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Q: Ok well i have to do this report on Sweden and i have to make some thing like food .. well i need swedish recipes and i have a few but i want more choices. i already have swedish meatballs, cinnamin rolls, and potatoe pancakes.. does any one have any Swedish Recipes?
Thanks
try looking it up online-- ethnic or sweedish foods or go top IKEA-tehy ahve good foods to get an idea from

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Q: I have to make some kind of food for this international festival at school, our country is mexico. I have to bring something that will feed a lot of people and all the basics are already taken. Chips and salsa and cheese dip and quesadillas and rice and tacos are already taken. I need something thats big and easy. Any ideas would be very helpful, thanks!
I rate 5!
i love chicken taquitos--idk if you have a costco around you but i buy them there- put them in a toaster for like 20 minutes and make as many as you want. i usually cut them in half if i make it for spanish meaning there are 60 taquitos---they are in a red box i think called san jose? idk but they also make quisedillas even though u can t do that


or make rice and beans---easy stuff!

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Q: hey .. i have a good friend of mine and she wants to kill herself because her and her boyfriend broke up .. and i dont know waht to say to her to make her not kill herself .. like i've said pretty much everything possible and i just dont know waht to do .. nothing i say will make her realize that hes not the only guy and all .. i really need help like asap .. !!
-- ash
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okay im 14/f.

i started babysitting at the beginning of the school year. the lady who hired me said that she needed someone she would be able to rely on. she pays really good money but recently her hours got changed and i'm working 3:30 to 6:00 when usually i only did 3:30 to 5:00. i don't even get to eat with my family. and when i get home all i wanna do is just go to bed.

the kids are fucked up. they get disciplined but their mother just laughs when she yells at them. they're really spoiled and get their way all the time.

the other day i was watching them and i was swinging on this swing. well their dog attacked me for no reason. when i told the mother she said "oh sometimes you just need to hit him" he even ripped my pants! there's a small hole in the pants and there's a HUGE bruise on my leg from where he bit me.

when i got my paycheck their was no money for the pants that the dog ripped. i'm really sick of them and i wanna quit but i don't know how to say it. if the dog bites me again i'll have no problem but what should i do in the mean time? i was thinking of giving her my two weeks notice but chickened out. what do i say?
you can sue them for the dog biting you... first quit and just be like oh i am sorry but i dont hink this ir working out anymore. i really feel like i need more time to myself - i will babysit once and a whilr though. i hope this works...



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Q: ok...my boyfriend is moving 13 miles away from me and he is going to be going to a different school and i trust him and love him with all my heart and life and all but im afraid that we are going to slowly stop talking then we are never going to see each other again. should i break up with him now and save both of us or just one of us the grief or should i stay with him and try real hard to keep intouch what should i do?
domnt break up because youll never know if you could have made it.


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Q: I babysit for an hour and a half everyday.
Lucky me, I get the hours when the youngest baby wants to go to sleep more.
The parents keep asking me to try and keep her awake till they come home cause if not she won't sleep at night.
I always fail and she always ends up falling asleep then the parents have trouble getting her back to sleep in the middle of the night.
So I need tips on keeping her awake. She's 8 months old. Don't just say ''Play with her'' because I keep trying but she just crys then I pick her up and she falls asleep.

Oh and I also babysit her sister who is 3 years old so anything that they could both do would be good, I don't want to leave any of them out.
1 year old: put a movie on, and dont give her warm milk. hold her but talk in a like baby voice so she keeps awake

3 year old: tell her that she is important--shes probably feeling left out when everyone is playing with hte baby. let her help with the baby and dinner--let her know you dont love the baby more! if the baby falls asleep play a game with her or do crafts or something--it works!

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Q: My eyelashes are really long meaning i cant wear Mascara becuase it makes them look even longer and weird. is there any mascara i can buy (that they sell in England) that will be ok for long eyelashes and wont make them look really long? thanks
xxxx
dont wear any or wear clear!!!


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Q: Hi people this may seem like a totally weird question but I'm going to a costume party next weekend and I have no clue what to wear! Do any of you fashionable girls out there have any ideas or suggestions? Oh yeah, I'm a girl and I'm fifteen. I RATE 5's!!!
maybe go as ur favorite movie character---a girl from mean girls maybe!! or even go as like a celebrity or someone nobody could think of!


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Q: What to wear? Casual? or special? arrrg please help lol xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Casual!!!

tight jeans
cute belt
tight shirt- if u have any bebe or guess etc thats really cute itd b nice!
nice/cute sneakers or heels
matching purse
scrunch ur hair and leave it down
makeup
done!

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Q: What would you do if the guy you were madly in love with was like your perfect man that you've always dreamed of and then all of a sudden changed? I mean like James has always been the perfect guy for me since I met him! And now all of a sudden hes different what do I do?!?! If your answer helps me out Ill definatly rate you good!
i am sorry to say this: try to move on! it happened to me and im trying--but itll be a long and hard process! my friends help meso much, so just try that
AND BY ALL MEANS DONT POUR YOUR HEART OUT--it makes talking to him so awkward!

