lately me and my girlfriend have tried to have sex my "member" is about 10 inches and whenever i put it in her it kinda hurts me when i start thrusting but she is orgasming like crazy after we are finished she is completely satisfied but my "member" is hurting sure im satisfied too but it just hurts for a while
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? blwinteler answered Tuesday July 31 2007, 1:41 pm: Well, I would start with oral sex. This will get you closer, so you won't be in her as long. Since she is not having any trouble reaching orgasm, less time in her won't be a problem for her.
Next, use more lubricant. Sounds like you may have a friction problem. Start out slow, don't penetrate completely for a bit. She will relax, loosening up and making more room for you.
If you still have pain after sex after a while of trying these things (give it a while. She may just be too tight for you, but time and more sex will loosen things up a bit), you may want to check with a doctor. My opinion is that if you have pain you shouldn't be having and you have tried all you can, it can't hurt to see a doctor. If something is wrong, you'll know. If there is nothing wrong, you will be reassured. [ blwinteler's advice column | Ask blwinteler A Question ]
VictoriaGrace answered Tuesday July 31 2007, 1:21 pm: Try a more lotion based lubricant and prepare her a little more. It also sounds like she's tencing so have her get used to your size before pushing in completly so she can ease up:) Hope I helped:) Godd wishes to you;) [ VictoriaGrace's advice column | Ask VictoriaGrace A Question ]
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