly out of line to say things like that:( But it may be that they were calling her fat which is rude:( Unless they said something more its definetly that they were calling fat or it could be sexual lingo about both her boobs and weight:) Hope I helped and good wishes to you:)
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best one out there? doesn't matter what the price is. thank you =) (link)
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Try a ceramic hair straightener they don't ddamage the hair as much because the heat is caught up in it. Check out this and the things below it:) http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=5750832
Good wishes to you dear:)
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Hi it's me again..
Do you really have to be 16 to get a tragus piercing? Or is it only at some places. (link)
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Its very often 16 but at some places they ma do it if your a month or two away from 16:) Hope i helped:)
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I'm a 17 yr. old girl, and I usually have no problem getting a guy, I think I just attract all the wrong guys, alot of guys come up to me but I kinda give them attitude or either they just see me not girlfriend material? I'm so sick and tired of them looking at me sexually. So whats wrong with me.
- I do not dress sexually, mini skirts, etc. I dress classy
-I love to hang out with the guys
- I'm not really good at flirting
-I'm a virgin, I have done nothing sexual whatsoever.
So why do all these guys see me as nothing more than just a girl to hook-up with? (link)
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It depends on where you meet these guys. If you want a boyfriend and a nice guy try looking at school or go to a independant hobbie class like art or music and meet a guy who you can relate to and talk to. Since you hang out with the guys men see you as more of a ' she's either dating one of them or hooks up with some' girl. get some girl pals together and check out stuff at school where nice guys lurk. You'll have a guyfriend in no time:) Good wishes to you dear:)
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I recently got back together with my boyfriend after a two week break. Out of curiosity, I flipped through his phone. He had mentioned considering hooking up with some one to see if his feelings for me were strong enough to allow him to or not. This, of course, entailed only a kiss according to him. Nothing further than that. As much as the information hurt, I understood that it could be indicator of whether or not his feelings for me were genuine.
On his phone he had engaged in a text conversation with a girl-friend, a day after we had agreed to stop talking for a while. In it, he was asking to hook up with her just "for pleasure," and "no strings attached," and telling her he had "obviously always been attracted to her." The messages included nothing about "wanting to kiss her to see what it felt like" in regards to me. He claimed to have asserted he did not want sex, and that she had initiated the suggestion of hooking up in the first place. He begged me to believe he had never wanted to say the things he did, and that he had been drunk and high that night when he said them, claiming to have not remembered them in the morning. He also claimed to have no feelings for her whatever while sober; even so much as dislike her. He also said he would have never gone through with it while sober, because it would have felt wrong for him. What I want to know is: should I believe the alcohol could make him behave that way? We recently got back together, and had two perfect and romantic days in a row. When we first kissed again, he told me he loved me with tears in his eyes. I know his feelings are strong and genuine. Should I forgive him for that conversation? Or is it something I should pay attention to? (link)
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You definetly need to pay attention to this or it could happen again. Often times when guys say they wanna test how they feel for a girl it means they want to have sex with other people with an excuse. Alcohol often makes true thoughts come out from your subconciouse and people say things that they are trying to hold back so there's a good chance your boyfriend wanted to hook up with her, got drunk and tryed hooking up with her. He sounds like an ass to me dear and you can do so much better:) Good wishes to you dear:)
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where exactly are you supposed to shave your downstairs if your a female. iknow you can shave it all of, or trim and leave a little, but where exactly is the best areas to shave off the hair. (link)
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you can shave the bikini line or the whole thing but it will itch for a while as it rubs against your panties so be forwarned. But there may also be stuble left behind so be aware of that as well:) Good wishes to you dear:)
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Anybody has done that?
How does it feel like?
1 man 2 girls?
What happens next? Is it ackward?