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Q: Today, I bought a sketch book called, "Fine Art Scratch And Sketch." It wasn't some expensive art book, it was only $12.99. But, it had black coated paper, with a weird pencil ith no lead, and you just scratch the black coating off and it would be really silver, or glittery under the coat of the paper, and I found myself to be very great at this, I love doing it. But, I am almost out of pages, so I needed to know what type of paper this is. Like the actual name so I can look for it at an art store near by. Its black, and you can take anything thats sharp and scratch it off, and its very neat looking, you can make your own pictures on it. Does anyone have any idea what this type of paper is?
its sketch paper

Q: Well im a 16 year old female.. yesterday my aunt died.. no clear reason why.. she basically went brain dead when she fell over in her flower bed.. she was only 33 years old.. okay i was one the first people to arrive at the hospital and i didnt think it was something serious like death i thought it would of been like she was working to hard and got real hot or something.. cause my aunt was always a hard worker she'd work 16,18 hour days and still made time for her two kids 3 and a 7 year old and her husband she didnt sleep very much so thats what i thought happened.. turns out im completely wrong and i feel so stupid.. i mean yea im sad she's gone but i never thought about someone dieing like that.. i couldnt sleep last night i kept thinkin bout her which i know is normal.. and then last night i jus felt really horrible cause i talked to my boyfriend and he is always there for me and he made me laugh a couple times and then when i got done laughin i felt like i shouldnt be happy.. i know moving on will not easy for me cause ill always miss her and have her in my heart but i feel bad for mainly my family like my grandma and grandpa her kids and her husband.. i have alot of tuff big guys in my family including her husband.. and that was the first time i seen alot of them tuff big guys cry yesterday that just hurt me more.. i also seen her in the hospital bed.. i thought she actually had a chance of living even tho the doctor said she had a very low chance of living i had so much hope in my heart and then wheni seen her all the hope was crushed cause i knew that wasnt my energic happy hoppy aunt.. i never seen my aunt still in my life.. she was always like a big kid.. well ever since yesterday i havent felt my self at ALL.. i mean seriously i feel like i want to change how i am towards people which might be for the best cause im really a bitch but now i dont want to feel hateful like or mean towards anybody..and now i wanna make sure i have peace with everybody cause ive always been a big fighter.. which of course sounds good cause fighting isnt good or being hateful.. but im okay with changing those things i jus dont want my whole personality to change.. cause im really outgoing and i love to be fun... i jus dont want to become shy and boring.. so does this happen to people thats what i want advice on.. like will i change.. im going to try not to but can it happen and me not realize...? Ill rate high promise..
first of all, i am really sorry u lost your aunt. ive lost alot of people in my life, so i know how you feel!

ill tell you how i coped
in 4th grade my friend, danielle, died in a fire along with her brother buddy, sister jessica, dad, and grandmother. it was so sudden, and everyone was just kind of shocked

I know this is different than losing your aunt but it is similar. we were pretty close and it was tuff. It helped by talking about it, even thought that seems hard right now. we had counslers from all 5 elementry schools in the area come to talk with us, and they helped alot. PLEASE GO TO HER FUNERAL!!! i didnt and i regret it alot! i think it also helps you releive stress and greif!

i hope i helped ease your pain! sorry again!

Q:
Would Express clothing store hire a guy?? I was shopping there and really like their clothes... and I figure if I worked there I would get a really nice discount.
yea everystore should hire whoever wants to work there plus there is an express for men

Q: i like this guy alot. we went out last summer but broke up for a stupid reason. Well, my dad found out some stuff that me and him did, and told austin(my ex) not to talk to me again. So of course he hasn't. We see each other all the time and i miss him alot. He has a girlfriend, but i still want him back. A couple of weeks ago my friend asked him if he would ever go back out wtih me and he was like "umm .. i gotta get to class" so then the next day she asked again and he said "umm ... i got a girlfriend right now" ... he didnt say yes or no. But the other day when someone asked if he liked this other girl, he said no about her. nd there is one of his friends, B.j, and we all go to the same church. B.j likes me and i think i like him too. But not as much as i do austin. Well B.j was telling everyone he likes me adn taht i was hott and he wanted to go out with me, then he found out i didnt like him, so he got mad and said he didnt want to go out with me. Last ngiht at churhc, he wouldnt even talk to me. I am so confused. Ohh and about the austin thing, my dad told him to never talk to me again or look at me or even come near me, so when he sees me he avoids me, but he still looks at me alot. My dad told me yesterday i could start talkin to him again, but im too shy to. So my questions are .. What all should i do? and should i tell both of them i like them or not? and do you think austin still likes me? any help is welcome!!!!
heyy!

the best advice i can give you is to follow your heart, and if you really and truly love him, tell him. Just be careful because if you pour your heart out, and it doesnt make a difference, it can hurt---trust me on that one!

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