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After a threesome things can get akward you have to prepare if its your boyfriend make sure he loves you and isn't going to leave you for the other girl. Threesomes often hurt relationships so be sure you wanna get into things like that:) Good wishes to you dear:)
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16/f
i have been getting weird feelings in my stomach && have not yet got my period this month. it`s now the 25 of july. i usually get my monthly around the 18th. i have been late before but not this late. my stomach makes strange sounds. kinda like im hungry and its growling. but i can`t stop eating.
can you tell me some early signs of pregancy ? early as a month ?
and if im pregant can you tell me if or how i can get an abortion with out my parents knowing ? or a house hold way. or somethinggg. im too youngg. (link)
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Its a possibility you are pregnant but please do not harm yourself by trying a household method! You could not only kill the baby but youself by doing things like that. Abortions are a seriouse thing. If you were so willing to have sex at 16 you should of thought of using the pill. How will you feel 10 years down the road when you thinkback on a child you killed in abortion? Talk to your parents about having the baby and giving it to a foster home. Don't endanger yourself:( Good wishes to you dear:/
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okay soo i have a couple questions.
i have this guy we have ben on and off since last summer we ended it last summer because college then this summer got more intimate and stuff but the thing is we are so rude to eachother. like we flake on eachother. on the other hand, he has been talking about sex lately. i wouldnt mind doing it. its just its my first time. and im afraid of getting pregnant because im not on birth control. last time i mentioned to my mom she said no.
Basically i feel like we use eachother cause we both havent moved on. What do you think?
What are some good ideas so i can presuade her to let me get it?
ohh and what are some good sex tips? (link)
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Don't make it worse by using eachother for sex especially if its your first time! Your first time should be special to you not just because he's ' talking about sex' and if your in college you can go buy the pill, the patch and condoms from a pharmacy anytime. Its your right. You don't need your mother to sign for you if your over 18. :) Good wishes to you dear:)
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what are some ways to give my guy a better handjob..
also is there any lil tricks you can use to turn a guy on, besides the usuall and obvious
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try and be extreamly sexy when you give the handjob: say dirty things and maybe be adventures(?) with it. Also try licking the guy at the ear or biting at his pulse line. That always works:) Good wishes:)
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ok.. well.. this has 3 parts to it...
ok..part one:: i had sex with my boyfriend the day after my period, we did not use protection... now im not sure if it is possible to get pregnant the day after your period (i read you can not get pregnant one week after & one week before)... the second part:: he and i got into a fight one day, i got extremely drunk and had unsafe sex with another guy 1 week (5days) before my period.. again (i read you can not get pregnant one week after & one week before).. third part:: well i am currently late for my period.. not many days but a few... but i am never late... i have never been late.. ever...
do you think it is possible i am pregnant, or just stressing and so my peroid is late.. and if yes you think i am...who do you think is most likey to be the father????
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Wherever you read this stuff it is not true! If you have your period and have sex you can get pregnant so it is possible to get pregnant a week before and a day afterward. It could be stress over your missed period but have a pregnancy test done to be on the safe side dear. :) Good wishes to you:)
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I NEED ADVICE!
Usaly when i Masterpate im fine. but sometimes i Masterpate and i feel ok then, about 3 - 5 minutes later, my penis starts to sting and it feels like i need to the toilet over and over again even when i don't need it. ive tryed to stop it but, i just can't understand why this happens.
Do you know what can cause this? (link)
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You may need to use a more lotion based lube when doing this because your hand can rub your penis extreamly raw and cause it to become red. Sometimes when you feel you have to pee it is because your penis is still releasing from orgasim. Don't worry you'll be okay:) Good wishes to you:)
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The guy I was having sex with said I had perky nipples,I wanna know if guys think thats a good thing or a bad thing?
I didn't want to ask ... (link)
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Yes it is a good thing to hear a guy tell you you have perky nipples it means he can see your turned on.:) Good wishes to you:)
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Well I just got my period and my mom said that when I go to the doctor That they will ask how long my period is? Does that mean how many days it lasted? And what is the difference between a light and heavy period? I'm new to this! But is there anything else I need to no like what else they might ask? (link)
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When they ask how long your period is that means how long your periodS are. Not just this one but others as well. Keep a calender of your periods to help you track how long they last and also about when you get them. A heavy flow is when you bleed well heavey. When you bleed heavy that means maybe you'll have to change your pad a lot sooner and there's going to be a lot of blood in there. A heavy flow can also bleed through your clothes. A light flow is when it starts out as spotting, little drops of blood in your underware or pad, and you'll find that that there is a small amount of blood. The docters may ask how often you change your pad and how regular you are, meaning do you get it every month. Unless your sexually active its okay for you to miss a month or two for the first few years you have your period because your bodies changing. If you have any more questions feel free to ask me later on:) Good wishes to you dear:)
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I am 42 and I just recently got married to a woman I have known my entire life but we both got married to other people shortly after high school. She has three teenage daughters Sam is 19 Meagan is 18 and Audree is 16. Their father left them shortly after my wife had her youngest daughter and so she has raised them all by herself. They have always been pretty affluent because my wife's family has quite a bit of money and she is a magazine editor. She lets the girls get away with murder and they get everything rthey could possibly even dream of wanting. I have a very big issue with this since my three sons (19 18 aand 17) are expected to follow very strict rules. I was in the army for several years and my children are expected to abide by my rules or face the consequences.
The girls however are completely out of control, especially the youngest one, Audree. My wife and i both agreed on a curfew for the all six kids when they moved in. She convinced me to change the curfew of my sons to be midnight for all of the kids. I agreed but with hesitation. Like always before my kids have always gotten here on time or before their curfew while her daughters completely disregard the rules. For example, Audree was late for curfew 4 times out of the 7 days last week. My wife didn't even talk to her about it. When i confronted her al she said was "She is only 16. I think we should just let her live her life." I found out the other day that her girls have never been grounded, never had acurfew, and are very open about teh fact that they go to parties and drink. Sam has gotten in 4 accidents since she has lived here, and Meagan has her boyrfriend over all the time without supervision, all things i dont tolerate from my own kids. Audree came home in tears the other night because she got a ticket for driving 19 MILES OVER THE SPEED LIMIT! My wife just hugged her and tried to calm ehr down the entire night and i never heard a single word about the ticket, which i had to pay for sicne none of her kids have jobs. I almost feel as if she is condoning this outrageous behavior since she never repremands her kids. I don't know how to explain to my kids about thsi double standard in our house but i feel like i can't interfere quite yet with her disiplining (or lack there of)since i am not their real father and have only been in their lives for 3 years. I just don't know how much more of this disrepect i can take from them. They are beautiful girlsand i love them like my own. I wish i could treat them this way though. I feel like i owe it to them to lay down the law and punsih them for things like curfew and partying and bad grades but i dont know if it will just put more stress on our relationship that could eventually cause tension between my wife and I. How should i handle this? (link)
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Those girls sound totally out of control and your very right to think you should lay down the law. They've obviously had no fatherly guidence in their life and need a firmer hand then their mother who seems to be a bit sympathetic to her daughters for their fathers 'disappearence'. Confront your wife first and tell her the girls have gotten way out of hand. You need to tell her like you tell your sons whats going on. They are in serious situations and could get themselves killed for speeding and all that drinking. Tell your wife this and if she doesn't listen and fix thuings that doesn't sound like a good mother or wife. I hoped I helped and also I hope that all goes well with your family:) Good wishes to you:)
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What can i wear with these shoes? I really like them, but i can't think of a nice outfit. links would be great if it's not too much trouble. thanks! (link)
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try a nice deniem skirt with them and a blouse thats white. You can even wear shorts with them: white, deniem ether one. Sorry i looked for links but i couldn't really find anything:( Hope I helped:)
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i know this has been asked before, but how long does weed stay in your system, and like if you go for a physical or something at the doctors & you pee in the cup they can tell if you smoked it right?
and if your just AROUND people who get high alot, is it the same like cigarettes like can you get hgigh from second hand smoke? & can THIS be traced too? (link)
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Yes doctors can tell by your pee if you've smoked and yes if people get high around you they can tell and it can be traced. The weed stays in your system for a long while dear a very long while. Its better not to smoke it about a month before you get checked, best of all its better to not do it! :)
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